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djeezy: Op is trying to advert himself. If your really cute, u gotta put ur profile pic for the ladies to view. Then your effort may pay off. At topic.....I've met girls who are afraid to date cute guys tho. They say their reason is due to the fact he is likely to be a player because of his good looks. Well.

So you are saying people stigmatizes fine guys with "chating"

That's cruel and i don't just wanna put my picture there i guess that's a choice for now

firstEVA: I don't mean to be harsh, but if girls feel insecure around you, It may not be as a result of your looks, just saying

Most of them put the blames on my look...Its actually making me feel bad. And i aren't even as handsome as some models i see everyday in my area. So

carefreewannabe: I hope you are right.

I guess i am right... you know, the bad news is that the bad guys have actually tarnished the image of we cool ones...i aren't saying in am 100% cool though.

carefreewannabe: Humility, gentleness, literacy, courtesy, fidelity, loyalty, for example.

You know most "guys" possesses these options you listed even apart from being "handsome"

As it was in the past, so it is now.

ladies would you honour your partner by kneeling down for him as the tradition encourages?

Concerning the change in our beliefs these days can you still show him that aspect of you?

carefreewannabe: By the way, MANY handsome guys, lack other qualities because they were not forced to cultivate them to get girls. I said many, not all.

What kind of qualities are we talking about here?

firstEVA: Stop deceiving yourself, women are not scared of handsome guys neither are they intimidated by them, if you are the most handsome man on earth and a broke arse nigga, sorry dude, girls will rather go for a gorrila looking money bag than you, so abeg park well

Woah...don't you think that's harsh? i am not insinuating about being the "most handsome" i am created that way.

And neither am i a "broke nigga" am just creating a topic about something bothering me. What is wrong with peeps on NL

teeo: Farano, this dude has to pay for advert

I am serious. About this...can't peeps create a topic out of sincerity anymore

I have always wondered why girls are scared of handsome guys. I have met a number of girls who turn me down just because they are threatened by my looks,serious.

Even my gf keeps complaining anytime she see's me uploading pictures on fb...she says i am trying to woo someone. She gets jealous a lot Especially when am smiling with her friends(uh)

Women claimed that cute guys are hardly faithful to their partners which apparently underscore their sense of judgement.

Maybe someone out there will give us insight into why some most ladies feel insecure instead of being proud having a charming guy around...

Ok,this is just for fun

We men are going to be asking you all (ladies) questions and we need answers to them...

ok let me go first

Question:
What are women and what do they want from us??

adebayour26: And who told u there was a girl, d so-called girl was still invincible like ur girl until d guy was caught.

Or don't u know I could keep using a girl's pix as profile pix for a long time, even changing it...guy, wake up!!!

Yeah, you are right....but i'v gat her contact(phone number) also

adebayour26: When Love becomes blind, d blind ends up fallibg into a Pit ( He dies afterall)......You better open ur eyes, so that u won't learn ur lesson d hard, d only way and suffer for what u know nothing about or I 'll rather say suffer for being fooled (Sorry for that word).

Lol...no offence taken...thanks

adebayour26: Yea, d owner tracked him wit a Female...**stupid & dull guy**

Nah...he is only stu*pid if he didn't later sleep with the girl

adebayour26: Eh!! Don't get confused, we are just speculating, it could turn out to be positive (TRUE LOVE) or otherwise Negative. What am just saying is that don't be too deceived by emotions to quickly conclude that u ar really loving her or she's loving you. Take ur time.

Get to meet her.....**U ar even funny, loving somebody u've never seen physically**

Then, take time to study her, if She's meant for u, she will surely be yours.

Love is blind bro

adebayour26: I won't exactly giv an idea on how to ask but find a way to ask ya questn.

Wicked!

adebayour26: I know a friend who got set up exactly same way...He was behind bars for 4 days.

Four days for buying a phone from someone else

Ishsoph: Bro don't let infatuation blind your sense of reasoning. Sit down and sincerely think very well whether you did send friend request to anyone a week or two before this seemingly miss charm came into view.

This is important cos am tempted to think in the line of dytbabe here. This sounds to me like an orchestrated plan to lure you to something and as it stands it seems it's going as planned.

Pls how long ago did you buy your phone? You may have bought it as uk fairly used from a real shop/dealer but truth is that some of them could be accomplice.

Look before you leap bro!
My 2cent.

I got my phone February...and there were times where i add pins and if a pin kEeps pending more than 2day i do delete them

jennylove7575: All dis small children love stories sef!. This your love story is very similar to the one I watched in a movie titled..COULD THIS BE LOVE. I don't think this ur love tale is true..it sounded to me like pinky and the brain love story...

Ok, thanks

adebayour26: Do u know she had stylishly dodged that question?
And now that both of u ar getting along so well, GUY, find out again.

Should i ask her the question "how did you get my pin" again?
Wouldn't it feel awkward
Or is there any other way i can get to find out?

Now this sucks a lot

So this is what i see from my aspect

1. She might be a "set up" agent cuz i didn't get my phone new

2. I shouldn't take it too fast so i wouldn't regret

#confused

Houseofglam7: I think its a bit too early to start being fond of her, take time to get to know her....

Ok baby. Thanks

dytbabe: Ehn ehn
Iyen gan lodaju
Abeg come die for me, I need ur soul
Muchechechechecheche

Lol...naughty you

dytbabe: Me I didn't ask for the type ooo
Me I jst said what I have an idea of ni o
Are u even sure its not stolen?
Becareful o
Don't go loving up a ghost ooo


Sorry if I scared u bt one gotta thread carefully
Good luck, love is a beautiful thing u know

Lol...soRry about that....and yeah love it a beautiful thing..like i love "love" so much it makes me wanna keep "loving"
If love is wrong then i don't wanna be right

jnrbayano: Take things easy my friend.

If you are not careful, you will return here to open a thread in which you will ask us how to remedy a heartbreak.

By the way have you asked her how she got your BBM pin?

Lol @ heartbreak

About the pin(ish) i asked and she was like "weren't you the one that sent a request??
I can't really remember when i did that But she said soRry my bad then she wanted to delete...i just told her "we can still be friends"

mictima: arrange a meeting first and it you like what you see, pop the question. the worst she can say is "no"... life is too short and their lots of girls out there

We school in diff places...do you think she'll wanna come over if we aren't dating??

Shalome: Undercover SARS Agent...U go Hear am

Dude!

temigracie: ..am just tryn to say,its too early....study her first...u r blinded by d things u c

Like her beauty and brains

goofyone: What's with you guys and this quick, easy desire to immediately fall in love? What's the rush about? Is your life not interesting in itself? Why the rush to immediately enter a relationship where you'll be the suckler and she the boss of your heart? have you no restraints?

Boy, you do need to calm the heck down! Girls are more likely impressed with the guy who gives no two s.hits about them, guys who could care less if they existed. Not those who prance about like they ain't seen a lady's b..bs before all their life.

I'v gat peeps who will go a long way against those stuffs you typed

dytbabe: Ok
Good u gettin interested

See, if that BB is a stolen phone, the owner will sure wanna get it back by all means thereby settin u up

Am not good at explanations jor
U shld know the rest

Well, i bought it (Z30) as "london use" so i don't think i'v gat any prob with that...right?

temigracie: ..If she looses interest in u...den she s not urs....i blive if shes urs,fate will bring u guys togeda....let things flow naturally.....if u jump into a relatnship now...n u strt seeing somethings...wont u jump out again??

hmmmmmn....well, i gueSs i have been keeping it interesting by the sec...
So you still want me to stay on "low key" acting like a "friend" wouldn't that dump me in the "friend zone"

dytbabe: Are u sure that ur BB is not a stolen one?

What has that gat to do with this? Please can you elaborate