₦airaland Forum

Kickkick:
So I'm trying to take the bold step as a man who has come of age and want to do the needful.

First, I want to create familiarity with my fiancee's family especially the mother and father. I already know the sisters and some cousins.

So what little gift do you suggest I should buy and gift to them via my fiancee, pending when to unveil myself properly?

I'll appreciate your kind suggestions.

Buy bag of rice n other food stuff go ooo.
Them go approve you.

Goodnewsforlife:
oga this is not about flashing or stolen phone or phone gotten on credit

It's a company phone, they can lock it anytime they deem fit

At op, u should notice that anytime u are charging it, it will always write " this phone is monitored by your organisation"

Stop arguing.
The entire phone will be flashed.. it's not ur normal flashing.
There's a special app for it....
The app the company uses in controlling it will.ne erased..
I don't know how else I'll explain to you.
Let me ask you, what is the company using to control the phone if it's not an app?
So when that app is removed from the phone..and a new UI software uploaded on it.
Now think 🤔

If them arrest her now...
She will be crying n begging.
Iyabo ojo will come n be defending her.

Walai:
Back then Southerners relocate to the North to raise their families because life was simple and cost of living very low while standard of living was top-notch.
Great Southerners like Azikiwe, Ojukwu among others were all born in the North. Northern universities at a point were hot cake to Southerners. It's sad what the North have become today

U know lie. Na ABU I been wan go that time ooo to study medicine..
E no work.

ChiefJusticeFuc:
If you know what's good for you , condemn these criminals.

Do not make excuses for their crimes by blaming it on the state of the economy and country at large.


If you do this for once in your lives, we will know that you are truly ready to reform as a people.

These young men will spend at least 10-20ys behind bars.

Their crimes go beyond extortion but will also involve much serious crimes such as soliciting from a minor, requesting nudes from a minor.

The court will be blind to any plea that their crimes was not of a sexual nature.

These guys are going to have CP, child solicitation via an electronic medium and extortion and blackmail as part of their convicted rap sheet.

They will be lucky if the judge only gives them 10-20ys sentence. Normally crimes like this are 25 to life and being that they are being tried under a federal judge and so will be sent to federal prison where there is no parole system in place.

They are done for and will only be out until they reach their late 40s or early 50s and that's all depending if the judge does not slam them with a life sentence.

Atleast dem enter America without visa.

Your director is petty man!!!.
Why did u even have his wife on yr fb friend list.
I separate work people from my social media.
Infact when they send request... I decline.

That phone needs to be flashed..... it's a special type of flashing.
The phone am using now was like that.
The owner bought it on credit n didn't balance up before it was stolen.

The young man must have a betting addiction or some sort of addiction that eats up his salary.

How does he even sleep at nights

Dishboss:
I said how much does it cost especially on the registration part. I wasn’t referring to the shop part

You have to approach the bet company.

A very spacious shop
Tvs for watching livescores n soccer's
Standing fans and AC
Two big generators...
3PCs atleast.
A standard Printer and photocopier

No one except you is right about you...it's better to be quiet than to instantly pour out ur anger...
That one is even worse cos u may destroy things that can't be repaired or are expensive to restore.

CyrusVI:

We've successfully exported our Simphood abroad

How come its always hard for Nigerian women to see the Good in us

Judging by the everyday comments on Twitter and FB, you could easily conclude that a large percentage of them arent please with us


What are these ones seeing that our women arent?

You can't see that whilst in naija.. go abroad you will see it from their own perspective as well.

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation. Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well. Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for. She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores ,clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her. I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues,stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for. The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment. Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for. Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Tell her to go..pack her things n put in the sitting room..
Then she will know u are serious

He's worse than buhari

If get inner eye...u go see ghost wey dey follow dem watch the soccer

That's quiet expensive for an iptv you will still need to buy data to watch n Pay huge bills for electricity n buy expensive fuel...

But they have funds to embezzle more funds

Bigmouth3:
Thembisa? Are you okay? Na there xenophobia dey start if e wan start oh.na 99% south african Blacks live there . A friend of mine was shot dead there by black sans inside his bedroom after robbing him because he was doing well as a foreigner. Dem think say them go meet bag of money. The rent is cheap I know but security matters

I stayed in tembisa for 1 year n 4 months..
I can tell u it is safe...
So long u no Waka for odd hours

Bigmouth3:
Thembisa? Are you okay? Na there xenophobia dey start if e wan start oh.na 99% south african Blacks live there . A friend of mine was shot dead there by black sans inside his bedroom after robbing him because he was doing well as a foreigner. Dem think say them go meet bag of money. The rent is cheap I know but security matters

No bro....it's not true...
The last xenophobia that happened in 2019 happened n started from Pretoria..
Am sure u don't remember that..
KZN is more volatile to start xenophobia than any other province....
I stay in the eastern cape n I can tell you it's safe ..no foreigners are attacked..
In fact na immigration dey disturb us aside the pretty young phone thieves that Rob ladies at night o.
Hope no he Quinton u dey talk say dem kill??
U know this hate thing is common with SA especially when u are doing well...
Na mostly Zulus dey perpetrate such wicked act.
The Xhosa are more welcoming n peaceful

I see him going to jail and he will expose a can of worms

Those idiots were making mouths n feeling funky on fb

Bigmouth3:
Sandton city ,Gauteng

You be chairman!
I once lived in Thembisa n I still visit every january

Bigmouth3:
Bro it's more than that ,in every family of 5 at least two will have hiv. Sometimes the full family . That is why I have learned celibacy throughout my stay in this country. Sex doesn't freak me. I can stay more than 4 years without sex as a guy. South africa taught me how to. Its scary .
I mostly have sex when I visit nigeria.

Oh boy! Na which side u dey for SA??
I dey E.C. mthatha precisely.

jidestroud:
Other expenses...

My immediate neighbour on the site has a borehole. Na so i go meet am for water ooo... the wife said I would have to pay for it. To cut long tori short, she agreed to supply water for me at the rate of 3k for each tank refill. Rented the tank for 1k per day. Hmmm.

I just dey look them mumu. I go surely do my own back aje!!! For now, let them continue.

I agree... tit for tat

naptu2:
Jubril A. Gawat @Mr_JAGs

Why people dey dry clothes for those railings?
Nigerian people!!!!

WannaHowzit:
Could it be because Nigerians have a reputation for crime - drugs and fraud? How did this reputation come about (which is global) if not rooted in reality🤔

Could it be because Nigerians are ungrateful guests who very quickly disrespect their hosts🤔

Could it because Nigerians are too loud and arrogant (chest beating), and do not assimilate into their host communities, which makes them more alien to their hosts than other migrants🤔

Could it be, as the chest beaters they are, Nigerians have actually said it with their own mouths that they will make children in SA who will one day take over the country - hence the rejection of Chidinma🤔

Could it be because Nigerians are loudmouths and always claiming to have singlehandedly "freed" black South Africans when there's no reliable independent evidence to support this chest beating claim because the undisputed truth is that the anti-apartheid movement was global (whilst black South Africans fought from within to fight the system)🤔

The list is endless...

(So OP maybe introspect a little - i noticed your post was very short on that and mainly cast stones at "black" South Africans)

You keep saying this no prove of Nigeria liberating South Africa from Apartheid..

You are really delusional..
Yet u come on this platform for u daily dose of fun.
A platform u can't do without.

traware:
This issue of Nigerians saying other African nationalities hate Nigerians for this reason or that is a clear indication that those Nigerians have never experienced personal success/es.
Success brings 50 friends and 5000 enemies.Believe me,if those African nationalities had the expertise/confidence to scam/sell drugs the way they claim Nigerians do,they would.I am generally amoral.Morality gets one nowhere in this world.
Other African nationalities only have power when they see another black person.Just look at white europeans and how different African nationalities kiss their arse DESPITE the atrocities they have/continue to commit against them but they cannot say anything to them because they are cowards.

You are talking nonsense.
U should relocate over here n experience it.. don't just sit down on ur couch n type jargons

Useless country..
Why do people keep representing them..
Na only to embezzle oil money.