Bethuel2022: Nairalanders, I need help Asap, before things get out of hand. Before I move further, this is not a begging post, so please nobody should derail it, please. I am a mum, I have a son to feed, but currently, I am doing nothing and I am at the verge of going crazy because sometimes, I get this suffocating feeling when I think of where the next food is coming from and that is exactly how I feel again this night. I wanted to pray, but I just can't pray. I have tried a lot of things and my problem stems from the fact that none is working out. There is no kind of thought that hasn't come to me. I have tried selling foodstuffs, no way, online trust issues suffocated it. I have tried YouTube and Facebook, but growing to the point where you get monitized is no joke, and needs a lot of money input which I don't have. I have requested for a way to get vuga, a well sought out movie to post on my channel to boost it, no way to get it. I have walked up to a car stand, taken pictures and posted online, nairalanders said it's too expensive. It is the price I was told, so what can I do, I was just hustling for commission. I have a friend who wants to sell his miles, and is looking for a buyer. I hoped to get a buyer and get some commission from there, no way. Now there a lot of business I can do but they require capital which I don't have. I have gotten a teaching job, but the highest pay was 20k, I refused because daycare alone for my baby plus transport will take all the money. My only hope is business but everywhere seems to be blocked, like I am caged with no hope in sight. It has gotten to a point where I can feel myself loosing it. I just need one break. I am asking nairalanders to please patronize me. I live in Jos, I can get you Foodstuff at an affordable price or better still buy any of the other things I advertised so I can raise money for business. At this point, I am loosing it, please somebody should patronize me, please. I just need a break from all this thinking. I have created a store on Shopify to sell foodstuffs. It took me painstaking effort to set that shop up. I had to go for market survey so many times, because prices keep changing. That shop did not see the light of day because I couldn't make one sale and when my three months grace of paying one dollar expired, that one has been closed too. I received notification for that yesterday. I don't really need advice. I just need things to start working. Just one sale will go a long way in encouraging me to push harder. My pastor owns a fish pond. I can also get you dried catfish in any quantity. Please patronize me. I am loosing it please.
Whatsapp me +27737839889 Am interested in the catfish thing
DONT LOSE YOUR TEMPER, and in doing so, do things you regret.
So, someone came and touched you, and begged you for money. What does it take to simply say 'No thanks, I don't have' and move on? Instead you had to beat him up for 'disrespecting you'...and now see where it has landed you.
24 years in jail....for nothing.
Before you start saying Italian jails are nice, consider what 24 years in prision means. If you want to go out and meet your friends to hang out, you cannot do so.
Wawelexy: Waoh! Great feat! Could remember back then when they safe boys with their free browsing...
Rocking operamini back then was better on symbian than java phones. My most visited site then was naijoloaded.com for music download and waptrick.com to download real football and pes 07 games.
Oath that u didn't do under any binding spell...is no oath. Oga live ur life.. The fake oath u both swore was based on her deceit... She played u big time n u mumucally fell for it. Oga go n live ur life.. Na cos u get good heart mk u remember this always n afraid as well. She no even worry n she insults u when u call her.. that's enough to tell u the oath was all a means to keep u as she thought u had the kind of wealth she assumed u had.
Kumid: Monad story is lesson for all. May his soul rest in peace
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Ya all say 2k but when u see foreign number.. u increase it 3 or 4 folds.. Kilode?
That guy will b out in less than 5yrs.. South African law is a joke... Where murderers walk the road free after a bail bond of 10,000rand instead been in jail pending the conclusion of the case
tinsel: What he did was high treason. Don't bring out democracy here. That was a top military secret he released.
Why don't they get the insider first?? The wiki leak guy sef still dey enjoy asylum in Russia.... Make dem leave hundeyin alone oooo. He's doing God's work..lol
It's common here in SA... Our brothers are the reason. Infact when these lots have nothing on u...they'd simply just tag u a drug dealer.. Another systemic discrimination is the non renewal of permits... and as it is currently Zimbabweans are also feeling the heat.
MisterBanny: Hmmmm: it's really strange bro. I weep almost every night. At times, I ask God why he allowed my dad to die and not my Mum instead. I just say it within myself, I tell no one about this cos it's shameful
My brother... just zero ur mother from ur life... Whenever u get anything to give her... Send it thru 3rd party.. Change ur number
MisterBanny: Good day everyone. This topic shouldn't be on this Section, but I really need it to gain traffic urgently reason I am doing this here. My apologies.
I am from a family of four. The eldest. I hail from Plateau state. I lost my Dad when I was 10yrs. After my dad's burial, I went to live with a paternal anty who maltreated me so badly that I almost committed Suicide. I was like a slave. You can think of all the dehumanizing treatments in life. I started High sch. No sponsor.
Same anty never paid my fees for once, yet I was like a slave to her and her children. Throughout my secondary school, there was NO session that I ever wrote complete exams for 1, 2 and 3rd Terms. I would write maybe 6papers and not write the remaining papers, I will miss the next term's exams totally and write a few papers the final term of the session due to not paying sch fees. I was so ridiculed & mocked by my classmates cos of the constant embarrassment. As a result of this, I became an introvert. I couldn't even ask questions in class or socialize with my mates. No friends. My fee was #800 at the time. A private sch. I was so determined to get education & prayed God to pls help me bear whatever I faced at that time.
During this period, my mum who is unlettered stayed back in the village with my siblings and had to remarry. I got really pissed and cried myself out when I heard about the marriage cos I had no prior knowledge about it. My mum up till now has NEVER given me anything like Money in my Life. Highest she ever gave me was 1k at once...
At a point some person's even asked me if I still had a Mum particularly whenever I tried to seek help from them. I was undeterred, wrote my WAEC, had 4-Distinctions and 4-credits and a Pass in Geography, then wrote JAMB, scored 220 and got admission to the University. I had to Hussle to pay my fees throughout. I spent 8yrs in the University due to money constraints. My mum never showed much concern. At a point I said I would drop out and to my shock, she said I should do so if I wanted to. Thank God I done with my Degree. During and after NYSC she would always call me almost everyday talking about money. Making demands on me. I was always sending to her cos no matter what, she's my mum.
At a point, I wasn't responding to her calls for months and never sent money again. She started telling people that I wasn't calling her or picking her calls or helping her. She also instigated my younger siblings against me and they started disrespecting me. Anyone of us who has money and gives to her at that particular period is who she will become friends with then starts reporting negative things about others to the person that is currently giving her money. Some things would be done and I will never be aware except an outsider tells me. I felt so bad about all these and I decided to stay aloof and estranged from my family. I don't call except once in a while. My mum has been calling for almost a month now but I haven't picked cos money will be involved in the conversation and I don't have now. Pls advise me.
The last straw was when I got Mobilized for NYSC and had nothing to even use for transport to the camp. I consulted a cooperative that she belongs in to loan me some money, but did u know that after they accepted to give me the loan the next day, I went back and they started giving me excuses. I later heard from an impeccable memeber of the cooperative that it was my mum that asked them not to grant me the loan. Her reason was that I may not pay back and she didn't want the responsibility of repaying to fall back on her. Same woman that has never given me any dime. Mind you, she has money to buy the latest Wrappers but can't help me.
She attends almost all the burials in the village even when the deceased isn't related to her and likes to drink alcohol. I have talked to her about this but she wouldn't listen.
I'm not sorry to say this... Your mother is not an "". She's a failure of a mother n deserves no dime from u.. This is not an issue of people telling u to forgive her.. She's an unrepentant bad mother.. who wants to sow where she didn't reap. If ur mother can prioritize wrapper over the welfare of her child.. She's not fit to be called a mother. No good mother will allow her kids suffer.
naptu2: A former Operation Dudula vigilante explains why he left the group.
1) If you say all foreigners must go, that means that all embassies in South Africa must shut down and all our ambassadors abroad must come back home.
2) The people that suffer from these things are always Africans. You don't see the Chinese being affected. It is always Africans, Mozambicans, etc.
3) It is the people in the townships that are affected. If we say all foreigners must go, that means we want battles in our townships.
4) People have never heard me say all foreigners must go. I have always said that it is the undocumented foreigners and criminals that should go. I don't agree that all foreigners should go.