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RomanceRe: Tell Us How Many You Have Sampled by gidson12(m): 6:37am On Jun 11, 2010
Sincerely, funny enough, i kept record of it, my count is 23 girls, n dats a fact
RomanceRe: Tell Us How Many You Have Sampled by gidson12(m): 6:35am On Jun 11, 2010
Sincerely, funny enough, i kept record of it, my count is 23 girls, n dats a fact
RomanceRe: Tell Us How Many You Have Sampled by gidson12(m): 6:33am On Jun 11, 2010
Sincerely, funny enough, i kept record of it, my count is 23 girls, n dats a fact
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Entry Level Salary Of Zenith Bank And First Bank by gidson12(m): 7:58am On Jun 10, 2010
Mmn
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 5:57pm On Jun 09, 2010
wat are u guys turning here to? sad, pls insult urselfs, Lysaa with ur k-leg like cassava stick, and dickele, ur head like moulded eba
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 12:20pm On Jun 08, 2010
lysaa:
shay. .u don laugh now. .after a quickie with the transformer!  tongue
ooop, yea i'm very happy grin grin, and i guess u're happy too cos u like it, now call me big daddy grin, so when do we meet again for a quick one like this my transformer grin grin
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 12:09pm On Jun 08, 2010
leave am grin, make i catch her 4 road first grin, na beg she go dey beg me
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 12:01pm On Jun 08, 2010
abeg go mount transformer
Jokes EtcRe: Face Me I Face U by gidson12(m): 11:29am On Jun 08, 2010
Dyt:
abeg comot mk i sell market jo
as if where e dey cm 4rm beta
c as e shoe b
abeg shut up small make u rest, , u are becoming more of a talkative, grin
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 11:23am On Jun 08, 2010
hey shut up kids, let me concentrate angry
RomanceWill You Sign A Prenuptial Aggrement Before Marriage?men See Reasons Here. by gidson12(op): 8:42pm On Jun 07, 2010
just read this from Askmen.com and felt like sharing it wit u guys.

What man in his right mind would willingly enter into a contract that could cause him to lose 50% of his investment on a whim? Well, that's marriage, guys. When you say "I do," your house, your business and all the rest of your assets are up for grabs should you get divorced.

And these days, with divorce rates skyrocketing and so many brutally mercenary women out there who think that they're entitled to your hard-earned money, getting your fiancee to ink a prenup is a necessity, not a choice. That's why we're here to explain why every man needs a prenup.
A prenup protects your assets
Simply put, a prenuptial agreement is a legal document signed before your marriage that specifies very clearly how your assets will be divided in the event of death or divorce.

You absolutely have to protect yourself with a prenup if:
• You own major assets such as a home, stocks or retirement funds
• You may be receiving an inheritance or lottery winnings
• You have children and/or grandchildren from a previous marriage
• You own all or part of a business
• You have a significantly larger amount of assets than your wife-to-be and/or she has substantial debt
• You are starting out in a potentially lucrative profession such as law or medicine
• You are likely to achieve great success in your business or career
• You aren't sure about your fiancee's motives
• You have suffered a previous divorce
Financial protection
The next reason why every man needs a prenup has to do with protecting yourself financially. Nailing down a prenup before tying the knot is savvy financial planning in an era in which the majority of women use marriage and divorce as a business. Let's face it: There is a huge financial incentive for a woman to get divorced from a man. Women can enter into marriage as paupers and walk away millionaires.

Depending on where you live, your soon-to-be-ex-wife can legally coerce you into handing over 50% (or more) of the house you built, the assets you accumulated and the business you started years before you even met her, even if she's never lifted a finger to help you -- and even if she institutes the divorce just because she's "bored" and "wants to find herself" or she cheated on you.

No woman deserves half a man's assets just for saying "I do." The harsh reality is that marriage is a legally binding contract; once you sign on that dotted line, she has you by the checkbook and she knows it.
Bring up the prenup
Of course, as soon as you bring up the subject of a prenup, the average woman will hit the ceiling, since in her eyes you're about to abrogate her entire reason for getting married in the first place.

She'll protest that a prenup kills romance. She'll burst into tears, sobbing that you don't really love her. She'll fly into a rage and go running to her mother, squealing about what a horrible man you are and that you don't trust her. She'll blame you for predicting divorce. She'll cut off sex or -- with even more cunning manipulation -- she'll give you the best ride you've ever had before she cuts it off to show you just what you'll be missing if you insist on that nasty prenup.

Don't fall for her little tricks; treat marriage as a business, just like she does. Don't kid yourself: If she were about to enter into your marriage contract with more assets than you have, you'd better believe she'd have you endorsing the most ironclad prenup a lawyer can draw up (and she wouldn't even begin to tolerate a squeak of protest from you).
How to handle the subject
Honesty is the best policy. Let your potential wife know your views on prenuptial agreements very early in your serious relationship. Talk about the subject openly, logically and sincerely.

Be firm in your position; if she starts to object, hold your ground. Explain to her that a prenuptial agreement protects the assets of both parties involved. What if she received an unexpected inheritance or won the lottery and you got divorced? Would it be fair for a court to award you half her assets?

Tell her that it's like investing in health insurance: It doesn't mean that you're going to get sick, but you're just protecting yourself if the worst should happen.

A prenup has nothing to do with love or trust; it's about making sure that a man and wife take out of the marriage what they went in with, and equitably distribute the assets they accrued during the course of the union.

If you don't want to bring the subject up yourself, have a meeting with your lawyer, CPA or other financial planner and ask him to advise a prenup to your intended. But don't be hoodwinked -- make sure she discloses all of her finances, especially debt. And ensure the agreement is set in stone long before the wedding. This will effectively negate any appearance of "coercion," a trick many women are using these days to get courts to void prenuptial contracts.
for better or for worse
Ultimately, marriages should be about love, partnership and romance, not finances. But you have to watch your back. Some women have an agenda. They'll purr about love and romance while their fingers are surreptitiously sneaking the wallet out of your pocket. And that's the beauty of a prenuptial agreement: It effectively stops women from profiteering from marriage and divorce.

So, just in case better does become worse, you shouldn't think twice about having your future wife sign on the dotted line. Saying "I do" is fine, but get it in writing first. And if she refuses to marry you because of your insistence on a prenup, get rid of her -- it might be a sign of bad things to come. http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/133b_dating_advice.html
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 9:10am On Jun 07, 2010
xynerise:
your face wey Devil see get hope say e be fine boy. grin
shut up and make sense, Ape
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 9:09am On Jun 07, 2010
xynerise:
your face wey Devil see get hope say e be fine boy. grin
shut up and make sense, Ape
Music/RadioRe: Alanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 7:39am On Jun 06, 2010
I no notice am, i think i'll go n watch d music video again
Music/RadioRe: Alanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 7:34am On Jun 06, 2010
I no notice am, i think i'll go n watch d music video again
Music/RadioRe: Alanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 4:51pm On Jun 04, 2010
las240s:
the next dance is called saphaire pronounced "safaya" keep fingers crossed this one is too gbaski
wats the moves, abi na u wan invent am, , . . .alanta don tey small
Music/RadioRe: Alanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 4:50pm On Jun 04, 2010
Genuflect:
Lol. Tosin, cool down. The thread is ok naw. I too have been wondering which dance is going to take over after Alanta. New dance dey hungry me gan
mehn thats wat i'm talkin' about, abi dance don finish 4 ajegunle grin
Jokes EtcRe: Face Me I Face U by gidson12(m): 4:27pm On Jun 04, 2010
hector 14 children(2 set of quadruplet and 3 set of twins) dey shit around the compound and all of them get diarrhoea. . . , . . grin, abeg make una chase am away
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 5:45pm On Jun 03, 2010
D1KeleVra:
walahi! u need knock! angry
no let me use one of that ur bow leg play golf on zynerise head grin
Music/RadioRe: Alanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 3:21pm On Jun 03, 2010
tosinaded@:
guy no take stuffs for here personal. . . .else na so so enemies u go dey get!

ok its not useless, its just not needed. . . e no teach us anytn
nope,, i no take am personal i just laughed over it, just palyin along, no wahala wink
Music/RadioRe: Alanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 3:09pm On Jun 03, 2010
tosinaded@:
IT IS SWO NOT SUO
IT IS GALALA NOT GARALA

AND LASTLY THE THREAD IS USELESS
thanks for the correction, i'm not really into dance stuffs but the one that really made me raise the topic is the alanta dance how it has really made waves since 2ys now,
but y u come dey call the thread useless, na wa o, i been dey respect u b4 but u wan begin fall my hand bro grin
Music/RadioAlanta Madness: What Next by gidson12(op): 2:54pm On Jun 03, 2010
there was the garala dance, then came the suo and yahoozee and the one that took it all was the alanta, even both young and old are swept with the madness, abeg is there any naija dance on board or is it still the alanta still making waves, if there are new ones abeg let us know thanks
Jokes EtcRe: Face Me I Face U by gidson12(m): 9:52am On Jun 02, 2010
Dyt no let me reconstruct that ya face 4 u oh, i no dey leave with u 4 dat ya f-m-i-f-u house, na duplex wey me dey stay. Go and ask ben my gate man, lol.
@ romsky,
hw fa na, long tym
Foreign AffairsRe: Exposed: Princess Diana Was Killed Over Planned Expose? by gidson12(m): 10:23pm On Jun 01, 2010
hmmmmmn huh
Jokes EtcRe: Let Us Throw All The Insults Here by gidson12(op): 9:34pm On Jun 01, 2010
shattap dia, grin, no be question the guy ask grin
CrimeRe: Oba Beats Wife In Public! by gidson12(m): 9:22pm On Jun 01, 2010
too bad. he should be detrhoned. Is a big shame to the sacred, respected and highly esteem Obaship stool
CrimeRe: Oba Beats Wife In Public! by gidson12(m): 8:49pm On Jun 01, 2010
that piece of shit that calls himself oba, need to be seriously dealt with, nonsense, how can such a person rule or manage his subject if he is a wife beater
Music/RadioRe: Did Timaya Plan Nico Gravity Beating? by gidson12(m): 7:02pm On May 31, 2010
Dem no fit settle dis one o!, because nico really enter the the guy wella, sote e come release season 2 for d same timaya, this don pass beef, na fight
Music/RadioRe: Kelly Hansome Vs M.i :: Who Takes Round One? by gidson12(m): 6:57pm On May 31, 2010
Kelly take d first round

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