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jaybee3:
Back then things were different
Inflation wasn't double digits
Unemployment wasn't really a factor
Women weren't encouraged to be educated so how then would they have the ability to contribute to the household?

As for your puzzle, it seems you don't get it do you?
The men are not meant to depend on the income of the wife to sustain the household. The women just have to contribute to have a real sense of belonging since everything is "ours" as far as marriages are concerned.

Exactly what I'm saying
Anyway,thanks for your contribution

jaybee3:
Marriage is a partnership and each individual should contribute so they can have equal stake in the marriage

I agree with you on this but please don't misapprehend my statement....

Back then,the husbands provide for their family,we're living in a different world now,reason why i said she can contribute but as a man you need to do a lot more....

A little puzzle->>If you don't earn much and along the line your wife loses her job,,how do you manage your family??

ronald4lif:
In other words anyone earning anything less than a 100gran should think carefully before getting married then, coz kids will always come after marriage.

Exactly

goofyone:
Why do you opt to "leave the ladies aside for now"? Are they not human, just as the man is.

okay,so when did providing for the family became the job of a woman I'm not saying she should not contribute financially to her family,but its not her duty.....Lets not go into that please.

goofyone:
Why do you opt to "leave the ladies aside for now"? Are they not human, just as the man is.

okay,so when did providing for the family became the job of a woman I'm not saying she should not contribute financially to her family,but its not her duty.....Lets no go into that please.

RottenTomato:
What's the meaning of that? Why should u apologize to people who do not like ur opinion or thoughts in a thread that you created? Listen! U owe nobody any apology!!!

Lol
Thanks

goofyone:
How much should she be earning? Let's settle that first.

I knew a question like this would come up,but please lets leave the ladies aside for now..

joedejana:
Stupid question... Sorry..
But you shouldn't be asking a question like this ...doesn't seem right.

okay,I'm sorry

Some days back, while minding my business on
social media, I came across this debate about the
amount of money a man should earn before getting
married.

The debate was quite heated and interesting.
Now, let’s properly analyze this. Here, I am
referring to a man who is ready to settle down with
a wife and have a family. This is considering the
fact that the man would take up most of the
financial responsibilities of the home and probably
some from the extended family.

Can we really put a figure to this income? Let’s try.

A. Exactly or Below N50,000 Monthly

B. Between N50,000 to N100,000 Monthly

C. Way more than N100,000…. In fact, millions!

D. It really doesn’t matter

What is your choice? And why?

Food servers don’t get as much recognition or
respect as they deserve. I have had to endure
watching people mistreat a waiter or waitress at
public places and the sight was never pleasant. A
recent experience inspired me to write this post. You
should always be nice to someone serving you. Here
are 5 reasons why:


1. They need to be motivated
Many times, to get great service from someone
serving you, a simple smile does the trick. When
they’ve been working for hours, they’re bound to be
tired, and even when they’re not tired they’re going
to be less inclined to do their best for someone who
isn’t nice to them. So put your bad mood aside and
motivate them to provide the best possible service.


2. They’re human
It’s really sad to hear many people treating a server
badly as if they don’t see him or her as a fellow
human being but rather just a means of getting
their food. They really aren’t machines, but humans
like you and I with their lives, family, problems…
and deserve to be treated with politeness. Let’s not
forget that.


3. They don’t earn so much
They don’t get paid anywhere near what politicians
and others do for serving the public. Yet what
would we do without them? Food servers are not
paid enough for what they have to endure. This
should be enough reason to be extra nice to them.


4. They don’t often get good compliments
It’s a two-way street. Be nice to them, and they’ll be
nice to you. Everyone needs good compliments once
in a while. If you have a complaint about the food
or service, make your point calmly and you’re
more likely to get a satisfactory resolution.


5. They are handling your food
You should also be aware that food servers have
many devious ways of getting back at you if you
treat them badly. I’ve heard shocking stories about
what disgruntled chefs and servers do to your food
in anger. Some may not be true, but its best not to
take chances on annoying someone with access to
your food. Isn’t it?


Do you have any more reasons why its important to
be nice to people serving you? What are some of the
shocking stories you’ve heard of or experienced
between a food server and a customer?

RoyalBlak007:
[color=#FF00FF]Cos his parents had less cash at some point in time and dey couldnt celebrate his birthday then[/color]

wrong dear

Peter is 20 years old and has only had 5 birthdays. How is that possible??

Peter is 20 years old and has only had 5 birthdays. How is that possible??

Mprex:
get a job

seriously

Just saw this..
looks kinda strange to me

sule5727:
may b its u dat got d pregnancy nd u r referring to anoda person!!! Lol chai sorry bad market hw u go do nw. Dnt even think of terminating d preg, u ve to face it if nt baba God ll ask u lera okay.

seriously
Well I'm not the one thanks for your advise though

dechandel:
She wont be able to handle a baby¿¿?? But she was able to do what brings a baby into this world?? How wonderful..

Her mummy had better prepare for omugwo!!

hahahaha
kay dear,thnks

Dygeasy:
Okay.
Are you people serious at all?

I'm wondering what education is left after 5 months into the pregnancy. You need no one to spell it out.

Logically and Medically it is not safe thinking about abortion at this stage of the pregnancy.

hmmm,
alright then

austine4real:
in short ur dad was responsible

and who said my dad is the one,my dad is to handle the case,not the guy in question oo

dechandel:
A 15 year old is no more a baby, she can take care of herself and her baby..
She signed up for it the day she decided to open up something else other than her books!!

Btw, Jss3 or Sss3

Lol,
JUNIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL THREE(3)
i guess she started school late..
About your opinion->>I'm not sure she'll be able to handle a baby..

ronald4lif:


Her mom should have acted swiftly before she got pregnant by involving relevant forces or agencies to restraining the guy from ever contacting the girl. I'm not sure this would have been helpful as she'll still reach him anyways.

She may also have taken the girl to live with a relative in some other state. The distance could have helped weighed down whatever thing she has with this guy.

But all that is past now. 5months preggy is too risky to get rid off, it could be very fatal. So keeping it is a must.

The mom and her parents are to be blame sort of for not taking the necessary decision when they got wind of the little girl sexcapades with this guy. She (the mom) will have to help her carter for her baby after one year so she can resume her studies.

And since DNA has proven the guy to be responsible for the pregnancy the girl's family must take a case up to relevant authorities that will enact a condition that will see this guy pay a monthly sum for the baby's welfare.

yeaa,you're right
Thanks alot

jaykaylegend:
I'm suspecting you are the 15 year old girl!!

I'm sorry to disappoint you but your hunch is wrong,thank you

ronald4lif:
It's a bit too late for a D&C already. She has to keep the pregnancy. Poor girl!

"Catch them young" guys are not smiling.

Is there no law in place that punishes offenders of such crime? The girl is still a minor and the guy should face stiff legal charges

there is but you see,she wasn't rape and her mum was aware of the relationship..
so they can't do anything cos it seems like she gave a permit..

ronald4lif:
It's a bit too late for a D&C already. She has to keep the pregnancy. Poor girl!

"Catch them young" guys are not smiling.

thanks though

D1ck:
What a question!!!

Lol,a rhetorical one

obi4eze:
How is your dad related to the case?

Is he the 26-year-old guy or what?

nope,actually the guy is his tenant,and the case was brought to him,not because of that though

Alright....
My dad got a case that has kept him in a state of confusion..This situation has been on for a month now....
Just wanna get your opinion about it.


Well a guy(26) got a girl(15) pregnant. She is in J.S.S 3 and they have been dating for a while now. Her mum did not approve of the relationship but had no choice since she has lost control of her daughter...
To cut the long story short->>she's now five(5) months pregnant,though the case started when the pregnancy was four(4)months..There was a delay because of the DNA result,since the guy claimed he's not the only one sleeping with her,now its out and confirmed him owner of the pregnancy..

The problem is making a decision of either keeping the pregnancy or terminating it.

N/B:If she terminates the pregnancy,HER LIFE IS AT RISK and keeping the pregnancy WILL DISRUPT HER EDUCATION..

Your candid advice please.........

Andrew114:
[color=#990000] Please how many bag of cement can be use to build trust [color=#990000]

ohh dear,I don't know
Maybe you should ask the mason man

Yehman:
"Nobody's ambition is worth the blood of any Nigerian". At first, this statement melted my heart then, I felt a sweet sensation just below my kidney, a stimulated sensations of tingling and euphoria in my brain and finally a cold shiver ran down my spine. GEJ, thank u for keeping the country at peace. History has been made and hopefully, a new era and better Nigeria is ahead.

Trying to derail
Feel free

HSinclair:
you wreiting rubbihs, u nid to b trasfard to yeba left to dokton musa for proffessornali tritmelts..
dnt post rubbishs in dis sekshion plesas!
this is urgents plesas!

Alright,thanks

1. Build trust
2. Be honest
3. Be faithful
4. Be considerate
5. Respect each other
6. Become best friends
7. Be proud of one another
8. Be there for one another
9. Bear each other’s burden
10. Make time for one another
11. Communicate to each other
12. Trust and always pray to God
13. Accept each other’s mistakes
14. Appreciate each other’s effort
15. Take time and study each other
16. Love each other unconditionally
17. Refresh your love with surprises
18. Talk about things, both good and bad
19. Know that you won’t always be happy
20. Know that having arguments are normal
21. Forgive and forget each other’s mistakes
22. Leave the past to the past,which include ex’s