Elder001:


Your husband will be disappointed if he should see that ridiculous comment.

No he won't, infact he's in nairaland and am sure he will see it.He is mature enough to discern that we are HUMANS and not ANGELS. Now am not trying to say that what your wife did is good,infact she has no reason to do it. If she is truly sorry,seek for professional help as trust is already broken. We can pull down houses and rebuild them.It will only take time.I still maintain that the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know!

Elder001:


How old are you?



Postmann and acidosis, you guys surely have something to say.

I am 33, and I've been married for 10 years with four kids and I can tell you what healing forgiveness can bring!

Jesus answered and said to those who wanted to stone the adulterous woman to death" let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone. Oga pls ask yourself if you have been 100% faithful to your wife since 2008? Is it because she hasn't found out? If she was in your shoes, would she have forgiven you? Let me tell you, an idle mind is the devil's workshop. She's a housewife and you work. There must be a vacuum you created. Most lonely people are married people! Even with kids around. I still believe that love covers a multitude of sin. Believe me forgiveness is the purest form of love you will show her. Believe me she won't get smarter at cheating. Give your marriage a chance if you truly love her at least for your child's sake. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION!!!

Saw his poster in Enugu(WAEC and Agric bank bustops) since 1st week of August. Just shook my head. Maybe he wants it to be on record after they finally hang him dt he once vied for president of Nigeria! What a joke!

Pls oga everything depends on ur source of income or better put,d amount of money u make and d size of ur family. Hubby gives me weekly upkeep and nt monthly bt when I calculate it monthly,its up to 50k. My kids r 4 plus me and hubby and any extended family member dt decides to drop by.Now every weekend I prepare soup and stew in large quantities and put in d freezer,dt way I dnt get to cook all d time. U need eggs,yam,plantain ,crayfish and other foodstuffs plus groceries(provision). Hubby gets these provisions apart from the money he gives. So it depends on hw much u earn and d size of ur family. I work,so when Hubby complains dt he does have enough I jst complete it. Am a helpmeet so I help when necessary. Feeding a family well in Nigeria...na money kill am! So jst 4get all these ranting of Nlanders who havent experienced marriage or family life

Well brother this happened to ME!! Mum told me dt once I exclusively breastfeed my child dt I wudnt take in.dt was hw it worked for her. She is my 1st child,so we made love wtout protection cos I was 'exclusively breastfeedin'. I rarely vomit or spit durin pregnancy and u wont notice dt am pregnant until its about 7months so I didnt suspect it. I only felt unusuali tired,took injections 4 malaria an typhoid.But I noticed a 'lump' inside my stomach. Wen my child was 9months I took her 4 immunization and complained to the doc abt d 'lump',he told me to go 4 a scan which I did.came back wt it and he told me I was 22 weeks pregnant!!!. I startd wailing! D doc was suprised,he startd askin pple if its possibl 4 someone 2 be pregnant and doesnt know cos d baby was already moving! I wailed all d way home cos my girl was jst 9months and in less than 4month,I wil go tru labour again!. Abortion ws d last thing even though we were jst startin 2 build our family. My girl was 1yr and a month old when I had my son.wasnt easy nursing both of them.Today they are both 8 and 7 years old. So u see my brother it happens often esp wt newbies,so I always advice women to protect themselves once lochia(d blood dt comes after birth) disappears.because u OVULATE b4 u MENSTRUATE.so u can get pregnant wtout seein ur period as it happened to me. Meanwhile dont even talk of abortion cos complication can occur and ur wife wont be able to give birth again plus d guilt. Nothin takes God unaware,He'll make provision. God's grace to u and urs

Hon. Boma na Asari Dokubo's sister o. Make DSS no try mess wt her o b4 her brothers go begin dia own. I neva 4get wetin dem de do b4 Yar'Adua created Amnesty 4 dem!

God is not mocked,whatsoever a man sow, THAT, he shall reap. Heard of assasination linked to him. Have had encounters wt him several years ago. He came to my village,destroyed things that were symbolic to my village(they werent even diabolic) . My immediate younger sister startd his ministry wt him. Till date she is stil grateful to God for deliverin her from his jazz. She told me hw the man wil mak her crawl on her knees for refusing to sleep wt him.How her spirit didnt accept what she latter found out to be initiation. D last straw ws when she got admission,the man told her dt once she leaves his ministry to go to school,dt she will DIE! Fear gripped my sis and she told my mum dt she's nt goin to school. It took strong family fastin and prayer before she told us dt 'Daddy'(ThankGod Abam) told her dt she wil be a pastor in his church,dt if she enters the university,she wud die. End of story: my sis left d church,went 2 d university,has graduated since 2012,is happily married wt kids and stil healthy and kicking. I really pity his wife and children. Just hope he truly repented! for what does it profit a man to gain d whole world and loose his soul. As for those askin why God didnt tel him of death, I dnt want to judge but from my VERY TRUE story,ask urself if He TRUELY knew and served the Living God cos God is nt an Author of confusion!

Guys can we just put a stop 2 ds new drama tryin to play. Please...
We have enough drama already playing out wt Mike. Let's b mature here so Op can continue wt d updates. Op where at thou? We re patiently waitin o...

Mike abeg do quick ask Sandra who she be and wetin she de do. No let excitement cloud ur sense of reasoning o...

Mike I follow u happy o... infact I shoutd when i see d 500,000.it com be like say na for my acct d money land!

Op na beg I de beg,come update nau... I no believ say I go dey addicted 2any thread.d suspence in ur story is killing.abeg try de update morning,afternoon and night. Cos I check 4 update every now and then!

Op I know jst hw u feel... 1st u got it wrong by taking up his role as d provider. D bible said dt he who cant provide 4 his family is worst than an infidel. I know u did it out of love bt its stil wrong.if u decide to stop payin bills now,u n ur kid(s)wil suffer.he'll opt to stayin out and gettin everythin he wants includin SEX. D solution nw is ds: QUIT: NAGGING, WHINNING,COMPLAINTS,FIGHTS...ETC
START: Being nice to him,its nt goin to be easy seein he's nt treatin u wel bt try(despite what he does,u love him and want ur marriage to work). Maintain this and dnt talk abt money.once he sees dt ur being nice is nt 4 money,he'll adjust and den u open ur communication line-start wt things dt interests him-football...anything.treat him like a king and make ur home his kingdom, Believe me u wont need to tell him wat to do abt money,he knows.d both of u were captins of a boat and so he gave u ur way. Its nt goin to b easy I say bt ofcourse nothin good comes easy! One more thing: wen u plan ur budget, add self maintainance! U have to love urself to be able to love others wel! Put God above ALL(PRAY ALWAYS) God wants u to enjoy ur marriage and u wil. God's grace

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