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That in the end it all amounts to nothing?

You do know organisations especially banking institutions place value on honesty right? This alone disqualifies you. So except you want to go through the stress of changing your entire identity I'd advise you just let it go and stick to your real age next time. The whole age restriction thing in this country is crazy I know.

I had to check the date on the post to ensure it was recent.Like in this present day Nigeria we are in...really?

As someone rightly said it's an issue of trust and you might not know it but it's rooted in a past experience albeit a childhood one. Just like some of us cannot eat jollof rice without stew. I used to be like you too, no matter how hungry I was I would never eat other peoples food.Mine went a step further, if I was eating and you ate out of my food with my cutlery I would not eat the food again, if u take a sip out of my drink especially with my straw I would abandon it, I couldn't drink from another persons sachet of water etc.
The moment I accepted this was a serious problem my path to healing began. You just have to condition your mind in a gradual process. Start with people who have great hygiene & cooking skills because if you decide to break the jinx and the person you chose happens to be a bad cook you might never even want to eat cooked food for the rest of your life.

Oh I used to be, until i accepted what i was and then I started to put myself out there.Now I can safely say I'm not.

The 'I' in introvert,that's me.

Hey,even if you check out now you can't be certain of what's waiting for you in the afterlife. But here on earth...right now you know what you are up against and if you reach deep inside you have the tools to beat them. So whatever you are going through is just a phase, cry if you have to,scream n shout,just remember it's usually darkest before dawn and it could be worse,you could be the only human in a land filled with zombies so chin up pls.

March 29

For your own sake dissociate yourself from that friend.Cut whatever ties you have with him.Someone who who has no qualms with using you as a mule isn't your friend.

Try to check online for Acada Magazine.They are looking for interns.They have a facebook page so you can find out what you need to know about them.

It's okay to feel apprehensive about starting something new.Just relax and occupy your thoughts with positivity pending the time you start.As long as you don't sabotage yourself you'll be fine.Change can be scary but you'll get over it.

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