@Fabiyi

True talk dude, you have said it all. It baffles me wen most employers tend to rate u with your paper work considering what happens nowadays in our schools of higher learning.

I believe in testing one's ability practically and technically after which you can judge him/her from there and not just what someone had on paper. i also believe in self development, cos it enrishes one.

Anyway let us stop flogging d issue of 2.1, 2.2 and have a positive mind knowing dat the God we all serve will definately take us there, its a matter of time.

I must thank you all for your advises, i hv taken notice of every point made and am going to tell her just the way it has been said here. thanks once more.

But i just want to clarify some points:

-  Like i said be4, i hv known this girl for a longtime n she is my best friend, i want to correct the point that she is a gold digger, or she is not contended. She has neva dated any guy based on material or based on money. Unfortunately for her she had nt dated any guy who has money to throw around. she has always taken care of herself n paid the bills by herself. neva relied on any guy to give her money be4 she spends.

Her problem was dat she didnt really fancied d 1st guy in d first place. Fine she went into the relationship, yet she neva imagined marrying d guy. be4 she eventually left d 1st guy, he was already working, but she still left him. She came back form her NYSC in Sokoto n met d guy already working. So working for d 1st guy has nothing to do with her leaving him.
She became angry and feed up with d 1st guy wen everytime they meet, is for d guy to be telling her all the gossips his friend made abt her. she told d guy to always shan them, but he will always listen n come back to tell her, most of which brings back bad memories to her, n sometimes she ends up crying.
i must agree she must be selfish by trying to go back to d 1st guy becos everybody has their own short comings. my friend of course is not perfect, but she not a gold digger n doesnt fo after money at all. Maybe she just want someone she will be proud of by her side, someone who is confident.

Her wanting to go back might  be becos of the age ticking thing, she taught her new guy will just get a job immediately after NYSC or a year later, n they will hit the alter, but it didnt happen dat way. Another fact is dat it is spritually inclined, they told her dat marrying d 1st guy will bring problems to her later becos of d guy's family, but dat with her new guy, she wud find peace from her intended in-laws.

As i am posting this topic, am still confused on what to tell my friend, so i decided that Nairalanders will be of great help to me as per the advise i shld give her. My friend was my best friend back then in school. she had a pretty rough life with guys. Before she finished her HND, she met this guy whom she really didnt fancy at first because she said the guy likes to front and always wants to be noticed (maybe because d guy is not too tall.) At first d guy cudnt hv the guts to approach her so he sent a classmate of hers to help tell her of his intention. she later met with d guy on a date, but she cudnt imagine herself falling for this guy, but they seeing each other almost all the time before the guy finished n left school.

She later finished herself and she met d guy again by chance, d guy continued from where he stop, showering her with lots of care, attention n love, she was confused n decided to seek for my opinion about the guy whether she shld agree to d guy n go into a relationship, she however said she don't think she can marry him based on d fact she analysed earlier n moreover, she wants to marry a tall guy because she is not too tall herself.

Well i told her d guy is not bad n she shld leave that fantasy of tall guys n give him a try. she agreed n they started a relationship, she actually enjoyed herself, the guy went ahead to pay for her Computer 2 wks crash programm be4 she will proceed for her NYSC. ok lets say the relationship lasted for just 3mths because she went for her Youth service in September.

d guy almost weeped because she was leaving, he saw her off to d park n refused to leave. After the 3wks orientation camp, she came back to lag (she was posted to Sokoto State) to see this guy, n he spoilt her silly. she went back, 2 wks later this guy came all the way from lag. to visit her in sokoto n spent 3 nights with her. D guy eventually left n suddenly she met this other guy there in sokoto, they were all serving together. u wont believe it, my friend fell for this other guy and they started dating, they stayed together like couples while in youth service, they both finished n came back to lag. then the big wahala now started, she didnt know how to tell her first guy about this new guy, so she was playing the two games(seeing the first guy n d new guy). At a later point she got feed up of playing two games. She felt she was hurting her 1st guy by not telling him d truth. she told me she has made up her mind and decided that she sticks with her new guy. Her reasons for leaving the 1st guy is summarised below:

Her 1st guy is too soft, that she fears she will sit on his head, d guy is afraid of her, afraid that she might leave him, he is not always comfortable when he sees her with any tall person.
- D guys listens to alot of gossips about her outside, because it happens that most of g guy's friends went to d same school with her. because d guy drinks alot, he is always in d coy. of his friends that drink, n when they sit, they tend to gossip alot. Although he tells her weneva he sees her of what people r saying about her and she gets angry n tell d guy that if he wants to hear anything about her, he shld tell n she would gladly narrate her escapeds in school. but d guy wont listen.

- he loves her like a school boy who just fell inlove for d first time, so it irritates her at times. she sees d guy as being weak and not strong enough to protect her.
- she said she is still not comfortable with d guy's stature.

So she eventually left d guy for this other she met in NYSC. it wasnt easy though because d 1st guy cried when they parted. Now she is in d 3year relationship with this older guy, but unfortunately while she is working now, the guy is still searching for a job. she is kind of frustrated n wants to get married very soon. Meanwhile her 1st guy is already working.
Now she wants to go back to her 1st guy knowing very that he still loves her very much n he would take her back. But she is scared because she knows it wont be easy like that, knowing she has really hurt d guy.

so please want do u think she shld do in this circumstances.

Thanks be to God ALmighty who has not forsaken his children.

Congrates to u my broda, it will definately get better for all of us at narialand in Jesus name. Amen.

Pls man, am interested in the C.V format and the interview tips, kindly send it to my email stated below:

ginajuice2003@yahoo.com

Thanks once more.

@ Oke_Amu.

Thank you for ur help oh.

Am working actually, but i want a job for my dear friend who is searching for one.

He read Bus. Administration from the University of Ilorin.

His E-Mail address is : funsho24@yahoo.com

I will appreciate any help you can render to him at this point.

U r such a switheart dear funsoo, for bringing up such a lovely idea.

It will really go a long way to help nairalanders if they will be honest and kind enough to actually post their various experiences at interviews they went for and also take time out and post the questions ask at the apptitude test.


be gud everyone and comply.

Wat an interesting testimony, I thank God for your uplifting u guys and taking you to high places. its God doing, am very much happy for both of you. Am new in this site, but i must confess am encouraged by this testimony. its good to wait on the Lord.