I have used dating sites several times. When some of the guys met me physically they said i looked different from the pictures(non-photoshopped) i sent them; i somehow agree because i always look different on every picture, eg it depends on whether or not i'm smiling, hairstyes(straight or long), etc.

i have another date now and he's been asking me to send him my pictures but  i'm trying to avoid it until he sees me physically.

Or should i send him a not so beautiful picture?

internet dating,does it work

Yes a less beautiful picture so he will be pleasantly surprised.
So does it mean that the dates have not worked because the guys thought you looked better in your picture?

Yes, sort of----

savanaha:

Yes a less beautiful picture so he will be pleasantly surprised.
So does it mean that the dates have not worked because the guys thought you looked better in your picture?

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chisimdi:

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lol You're not serious

glorina:

lol You're not serious

savanaha:

Yes a less beautiful picture so he will be pleasantly surprised.
So does it mean that the dates have not worked because the guys thought you looked better in your picture?

@savanah do you think it would be wise of me to send a lees beautiful picture or does it sound like foolishness?
Please reply thanks

you dont mind sending me one of ur nice pictures, do you? i'd appreciate it.

i think say u prefer whites

sure but i woulndt mind a nice wallpaper or portrait of an african beauty.

glorina:

@savanah do you think it would be wise of me to send a lees beautiful picture or does it sound like foolishness?
Please reply thanks

I think if you already know the person you will go out of the date with and is sure they won't change their mind then send a less beautiful picture. Then when he sees you in person he will be pleasantly surprised. If it works out then you can send beautiful pictures of yourself. Best of both worlds.

So many trivial threads on NL. . . so your outstanding beauty is causing your internet dates to take off as soon as you eventually meet. . . na wa wo, una no go fit kill person with laughter here wo

weather you send a beautiful pix or ugly pix
that does not change your real looks

if u are ugly, you are ugly and if you are beautiful u are beautiful

i think you need to look inward and build ur self esteem, rather thinking of pleasin some worthless strangers with your picture

i mean who are they to size u with your pix? are thye God? if they dont like u the way u are they should scam

Your post is inconclusive.

So what happens when they see u in person? Do they think u're more beautiful in person or not as beautiful as the picture?

Stop sending them your photos and wait till u meet them in person.