₦airaland Forum

carinmom:
That is why we are saying that all those that are married off early in the north mostly come from poor or illiterate background, its not all about religion.

Nay! I beg to disagree on this.

Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) married Aisha when she was 9yrs and that is what most Muslims take as their benchmarks.

The SUV now look like nylon. Driver RIP too. Those suspecting the driver should go and rest too. Or is there foul play in the driver's death?

Suspicions everywhere.

SSSadiq:
because they don't marry girls at 12. The media continues to deceive u and u don't care at all to find out what truly happens in the North; you just swallow everything hook, line and sinker. You see yourselves more educated than Northerners, yet u don't understand the simple rules of research. Go to North, ask a Northerner or read from reliable sources, or better still, go back to school.

My friend will you say something more sensible than this rubbish you are spewing here.

I was born in Zonkwa and so I grew up with the Muslims. I also bore the name Hasanna because am a twin.

Most of my Muslim female classmates did not complete their primary school at LEA 3 Zonkwa because they were married off.

I don't live on media gossip but on first hand information.

We still have awure dole...forced marriage among you.
Abduction of Christian girls and subsequent conversion to Islam and marrying them did not start today. I witnessed a lot of them in Zonkwa.

So get some sense. You are the one that need to back to the classroom.

kumakunta:
Pls what part of the Qur'an are you talking about?

Please check it up for us. Which part of the Qur'an advocates giving out 9yrs old or kidnapp and marry off 12yrs old girls?

kumakunta:
Pls what part of the Qur'an are you talking about?

Please check it up for us. Abi which part dem dey use marry off 9yrs old or kidnapp and marry off 12yrs old

Love Machine:
Bro,whether we like it or not we must all die one day.Stop crying more than the bereaved.

It is not an issue of death being compulsory but the poster showing who is more qualified to die than him, a mere mortal

RIP

She is mature. Why didn't they marry her off at 12 years?

She's rehearsing for her dream wedding

My heart feel for the family he left behind.
Life is indeed too short.

Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity.

May the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen

Adieu my dear. I can't imagine the agony in the hearts of ur loved ones

Please move on. You cant changr her. I learnt helping my hubby from how my mum supported my dad while growing up.

My brother's wife will not cook if there is no cray fish in the house. My brother sponsored her to NTI after marrying her with SSCE attempted. She is a teacher now. Her son is 19 now and she has not changed that attitude. Her husband must provide everything.

ifyalways:
Is this like a new joke or trend

It's been there since time imo river. The awareness is just coming up. My abducted town girls are now grandmas

It is a daily occurrence in the north. Am used to the story lines hence am not surprise

Bern1992:
Thank God, I dont even have road in my state not to talk of a bad one

ABIA?

Jeez

Osu175:
This girl was a student in the school I taught (Total child secondary school samaru zaria) and her family stays opp my house in Bakin dogo samaru zaria.

I believe what cause this is that the parents speaks hausa to them alot at home which makes the girl see herself as one of them and date hausa boys around

Living within the Hausa enclave was another mistake. Our parents spoke Igbo to us when we were growing up even though we as kids preferred to converse in Hausa.

Jaftee:
They should just storm the conversion center, their may b more girls their, u maybe surprise to find chibok girls.
no wonder when Kaduna protested against sheria law in the year 2000, they turn it to religious crisis then rename it political crisis. Kaduna is not a sheria state I wonder why it is effective

Even the area courts in the 80s were headed by alkalis, who were Islamic fundamentalists

Skywalker5:
na wa oo. This abduction issue in Nigeria is getting too much. Sharia court adjourning the case all the time sounds fishy. Married off. when will this people learn about women's rights?

It has been the order of the day in the north. I remember Onyinye, Ijeoma, Ngozi all from Isuikwuato were abducted and married off in Zonkwa in the 80s and their parents went to sharia court and lost. They are grand parents now.

Mischievous Muslims they are.

missingrib:
hope I will see that liveness

I wish my mum is still there, I could have handed you over to her.
I will tell my coz to bring kunu gada for you if I know where to get you

missingrib:
ur right about all those but its only one bank ooo... UBA to be precise

Yes you are right its only UBA. Lucky you. Some locations lack even road.

Well relax and eat mangoes and bananas. And maybe natural honey. It's just for a year. It will be over before you know it

missingrib:
just a calm environment but nothing interesting there...no social life at all

Yes. There is no much development since God knows when. It's been only UBA for ages but I bet you it is far better than some locations like Tanagar and Gogel where only a small road leads to and if the bike man leaves you have to walk to the main road. The students understand only Hausa and nothing more.

dominique:
So sad. He should have locked himself inside his house instead of trying to outrun some thugs.

They won't hesitate to set the house on fire!

mccoy47:
Even a baby?
Kai! Some people are just vampires in human flesh!

Hausa man does not recognize babies. They even dissect foetus from the womb

bettercreature:
This family really need to shut the fucck up and fear God,i dont know why they keep lying about the whole situation,we all know what the guy did is very wrong and he should be sent to jail but i hate all these attention seeking lies just to rope the guy,who would have thought the guy lived and worked for them for 10yrs

Were you there? House help doing what?

nurez305:
Zonkwa and kafanchan are not the best place to serve, I served in zonkwa. The only place that recorded the highest rate of hiv in nigeria, different kind of diseases are there, almost all there girls and boys, both the young and old are always suffering from one disease or the other. I can't ever advice anybody to serve there again, if disease did not kill, you will die by religion crisis.


RIP to galant corper

Haba! So Zonkwa is so ravaged by HIV except you!
Take it easy now. You may not like the place but it's not enough for this rantings.

So every body is sick too. Did you witness any religious crisis during the one year you spent there?

I served in a place worst than Zonkwa, where bikes come once a week. .Tanagar in Warawa LGA of Kano.

Zonkwa have banks, hospitals (ECWA St Louis & others) and roads and railways.

The Muslims have been subdued there and are not troublesome.

missingrib:
presently serving there....God is my shield..

Don't mind him. My cousins are not willing to leave Zonkwa for anything. Ravaged by HIV? Is he the person that infected them?

Kayoski:
I also serve at Zango Kataf local govt..
batch : 15A

I know you enjoyed Zonkwa, my place of birth

Philpham:
Why are all the deadly diseases in the northern part of Nigeria.

Nemesis I guess.

Our Ibo brothers should desist from going there.

Well, there is a colony of Igbos in Zonkwa. We were born there and will happily visit there anytime any day.

I called my cousin in Zonkwa this afternoon and she confirmed the sad story.

For ur info lassa fever is not restricted to the north.

Na dem sabi.
#proudlycatholic

It is not yet dawn and we are witnessing these

meezynetwork:
That's are lies. A middle income earners like the oruru can't afford to have a house help.
It's even rare to see hausa house help, instead u see hausa security man which the oruru's family can't afford to have.

I wonder oooh. Did the father go to Yenagoa with Yunusa abi Inuwa?

Big lies. Deceit. Craftiness

So a 13 or 14 years old willingly converted to Islam. Haba ! And again it's justified?

If it were the other way round they could have killed their own even if he or she converted to Christianity at age 50 and call it honour killing

Lawz20:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders, I have a very serious problem which I so much believe that with your kind and generous advice, I might take the right step. I met this girl around April 2012 at my work place and since then we have been together after I proposed to her last year. The fact is I love her so much and I thought she also loves me.

I went down with her to her village around April 2014 to see her parents formally and they were so happy, her mum, dad, grand parents and even her siblings welcomed me wholeheartedly and I was so happy. I stayed with them for two weeks just to see if I can picture out any bad behavior but seriously, non was found.

The problem am having with her is that she has too much male friends and most of them are always sending her love messages both on 2go and Facebook. I once stumble on her Facebook inbox and I found a chat between her and another guy and he was just thanking her for coming to spend good time with him, bla bla bla and how he enjoyed her. I was so mad because during this period she went to the village alone and promised to return in a week but she didn't until after 3 weeks, this is what she always do, she travels like 4-5 times in a year and never return on time. When she returned, I confronted her and she said she is not the one that did that chat with the guy, I tried asking her who did but she never gave me a good answer.

Later that week, she gave me her phone to help her charge it in a barbing saloon, then a strange number called and I picked, the person hissed and cut the call, he later sent a message saying, "you're picking my wife's call and asking me who it is" I replied him that he should check the number that he might be wrong, he then mentioned her name. I went back home to ask my fiancee who own that number then she said its that guy I saw his chat and I should not worry, she will fix it.

Recently again, she has travelled and up till this moment, she is not back, she promised she won't stay upto 2 weeks but yesterday makes it 5 weeks. That same yesterday, my mum's pastor asked my mum to call me that he has a message for me which I later went, he greeted me and say, while he was praying for me because of my mums request, that he was shown that the lady I am planning of marrying is not mine alone, that if I go ahead to marry her, she will wreck me and leave me, he said she travelled now and I said yes, he said she was seeing someone else in the village, he said if I doubt him, I should go ahead.

It was then my mum now said, my younger sister told her of a dream she had, that I caught my fiancee with another guy and it leads to a fight which the said guy killed me. I myself have had such dreams too. The pastor gave me 3 days fasting and prayer. I am confused, despite all her cunning ways I still love her but what should I do and how do I go about leaving her. I will be 30 by 5th April, am not getting any younger. Please advice.

What kind of advice are you looking for again?

30 yrs by April and so what? Are there not Ladies out there?

So she is jobless to be staying 2,3,5 weeks at a stretch.

You are on your own because the handwriting is there.