Hafee,

For an educated man, you are not that hot yourself; your spelling and grammar skills are off, judging from your post. As for the poor girl who bore a child for you, do the right thing by her and tell her you do not love her. Arrange financial support for the kid, pay for her to complete her education and DO NOT TOUCH HER EVER AGAIN!!

Also, grow up. Your immaturity and obvious lack of restraint has done enough damage already. Good luck with the rest of your life.

An 8-yr old girl recently asked me, at a Bible Study roundtable discussion, why I didn't pray for a husband. I was at a loss for words - how do you tell a child that marriage is not necessarily the [i]raison d'etre[/i]of every female?

Don't get me wrong, I am not against marriage. I guess it is as necessary as you make it out to be. I place more emphasis on finding the right one. If it's not quite right, any question of marriage is null and void.

Especially when you don't have to hear that biological clock ticking anymore.