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Politics › Re: "My Baby Boo" Preisdent Buhari To His Daughter As She Cheered Him (Vid) by go100: 4:33pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Babyforever: Men are heartless. O GA pupoooo.....So women are....... |
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by go100: 10:27pm On Feb 26, 2019 |
Treasured4eva: I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.
I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.
She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.
I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.
My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.
My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.
I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.
I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.
I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.
Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.
She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.
Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.
My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.
She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her. My Little Contribution Note: No one can get it all right in all situations. That's why we are humans. This is Life. It is spiritual. It is a battle and we all get dealt with by Life variously. Life is an experience, an attitude and altitude. Firstly, cry out to God sincerely and in faith. Pray for renewed and enlarged capacity for your situation. If you don't mind and you're a believer, you got to take authority on the premise of the marriage covenant you made before God in the church and as the God ordained head of the home. Decree >that any evil or destabilizing external relationship with your marriage coming through you or your wife should expire and end. >that any evil personality that rules your wife's being to vacate her and end expression through her in your marriage. >those virtues you desire in her and even in yourself for better mutual understanding, loving with tolerance, etc. Note: In all this, patience is very key. Surrender even your undeniable present negative reality to God. And lastly, speak virtuously (as you would have desired her to be) into her life especially when you are alone and in the early hours of the day. DON'T BE AFRAID. YOU CAN BUT ONLY OVERCOME TO TELL YOUR STORY TO ENCOURAGE OTHERS MUCH LATER. May the Lord God grant you help to end this quagmire. (Amen). |
TV/Movies › Re: Name A Movie You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching by go100: 10:28pm On Feb 25, 2019 |
Bloody Monday 1 & 2 Colony Strikeback |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by go100: 10:12am On Feb 19, 2019 |
 Don't ever think of giving her a second chance. Just dump her. She will destroy your life and destiny. GoodBoi1: I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.
When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.
Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married. |
Car Talk › Your Experience With Volkswagen Passat 2004 by go100(op): 6:08pm On Feb 18, 2019 |
Hello, Please I am planning to get a Volkswagen Passat 2004 car for personal use. I seek to know anyone's experiences with the car in terms of challenges and it's perculiar problems. Thanks. |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by go100: 7:08pm On Jan 02, 2019*. Modified: 7:51pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
EfemenaXY: Divorce. Divorce. Divorce.
Divorce isn’t always the answer to marital problems and should never be taken lightly especially when there are children involved.
This should only ever be the last resort if all else has failed.
Besides, there’s always three sides to every story:
~ His side ~ Her side ~ The truth
Based purely on your side of the story, you need to do some serious soul searching and ask yourself why your wife changed overnight.
The first few years of marriage are the honeymoon stage. You courted this woman for 11 months. That’s quite a while to have studied her. There is no way a person can keep up the pretence for 11 long months (unless yours was a long distance relationship?). There must have been red flags. You just chose to ignore them.
Nonetheless, there HAS to be a reason why she’s suddenly turned 360os on you. Obviously there appears to be:
1. An emotional black hole in your relationship. The ex turning up is a symptom of the underlying issues with your marriage. A woman would only turn to an ex or another man if her emotional needs aren’t being met. For example when discussing with your wife, do you seek her opinion / input or do you wave aside her views? Do you say “Thank you” to make her feel appreciated when she gives / does something you are a recipient of? What is your sex life like with her? Do you take the time to satisfy her needs? Or is it all about you, you, and you? Is life with you one endless boring routine? Or do you make efforts to spice it up?
2. Trust Issues. When a wife starts stashing away huge sums of cash in secret, it means she’s preparing a nest egg for herself and her kids without you in the picture. Most times this action arises from betrayal or if she perceives you to have betrayed her. Have you ever cheated on her? Or done something to make her feel insecure in your union?
3. Immaturity. A refusal to acknowledge one’s fault / mistake and apologise accordingly is usually down to misplaced pride and immaturity. Wisdom comes with age. How old is your wife?
For a marriage to work, both parties have to roll up their sleeves and get stuck in. You have to ask yourself if there’s any part of you that wants to salvage the marriage. If you do, then you need to ask your wife if she’s still interested in the marriage too.
If the answer is “yes” from both of you, then both of you need to make the effort to save it. Start by seeking help from a neutral third party such as a marriage counsellor. Book a couple of sessions with them so you and wifey can talk through your issues.
Your problems didn’t start today. They’ve festered for over four years so you need to be patient and not expect everything to be miraculously resolved in one day. A lot of patience, perseverance, and constant communication will be needed to get your relationship back to a healthy state.
It is well. Your analyses are cool but they are largely cumbersome, theoretical, and head knowledge. Firstly, the Op wife's family cannot feign ignorance of this toxic attitude of their daughter. They largely scammed the Op to marrying their daughter despite the high likelihood of the Op spotting one or two red flags during courtship. Secondly, the Op wife actions are simply beyond her own control. She needs serious help. With high precision, she is possessed by an evil covenanted demonic personality, with or without her knowing. It will be a serious spiritual battle for Op to get back his real wife. The Op got to be very prayerful for his marriage to to be restored and taken away from hawks that lurks around the Op and wife. TO ALL BACHELORS NEVER EVER STAY TOO CLOSE TO YOUR WOULD BE BRIDE FAMILY AT THE DETRIMENT OF YOUR FAMILY. IT IS KEY. TAKE NOTE |
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Fashion › Re: Promote Your Business On This Fashion Blog With 80k Daily Readers For N8,000 by go100: 6:17am On Aug 30, 2018 |
What is web address of this your traffic pulling fashion blog |
Romance › Re: Top Most 10 Common Reasons Couples Break-up And Divorce by go100: 11:11pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Influence of the third party leads to imbalance which may eventually tip the marriage over. |
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