EziAsh:
Sometimes i wonder what people want women to do.They work you complain ,they stay at home you complain.So what do people expect from women.So after all the years they put in school now they are expected to just let all that go and sit home and take care of kids and husband.Then after that you will come to Nairaland and bash women. The problem in all this is when people get married everybody expect the woman to carry everybody in the family and i don't think it is right,they man is just expect to go to work and more or less that is all his responsibility.Women on the other hand will have to work,take care of children,husband,be the cook ,the cleaner, driver,teacher,sex partner,doctor, nurse (they are the ones who stay up when the kids are sick,where is dad,sleeping )you can name the rest.At the end of all this you have women who are burn out because they carry the load of the entire house.Excuse me for saying this a husband does not have the right to tell the wife leave your job and stay at home.Marriage is a partnership and for it to work everybody in that partnership must learn to be partners ,the husband has to know that it is not only the wife who can helps and take care of the children, doing their home work,she is not the only one who has to go for school appointment,or take the child to hospital.If the wife is not there to cook the husband should.The reality is that woman have always multitask and i do not think they do it because they so love it although most often African women will just go on and on while pretending to be happy hoping that they get the gratification from their kids really when they grow old and have their own life's then what. Family is great but you can never derive all your happiness from children by the way why do we expect that women should get all their happiness from the family while the men have a range of things that makes them happy.People need to get over this. Women should have a life out side their husband and kids and not feel guilty about it or people guilt them about it.

kaboninc:
Very controversial topic.

Whether we like it or not, it is the duty of a man to provide for his family. If the woman supports, beautiful. Most importantly the man provides and that's the pride of a man. The woman's role is to support and if possible complement his efforts. That's her joy.

Sadly life can turn you upside down that it becomes the woman who provides. A caring, loving and responsible man will always support his wife to see her aspirations come true especially when she is playing a crucial role to his success. Today women are actually taking up traditional 'manly' roles in business, government, academia, etc. To me, there's no problem but she must never forget her 'primary' duty. So long as she doesn't, she's got my support. Besides, there are times when ones career would have to be put on 'hold' and never 'terminated' as its been argued here; most cases it is the woman's career and in few cases, it is the man. This is where compromise and sacrifice comes in.

My 2 kobo.

eunisam: This guy (bello) has the right to disown his dad for any reason.but he doesn't have the right to call PDP a poisonious party. Is APC a milk party? In as much as e no concern me, I dont really blame him because your enemies taste poisonious.

LARRYDKING: Whether reduction or nt, APC will nt win a single ward in Lagos.