OP, Pls show me where it is stated dat a woman should love her husband? my problem with women is that, they want to becom the man. Its a mans responsibility to love U while ur responsibility is to submit. Submission is higher than love bc U can't submit to a man U don't love. Pray To God begging HIM to take away that distraction of a "man U love" cos that's the devil coming to steal the joy, peace and blissful marriage God has given you.

How possible is this? Mk I com buy 5 for all my babes bt op, I dey calabar O°˚˚˚°º‎​ hw I go take partake?

Hello, I have a little challenge. I have a paypal acct and have done the needful for the acct n master card to be verified an I was told it will take abt 30 days to get d 4 digit code but am still yt to receive it. What do you advice pls?

Chimarto:
Perfect Couple..,....,..That's ma dude, he adore huge ladies.

I don't thinh dis guy will rember where d gym is afta tonight.

To all U ladies who r on d "big" side and ur size makes you doubt God's promises concerning a life partner, I'll like to tell you that, God is Never Late. He may Come later and dat will make you the latest (Quote from Bishop Isong).
I stumbled on this picture from a friends DP and it further boosted my faith as a man and thus, I belive it will surely boost yours.
As inquisitive as I am, I tried to get the story behind the love union of the couple (pix below) and I was told that, against all odds, He(Groom) chosed this lady 4 a wife because he Loves them big. I tried to dig deeper out of suspicion that she may be very wealthy and the dud just wanted to play smart but I was informed that, she is just a secondary school teacher and he is a business man. So I deduced that, there is sombody out there who just likes you the way you r. Stop looking down on your self.
my advice is that, your prayer point should rather focus on God odering your steps to meet who HE has kept for you. Don't 4get to belive that He will do it and surely, it will com to pass. Less I forget, the wedding took place @ Calabar today.

more pictures

The Drums of Independent National Electoral Commission Cross River State were rolled out yesterday in celebration as INEC CRS commissioned its 500 seater ultra modern hall which was built by Barr. Mike Igini ( Resident Electoral Commissioner of the state) as well as his send forth to Edo state. Barr Igini is a man who has built a new name for himself as MR. INTEGRITY and has shown all and sundry that with lean resources, you can achieve much if your mind is set to achieve it.
In his speech, Barr. Igini stated that, the hall became necessary because a lot of money was spent on hotels for renting of their halls for electoral activities such as trainings, stakeholders meetings, workshops, Election Result Collation, etc thus, the need for a comfortable place for such activities.
He also stated that, the resources for the project were leftover from the 2012 Governorship Election security vote and management from the monthly subventions and overhead.
Aside from the edifice, Barr Igini introduce examination to staff of the commission every six month which made the staff of the commission to try as much as possible to get informed on the nitty gritty of their jobs as well as renovation of the the office block which was in shambles when he first arrived and building of additional well furnished 10 office blocks to accommodate staff who were using a 40 feet container as office.
When Igini was first posted to the state, the staff of INEC CRS were all very angry because the trend which was known with INEC then would be stopped but little did they know that, they had greater things to enjoy than the immediate monies they got from politicians.
No wonder, the former Governor of the State, Mr Donald Duke went on AIT sometime ago and said that the electoral process in the country can never be sanitized because, virtually all the RECs that were ever posted to the states depended on the state Government for financing of election activities.
Barr. Igini who made known to the public that most of the resources required for electoral processes were already provided by the commission and there was no need requesting assistance from the state governments.

The hall was commissioned by the Chairman of the commission Prof Attahiru Jega who was represented by the VC, University of Calabar. Prof James Ekpoke.
High point of the occasion was the unavailing of a publication by the INEC CRS "THE BALLOT"

As appreciation to these giant strides, a magnanimous send forth party was thrown and a feather added to his cap with a traditional title as Obong Barr. Mike Igini.
Obong Barr. Igini beckoned on the staff to maintain the high spirit and moral he inculcated in them , stressing that, the future of our children and grand children yt unborn is in our hands and prayed that God will always direct their hearts to do what is right.

Bigcake:
Op, what of Prince Bassey Otu and Geshom Bassey? Na who win?

I will get you d confirmed result n d score margin 2maro mornin. Bt I perciev its Sen Prince bc he is so loved by his ppl n kinsmen.

akinsadeez:
Ndoma Egba is a well respected lawmaker. I would be sad if he doesn't get a return ticket because he is one of d lawmakers who contributes meaningfully to debates on d floor of d senate. I also listened to his townhall meetings with his constituency on radio and his constituency members seemed to appreciate him. It is thus surprising to hear that he lost the primary.

Respected, undisputed. Contributions, perfect but what can he boast of in his senatorial district? Hw many ppl frm his district has he empowered? you don't expect him to invite any of his critics to his townhall meeting so don't use his townhall meeting as a yadstic for assesment. Compared to Sen. Ben ayade, (CRS Northern sen district), Ndoma Egba is a failure.

ojubi:
OOPS THANK YOU FOR THIS NEWS. AS A CENTRAL CROSS RIVERIAN, I HAVE BEEN PRAYING TO GOD THAT NDOMA EGBA LEAVE THAT SEAT FOR SOMEONE ELSE.
FOR GOODNESS SAKE IT IS NOT HIS BIRTH RIGTH. VICTORY FOR DEMOCRACY, VICTORY FOR CROSS RIVARIANS.
THANKS TO BABA IMOKE.

Na only him(Ndoma Egba) waka come so others com to escort am 4 dis world. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww

you need to see the Jubilation here @ d moment. Its obvious that Sen Victor has done his ppl bad and they need fresh ai.
#freshairadvocate

Results has been colated from Cross River Central senatorial district and it appears that the Senate majority Leader. Sen Victor Ndoma Egba was not re-elected. Hon Owan Enoh became victorious with a very wide Margin of 219 votes over Victor Ndoma Egba who earned only 37 votes. Hon Owan Enoh was d representative of obubra/Etung federal constituency of Cross River State.

I am arnd d venue where its being conducted. Insufficient data to upload pictures @ d moment.
Congrats Hon Owan Enoh

Chuks Okocha in Abuja

The Election Management Board (EMB) of the Independent National Election (INEC) has suspended the creation of the controversial 30,000 additional polling units.
It cited time as the reason for the suspension.

The decision of the commission to create additional polling units that was seen generally as favouring the North against the South has caused a lot of controversy to the extent that some politicians have taken INEC to court.

In the proposed creation of additional polling units, the North has over 21,850 polling centres compared to the South with less than 8,000.

But on Tuesday, the commission’s Secretary,   Mrs. Augusta C. Ogakwu, said in a statement that the commission met and reviewed reports sent in from the states by Resident Electoral Commissioners (RECs) on reconfiguration of the polling unit structure and creation of additional polling units.

She said:  “After taking everything into consideration, especially the controversy over the creation of additional polling units that have been overheating the polity, and the apparent inadequacy of time for the exercise, the commission took a decision to suspend the exercise until after the 2015 general election.”

However, she further said the commission, nevertheless would continue with the use of voting points, where necessary, to mitigate population pressure in overcrowded polling units during the forthcoming elections.

The INEC secretary also said in the statement that the commission would relocate polling units from unsuitable locations.

INEC further said as much as possible, it would ensure that polling units are located in enclosures such as classrooms, rather than in open spaces.
Meanwhile, as the commission has commenced the Continuous Voters’ Registration (CVR) today, it yesterday released tips to ensure a seamless exercise across the states.

The affected states where continuous registration is expected to take place as from today are Kano, Edo, Plateau, Ogun, Imo, Lagos and Adamawa.

A statement by the commission which was signed by the
Chief Press Secretary to INEC Chairman, Kayode Idowu, urged eligible voters to first check whether their names are contained in the register by sending a short message to dedicated lines before presenting themselves for fresh registration.

According to INEC in the statement, “To make room for eligible persons presently not on the biometric Register of Voters during the CVR commencing in seven states on November 12, INEC enjoins residents of the affected states who are yet to get their PVCs to first interrogate the register and ascertain whether or not they are already on it.”

The statement further said: “If they are on the register, they need not present themselves for CVR – even if they have not obtained their PVCs.”

INEC said the  way to check if their names  are on the register of voters is simply to send a text message to dedicated lines with the following information: Name of state, surname, the last five or six digits of the VIN (i.e., Voter Identification Number) on their Temporary Voters’ Card (for example: Lagos, Salama, 06782:please ensure the coma in-between) and send to 08171646879.”

The commission further said alternatively, “someone doing the checking could preface the short message with INEC (e.g.: INEC, Lagos, Salama, 06782) and send to 20120.

“The interrogator will get an instant response giving his/her full profile on the register and the polling unit number if the person is actually on the register; or an advice to the contrary if the person is not.

“If a person is on the register and has not been able to obtain his or her PVC, he or she should go to the relevant local government office of INEC where distribution of the cards will continue daily till the end of January 2015.

“For avoidance of doubt, only those who the  text message service shows are not on the register need to present themselves for CVR, in addition to persons who are registering for the first time ever. If only the people who genuinely need to register present themselves for CVR, the exercise will be efficient and far-reaching.


“The states where CVR will hold from Wednesday, November 12 to Monday, November 17, are Kano, Edo, Plateau, Ogun, Imo, Lagos and Adamawa.

Also the commission said that the exercise is  available for people(s) who want to check the register of voters from every other state of the federation

bennygreat1:
I can't believe this... And I hope is not true!!!

my broda, it is true O°˚˚˚°º‎​ . Its very very un4tunate. What better can we say than Rest In Father Abraham's bossom gr8t man.

Am just wondering how the pilot didn't see the crane. What a loss. And I hear he was to b a guest minister @ Shiloh dis year. Don't kno hw true sha. God keep his daughter and strenghten his ministry now and always.

adedeeone:
What a great loss. RIP. May God console the family at ds low time.

my dear, this is really a loss to this generation. God knows best.

THE leader of Bahamas Faith Ministries, Dr Myles Munroe, and his wife Ruth have been killed in a plane crash in Grand Bahama.

#The crash took place this afternoon and killed all nine people on board the private jet. The plane reportedly struck a crane at the Grand Bahama Ship Yard, exploding on impact and crashing into the ground near a junkyard area.

#The Department of Civil Aviation reported that the plane was a Lear 36 executive jet which departed the Lynden Pindling International Airport (LPIA) for the Grand Bahama International Airport.

Source: http://www.google.com/url?q=http://www.tribune242.com/news/2014/nov/09/least-two-dead-plane-crashes-crane-shipyard/&sa=U&ei=ClRgVPukGoz2POargPgD&ved=0CBsQFjAF&sig2=cZdXUp-zpQvKNXVzY2umGQ&usg=AFQjCNHBAc1LIe7vELxBeRch0y0zgX8KFw

A frnd jst snt me this to me. Let's c who grabs this opportunity.

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Pls share with friends and all others who may be in need.

Cheers!

This is why this govt is so clueless. They stay in Airconditioned offices and take rash decisions. Have they seen the road in most parts of the country? Its so bad to a point that even KEKE can't enter so okada seems to be the only way out. If the ban is in major cities where the road network is good, that's fine but for the rural arears, their policy is a big miss.

Congrats Mercy J. All those still Praying For the fruit of d womb, receive urs In Jesus Name. Can I hear an Amen?

Beazy:
Sometimes you can’t blame ladies who are crazy about material stuffs, and that is because our society is not encouraging hard work. Study hard, you get handshake. Spend time to look sexy, you get big regards. Smh!
The Miss Unilag 2014 Winner was Awarded Handsomely with a Brand New Car last week, How Come the Most Brilliant Debater get a Laptop?

tomiobj:
It's nt unilag. Its society. A model that takes lyk 70 pix everymonth (thats all she/he will ever do)for a living will earn a lot more than an engineer who works for 14 hours a day and never sees his family

In MAMA P's Voice, THERE IS GOD O°˚˚˚°º‎​

Kirinwa:


Seriously?
That's a new one. So the church should now bend and twist the Bible to wed fornicators in holy matrimony abi? When the Bible clearly said in the book that The marriage bed should be undefiled.Even stated that God would judge them for engaging in 'grasshopper style' before wedding.

Pls sight the reference. Am here to learn. It wz jst my opinion though. I sighted my basis so pls sight yours with explanation.
The Bible only said in Heb 13:4 "Parallel Verses
New International Version
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Meaning, if U go galivanting afta marriage, be ready to face d music of God's judgment. I don't c how that stops the church frm conducting Holy matrimony 4 an intending couple who hv repented and want to wed.

olaric:
The Church is not forcing anyone to lie. It's just a matter of looking for alternative means of getting married as the Church says it wants to stick with its rules. The courts/registeries are also there. People fall into sins of pre-marital sex, but that doesn't mean God will cast them away forever. God is merciful and forgiving, so who are we as humans? If anyone lies during a marriage interview, that's his/her business, not the fault of the Church.

What rules? Apostle paul says, the couple sinneth not so long as they make sure they marry. Most churches do conduct a marriage 4 them but what I don't like is the fact that, they conduvt marriage blessing instead of holy matrimony. The couple lie bc they want holy matrimony not marriage blessing

Kirinwa:
Op should churches now conduct virginity test? I know a good number do pregnancy testing.

Only about 20% ladies marry as virgins.

No. That's absolutely not neccessary. What I mean here is that the church should not use d yadstic of if they hv ever had sex before to determine if they should b join in holy matrimony

From the book of Wisdom, Wisdom they say is the principal thing an in all thy getting, get wisdom (Proverbs 4:7).
I hv realized over time that, majority of d intending couples who go to the altar 4 solemnization of Holy Matrimony, do that on the basis of lies.
I say that bc, most times, the couples r being asked by the church, hv you people ever had sex before?
The Answer is usually NO even when its obvious that they might even be leaving together @ dat time.
This is usually so because of the fear that, the church will not conduct the wedding as Holy matrimony rather, converting the occasion to a marriage blessing.
Its the desire and earnest prayer of Every lady to cover a veil on her wedding day wch connote purity and virginity bt bc of circumstances or pressure, the virginity is lost wch doesn't means its d end of her chances of covering a veil.
1 Cor 7: 36 n 37
" 36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. 37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. "

Above was the Situation Joseph found him self cos He had d grace to stay with Mary the mother of Jesus bt never behaved uncomely towards her that's why She was the Mother of Jesus. But Apostle Paul says, " let him do what he will, he sinneth not but after doing d THING, let them marry. Ɣ‎​ then is the church now segregating thus making couples lie?

These scripture from my own perspective, gives room 4 intending couple to still be joined together in holy matrimony or marriage blessing which ever the couples choose bc it is better to join a couple who hv had sex b4 and intend to marry than make them hv to lie in order to b joined in holy matrimony. Infact, marriage blessings should b @ d instance of the fact that, they may hv had a child before wch is evident to the fact that they may have been living together.

This issue of refusing to join a female frnd of mine to an intending spouse on the basis that, they had sex b4 made her left the guy in search of a new man to marry. This has kept her 7 yrs running, still looking 4 a fresh dude to marry so sh can wear a veil. The guy in question got married to some other girl and has a 6yr old son and a 4yr old daughter.

I think the church is not helping bc a lot of ppl hv lied so that they will wear d veil thus, making the foundation of d marriage faulty.[b][/b]

He should pick d call, tell gal to come to his house and shag off ha . . . . .. With his rooster so sh knows dat respecting a gals wish somtimes isn't imaturity.

Bt wait a second, hw can he hv a gal in his house and doesn't evn feel tempted to touch ha? D guy get mind O°˚˚˚°º‎​ abi na discipline?

All I want is constant electricity. Untill then, fukc off.

Really?

Isn't it obvious dat our culture n heritage is suffering as d days pass by. Younger generations hv lost morals n attitude all because they wanna adopt d foreign wey of life. A child will c an elder n will remove his hand to shake an elder first instead of postrating like the Yorubas. Our language has also suffered it too not to talk of our food.
Its obvious that there is increased health challenges like cancer is on d rise bc of so called foreign genetically enhanced foods. Compare health standards of today n that of our fathers who lived in d villages, hw many of them died prematurely? That's bc they ate fresh meals from dia farms.
Dressing pattern is d worst. All in a bid to immitate foreign culture, we loose our sense of dignity bc U r addressed d way U dress. Mk I baff first, I dey com bk to continue.

Common sense defines it.

Kudos to Chief Eze. But wait a minuite, did I hear he is a billionair? What wud happn if he starts d process of renovating d aba market and ask 4 d govt to refund over time? Guess he wud hv left his name on d sand of time. Its not enough to criticise, what has he done 4 d state b4 critizing the govt?