₦airaland Forum

Okeoghenerobert:
Why killing those protecting us

they didn't go to okuoma to protect people. Okuoma people said army deceived them in to their community Hall and opened fire on them. Shame on u

Glink2018:
If I'm the president ...I will ensure all those involved in the killing of these soldiers die a sorrowful death ...if they were sentenced to live imprisonment...it is not enough, I will supervise their dead by hanging...the way wey Aboki soldiers take kill Thomas Aguyi Ironsi at the outskirts of Ibadan....oyo state

oya go help govt catch them make u do those things. ID10T

kettykin:
The funny thing is when bandits slaughter the military or boko haram, a different logic now applies. I have never seen a very uselessly evil and satanic country like Nigeria. Nigeria's case is worse than other nations God destroyed pre adamic age, tufiakwa!!! Baying for the lives of innocent

I'm surprised when news captions it that: "NATIONWIDE OUTRAGE OVER KILLING OF SOLDIERS IN DELTA" but where has this Nationwide outrage been when Bandits and Boko Haram have been barbecuing Nigerian soldiers in the north? No outrage, they even forgive the Boko Haram Terrorists and grant them amnesty while also demanding Nigerians surrender their lands to deadly Fulani terrorists but these stupid soldiers on illegal mission to kidnap community leaders away from their local government without notifying the local authorities but got attacked by their own allies Nigerians now claim outrage and calling for destructions in Delta State. Very stuupid idiotts

IamAtAnger:
So its justifiable that the Nigerian army were gruesomely murdered and even burnt?... do you know more than ur governor that went to Abuja to meet with the president?... mind u I'm also from Delta

I'm sure you're not Delta blood even if u live in Delta. If you are from Delta North you're not among us, you're an igbo from anambra occupying our northern Lands and claiming Deltan. No Deltan supports oppression of other Deltans. How did U know okuoma youths killed the soldiers? Even the Senate President said those guys are mecenaries and can't possibly be Deltans,u know better than him? Senate President and governor Sheriff mentioned the massacre of civilians and burning of homes by army but u who claims Deltan is just concerned about the soldiers on illegal mission but never about the 50 slained Deltans n burnt community. U are not our own, u are not one of us, You're not a Deltan. Fvckk off

Toluwanise247:
I will love to educate you on this matter…. A group of people who have weapons to overpower 16 soldiers ? You want to send police to them Haba think as normal human beings now …. This is not the first time of the conflict it has been for a while now … you thinking government is not aware before sending soldiers for peace making.

You want to educate me on something that happened in my own backyard? U don't know how the soldiers were overpowered, it's not about weapons, is something that you shouldn't know. Now the Constitution which is law of the land still did not give army any lawful responsibility for resolving civil matters no matter what u want to say. The government did not send them, if the government sent them I ask u a simple question why was DPO office of the local government not involved? U guys are oppressing Delta State, the army have no right to arrest talk more of forcefully attempting to take community leaders from their land to another local government without our own local government authorities knowing. All of u are misunderstanding this issue. Okuoma is urhobo community under Ughelli South LG while Okoloba is ijaw community under Bomadi LG both sharing boundary so what right has the army to forcefully take away okuoma community leaders from okuoma in ughelli south to bamadi in Bomadi Local govt without notifying the authorities of Ughelli South LG and most importantly without notifying the king and the DPO Ughelli South? that is not a peace mission. The community people resisted the army from illegally abducting their leaders and army opened fire on them, the army later came back after losing their men to attack by most likely ijaw boys of okoloba they now return to burn houses and murder more people. So far no evidence that okuoma youths did the attack but all Nigerian media lies against them. The Army should tell Nigerians what's so special about a youth that such high military team went to rescue only him. It's a shame that Nigeria army is involved in this mess, it's embarrassing. U all outside our region don't know what's happening.

Toluwanise247:
Okay soldiers wey then kill na terrorist Abi? Let the other soldiers kill the animal way dey bush small.

bro nor be insult matter be this. Did the army have a right to resolve communal dispute? NO. That's work of police, now even if they want to do illegal work, did they inform DPO Ughelli South division? NO!, Did they inform the King? NO! did they try to detain the community leaders illegally? Yes. Now why are a whole 17 soldiers including 4 senior officers in the creeks to rescue 1 youth? Only an idiot can believe that. Nigerians should ask themselves what is the military interest in the creeks of Okuoma? Why did military join the ijaw attackers? Be reasonable

Nursepepeye:
I don't blame you, I blame the military authority wey never deal with you accordingly. Baby factory product dry insult person

answer the questions. If not INENE go swallow u anytime u enter bush. We're urhobo people and we love Delta State! Go hug transformer

Nursepepeye:
I don't blame you, I blame the military authority wey never deal with you accordingly. Baby factory product dry insult person

answer the questions. If not INENE go swallow u anytime u enter bush

Matildahenshaw:
Clowns and hypocrites everywhere. Christian South celebrating Isreal commiting genocide on Palestinians because of Hamas and now singing moral parades when it's happening to their people.

Muslim North and Southwest preaching morals about the genocide done to their ummah in Palestine because of actions of a few, but are here justifying what is happening in the Christian South.

The inability to accept how beautiful differences can be has finished this world.

u said it all.

Nursepepeye:
turn yourself in, if hand touch you, you will regret it

shut the fvck up Stoopid biiitch. Did Constitution give army right to resolve communal dispute? Since wen did the army become the police? Did the army notify DPO of Ughelli South division b4 the so-called peace mission? Did the army notify their king? NO. So why were they there in company of enemy youths from the other village? Ask urself how many northern villages have been burnt or civilians killed despite soldiers being barbecued everyday in the north by bandits who are northeners and still living free. The injustice and evil u all support will destroy all of u. Stoopid Ashaawo God go punishhh u

Ewedegubbler:
killing an army colonel in a non combat zone is a big deal ooo...

this village hear am

what were the Terrorist army doing there together with enemy youths from the other village? Make una cry blood. Delta community did not kill ur soldiers

MrBroke:
You dey craze. Wetin save you say i no dey near you, na slap you for receive.

that guy deserve pas slap. Na 6 ft

IamAtAnger:
This shud be a lesson to all... no group of individuals can be bigger than Nigeria..
These are brave men that have dedicated their lives to protect you and me.. they are the symbol of Nigeria

shut up

[quote author=Neyopumpin13 post=129014926][/quote]nor mind the id1ot

Senate President Godswill Akpabio already said it yesterday that the killers of the soldiers on evil mission are not people from the Niger Delta region. Nigerians Make una go find people wen kill una soldiers, leave Deltans alone.

Toluwanise247:
If they don’t kill 50 to 100 the community leader will not bring them out ….

bastarrrd e no go better for u. Go kill the 50 and 100, u suppose dey shame how Dem kill una Terrorist soldiers when join ijaw youths to fight our urhobo community. Hopeless ID1OT

We know it that the uniform Terrorists were the ones who first opened fire on the villagers because the villagers resisted attempt to kidnap Okuama community leaders, why is the army so much involved? what kind of peace mission that involves such high ranking military personnels without involvement of police which the Constitution has given the power to resolve civil matters? They tried to kidnap the okuama community leaders to Bomadi LG without even informing the DPO office of Ughelli South LG that shows the Terrorist army were on llegal and evil mission and not peace mission as id1ots are lying about. Constitution didn't give soldiers power to get involved in civil matters, the thieves in uniform went to okuama in company of ijaw youths from okoloba to steal oil wells and attack people in okuama while the ijaw youths who put them in harms way ran away leaving them to their fate. At the end of the day the cowards went to the village and start killing innocent women and children and burning houses to massage their bruised and humiliated ego. God go punish all of una when dey call for more attacks on our urhobo community. Id1otic Nigerians nor call for genocide of northern villages when Boko Haram and Fulani terrorists dey use army do suya everyday na our SS zone when dey feed you id1ots with our oyel una dey take nonsense about. God go punish all of una. Senate President said it yesterday that the killers are not from Niger Delta but mecenaries from outside N.D most likely mecenaries from North, or South west and South East, but never Niger Delta because it's not in our culture to commit such murder, that's what the SP Akpabio said yesterday. So Nigerians listen: DELTA YOUTHS DID NOT KILL NIGERIA ARMY, NIGERIANS GO AND LOOK FOR WHO KILLED YOUR TERRORISTS ARMY, I SUSPECT BOKO HARAM OR YORUBA NATION SUPPORTERS LED BY SUNDAY IGBOHO. ID1OTS leave Delta alone

balaclava:
7. You will never really be accepted. I have observed time and time again the heartbreak of a step parent as the child gets older. After putting them through school, providing a place to live, food, getting the child all kinds of gifts and honestly really caring about the child. The time comes for a grad or a wedding, the child invites mom and dad to the party; and thanks them for all their love and work. Usually there is not even an acknowledgment of effort.

8. You will have no time for errors. A lot of single men get involved with the single mom and her kids when the child is a bit older. Being inexperienced with children becomes a huge burden as the single man has no time to learn parenting skills; and mistakes are not readily forgiven nor forgotten when a kid is 4 compared to 14.

9. You may think it ends, but it never does. I know many men whose single mom wife promised them a completely different life after junior turned 18 or so. At the beginning of the relationship it looked like just a few years and then total privacy and freedom. but it never does.

10. You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren etc. As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice.

11. The legalities can be your shipwreck. There have been numerous cases where a man has divorced or left a single mom and then found himself liable financially for her child. Although not the father he will be responsible for child payments, extra fees and most certainly university far after they are 18 check the laws out, it´s a raw deal. Couple that with some alimony and child abuse claims you get the whole effect of being a divorced and homeless dad with not one child of your own.

12. Untimely death most time is around the corner, the mental, financial & physical stress that this arrangement will bring to you will kill you early, you can become suicidal, she, the ex or the child can set you up to be killed for stupid reasons. Don´t involve yourself with these women under any circumstances. It can be in many ways, the death of a man

In the end women have asked for their freedom to make their own choices now for decades. I would advise all single men to let single moms make their choice of having a child by themselves and then live with it. .

Thanks alot bro. I appreciate, I'm fully convinced by all you stated. My dad had raised 2 children from one of his wives he raised them from babies to successful adults before and after my dad's demise the scumbaggs never showed any appreciation,There are other better ones out there that fits me. Thank God I didn't even touch her. I'm completely cutting the b1tch off. Thanks alot.

NPFLADMIN:
Makes no diff.

I repeat, don't rush into marriage.

Also, when or if she tries to show dominance again, or try to be in countrol or behave as if you can't do without her, RUN OOO.

About the feelings, you're gonna have to talk to her abt that.

That's if she's still interested.

if about talking to her about how I feel, I swear I feel deep love. There's this inner peace I have had since we started dating, but like u said she's trying to act like I can't do without her, is why I've moved on. I don't want any communication with her again

rocknation62:
I was enjoying the story until you said this lately we were chatting I asked her if she still has feelings for her ex and she admitted to me that recently she felt something for him because the guy recently started caring for her. Thank God you’ve moved on

yea

labake1:
Justice for single mothers

OP is brainwashed by the society, not all single parents are bad. Some are just unlucky with men

yes but no justice for the ones who still have feeling for their ex

NPFLADMIN:
Go for it but don't rush into marriage.

Also, set some terms for her kids before going deep.

So that she wouldn't start shouting don't touch my kids.

she's got just 1 boy

Zonefree:

She offered you money, you rejected.
She offered you sex, you rejected.

What truly is your intention with a Nigerian single mother?

one has to be careful with Nigerian females

talented321:
There is no harm in whatever step you want to take, there's also harm in whatever you want to take..
1. Marrying a single mom may good for me and may likely be bad for you..
2. You know what is good for u without the opinion of the public, you know what you want and what you don't.. You know the woman you need in ur life..
3. People condemning single mom are just their sharing opinion with their little experiences and that should not bother you that much because i've witness so many single moms who make good wives..
4. You can get problem anywhere either single mom or not, problem dey everywhere..
5. Lastly her baby dad can bleep her anytime depends on the cause of their breakup..

number 5 is my major concern. She said nothing like that can happen but I know these b1tches crazy always. I just like this one in particular

EreluRoz:
Some single moms are actually very good, they were just unfortunate with an unstable and irresponsible man in their life. Stop demonizing them

bro I never demonized them

Sirmwill:
The guy above me tried desperately to make sense........... He failed

Op
If her ex-husby is still alive

Don't just go for marriage with her...

It would have terrible consequences.

You have been told oo

she was never married. She dated the guy in school

I greet you all. My people pls help me address this properly. There's this babe I met at an Agricultural programme in 2023 last year we exchanged contacts and started communicating but it was a rare communication initially we just talked only about our agric programmes and some times we just chat a little after I buy data from her, she's a graphic designer and data vendor, she doesn't even disturb me for money. fast forward to when she claimed to be single so I proposed a love affair she told me she's single mom and everything that happened, I understood her n felt for her but I really love this girl especially her eye color. she accepted we started dating, she has been so nice sometimes she gave me data I didn't ask for, she even proposed to give me some money to put in my business but I stylishly rejected it because I know how women are, she's really been so nice and loving but later on she got too confident that maybe I love her too much so she kind of snub me and act somehow sometimes, I actually love this female and intend to marry her because we have alot in common in respect to life interests and careers. I feel this inner peace I never felt before but I just dislike her being single mom, she has promised me sex several times but I just give her excuse for us not to have sex because if I don't marry her later on she will say I used and dumped her and that's not my intention for her, my intention is beyond just sex so I won't do it with her since I don't know if I can marry her. lately we were chatting I asked her if she still has feelings for her ex and she admitted to me that recently she felt something for him because the guy recently started caring for her. So I was like ok, since then I limited the conversations and she too kept ignoring me also, 2 times she misbehaved b4 but she used emotional blackmail to get me back and my conscience starts judging me not to leave her because I know honestly her type is rare these days, but till now about 4 days we have not communicated and I already moved on. I remember I read somebody's comment on nairaland that said "single mother na person wife". So like I've moved on and I don't intend to continue no matter the emotional blackmail she may put up later, have I taken the right step by moving on? or I should try to mend things if the female reaches out again? Is it okay to marry a single mom? What are the possible dangers?

Why give the idiotic fct people the benefits. Fct has never supported the ruling party, they voted against Buhari in favour of Atiku, voted against Tinubu in favour of obi.diot yet the stupid FG still considers them to give benefits. If it was me in charge of the FG, FCT people will suffer

Somebody better call that mothafucka to order. We didn't stress on voting queues to vote him only to get this economic terrorism in return. Watin be this na? The guy is quick to make me regret voting him, unlike Buhari I started regret voting Buhari at least 2 years into his government but this just under 2 months I'm so full of regrets

DiamondPant:
😃😃😃😃😃😃
I'm sure you didn't intend for me to answer that.
Did ya?

so what did you rather think I intend?

Peter Obi and his beloved IPOB/ESN terrorists group. God rest the soul of the deceased.

DiamondPant:
Oh, I see...
It's clearer now.

you have panties made from diamonds?