ojmaroni247:
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TooNoisy:
I am very worried you married a man just like your father.

You both need counseling, please take this seriously. You may think your husband is the bad person and you are the loving wife you call yourself, but deep down, both of you have offended each other hence the fights. Your marriage is too young to be going through all of this, in fact from what you have written, your parent's problems started much later in marriage than yours. So why do you think you are having these issues.

Your husband is partly to blame for beating you and talking bad about you. You are not perfect and never will be, so he should be able to manage his home affairs without violence and inviting outsiders. So I fault him for that without even hearing him out.

On the other hand, I will say that you may not be the perfect wife you claim to be. Somehow, you are transferring the bitterness and anger of your parent's marriage to yours and it is showing. Believe me, your husband is seeing some wrong things and he is reacting to them (over reacting). May be because you share the bills 50/50 makes you think you can do whatever you like. May be the fact that your mother was abused has made you very defensive and even offensive - only you can tell.

Let me ask you one question. What does he complain about? He just cant keep complaining for no reason? What does he complain about?

harbdulrasaq88:
The Accident Investigation Bureau on Friday announced that it had recovered the Black Box of the Bristow helicopter that crashed into the Lagos lagoon on Wednesday.

The black box contains the cockpit voice and the flight data recorders.

The Commissioner of the Accident Investigation Bureau, Felix Abali, made this known while displaying the two devices to aviation correspondents at the bureau’s headquarters in Lagos.

Six of the 12 people on the helicopter died when the crash occurred on Wednesday. Among the dead were the pilot and the co-pilot whose bodies were found on Thursday.

The cause of the crash is yet to be ascertained.



http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/188399-black-box-of-crashed-bristow-helicopter-found.html

tola9jaa:
good move

GenOrumov:


Borrowing isn't bad. Borrowing for a consumption loan is what is bad as you have rightly said.

Aren't you aware that it is money you use in making money. Go and ask Dangote. All the cement plants he's opening all over africa, do you think its his personal money he's using? The ability to pay as at when due is what should be considered when borrowing.

free2ryhme:
It is a lesson to everyone. Do not borrow money. Do not pledge your property for a consumption loan. The bankers who lent you the money make it impossible for you to pay back and will eventually acquire it at give-away price. This has traditionally been the trick of the Jews.

GAZZUZZ:


With new engine ECU (if problem is ecu) car should start and switch off after 2secs.

You are going about fixing your vehicle the wrong way.

Change the smaller parts first. Crank and camshaft sensors (if any part change is required).


Check for back up positive line on engine Ecu, check for ignition power (+), on ecu, check for sensor ground on all sensors, check for 12v(+) on coils, MAF and throttle body and injectors, check for 5v on sensors. If you have run all these tests then remove crank and cam sensors, and test usin a meter.

citizenisb:
A lot of times we try to project the image of the benign, peace loving drunk from Otueke to cover up the complete rot his administration represented. It is just a repeat of history as most of us know that Shagari is a good man but his administration was very corrupt.

I stay in Abuja and I know that the corruption under the GEJ administration was monumental and the enormous revenue accrued to the government was wasted even much more than Abacha, Babangida and Obasanjo combined. Why are we so wicked to keep on defending his administration.

Buhari has a lot of personal flaws but if we can remember this election was a referendum on GEJ not necessarily about Buhari in the swing states of the South West and North Central.

Whether he appoints Ministers this night or next year it is a huge relief from the madness we just went through for six years.

It will take a lot for us to recover with the depleted external reserves, crash of crude prices, a possible Greek default, reduction in summer travel and GDP/ Oil use due to terrorism fears, a huge slowdown in China, 30 million barrels of stored Iranian crude about to hit the market with the removal of sanctions and two possible interest rate hikes by the US Federal Reserve.

We are in interesting times no matter who is at the helm and the earlier we all hunker down and pray to weather the storm without terrible social unrest that will come with job losses, subsidy removal, Naira devaluation and corresponding hyperinflation adding to the Boko Haram insurgency decimating the North East and the bankruptcy of the states.

Let me give you a brief example; Buhari told the governors to negotiate longer loan tenors with the banks up to 20 years to reduce the strain and inability to pay salaries, do you know how that will affect bank profits and systemic liquidity. What will happen to their Oil and Gas loans if oil prices dip further.

May God help this country but please it is sheer wickedness to bring up the previous administrations records. In other climes they would have been shot by now.

Rounakid:
1) He Does'nt Bother More About Your Appearance.
Is every compliment from him about your different part of body? It doesn't matter how creative he can be, if a guy's sole focus is on how you look, or 'talking dirty,' see it as a red flag. A real man will value your personality, your kindness, your intelligence, and who you are as a person, in general. The things he makes you feel good about will be things that you control, not just results of getting lucky in the gene pool.
2)He will never be intimidated by your motivation.
A man who has goals for himself, will want to be with a woman who has goals for her own life, too. He will never feel intimidated or threatened by a woman who goes after what she wants. He will want to be part of a power couple, rather than a dictatorship. Be mindful of anyone who tries to keep you from pursuing your dreams.
3)He will have more interests than just you.
I don't mean this in a negative way. You should, of course, be a priority in his life -- but he needs to have a life as well. Interests, friends, hobbies, aspirations. If a man works his entire life around you, it's another red flag -- relationships should be a great part of your life, but not encompass your whole life.
4)He will always provide answer in any situation
No matter how awkward or uncomfortable a situation is, a real man will approach it, and you, with respect. I have always felt that a mark of a man is how he handles conflict, criticism, and less-than-ideal situations. A man will not dance around answers or make excuses. If there is something you two need to talk about, he will talk about it.
5)A real man is always straightfoward.
In addition to the last point there will be no mind games or manipulation in your relationship. A man will be direct, to the point, and honest with you... but with kindness.
6)His Trust in you.
As long as you haven't betrayed his trust, a man will NOT be paranoid, or snoop around invading your privacy to make sure you're not doing anything bad. He will have confidence in your relationship. A boy will project his own insecurities onto you, and like termites in a house, will eat away at the foundation of what you've built.
7)He shower shower you deserved respect.
Nothing signifies an empty shell of a man more than someone who disrespects women, animals, or children. A real man will treat you with the respect that you deserve, never force you to do anything you're uncomfortable with, and never mistreat you. Be honest enough with yourself to walk away from any situation that is dangerous to you, physically or emotionally.
His unstoppable effort in the relationship.
Boys are generally apathetic and just look for one thing from a woman. A man, will do what it takes to make you happy, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Your happiness, is his reward.
9)He will make you want to be the best version of yourself, without changing who you really are.
A man will empower those around him. He will strive for greatness and therefore inspire others to strive for it as well. This not only includes friends and co-workers, but also significant others.
10)Add yours
Written By Rounakid Kutty.
Source : www.nairarich.wapka.mobi

wachakuta:
Wind of Change....

And to be sincere dis con3 is DAMN rich.. asin walai Nigeria is very rich, if we can harness our resources and eliminate corruption, I'm sure FG will be able to pay more than 5k monthly sef...

If u ain't happy wiv dis Govt u have my permission to stay sober for d rest of ur miserable life...