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Afikoo:
While Nigerians are dragging Emdee from Osun State for snitching on Jappa Nigerians, a video of an Igbo Man Dr Okorocha who is a medical doctor in the UK where he defended Jappa Nigerians while granting an interview to a UK Media .

Watch the video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUVz8wML3C8

this is d problem with u annoying people


U are already turning this to a tribal thing

The guy goofed n everyone is angry with the idiot, don’t make it tribal

CuriousMind2022:
Pocohantas, you're a very popular moniker here, so I know you very well. And I will take my time to respond to you. This is also my alternate moniker, which I created last year while my marriage was on the verge of collapsing.

You read my thread and I don't blame you for making the assumptions that you made.

March 22, 2022, is a day I will never forget in my life. On that fateful day, my wife and I had a fight and she pulled five kitchen knives on me, that she will kill me, kill herself and then call our parents to come take our baby. Unknowingly, to me, my wife whom I married had become filled with so much resentment for me. She literarily saw me as a filthy person, because of my bad habits then. I was consumed in lust and masturbation, I wake up in the mornings then and the first thing I do is to start surfing Instagram admiring all manner of women with big butts. Slowly, I became obsessed with soft porn (At the time I told myself I wasn't doing pornography because I don't watch pornstars have sex).
Thankfully, after I shared my ordeal here last year, I got to know that I was actually doing soft porn.

After the fight last year, I left my house to go live with my elder brother. I actually stayed there for about 3 weeks, before the issue was resolved and I returned back home. It took interventions from 2 of our pastors and my elder brother and his wife to resolve the issue. My wife is a sensitive person, and I didn't know she had hacked my phone and was seeing everything I was doing on the internet. She literarily knew the names of the handles, I loved visiting. This caused her to hate me so much! She didn't see the other good things I was doing. Well, I didn't really blame her for that.

After that terrible incident, I blamed myself for everything that happened. I still remember, how I wept in my elder brother's...I kept on calling my name and telling myself that see how I had allowed lust and pervasion to ruin my home. I was broken, and I cried to God to help me overcome those bad habits and restore my home. Thankfully, God help me. The first thing I had to do was to come out clean! I confessed to my pastors and my elder brother the real problem in my home.

As a Christian, I have come to know that the only way to be free from such secret and destructive sin as pornography and masturbation is by coming out publicly.

Aside from coming out publicly, I took some drastic steps. I deleted all my social media accounts (Instagram, Facebook, and even WhatsApp). I also did away with using and having a smartphone, I used torchlight for a very long time just to avoid stumbling on my triggers on the internet. Just to add, that it was also quite easy for me to overcome those bad habits of mine because I was not really an addict as my wife thought. I started masturbating when I was already a full-grown man, I loved looking at beautiful women and that was actually the part that I struggled with. But thankfully, God helped me and even now I can boldly share my story anywhere I was once trapped in the web of soft pornography, but God helped me to overcome it.

I really didn't owe you this explanation, but I saw the need to clear you on this that what you read in my thread last year, is an old me.

As I stated in my original post in this thread, I still believe my wife's background is what is chiefly affecting her. And she is not the type that listens to advice, if not she probably would have improved. I still remember the battles we had to fight both physically and spiritually before we could get married. Her family practically did not want her to get married.

u cry because of woman matter

U no get sense, no wonder she dey do u bad

So if u come give another girl belle na to kill your self right?

I keep asking myself who raised all these mumu men

Klass99:
Aww......you genuinely sound like a good man. It's sad you are not getting the love and attention you want or deserve.

Actions speak louder than words! Perhaps you need to change the narrative for her to get better results in your marriage.

Notice I didn't say talk to her or verbally communicate your concerns. Show her what you can do by your actions, show her that two can play this game she's playing. Don't buy into the narrative that two wrongs don't make a right.

From personal experience two wrongs do make a right - it is called giving people a dose of their own medicine, which usually pains them and they know not to mess with you again or they adjust their conduct. But it's your call.

op

See a lady telling u how to b a man, my own rule is that I don’t have a way of treating people I will treat u same way u treat me

That’s my principle for everyone I meet, if u treat me right I will give u d right energy n if otherwise I go do u bad

Me I no get nice attitude

CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.

who raised all these mumu men self?

blowjohn:
40 brain boxes in 1 day? Haba na!

This guy wants to enter jail by force.
Now he has to provide evidence.

Fake news is a very annoying , bad and dangerous thing.

Brain box na the new human kidney wey Dem go thief 40 in one area in one day?

Abi brain box na car antenna?


Let him name the street it happened.
We r waiting

d mumus think say brain box na side mirror

Jogs1900:
Moreover, I think the ones they target are usually Toyota cars because theres a ready made market for Toyota parts.
Now, does it mean they parked 40 Toyota cars at once in a street?

i tire ooo

Cchuks27:
Oh, this is great news! I wish private citizens and businesses could invest in the Nigerian football league. This will be a great source of employment. Just imagine, paying a player N100K or N200K per week.

nigeria league that home don’t lose

ezugegere:
Imagine comparing removing tyre with brainbox. na wa o!

wait

So u don’t know it takes longer time to remove brain box

How many minutes will it take to remove just 1 tyre of a car?

ezugegere:
The day they vandalized 7 cars in my close, our security guard was tied and nobody was aware of the operation until they left. I don't know whether they used juju or not or it was because of generator noises. But it is foolish to dismiss a report without carrying out investigation

it is madness to believe brain boxes of 40 cars will b removed n nobody will know

Remove d security guards from d equation, so all d owners of 40 cars won’t know or hear about anything throughout

U better go n arrest d guards n let them pay asap

ezugegere:
Hmmm... I give up on you!

how many minutes does it take to remove 1 car tyre?
Lets start from there cos it’s obvious u don’t know d meaning of a brain box

If it take u 5 minutes to remove just 1 tire then I can bet u it will take over 20 minutes to remove brain box

Now so the maths n relate it with 40 cars


Just remove emotions while reasoning abeg

ezugegere:
Go and verify and receive sense!

40 brain boxes removed
Security officers tied

N nobody saw or knew anything

Slurity:
How many hours do you think you will need to remove a car brain box?

abeg help me ask d guy ooo?

Once they want to criticize they lose their sense

Imagine the way they reason, no wonder buhari they call dullard keep winning them

Slurity:
RUFAI need to understands things that are not in his line of profession before attacking it with blind eyes. You will need a lots of workers to work several hours to remove just 10 brain box, say less 40.

ezegegere

Is this not the same thing I have been telling u

So they will remove 40 brain boxes n nobody will see them?

ezugegere:
Which village are you typing this rubbish sef? Come to Lagos, enter one small street and count cars... Na wa o

so in the whole street nobody knew when robbers removed 40 brain boxes at night?

Same Lagos or another one

No wonder buhari is always winning, look at the argument of people criticizing him

U can never win any argument with this your line of thinking

40 cars are parked n nobody knew or saw anyone

I guess does thieves used juju or they didn’t need light to remove brain box…


Bro we are talking about brain box n not side mirror, like brain box of a car n not side mirror

Cos it’s like u think it’s something that can b removed in 2 minutes

I mean brain box
Like brain box

We ain’t talking side mirror or car logo

Even to remove ordinary tyre u will use at least 5 minutes

Imagine time that will b taken to remove 1 tyre of a car not to talk of removing 40 tyres of 40 cars

Then think about how hard it will b to remove 40 brain boxes

There’s no way u won’t use light

So nobody saw light for good 1 hour

mokwechineme:
This one really looks like ojuju calabar. This one that terribly looks this depressingly emaciated like this. I believe the north knew the game they are playing.

another Igbo wailer

ezugegere:
Where did you see "broad daylight" in the tweet?

even at night

Tell me d possibilities, for 40 cars to b parked in a particular locality it means they at least have average citizens like middle class people who can pay night guards or security

So security officers weren’t around n nobody heard any noise n nobody was awake n nobody sensed any move n nobody saw at least a flash of light?

Na wah for u ooo

Even if u don’t have a car u can go to a mechanic workshop n make enquiries

If u tell me 1 or 2 I will believe but 40 is too much bro

ezugegere:
What is it about 40? Do you know how many the criminals are? How many minutes does it take to remove a brainbox? You mumu like that PPRO!

it’s obvious u don’t know anything about cars

Read on how to remove brain boxes n come back here

For them to remove 40 it means they are more that 15 in number n let’s agree it take 5 minutes to remove one brain box meaning averagely they will b dere close to an hour no matter their number or how fast they are

So thieves robbed in broad daylight for good 1 hour n nobody knew about it n nothing happened

Even unknown gunmen that operate in minutes people still make videos of them

Criticize but use your head n don’t argue blindly

ezugegere:
In my close of about 30 houses, they vandalized 7 cars in one night. These happen in Festac on regular bases. How many people do you think will go to police station to report?
This guy is the most useless PPRO in Nigeria!

one night not broad daylight guy

jude33084:
4 was taken from cars in my street in one day, a street of less than 12 houses in Bariga.

Think well

use your head

They say 40 not 4!!!

If u know how brain box is removed u won’t support rufai

He should name d street now

So thieves calm down remove 40 brain boxes n nobody knows n it’s not even trending on social media

This rufai na grade A mumu, all because he wants to stay relevant to please d headless mob

How can 40 brain boxes b stolen in broad daylight without resistance?
Like 40?

Brain box no b side mirror oooo

gidgiddy:
His host? You host a foreigner, you dont host a person in their own country.

Eze Ndigbo threatend nobody, he was talking about protecting lives and property at a time his people and businesses were being attacked in Lagos

Nigeria is a funny place where mere words uttered by a 70 year old man in his house amounts to terrorism worth detaing for months, but verbally and physically assaulting a Police officer gets you out in a week

Something is wrong somewhere

i have always maintained u are far from intelligent

Go to America n tell them u will invite Al quaeda to protect u n see what will happen then compare the case with a person who slap a police in USA

The problem with u igbos is that u complicate issue by not agreeing u made a mistake

Same thing Chinedu should do prior to d election, he should have just apologize to Yorubas n move on but igbos were busy telling him he did no wrong

U igbos will never agree u make mistake

simfrost90210:
I understand politeness perfectly
I can always misunderstand being rude🙄
Be Properly Guided


Greetings From Here..

I no dey send u from here

xpressionx:
Congratulations nigerian


They will rush to Congratulate him too for running for office in another man's continent,yet they didn't want other tribes to vote in their state.

Hypocrisy.

This is what you get when Thugs are in charge,an the so called educated ones are their spokesperson

can u igbos even allow people live peacefully in your region?

Cooly100:
This is all you have to offer...no shame...

Lets see if you will buy stuffs and services in APC shops...and other decent Nigeria will buy on the other side with wailing and weeping

shebi na this same Nigeria u igbos wan rule?
Shebi na we go still vote u?
Lets see how it goes

It will b easy for shekau to rule Nigeria than any Igbo dead or alive

simfrost90210:
Okay Okay...
You and your family will be thrown into eternal damnation.. It's alright.. I understand you..
You all should perish well in hell.. 👍
So shall it be to you and your posterity as it is returned to you in Uncountable Folds...

Just pass ur info without being rude, Nnaa

hatefilled Igbo

U will b talk to in d language u understand

Cooldowntemper:
Stop typing on hungry stomach.

Makes you incoherent

this thing go pain igbos

Just try to get down n 50 men from nowhere will rush u

simfrost90210:
😓😓😓 that's the point ...
If anything will be done to stop him, it has to be before 29th May.. If he should be sworn in, then, it's clear GOD has turned HIS back on this country in HIS anger because unforeseeable stuffs, or rather, seeable stuffs will definitely throw everyone off their feet..
May GOD Save And Help Us All..

#unfortunate-selection2023

will throw u n your family off your feet n into eternal damnation


I will make it in this government in Jesus name

Penguin2:
Lol!

They’ve come to tell him that he will be sacked on Friday. That he has the option to get a soft landing by quietly leaving Nigeria.

Or stay and face disgrace by being arrested and thrown to jail like a common criminal he is.

Tinubu will soon find out that Nigeria is bigger than what one man can dare to kidnap.

see a typical Igbo hater thinking

U people are known for building castles in d air n being delusional

When will trump come n conduct referendum in Nigeria?

Joke apart

This thing go pain d igbos

Raskimonojendor:
What has Ibo got to do with the thread and I don't know of anyone holding ibos back from moving to the east. Mtchew.

the op is another pained Igbo on d lose

Check all his posts n comments

EmekaStanley:
If I do drugs and sell drugs
Wrecking numerous lives for financial gains
Whether I am convicted or not
Can I still be President?

Does it really matter?
Does it matter that I promote thuggery by my indifference or hidden support?
I mean I could still hire a thug to work for me in government
And turn deaf ears when he or she threatens people for my political gains
Can I still be President?

I could be very rich without a legitimate or traceable source of livelihood
I could be a kidnapper, a fraudster or a thief
So long as I am able to raise money to purchase nomination forms
Can I still be President?

If I am straightforward, truthful and honest
Exhibiting leadership qualities that will move a nation forward
But not enough money to bribe delegates and judges
Can I still be President?

If I am accountable and demand same
If I decline to share Nigeria’s money to a few and impoverish the masses
If I am to operate a government of transparency
Can I still be President?

For the sake of the born and the unborn Nigerian child, yes I can
For the good of the nation, yes I can be President


May this land and all who live herein reject those who do not want her good.
May justice prevail in our courts.
May evil face defeat in all fronts
May the forces of nature always work in defense of our nation’s sanity and sanctity




Emeka Stanley

it’s funny how it is d igbos that are calling tinubu drug baron

The same Igbo that each family has a representative in India prison

99.9% of them should never b trusted, the only time u should do business with them is when u are ready to lose your life

A tribe that every other ethnic group avoid like plague