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Bigkoko:
I do not reply to kids living on 30K propaganda stipends. With love & evidences, the Nigerian people, whose mandate was stolen, would be recover. HE Peter Obi, would never shout "Grab it". So his Obidient Movement worldwide would be like their principal; HE Peter Obi, a fine gentleman. Likewise, the corn eaters would be expected to be like Mr Agbado, "Grab it"...lol

so u are saying all those appointments will b reversed?

U lots ain’t fighting only Nigeria, d president n others, u are fighting too political office holders who are gunning for appointments

U n your peter obi can’t handle tinubu let alone now that many are falling in line

Evestar200:
Dear Firstborn Daughters,

Have you ever felt you had more responsibilities than your siblings? Are you expected to serve as a role model? And what have been your greatest challenges or achievements as a firstborn daughter in the African household?

It has not been easy for me, I almost fall into depression one time because of too many expenses.

People will be seeing me as a big girl because of my salary but in reality that money will only be in my account within 10 days of payment and I will have to manage the little one that remains till the next payment.

One day I sit myself down, talk sense into myself and removed two of my brothers from my budget.

As for now, the only people am responsible for are my Mom and our last born.

My neighbours in School then and friends will be saying I want to be like you, I will always warn them not to wish for that because of the money I received, they can't manage what I am passing through.

only first born from poor family suffer, for my family nobody dey call anyone for money

Na during birthday I even dey send money to my siblings kids

The idea of first born suffering is only applicable to poor families

No cap

MemoriesAndMe:
Actually that may not be the case based on OP's points, everything takes planning though.

If u think about it, some people rely on family and friends to support their weddings financially, some even take out loans to make the wedding happen, without thinking about paying back the family and friends that supported their weddings.

Suddenly, the same couple have a child and start bugging same family and friends for the needs of the baby. That's lack of planning in my opinion.

No one should pressurize anyone into having kids as soon as they get married because they don't know the financial stand within their new home.

your line 2 n 3 is pure madness on d part of d couple

U marry when u can take care of yourself not been dependent on anyone cos everyone got bills to pay

We expect our customers to come n wail as usual

Skyview01:
This is a big question I try to wrap my head around and not getting any answer.

I see a lot of couple stressed out financially after marriage and within six month, the wife is pregnant.

If the wife is not pregnant after six months, the parents are worried if something is wrong with the woman or the man and the couple start getting strange stares from the pastor and members of the church.

Why not have a three year family planning immediately after the wedding, this has lots of advantage, first the couple is able to recover from the wedding, secondly, they are able to save and prepare for the arrival of babies, also they are able to enjoy each other before the babies.

This is a wrong aspect of our culture i would like to see changed in our society and its affecting marriages.


Whats your thought?

so are u expecting people to go for family planning after wedding abi or u still want them to b using condom after marriage?

At least let’s see who they will blame for this one now, Shebi they claimed it was because they didn’t vote sanwo olu in lagos

Lets see their latest line of victim mentality now

Those people will come to cry in no time

Fintiri:
I foresee a catastrophic action happening in Nigeria between ethnic regions that used to be best pals.

These regions inter marry , do businesses together loved each other but due to politics that love crumbled.


The other region that other regions combined to hate earlier is now laughing at the 2 foolish regons .

I wait and watch who will laugh last and the lessons to be learnt from this brewing fire.


Shiek Fintiri......

shinedu

Well done

Debater:
Dear Nairalanders,

In the vibrant online community of Nairaland and across Nigeria, the Igbos and Yorubas often find themselves locked in heated debates and disagreements. This article delves into the reasons behind this discord, offers insights into bridging the gap, and explores the potential for unity in a language that resonates with the layman.

The Power of Diversity
Nigeria, our great nation, is a tapestry of diverse cultures and ethnicities. The Igbos and Yorubas represent two vibrant threads in this beautiful fabric, each with their unique customs and traditions. Yet, it is this diversity that should enrich us, not divide us.

Historical Tensions
Our history carries scars that sometimes fuel misunderstandings between the Igbos and Yorubas. But let us not be trapped in the past. Instead, let us embrace the present and shape a future where unity prevails.

The Nairaland Arena
Nairaland, our virtual meeting place, can be a battleground of ideas and opinions. It is here that conflicts arise, where some voices sow discord. Take APCHaram, for instance. His offensive comments against the Igbo tribe stoke the flames of division. But we must remember: APCHaram is an individual, not the embodiment of an entire ethnic group.

Breaking Stereotypes
Stereotypes often hold us back from embracing our shared humanity. Let us challenge these stereotypes head-on, for they limit our understanding of one another. Don't let the actions of a few overshadow the diversity and beauty within the Igbos and Yorubas.

Embracing Our Shared Struggles
Real-life stories can bridge the gap between us. Remember the Igbo and Yoruba entrepreneurs collaborating on business ventures, defying the odds? They remind us that our destinies are intertwined, that we thrive when we work together.

The Power of Dialogue
Dialogue is the key that unlocks understanding. Engage in conversations that foster empathy and respect. Seek to understand, rather than to win. Let your words be bridges, connecting hearts and minds.

Embracing Our Unity
Our strength lies in unity, not in division. As Nigerians, we must reject the notion that the Igbos and Yorubas are always at odds. Look beyond the online clashes and recognize the countless moments of unity that define our shared existence.

Reporting for Change
Let us stand against hate speech, regardless of the ethnic group involved. When we report offensive behavior, we contribute to the creation of a healthier online space for all. It is a collective responsibility.


My Conclusion
In the realm of Nairaland and across Nigeria, the Igbos and Yorubas need not be eternally at loggerheads. By embracing our diversity, challenging stereotypes, engaging in dialogue, and celebrating our shared struggles, we can forge a path towards unity. Let us be the generation that breaks the cycle of discord, that creates a Nigeria where our diversity is our strength, and where the Igbos and Yorubas walk hand in hand towards a brighter future.
As I don report APCHaram, e come lead to hin ban, e show say our reporting na im make sense. E show say we fit make change for Nairaland. Na our collective responsibility to dey report any person wey dey spread hate speech or violate ethnic and tribal rules, whether na Igbo, Yoruba, or any other tribe. We go fit create safe and better environment for everybody for inside Nairaland.

So make una join me hand-in-hand, make we dey report any behavior wey no dey right. Make we show say we no go tolerate hate speech or divisive actions. As we work together, we go fit build one Nairaland wey dey celebrate unity, respect, and inclusivity.


Chukwu gozie Naijiria
Olorun bukun Naijiriya
Allah ya taimaki Naijeriya


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Please, it would be great if you could move this thread to the Front Page for sensitisation purposes.
Thank you and God bless. 🙏

u no well

U report apcharam but u no report corridon aka fahdiga aka Kriss216
U no report any Igbo moniker n for your mind u want peace

2 people are fighting n u are forming peacemaker but u slap one n u no touch d other one

No b craze b dat

Mynd44:
This entire thread is a joke

imagine someone saying they prefer governor to fix road that tackle insecurity

So if people security isn’t guaranteed who will ply d road

Penguin2:
Oh really?

We are talking national election?

Did Obi contest the 2023 presidential election under PDP?🤔

u igbos voted for Labour Party cos u felt cheated by pdp

Labour Party is an affiliate of pdp n u know that

If peter obi n Labour Party wasn’t in d picture u igbos will still gladly vote pdp


Yes or no?

yolada:
I'm not from Akwa Ibom state ohh which other business do you suggest? Why not POS? That's the easiest I know to start up that is not capital intensive. Although I'm also considering buying a used bike for someone to ride for me and pay me weekly

ahh this boy

I didn’t even read this part, so u want to go to a place u don’t know anybody n u want to buy bike for someone that knows everybody

What if after taking d bike he tells u d bike was stolen n he himself reported d case to d police n connived with them?

What if he takes your bike n kill u since u don’t know anybody?

Guy small boy dey worry u, it’s obvious u haven’t seen anything in life

I pray u don’t put yourself in trouble with this path u want to tow

yolada:
it's "course of action", not "cause of action"...Thanks though

u still dey correct people English

We wait for your subsequent threads in few months time

yolada:
Please get the fu*k out of here. They are not aware, go and tell them. Asking stupid questions. Someone asked for a simple advice you don turn am to interrogation. They are not aware that I dropped out, go and tell them... Can't some of you be reasonable sef?

u are not wise

Someone is asking u a reasonable question as regards what u asked n u are angry, I believe u will take advice from anyone who doesn’t care so far it suits your narrative

See if truly u drop out n u think one million will make u for life I can tell u wholeheartedly today that u will squander d money n go back to those same parents, this time they will put u in mechanic shop n enrol u in part time so u can have sense

U think 1m is that much abi, in few months time when u make useless decisions your eye go clear

BigBlackPreek:
Peter The Rock!

which rock again?

Person wey dey chop shit back to back

To u he might b a rock but to other tribes na ordinary sand for filling gutter

Strafudeen:
Useless liars , Peter obi keeps tormenting you in your dreams

u are no longer a northerner right?

This obi never know wetin wan hit an

E go shock them

Brek:
I'll drop this here

from 99 to 2023 have igbos ever voted anyt other party aside pdp?

Penguin2:
Igbos are not united yet they keep voting in one direction?

Define unity 🧐

igbos keep voting pdp not candidate

Get that

Solidkay:
The Igbos voting for PO in the just concluded general election is on the ground of competence,
Mind you, it wasn't just the Igbos that voted massively for PO, but the Yorubas too,
Is see no tribal bigotry there.

which Yoruba vote obi?

Y didn’t obi get votes outside lagos?

ekineme:
Some people like this OP has a real life problem, Do you the population of Liberia? How many people's comment are negative?

All I can see is the obsession of the OP On the "Igbos". Probably he has an Igbo neighbor or friends doing well in Life.

follow sizokthola on social media to see how your Igbo brothers are messing up there

In one of d guy’s videos he asked d guy if he’s Nigerian n d next question he said, from south east rift?

Many people are knowing u for who u are, I have also forgotten d name of d guys bursting u igbos in india

Strafudeen:
He laughed at shared cracked blasphemous jokes about Jesus and Mary magdalene

He denied southern kaduna basic dividends of leadership..no roads in sabon tashi, gonin gora, television, romi, trikania, karatudu, federal housing....all Christian dominated areas

He disproportionately gave social amenities to Muslim areas like tudun wada, malali, ungwR rimi, badarawa, kawo, etc


He secretly told people close to him that he was motivated by suppression of Christianity to do his Muslim Muslim ticket

He excluded Christians from leadership

He exudes hate for Christians that is almost pathological

El rufai is a very committed hater of Christianity, I hope he lives and dies with that hate while Christianity continues to grow in northern Nigeria, and southern kaduna continues to refuse to bow to islamization

El rufai...take your roads and your amenities and all, deny Christians everything, we WILL NEVER CONVERT TO ISLAM

typical Igbo n hogwash

I guess el rufai is d next victim of blame

Ceenachi:
This is unbelievable
MC Oluomo's son graduated from Ivy League University like MIT
Nairalander proteges agberos like Leodking, Helinus and co should receive sense.

so what should igbos receive?

Taylor90:
While Helinus madridguy BBQguy LeoDeking, and the rest of them are busy defending their oppressors and slave masters while their kids flourish

APC online soldiers how do you people cope with 30k monthly while touring from one thread to another defending Tinubu & Buhari

APC supporters Ntorrrr

A group of evil men that has stolen your future and that of your generation

I mean MC Oluomo of Kwara State came to Lagos & held y'all hostage una dey praise am while y’all perish in penury

A very big CONGRATULATIONS to Mc Oluomo

May you & your household succeed

Watch how mods will delete my post because i called out a spade. Just watch and you’ll see how biased this forum is

typical delusional Igbo who will never allow imo man amount to anything in anambra

Hate filled folks

Lutherblaq:

If i am Tinubu i will make this man my mentor swears...

And He don't even keep malice at all

*MODIFIED*
Wait what am i even saying Tinubu has already made him his mentor already by using his tactice and plans he...

your dealer is legit

Nothing to say

Felaincarnated:
Is urs any beta? Unity beggars

who is begging u people for unity?

U wey come out vote 99% for last election

ArcSEMPECJ:
And your pretentious lifestyle points to people from your side....

I don't think I have ever seen you condemn the tribal attacks being melted on Igbos here , if this thread ever said this happened in Anambra or South East, I know you will be number one to shout IPOB and (PitOBI)...

You don't have any moral justification to point out any tribal issue here because you areone of them....

Show me a prove where you have condemned your tribe's character in this forum and I will apologise....

guy get lost with your gibberish

Save it for d next conspiracy theory u n your tribe are cooking

shevchenko:
ol boy no go get high blood pressure ontop 20 k wey dem dey pay you

typical hogwash

So it’s no longer 30k u delusional toy

No wonder many of u believe trump will come n conduct referendum in Nigeria