My wife had some secret texting relations with her friend and since bill comes to me I happened to note this and had an open discussion with her.
Now she has stopped texting that person. Also removed all his contacts from her phone. But she says she is afraid to connect to internet.

How I should take this. Whether afraid of some posts which I may see or Any Character changes in me upon seeing the posts she receive.

How far I can trust her in this issue

I had found my wife texting her ex Co-Worker who is a guy. She used to sent messages as SMS, WhatsApp and FB Messenger. Number she uses is a combo number of my number and hence its bill used to come to my mail id. I noticed that these messages were sent on days when I am not in station. Also messages are deleted so don't have any clue of the discussion.

I discussed with her openly and she messaged that guy not to sent any more messages as I dislike. With her permission I have blocked him on FB and WhatsApp. Also in Phone I added him to reject list. So far every thing is going fine.

Can I trust on the present scenario or should be cautious? Your Opinion Please...

Thanks all for your valuable advices. will make necessary changes in life and also openly speak to her on this. We are married since 12 years with 2 kids and can't easily throw her away.

I had given my wife all the liberty to use facebook, whatsapp and other internet applications. She is not a regular user of these applications. One of her co worker(married with one kid) whom she had a bad remark, like he is always chatting with some other lady who is also married. She had a negative remark of this person. After few months this guy turn to be in her friend circle and occasionally she used to tell me details which sounds different from earlier comments and sound good about that guy.

Later he started to sent 'Hi', 'How r u' etc in Whatsapp and facebook and she used to show me and reply with my permission. I took this as a good friendship and did not noticed much about it. In recent one month somehow I started checking the messages. The messages were normal and nothing sounds different.

He got another job and maintained this friendship. What surprised me us in addition to messages in facebook or whatsapp, they communicate also in SMS but content is very decent. The count of communication has increased and now a days she dont tell or show his messages may be she might be thinking that I am convinced of their friendship.

My wife basically hesitate to send messages if I ask to send details of any things to buy from shop and also was very cautious of not wasting money by SMS. But now she replies to all his SMS and not bothered about cost.

Few days back I openely discussed this with her and she told you can check our messages any time and there is nothing of bad nature. Also she said since I dont like this she will stop sending messages. infact he used to send messages between night 9.30 to 11. Since I objected she messaged him in front of me that not to send messages as I dont like that.

what worrying me is whether this communication continues and if the messages are deleted I wont come to know.

So far both of them have not dealt in a wrong way. Reading above what do you feel whether this is a good relation or shall I put constraints on it. Also how will I bring back my wife from this relation though it is not crossed boundaries so far