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goodlifeben:

goodlifeben:
There never really should be any reason why you should not date or be with the person you love except for reasons of genuine incompatibility. And that’s the type that is determined by the absence if a common ground on major values personally held, and an inability to actually gel or really connect as two individuals.
Other things like age, tribe, ethnicity and colour should not really matter insofar as that connection and genuine compatibility is established. So as a woman, if you are with a younger man, you really have nothing to worry about, nor any opinion to be bothered about, provided that your relationship with that man meets the requirements stated above.
However, for your relationship with a younger man to thrive, there are some things you should not do. All the normal relationship things that many people do not like should logically be avoided. Lies, unfaithfulness, keeping side guys, disloyalty, lack of emotional intelligence, failure to support their dreams, etc, should be shunned. It’s a no brainer that for many relationships to thrive, regardless of the age formation, these are things to avoid.
In the case where an older woman and a younger man are involved, however, one more thing to specially avoid is what I’d love to call the ‘older sister’ syndrome. Especially if he is like three or more years younger, you may want to fall into this trap of relating with him like a big sis but you need to watch it. Whenever your communication to him is toeing this line, back off.
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According to a piece published by Karen Fratti for HelloGiggles in April 2017;
“Don’t try to give them advice or “when I was your age” lectures. If this is the first time they lost a job, been dumped, had to move to

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http://www.storyaim.com/2018/09/things-not-to-do-when-dating-younger-man.html?m=1

goodlifeben:
There never really should be any reason why you should not date or be with the person you love except for reasons of genuine incompatibility. And that’s the type that is determined by the absence if a common ground on major values personally held, and an inability to actually gel or really connect as two individuals.
Other things like age, tribe, ethnicity and colour should not really matter insofar as that connection and genuine compatibility is established. So as a woman, if you are with a younger man, you really have nothing to worry about, nor any opinion to be bothered about, provided that your relationship with that man meets the requirements stated above.
However, for your relationship with a younger man to thrive, there are some things you should not do. All the normal relationship things that many people do not like should logically be avoided. Lies, unfaithfulness, keeping side guys, disloyalty, lack of emotional intelligence, failure to support their dreams, etc, should be shunned. It’s a no brainer that for many relationships to thrive, regardless of the age formation, these are things to avoid.
In the case where an older woman and a younger man are involved, however, one more thing to specially avoid is what I’d love to call the ‘older sister’ syndrome. Especially if he is like three or more years younger, you may want to fall into this trap of relating with him like a big sis but you need to watch it. Whenever your communication to him is toeing this line, back off.
»
According to a piece published by Karen Fratti for HelloGiggles in April 2017;
“Don’t try to give them advice or “when I was your age” lectures. If this is the first time they lost a job, been dumped, had to move to

CLICK HERE TO READ ALL



http://www.storyaim.com/2018/09/things-not-to-do-when-dating-younger-man.html?m=1

Omuneizzy6:
See her face like wilywily I wish you are my sister well, is good when you train up your children in the fear of God not fear of dad and mum