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| Computers / Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by gracechellar(f): 8:01pm On Aug 08|
Please @gracechellar, I'm trying to reach you but i dont understand nairaland much. i sent you an email from nairaland. can you reply please. thank you
I've been trying to log on to my email. Pls I'll contact you. Password issues
| Family / Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by gracechellar(f): 8:01pm On Aug 08|
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.
A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.
Shallow way of thinking.
| Computers / Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by gracechellar(f): 4:05pm On Aug 01|
Please I need some help. The board of my acer laptop isn't good and I need to get another. Even though it's from a second hand laptop.
Please someone should help me as I can't afford a new laptop just yet
| Business / Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by gracechellar(f): 8:54pm On Apr 16|
Idumota is d main point where all stuffs produced in commercial cities in nigeria; lagos, onitcha, abah etc are sold in wholesale and retail quantities to d final consumers who come from far and wide and other african countires.
Marina is d stretch of road dat starts frm 1st bank head office to uba head office.
Tinubu idumota is d mouth of idumota where u have d tinubu square dat has lovely fountains and biutifull ambience. Also d cbn axis is part of tinubu and some neighbouring structures.
Mandillas is d complex where ibo boys sell baffs; jeans, shirt, shoes and in fact anythin baffs (wears).
Af i tried?
do they still say baffs in 2021
| Politics / Re: Governor Okowa Hails Marvin, His Son’s Independence On His Birthday (Photo) by gracechellar(f): 9:02pm On Jan 14|
Why is he hiding the boy's face? DNA!!!
no need! See the head
| Celebrities / Re: Laycon Disappointed Me by gracechellar(f): 10:05pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
During the BBNaija show i supported and voted for Laycon to emerge as the Winner because i was thinking that he would take over from EFE or TOLANI in the music industry as the big thing from BBnaija but very unfortunate the guy fall my hand Big time...
As a music lover that delights in listening to upcoming artistes with the believe that they always have something upstairs to offer i listen to underground artistes when ever am less busy so that i could be able to analyse their lyrics and contents but to be candid Laycon is one of the WACK artistes i have ever listened to.....
His songs lacks direction.........
The productions is below standard.......
The mixing and mastering is very poor for my liking.......
No content in the Lyrics.......
Though am happy for him for winning the grand price and also for the numerous endorsements but musically he have nothing to offer.....
Out of anger and disapointment i deleted all his songs on my playlist but am still one of his fans anyway........
I will still get his songs if he improves but for now,i will avoid his songs like a plaque...
Let me continue listening to..
And many more new face wey get oil for head...
Pele o. He is still making his money. Your opinion doesn't matter in his life
| Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gracechellar(f): 11:15pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
No bro... Any woman can keep you company all the way. God designed women for multiplication
I'm not bro. THanks. For didn't design any woman to keep you company. it's the wife. He didn't make eve to make babies
| Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gracechellar(f): 11:14pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
The pressure to get married in African societies is much stronger. Don't you even go there.
true. I didn't deny it. I only said it's everywhere and people choose the kind of pressure they wanna listen to
| Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gracechellar(f): 11:13pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
When you have companionship for 50years without issue, then your eyes go clear well well, you will soon know wipe Eran to Yi ni won pe ni NOMO!
| Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gracechellar(f): 3:36pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
how many people married the right person. This is africa where everybody is under pressure to get married and have kids b4 its too late
pressure is everywhere. it's not an African thing but a societal thing
| Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gracechellar(f): 3:36pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Marriage is like every other business, just make sure you are the boss all the way. The aim of business is to make profit and the aim of marriage is to make legal babies. Which ever one, make sure you are the boss. During dating, sack anyone who is likely to challenge your captainship and marry the best subordinate. Na men dey bring wahala to themselves not screening the lady before marriage.
the aim of marriage isn't for babies. it's for companionship pls
| Family / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gracechellar(f): 3:35pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .
every married person regrets at some point in their marriage
| Health / Re: Please Help, I'm Always Fatigued And I Sleep A lot. by gracechellar(f): 7:20pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Why do they make joke of this, its not matured behavior, they may be kids
so many children on this forum
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| Health / Re: Please Help, I'm Always Fatigued And I Sleep A lot. by gracechellar(f): 7:18pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Go for deliverance.
This is a spiritual attack on your life.
Pray and God will deliver you.
Everything isn't deliverance. We have been delivered already. Jesus had done it. Stop nailing him to the cross twice
| Health / Re: Please Help, I'm Always Fatigued And I Sleep A lot. by gracechellar(f): 7:17pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Too many kids on this forum.
What if he has an underlying medical condition? A lot of people complain about something similar.
don't mind them. The strike caused it. Sad
| Health / Re: Please Help, I'm Always Fatigued And I Sleep A lot. by gracechellar(f): 7:16pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
what mature response do you want when you already confessed you sleep around like a dog
| Family / Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gracechellar(f): 4:10pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...
Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...
| Family / Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gracechellar(f): 4:09pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Marriage is an achievement to a Lady and to most men a liability. Whenever a man should propose to a lady, the first thing you see is she is crying or shouting out of excitement. She starts flaunting and making paparazzi out of the engagement ring because she has seen some one who has helped her in accomplishing a goal. Just like the feeling of building a house
in addition to this,marriage to a woman is like a childhood fantasy come true. Ever since she was little, she has been made to belief she is a Queen and special so there is a Mr Knight somewhere who will one day marry her and fulfill all her fantasy.
A man looks for financial independence before getting married but a woman crave for good shape and a good dress sense before getting married. She knows all what she needs is a man who can shoulder her responsibilities. that is why men get married late while women get married so early. You hear words like " i need a rich man even though he is ugly"
Also, marriage to a woman is a respect on its own. She is given respect both in and outside her home. At church she is called madam, at work she is called a Mrs and at the society she is called a mother
Finally marriage can be an achievement and also a liability depending who u end up with. they either destroy you or makedo
IELTS band 9
| Family / Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gracechellar(f): 4:09pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Of course, but that's not an achievement, considering the fact that even a madman can impregnate a madwoman.
so mature in thinking
| Celebrities / Re: Nengi: Thick Is The Thigh, Thin In The Waist by gracechellar(f): 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Why do I feel like giving her from Behind?
#Awon liposuction lady!
feel free ma
| Health / Re: What Can I Do To Make Wife's Belly To Be Flat? by gracechellar(f): 3:44pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
I want her to keep looking sexy like a model na.
| Celebrities / Re: Simi Celebrates Her Daughter, Adejare Kosoko, As She Clocks 6 Months Old (Photo) by gracechellar(f): 1:22am On Dec 01, 2020 |
There's nothing compared to a mother's love , for real . I just pray that God grants women still wanting the fruit of the womb their desires.
Modified: to those quoting me , father's love is great too and should be appreciated forever . .....
| Celebrities / Re: Don Jazzy And His Father, Collins Enebeli Pictured Together by gracechellar(f): 1:17am On Dec 01, 2020 |
I don't like this donjazi of a man, if his father behaved the way he's living, he wouldn't have birthed him and coming to show off here.Old man like him still living a single life like a common teenager, it shows he's very irresponsible
do you have someone for him?
| Religion / Re: What Are The Benefits Of Praying In Tongues? - Joseph Prince by gracechellar(f): 8:44pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
What are the benefits of praying in tongues?
What do you do when you have a need? You talk to God in prayer about it and trust Him to provide for you, don’t you?
Now imagine if you had a heavenly prayer language that enables you to always pray perfect prayers in harmony with God’s will, which is to bless you with good and perfect gifts (see James 1:17). This includes divine wisdom, the building up of your spirit and your faith, healing for your body, and wholeness for your mind. Praying in tongues gives you access to all these blessings.
This is why God wants you to receive and utilize this powerful grace gift. It’s one gift with many applications and benefits!
It makes your prayer life powerful and unlimited
Tongues is a language the Holy Spirit puts inside us to express to God everything we are unable to put into words because of our human limitations. It is a powerful prayer gift not limited by distance, time, or head knowledge.
Often, when we have a problem, we may not know everything about it or how to resolve it. Hence, we may pray with limited knowledge or understanding about the situation. But if you pray in the Holy Spirit, you are allowing Him to intercede for you. And the Spirit, who is not limited, knows all things. He knows exactly what the problem is and exactly what you need. He knows how to bring God’s best solution into your situation (see Rom. 8:26–27 NLT). He is able to plead for you in harmony with God’s will and cause everything to work together for good in every area of your life (see Rom. 8:28)!
Did you know that when you pray in tongues, you could also be prophesying good into your future, or even be praying for the protection of your loved one? Martin from Georgia, who has been following my teachings via broadcast in the US, experienced this firsthand:
“One day, after I came home from work, I felt a strong prompting to pray in the Spirit. Even though I had no idea who the prayer was for, I knew that everything was safe in the Lord’s hands.
Later, I received a call no parent would want to get. My daughter, who lives in New Hampshire, had a horrific car accident. According to the state police report, her car had veered off the road at eighty miles per hour and hit a sixty-feet-tall tree. The impact was so great that her car flipped over several times and the engine broke apart.
The accident happened minutes after I prayed. According to my daughter, a state policeman said to her, ‘Lady, you should be dead. I’ve never seen anyone come out of something like this alive!’ Praise God that my daughter only sustained minor bruises and a scratch!
I give Jesus all the praise and glory for saving my daughter’s life that day! What a wonderful Jesus we serve!”
What an amazing testimony! When you pray in the Spirit, you may not know it, but you could be effectively and supernaturally covering your loved ones or your future with God’s protection (while being spared the details that would honestly frighten you). The best part about it is that you can do it as you’re pretty much going about your day. You can pray in the Spirit under your breath as you’re driving, showering, or attending to any mundane chore… and be praying powerful prayers throughout the day!
It builds up your faith
Jude 1:20–21 encourages us to pray in tongues because it builds us up on our most holy faith and keeps us in the love of God. When you pray in tongues, you are reminding yourself that God is working in you, for you, and through you. You are fortifying your inner man. You are strengthening your faith, and keeping yourself in the Lord’s love for you.
Once, as I was studying the Word, the Lord also showed me an inward vision of how when we pray in tongues, a watery shield goes up around us. We’ve learned that water is a picture of the Holy Spirit (see John 7:38–39), but why a shield of water? Because that is how we quench all the fiery darts of the enemy (see Eph. 6:16).
Imagine being constantly surrounded by this powerful shield as you pray in the Spirit while you go about your day. You don’t have to fear the devil’s attacks against you. You can go from faith to faith, walking boldly in the promise that no weapon formed against you or your loved ones shall prosper (see Isa. 54:17)!
It releases rivers of practical supply and life into your situations
What is your need today? God has prepared rivers of practical supply to bring healing, life, and provision for all your challenges. As a new covenant believer, you have full access to these rivers of life through the Holy Spirit. When you pray in the Spirit, you release rivers of His wisdom, supply, and healing into your situations.
Are you hard pressed for a decision regarding your family, your job, your relationships, or your finances? Stir up the reservoir of divine wisdom that is dormant on the inside of you, and release rivers of wisdom to bring light and discernment into your situation.
I’ve found that the more I pray in the Spirit, the more my spirit becomes sensitive to His leading. Similarly, as you practice this gift, you’ll become more familiar with sensing the presence or absence of the Lord’s peace regarding a matter. And the more you learn to recognize and follow His leading of peace, the more you’ll be equipped to make the right decisions, find yourself at the right place at the right time, and experience His protection.
Now, apart from the river of wisdom, there are many other rivers of power that will impart life to your body or circumstances. There is a river of life for a sound mind, a river of love, another river of rest, yet another river of refreshing—all waiting to be released as you pray in the Spirit. Instead of feeling drained and dry of supply, let His living water flow freely as you consistently practice this powerful gift!
It brings divine healing and health to your body and mind
Praying in tongues is a powerful, scriptural way you can experience healing for both your mind and body. If you have been suffering from a painful physical condition, panic attacks, depression, or some other debilitating medical condition, let me show you how using God’s gift of tongues can bring about healing and wholeness to your body and mind.
Look at what the apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14:4—He who speaks in a tongue edifies himself.
According to Thayer’s Greek Lexicon, the word edifies is translated from the Greek word oikodomeo, which means “to build a house, erect a building…to restore by building, to rebuild, repair.”3 Isn’t that interesting, considering that our physical bodies are the houses or temples of God’s Spirit (see 1 Cor. 6:19)? And doesn’t this tell us that as we pray in tongues, we can rebuild or repair our bodies broken down by age, stress, or disease?
You may have heard that when you pray in tongues you edify or charge up only your spirit or inner man. But 1 Corinthians 14:4 doesn’t say that only your inner man is edified. It says that the one who speaks in tongues edifies himself. Does himself include the person’s eyes, ears, nose, kidneys, liver, heart, brain, bones, joints, muscles, nervous system, and every other part of his body? Of course it does!
Beloved, your entire self—spirit, soul, as well as body—gets edified or rebuilt as you pray in tongues. God takes care of the whole package. So don’t limit this restorative effect to just your inner man. Start believing that as you pray in tongues, your body is also getting rejuvenated and repaired.
Perry, a member from my church, wrote to me about how a 29mm cyst found at the head of his pancreas was dramatically reduced in size to 15mm in just two months after he prayed in tongues. As a result, he didn’t have to go through a Whipple procedure—an operation more complex than a heart transplant. This is what he shared:
“When my doctor told me the seriousness of my pancreatic condition and how I might have to have the Whipple operation, I became really frightened and prayed to the Lord for healing. I would pray in tongues during my quiet time as you taught us to. This helped to strengthen my faith and remove negative thoughts. I told God I didn’t want to go through the Whipple procedure and prayed for the cyst to be reduced in size and to disappear eventually.
When I went for the scheduled check-up, I felt a sense of calm and peace in my heart. I continued to pray in tongues as I waited for the medical report. Lo and behold, the cyst had reduced in size to 15mm! It had shrunk by half in two months! The doctors also found it was benign. As such, I only needed to return once a year for a check-up. What a miracle!
I’m continuing to pray in tongues and believe the cyst will completely disappear by the time of my next visit.”
That, my friend, is the power of praying in tongues. Is there an organ in your body that needs repair? A heart that doesn’t always beat right, or perhaps an embarrassing skin condition that has defied all the remedies you have tried? Beloved, whether you have been discouraged by a bad medical report, a long-term health condition, or you are suffering from panic attacks and depression, give it all to the Lord and let His Spirit repair and restore your body and mind. God wants you whole in every way, both inside and out!
It helps you overcome fears
Does fear have a hold on your heart and mind? Perhaps you’re imprisoned by the fear of losing something or someone, of falling sick, or of dying. The Bible tells us clearly that fear “involves torment” (1 John 4:18), something that is not part of God’s will for His children.
How can the gift of tongues deliver us from the bondage of fear? Earlier, we read how praying in the Spirit keeps us in the love of God (see Jude 1:20–21). In talking about how fear involves torment, the apostle John tells us that only the perfect love of God can cast out fear (see 1 John 4:18). So one of the ways to keep ourselves in the love of God is to pray in the Spirit. And as you do, fear will be driven completely out of your life.
Let me show you another scripture about how tongues can drive out fear. In 2 Timothy 1:6–7, Apostle Paul reminds Timothy:
Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
—2 Timothy 1:6–7
In the Greek, the word “gift” here is the word charisma which is grace gift, the same word describing how tongues is a gift of the Spirit (see 1 Cor. 12:4).
Now of all of the gifts of the Spirit, which gift can you stir up at will? I believe Paul is referring to the gift of tongues. Paul was reminding Timothy that stirring up the gift of tongues is key to living free of fear and experiencing power, love, and a sound mind—blessings that are also your inheritance in Christ.
Let me show you how this happened for Nancy from North Carolina. Already baptized in the Holy Spirit, she took special notice when she heard me teach on how praying in tongues could take away our fears and anxieties. That piqued her interest because she had become very fearful of driving in thunder and rainstorms. She told me:
“After watching that sermon on tongues, I had the opportunity to pray in tongues through a bad storm while driving. Instead of panicking, I began to pray in tongues before I approached the storm and kept praying in tongues until I had driven out of it. All during that time, I was at total peace with no panic or anxiety. It was amazing!
I praise God that He brought me through this! I learned to fix my eyes on Jesus as I prayed in tongues and today, I have no more fear of storms!”
If like Nancy, there is something that you are fearful about—it could be your health, children, or future—I encourage you to pray in tongues. As you do, like Nancy, you will find your fears supernaturally replaced by God’s love and perfect peace, and experience victory over fear and anxiety.
My friend, whatever your challenge is today, I want you to know God loves you and has already provided all that you need. Tap into His grace gift of tongues and experience rivers of His power, supply, and life for every challenging circumstance today!
ThAnks for this. Wonderful write up
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| Celebrities / Re: Betty Irabor: “I Once Had Miscarriage. It Was A Bloody Experience” by gracechellar(f): 9:11pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
There is nothing that can be done about a miscarriage.
In most cases, a pregnancy ends in miscarriage due to chromosomal defects from either the sperm or the egg. The body recognizes it's not viable and ends it.
Sadly, most women don't like to talk about it because of comments like the one below me.
A loss is a loss, either as miscarriage, still birth or dead child.
Let people heal whichever way they want to.
Talking about it helps, getting support groups that will encourage you psychologically also helps.
There a reason Meghan Merkle talked about her latest miscarriage in July, it is a part of her healing process.
wow! DidN't know about Meghan. sAd
| Politics / Re: #EndSARS: I still carry bullets in my body — Lekki Toll Shooting Survivor by gracechellar(f): 8:59pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
And you wanted him dead?
don't mind the witch
| Romance / Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by gracechellar(f): 1:33pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair.
I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now.
Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks
you too go and be staying with her in the staff quarters there... If she can't come then you go. marriage is all about sacrifice
| Celebrities / Re: Mercy Johnson Celebrates Henry Okojie, Her Son’s 6th Birthday With 5 Cakes by gracechellar(f): 9:53am On Nov 06, 2020 |
One of the easiest way to hold a man down is to born plenty for him head,let me see how he will have spear time and resources to mess around,mercy is exactly doing that LMAO
born plenty, man that wanna leave will leave
| Family / Re: RRS Operatives Rescue Stranded Girl On Third Mainland Bridge (Photo) by gracechellar(f): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Congratulations on the rescue but we're still angry with you people. So many innocent bloods you guys murdered in the past and present are crying out for Justice.
Rrs are not the people you should be angry with
| Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by gracechellar(f): 9:38pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Hello seniors in the house, this is my question, can one who has a master's already in Nigeria apply for a master's degree program again in Canada?, I graduated with a 2.2 at first degree and I have Master's already in Nigeria but I really want to boost my employability when I get to Canada because I have less than 2 years work experience here in Nigeria. Does it make any tangible sense to apply for a Master's again in Canada with my Master's degree transcript(2.1) since most Canadian universities don't accept 2.2 undergraduate degree.
Please, some one should help me here, thanks.