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Bros, there are men that no matter how good and outstanding a lady is they'll still will use and dump her. Same with women.

So there's no one formula that works for all situations in this relationship thing.

Xisnin:
No, you believed him because he cooked up a story to whip up sympathy.
I don't need to be there to know that the scumbag is a rapist.Note that he admitted
being a rapist(forcing her against her wish). Whatever
fictitious reason he gave for raping her is immaterial. I hope the lady has enough courage
to ruin his life.

Empty.

Xisnin:
So long as the law takes rape seriously, rapist will always be on the losing end.
How do you think he continued the sex after she said no?
By forcing her of course. Him adding after she came was a ploy to draw sympathy.
He was inflicting pain on her when she told him to stop but he refused, he is a scum.

Oga, were you there? Can you prove any of these things you claimed happened between them.

Since you can't, your assertion is just an assumption and anyone can assume anything in this case. Without proof all is rubbish.

When sycophants are renamed "big boys".

... and be big like me...


Really!! that statement though.

cococandy:
Explain to me how feminism relates to this topic

You again, you want another e-fight. Abeg I no get power.

Ikebesupa:
Please I need information on how to go about this sore throat of a thing. It has been going on for over 2weeks now. I have been to the pharmacy. Get some drugs for that but it keeps coming back after over 24 hours. Please any body know what else I can do? It's really making me uncomfortable. I can't eat in peace again, I can swallow saliva again in peace. Please help

For best see a qualified doctor.

Go get yourself garlic, ginger with bitter cola. Wash and Chew raw. Small quantities at a time.

While you're at it stop taking milk, beverages, sugar or sugary drinks of any type. Suspend intake of any acidic fruits like oranges, pineapples cos the acid irritates the already vulnerable throat lining for some people.

Don't ever attempt any form of chilled water and drinks. Drink warm water always. Not warm enough to burn and irritate your throat linings.

Take high dose vitamin C of 500mg for some days. Swallow with water and don't chew.

Do all the above and you should be fine.

You immune system is possibly weak but a doctor can confirm that.

I concur..... totally !

I concur.... totally!

donstan18:
The guy got the lady wrong ,not that I'm supporting the lady, but I perfectly understood what she did and what she wanted from the guy, it takes a sexual inclined guy to translate and give meaning to the words of women before, during and after sex

They can be funny with words, and it'll take your bad self to interpret their words during romance it's just like when you are caressing and making utterances to a girl for sex and she says You ehh, Stop joor, I'm not in the mood jare, better stop before i'll chop off that your d*ck, leave me joor , you shouldn't just conclude that she don't want, what you'll should do is to read and observe her body movement, , no girl will want to hastily allow you penetrate for the first time without some pretending words, it's left for you to decode.

I mean, both of them have been hyping themselves on what they'll do to each other, chatting dirty and exchanging nudes, with all these, you don't expect the lady to see you as a gentleman, she'll see you as a tiger and bad guy in bedroom the truth remains that most ladies love bad gus in bedroom, but they'll pretend the don't , you kissed her, unclothed her,n finger her, felt and saw her creamy and glorifying juicy pussy, and yet you believed she didn't want it

To hell with "Control" they love it rough and choking, don't get them wrong when they say they love men with control, the control they mean is the control of not cheating, not the control of not seeing them attractive when they play games .

If you were a bad guy like you claimed while chatting with her, what you should have done when she said stop was to Slowly dig your two middle fingers into her pussy and softly play with her pubic hairs with your thump finger while doing it, give her an eye to eye glance for like 15 seconds and watch her smile while you stroke her hard


Well, I won't blame you, some guys love respecting a lady's decision even when she doesn't mean it.

Have ever heard the story of those wrongfully charged of rape and spent half their lives in jail? You'll definitely change your mind cos you don't understand at all.

Thunder fire the animal that made such cowardly statement.

I know the religion and tribe that can spew this kind of rubbish. Terrorists.

This is so annoying and extremely infuriating. This feminism of a thing is now being extremely abused.

A lady will consciously sexually lead you on and at the very edge of it all will yell no and cry rape if she gets slightly displeased.

Next an innocent guy is humiliated & locked up for more than 20 years and he loses his entire life to regrets. Something should be speedily done about this wickedness.

Dimples129:
If I say stop and my man continued then it is rape because I no longer consent to my body being 'used' short of a better word.

The time you were enjoying it, you weren't being "used" but the time he begins to enjoy it, then you are being "used".

I can slightly accept its rape but I fear you women are so abusing this "rape card" till a time no one will take you people seriously.

stephen109:
after everything you wrote no likes..

If your purpose of coming to nairaland is to get likes then you need to have your head checked.

Churches have bills to pay too. Many of them also have very benevolent departments devoted to charity.

Criticisms should be focused on the the excesses of pastors and not on the entire concept of church and religion.

Unfortunately most critics of churches like daddy freeze would prefer churches erased altogether.

Area father overall.

Kaycee second photo beats all hands down. The pose na die copy or not.

Serves her right. I trust the dad with that child than herself.

People like him and OBJ can talk because Nigerians forget so easily.

Why una dey bring south African matter to 9ja to spoil business for innocent 9ja taxify drivers.

Taxify_za is not Nigerian Taxify and should be treated differently.

Abeg the bride is more beautiful than the wedding cake. #Fact.

Amazing transformation of the boy. I admire this Anja woman a lot.

Reminds me of Mary Slessor and the banished calabar twins back in those days.

Pardoned.

delishpot:
Typical.

I'm glad you and your brain dead friends fully understand my points. All your bitterness against me on this issue can only be summarized thus:

(1) why should I blame parents and their laxity, why didn't I join all you stereotypes and blame the predators only.

(2)Predators are only to blame, parents have no faults or responsibility. Anyone that says otherwise is a fool.

(3) Why would a reasonable person seek to find all the factors that cause the problem instead of blaming only the predator.

I'm glad there's nowhere I can be spotted saying the predators have no blame.

My only sin is seeking to identify all the causes including parents, predators, society, media etc and finding true lasting solutions instead of blaming the predator alone.

I'm glad then to stand alone.

Tohzara:
It's quite baffling how people like him think. They're indeed animals. No moral compass. No empathy. No sense of pity.

"Serves them right. They deserve to be raped for not subscribing to my warped moralist bullshit and twisted orientations about decency."

This is how these clowns think. Their stupidity is incomprehensible.

I wonder what kind of beast LUSTS after a CHILD.

I'm glad you and your brain dead friends fully understand my points. All your bitterness against me on this issue can only be summarized thus:

(1) why should I blame parents and their laxity, why didn't I join all you stereotypes and blame the predators only.

(2)Predators are only to blame, parents have no faults or responsibility. Anyone that says otherwise is a fool.

(3) Why would a reasonable person seek to find all the factors that cause the problem instead of blaming only the predator.

I'm glad there's nowhere I can be spotted saying the predators have no blame.

My only sin is seeking to identify all the causes including parents, predators, society, media etc and finding true lasting solutions instead of blaming the predator alone.

I'm glad then to stand alone.

cococandy:
Perv. They will catch you one day and your own will end. Keep supporting evil

I'm glad you and your brain dead friends fully understand my points. All your bitterness against me on this issue can only be summarized thus:

(1) why should I blame parents and their laxity, why didn't I join all you stereotypes and blame the predators only.

(2)Predators are only to blame, parents have no faults or responsibility. Anyone that says otherwise is a fool.

(3) Why would a reasonable person seek to find all the factors that cause the problem instead of blaming only the predator.

I'm glad there's nowhere I can be spotted saying the predators have no blame.

My only sin is seeking to identify all the causes including parents, predators, society, media etc and finding true lasting solutions instead of blaming the predator alone.

I'm glad then to stand alone.

corpershun:
For your information I dress very well and believe in covering up but I repeat that is not a justification for rape cos even boys and babies are being raped regardless. I shouldn't argue with you cos You have said it all I am debating with a pervert that doesn't want to see how wrong his opinion is. Thanks for telling me you are one of those hell bent on blaming parents and leaving out the rapist cos you are in their clique. Judgement will fall on you.

If I open my shop carelessly and a thief steals and I shout and he is caught and given jungle justice would you cry fowl...#Pervert

I'm glad you and your brain dead friends fully understand my points. All your bitterness against me on this issue can only be summarized thus:

(1) why should I blame parents and their laxity, why didn't I join all you stereotypes and blame the predators only.

(2)Predators are only to blame, parents have no faults or responsibility. Anyone that says otherwise is a fool.

(3) Why would a reasonable person seek to find all the factors that cause the problem instead of blaming only the predator.

I'm glad there's nowhere I can be spotted saying the predators have no blame.

My only sin is seeking to identify all the causes including parents, predators, society, media etc and finding true lasting solutions instead of blaming the predator alone.

I'm glad then to stand alone.

corpershun:
Bla...bla... Bla... Bla... Would you steal money because the owner dropped it carelessly. If Yes you are morally bankrupt and if no then we are on the same page.

No One has the right to rape, so even babies that are raped wore indecent dresses. Boys that are being molested also dressed seductively.

Mr man what is bad is bad, a child in a godly home that wears deeper life dressing is also being raped.

I repeat there is No Justification for rape and perverts. Cos it's scary, children wearing school uniform that covers all are being raped so you've got no point. I accept parents aren't doing enough but like I said I wouldn't take money that's not mine because it was carelessly placed.

Renew Your Mind cos I see you as a paedophile already.

I like debating societal problems with intellectuals that are genuinely seeking solutions and not dumb ass morons like you that are stereotyped in reasoning.

Is mode of dressing the only cause of rape or molestation. No, cos Its only one of the causes. An intelligent person will seek out all the causes including parental negligence and try to deal with "all" of them.

If you leave your money carelessly in a location where you're fully aware that thieves and perverts abound, you're the biggest fool to put the blame on anyone else but yourself.

You like every lady will attack any criticism on your dress fashion no matter how inappropriate. You fail to realize that you're the same with a pervert that is hell bent on sex no matter how inappropriate and will accept no criticism.

NairaMaster1:
Except you are not computer literate. In this 21st century? Even with double Clara on air?

Mr Computer literate, since you the only one that knows how to use computers in the 21st century, provide us with answers.

Pardoned

victorazy:
So is not possible a pastor can communicate with someone via WhatsApp or through other means? Sule never denied talking with her privately remember.

Did he agree that he privately did nude facetime video call with her?

Pardoned