Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Greatn3ss: 12:48pm On May 01, 2023 |
Greatn3ss: Please much does driving license cost and how long does it take to process it |
Autos › Re: Toyota Corolla 2006 Model For Sale 2million by Greatn3ss: 12:42pm On May 01, 2023 |
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Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Greatn3ss: 12:38pm On May 01, 2023 |
Please much does driving license cost and how long does it take to process it |
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Greatn3ss: 12:23am On Apr 28, 2023 |
narite: At the bolded, rejection could mean or relate to a lot of things. I will stick to giving you advice on how to face rejection when dealing with ladies, it seems to me that your current biggest hurdle.
There are ladies that will always reject you, ladies you approached and will give you a demeaning look. A very hurtful look, you will see the meaning right through their eyes and you will never forget. They will give you an attitude that will make you start to question yourself. Am I ugly? Am I not confidence enough? Asking yourself questions enough to damage your existence.
Now, do you know the funniest thing? The same ladies that look at you like you are some sort of plague, a disease some other day the same ladies will give you this soft jelly, marshmallows, butter, happy attitude that the best most friendly lady you have ever come across in your life will never give you. Every single one of them are like this. Where am I going with this? It is simply this “Never take ladies seriously” Please never forget this words carve it into your heart. Meditate on it day and night until the words makes sense to you and you see it happening in life.
Men fail primarily with women because they take them too serious. You do not take them serious, don’t take their ignoring you serious, don’t take their begging you serious, don’t take their words serious, don’t take their anger serious, don’t take those deamining looks which you will start to receive soon serious, don’t take anything about them serious. A woman can be laughing with you now and the next minute angry, you are all she want to see and the next minute the last thing she want to see...Does such a creation sound serious to you? Why take them serious? You don’t take them serious, don’t let their action get to you, just catch Cruz and move on. Do not try to change anything, Do not force Anything!!!!
I am giving you this advise because you are just starting out to have a relationship with women, following this advice will save you from lots of meaningless sorrows, tribulations. Now back to your main question?
It totally normal to be afraid to approach ladies because of fear that they might turn you down, something some of them will definitely do. it a phase every guy pass through. It something you conquer little by little with practice. Yes! With practice, you will have to chase after the beast. If you are not going to practice little by little at all then I cannot help you. I just don’t know any other way. Starting from the day you get my message; Take a night stroll alone to a place very far from your home where you hardly pass through be it during the day or night but with lively activities, a little far from home. When you get to somewhere far and no one probably knows you here just keep strolling, do not stand still looking like a kidnapper, when you see a lady you like from behind make sure it one you find attractive, she ignite your imagination, now; walk up to her and say “hi” do not think of what to say, the only thing I want you to think of is “Hi” just hi then whatsoever pop up in your head after “hi” you can say it. No matter how silly embarrassing, shy it sounds to you “say it”. I am trying hard to pass two things across to you here. 1) Learning not to take Ladies serious.
2) Approaching ladies.
Your ability not to take women serious begins the moment when you approached them without thinking of anything to say. All you need to know is just “Hi” nothing more.
I know on your first day of trying this you probably will see a lots of ladies you find attractive but you definitely won’t say hi to anyone of them, fear is a powerful thing. Go again day 2 take your night stroll again and have the resolve of saying “hi” to at least a lady that night, I am sure you will chicken out again. Go again day 3, most people I know as I have worked this thing through with some people never make their first “Hi” on day 3 but if you are the rare one first kudos to you but I do really hope you do not get addicted to this thing and me coming back to regret that I have unleashed a monster. Someone who will become too callous with women more than I imagined and will one day impregnate every members of my family.
If you do fail to say “Hi” at day 3 great. Go again day 4. Keeping going every day, taking a stroll to somewhere far from home with the intention of saying “hi” to strange ladies you come across. Make sure you make at least 30 hi” before this year runs out, mark every “hi” on your calendar where you can see it every morning. Never worry about what to say, with time you will naturally know. Your first 20 hi’s will be a disaster which is good, don’t worry you won’t see the first 20 hi again in your life.
In conclusion, Enjoy the experience of getting scared to say “hi” to ladies, savor it. One day you will look back and you will no longer know what it feels like. Never take ladies serious. Never forget this words my friend. If you do; you are bound to regret it. Now go out there tonight and catch Cruz. Very insightful, I believe this will really go a long way. Am grateful |
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Greatn3ss: 2:59pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
narite: Introvert combo with Shyness is the worst thing that can ever happen to a man. A fate worst than Death.
No Courage (Can’t fuckïng say “NO” to others)
Lack of Trust ( Prefers to get drowned by his problems than sharing it with others)
Nonchalant ( Going through life with lack of concern or interest, not really bothered with failures or success)
Does this sounds familiar to you? If it is, then you are fuckëd!! I don't believe I'm shy, I speak in gatherings, I do presentations. But the Issue is I can't woo to a girl, not because I'm scared to talk to the them but because I see it as irrelevant, and when ever I see I girl I really like and I feel like talking to her, I won't cause I know she must surly say "no" because we are just meeting for the first time. How do I handle fear of rejection |
Autos › Re: Super Clean 2005 Corolla Nigerian Used Toks Standard by Greatn3ss: 1:50pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
1.8 sir |
Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Greatn3ss: 9:53pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Pearl1910: To answer your question alone without considering other information on ur post I would say Yes, u can buy a good car within between 1.5m to 2.5m and use for ehailing. Transportation business will forever be relevant and profitable, so it's a wise investment. Good evening sir I sent you a mail |
Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Greatn3ss: 11:20am On Apr 21, 2023 |
obinoral1179: now the surge make me put head for thjs ikorodu traffic... Standstill now.. I just sent you a mail sir |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Greatn3ss: 10:46pm On Apr 18, 2023*. Modified: 7:59am On Apr 19, 2023 |
Enskynelson: Another window for mobilisation will still come. Thank you for your reply So when should I be expecting the next window, and would there be any repercussion? |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Greatn3ss: 7:19pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Those of us that were not able to register for Nysc what are we going to do? |
Travel › Re: How Do Someone In Nigeria Get To Israel? by Greatn3ss(op): 11:02am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Africankel: Israeli Embassy is at 12 Mary Slessor Street, Asokoro, Abuja. Thank you |
Travel › Re: How Do Someone In Nigeria Get To Israel? by Greatn3ss(op): 7:15pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
ednut1: Israel will not give you visa because you are coming to look for a sibling. Unless maybe you are going for pilgrimage you no go fit get visa o. Your sibling may not be interested in being found too. Na by force Thanks for your input, I've heard something similar in the past, but how do I join this pilgrimage? |
Travel › Re: How Do Someone In Nigeria Get To Israel? by Greatn3ss(op): 7:14pm On Apr 14, 2023 |
ednut1: Israel will not give you visa because you are coming to look for a sibling. Unless maybe you are going for pilgrimage you no go fit get visa o. Your sibling may not be interested in being found too. Na by force |
Travel › Re: How Do Someone In Nigeria Get To Israel? by Greatn3ss(op): 4:39pm On Apr 13, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: How Do Someone In Nigeria Get To Israel? by Greatn3ss(op): 3:10pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
KdpMaster: Israel embassy is at abuja Are you sure? |
Travel › How Do Someone In Nigeria Get To Israel? by Greatn3ss(op): 11:57pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Good day good people of Nairaland, am currently having an issue trying to connect with my long lost sibling. Recently I got an information from someone that he is in Israel, he gave us his address over there but we are still not able to reach him via his contact. Now we've taken it as a quest to go and search for him but I heard there is no Israel embassy here in Nigeria. Do anybody have an idea of how I can possibly get to Israel from Nigeria, or which nearby country can I link up to Israel and how do I go about the process?
Thanks in anticipation |
Crime › Re: Emmanuel Odunlami Murdered By Robbers In UK Over ‘Fake’ £300k Watch by Greatn3ss: 10:06pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Iamdbull: Dbull on this one!!!
Damn it! Our industry has been thrown into mourning again 💔💔💔💔 |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Greatn3ss: 10:46am On Mar 04, 2023 |
Bekind33: When I got admission in to this school (noun) my plan was first class I ended up with 3.86 I just feels like am a failure So what should we do about it |
Crime › Re: My Story Of How I Was Scammed Yesterday by Greatn3ss(op): 5:56pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
ikeno: You still have to report to the police because getting a police report involve the police if paraventure you locate the guy,they will still be the one to effect an arrest. Ok |
Crime › Re: My Story Of How I Was Scammed Yesterday by Greatn3ss(op): 9:52pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
chypotenti: exactly my suspicion, what if your sis and her husband planned it ??...my guy do your underground check and revert back to us. I'm from a good family, my sister will never plan such for me |
Crime › Re: My Story Of How I Was Scammed Yesterday by Greatn3ss(op): 9:26pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
ValCon888: Now this is a scam I can fall for. Because I'll do anything for my siblings and loved ones.
Take heart OP.
But it's funny to me how your sister and her husband's number stopped connecting at the moment of the scam. This is pure jazz, this boy will do anything for money |
Crime › My Story Of How I Was Scammed Yesterday by Greatn3ss(op): 5:57pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
Good morning Nairalanders, I want you guys to learn from my experience so you won't fall for such scam.
Yesterday I was just sitting outside minding my business when my younger sister came outside saying the husband(my in-law) to my elder sister who lives in the same city with us just called her and was crying on the phone that they just rushed my sister to the hospital(he mentioned a popular hospital here), and the doctor said they need to start treatment on her but they must have to deposit 80,000 in the next 10mins first before they will commence treatment on her so she won't die. I was shocked cause she was very sound the previous day she came to our place, I decided to try her number but neither her number or her husbands number was going through, that was when I suspected something was wrong.
The number kept calling in, the voice sounded exactly as that of my in-law and exactly the same way he talks. He was crying on phone telling us to help him please raise the 80k so the wife won't die, he sent the so called doctors number. I told him I've sent it just to know what will happen, he gave the phone to the doctor saying the doctor wants to talk to me, I told the doctor I've sent the money, he said he will send his WhatsApp number so I can send the screenshot, He sent the WhatsApp number. I told him to send it to my personal number, surprisingly he sent it to my personal number.
At this point I thought I was quite convinced cause my younger sister kept persuading me, I had to send the money. It wasn't up to 5mins my said sister they claimed was rushed to the hospital showed up and we were like aren't you the one they said was rushed to the hospital?, she said God forbid. The same number called back again and was asking for the screenshot cause I haven't sent the screenshot but I've sent the money, my sister started raining curses on them but it was too late already.
Later we decided to go to the person's bank with the persons bank details to see if the money could be reversed or if the person could be tracked, they said the bank account have been restricted. We asked if we can get the person's info let's see if he could be tracked, they said we should go and get police report.
Right now am still contemplating on how to go about with the process cause I don't like anything that has to do with police due to their attitude towards cases like this.
Please my brothers and sisters, what do you think I should do and how do I get the information of th, here is his account details and phone number below;
Acct number: 0056891333 Acct name: Oyemechi Goodluck Chinagorom UNITY BANK plc
08139743550 09044956901 |
Politics › Re: A Man Shot In Abeokuta, Others Injured As Customers Destroy Banks (Graphic Video by Greatn3ss: 7:08pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
A hungry man is an angry man |
Business › Re: See The 20k I Withdrew From A POS Today by Greatn3ss: 12:50pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
You see rice and you are still looking for meat.. With the situation of things now if I were you I'll go back and thank that POS boy |
Agriculture › Re: Amazing Output From My Yam-in-sack Farming (pictures) by Greatn3ss: 11:28am On Jan 27, 2023 |
ytdivine: Let's compare the yam-in-sack farming with the conventional method of farming yam. 1. You can get your produce in 7/8months as against the normal 10/11months 2. Minimal labour against the tedious work involved from land clearing to harvesting 3. Weeding is almost zero here 4. Building Yam trellis easier here 5. The yield is enormous here 6. Nutrients conserved and reused, not washed away. 7. The taste is better 8. Start up capital very small 9. The market price cheaper since the cost of production is lower 10. Easy to harvest 11. Less injured yam after harvest.
Feel free to add yours You didn't add they can steal your farm land |
Travel › Re: Before Vs Now: Mommy 60 Years In Nigeria Vs 4 Months In UK (video) by Greatn3ss: 3:14pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
God wey run am for her go run am for me |
Politics › Re: Naira Redesign Policy: CBN Launches Cash Swap Programme In Rural by Greatn3ss: 8:14pm On Jan 24, 2023 |
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Health › Re: I Need Help On Health Issue by Greatn3ss(op): 7:17am On Jan 22, 2023 |
ipobarecriminals:
Visit General hospital  Make I visit general hospital for cough and catarrh Why Una be like this |
Health › I Need Help On Health Issue by Greatn3ss(op): 4:06am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Whenever am having any slight cough and catarrh it always comes with sour throat, heavy weakness and lost of voice until that cough and catarrh goes(which hardly goes).
Please is this normal cause it seems like am the only one suffering from this, and if it normal then what drug do you suggest I should use for it? |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Arrives On Stage In A Coffin For His Performance (Photos, Video) by Greatn3ss: 9:18am On Dec 29, 2022 |
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