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CrimeRe: Boko Haram Leader, Abubakar Shekau Releases Dramatic Video On #bringbackourgirls by Growingboi(m): 6:22am On Sep 25, 2016
The real Shekarau is dead and any other ne is a counterfeit. gerara here shakerau
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 11:05am On Sep 20, 2016
everything deh inside the beating bro

delishpot:
You said you beat her up for her to tell the truth! Not because you were angry she kept such an abuse for so long.
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 11:02am On Sep 20, 2016
thanks dear. I have place her on treatment for seven days, doctor also advice me to get a psychologist to talk and advice her. The mumu had vanished into a thin air, my sister is alone now, i have asked my sister to take it easy for now and she should let me seek advice n how to go about. bt said being together with him is a no go area


ammyluv2002:
Wow! This one na real dilemma as the name implies. I don't even know what to say, but that man needs to be dealt with like seriously.

Who would openly threw away such a golden opportunity? Maybe, he's been attacked from the village cos he's not okay.

I think, you should let your sister & her hubby know about the mess. It won't be fair to hide such an ugly situation from them then get your niece treated.


Your sister also needs some space to clear her head. She should stay away from the man for now. If she wants to divore her hubby, it's up to her alone.
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 10:56am On Sep 20, 2016
3mmyz:
Let me take my time...

This is a very serious issue.
A man with four children to sleep with his wife's niece of 10 years old, I'd take it that he is very unreasonable and untrustworthy. Getting him arrested might get him jailed for molesting a minor of ten, he has ruin her life with his act and she will forever be hateful to men if no justice is done, He should be taught a lesson. For his wife it's very disheartening to see such things happen - she should do a heavy rethink before going through the divorce, considering her children.
It's hard to forgive but it's worth the try, I'm speaking from experience though.
God bless you
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 10:54am On Sep 20, 2016
Bro na u the girl is close to to that extent we are close and this thing has been happening running to a year and didn't tell you, you would be more bitter than i did

delishpot:
Shame on you. May people hit you to bring out the truth when you fall victim of circumstance.

I dey vex O. Keep off. Abeg, for our own sake and good.
You support the hitting of a child to bring out truth? He beat her very well we're his own words. You agree to it?
He is not a brother at the moment. He is a facilitator and almost an enabler. He cares more about the abuser. Who gives a Bleep if he can't bail himself out? Is he worried that abrapist can't bail himself out? Damn. I guess the human side of me is out today. Make I leave this topic before I explode.
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 10:44am On Sep 20, 2016
Jah is with you

3mmyz:
Why the harsh words? He had only hit her to bring up the truth! you should know it's quite hard for a child to tell such painful tales to her elders because of fear, rather than blaming the worried brother give him an advise.
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 10:40am On Sep 20, 2016
delishpot:
You are very wicked sha. Why would you beat a child like that? She had to be punished even after coming out? No wonder many victims hide the fact. Cost they know they would be beaten and disgraced by their very own family who will sweep the incident under the rug even after truth is established. You sir are one of the reasons rape goes unchecked in our society.
To you your sister must be a "Mrs" whether she is Mrs to a beast or not is not important to you. She should just have the tag Mrs to her name. That is all you car about?
You are worse than the rapist. Trading your sister and the little girls happiness because of what people would say?
If say I know you, I for come slap you or organize boys to beat you up for real.

You want meaningful advice? Oya leave them, build another house for the man, renew his and your sisters wedding vows and then get an even younger neice for him to rape again. Then beat her up very well like you did the first one when she manages to come clean about her abuse.

See how you blame the little girl already for the cause of the divorce? Too blind to see that it's the mans actions that caused the divorce rather you are seeing the little victim as the cause of her own rape and destruction the dirty marriage.

Argghhhh, I have to calm down O dey vex for you no be small. Poor child and stupid guardians. Only your sister get sense for that una family? Wondering how to report a pedophile? Wondering how to hide the shame of a pedophile? Argghhhhh!
lol. taken. I beat her cox we are very close as, we play alot why hide such act for a very long time from me and i didt want to do false accusation, i wanted to hear the truth. You harsh goon. If you scratch your body the way e deh scratch you, you body will tear. I have to use my number 4 here that is why i brought it here for advice
CrimeRe: I Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 10:20am On Sep 20, 2016
Ok. Meaningful advice please
CrimeI Am In A Dilema - Help Please! by Growingboi(op): 10:11am On Sep 20, 2016
I received a call from my elder sister yesterday, she was weeping bitterly on the phone saying I should leave whatever i was doing at work to come to her house that she is devoicing her hubby, even she has started parking her belongings. I asked her what was going on she said the issue is to heavy for her to pronounce that i should just come. I had to quickly take permission from my office cox i was very scared. When I got there she said my little niece that is staying with them says her husband has being molesting her for a very long time. She is just around 10 years and this very man which is a father of four from my sister should be around 45 years. I personal asked my niece and beaten her very well to tell me the truth, she said she was saying the truth and i asked her why was it not reported to my sister or me cox she always come to my house for visit, she said she was threatened by the man not to report to anyone or else she will be expelled from the house. So I confronted the man but the man denied it but the the hospital confirmed it that it is very obvious if the man denies it that I should get him arrested the they have all the files prepared for a police case. Sincerely, my sister is the bread winner of the house cox her husband who is a bus driver and who hardly goes to work cox he will complain of faulty vehicle. I personally paid almost 500k for purchase of the bus just for my sister's sake and to ensure that the man is working cox i love my sister like my wife and she respects me alot.

Early this morning, he called me that everything the girl said was true that we should forgive him that it was caused by the devil.

This is the man we(the mother of the little girl in overseas and me) have build a 3-bed room flat for around sango just for them to leave rented house and for them to be happy. They are suppose to park in this September ending. My sister says she doesn't want to see the man again as he has since left the house to unknown destination for the sake of arrest.

If i arrested the man, he has no money to even bail himself not to talk of court case, my sister on the other hand is still insisting on leaving the id*iot cox she can be happy with a man who sleeps with mother and daughter saying she might commit murder. If she devoice the man it will also be on record the it was my niece the stayed with them that cox the devoice.

How should i handle this? should my sister leave the man? should I arrest the man? how do I tell the man sister and her hubby in overseas? Meanwhile the girl is in my house now for security reasons.
BusinessRe: I Have N500,000 Cash, What Profitable Business Can I Start? by Growingboi(m): 2:46pm On Jul 14, 2016
I ma interested in mechatronics, Kindly expantiate. [quote author=snowbaby post=47533372]Over time I have seen That the reason small businesses failed is because of going to business as a get rich quick scheme
CrimeRe: Niger Delta Avengers Attacked Oil Facilities In Bayelsa (see Threat) by Growingboi(m): 2:24am On Jun 03, 2016
Jesooos! They want to reduce our oil production to 'sero'. God come and help us oo.

Have not been online for a 24hours now. pls what reason did the presidency says prevented PMB from going to Rivers? I mean Which infection?
CrimeRe: Cultists Who Beheaded ABSU Students Arrested - Photo by Growingboi(m): 2:16am On Jun 03, 2016
It is written "the wicked must not go unpunished" May God use Nigeria government to punish them by hanging
PoliticsRe: Buhari Cancels Scheduled Trip To Senegal by Growingboi(m): 2:03am On Jun 03, 2016
Just as PDP rightly said, this man is seriously sick. this was how yar'daua started. Anyways let's pray for Osinbajo to perform brilliantly as the next president.
PoliticsRe: EFCC Gets Petition Against Jonathan Over Arms Deal by Growingboi(m): 6:29am On May 28, 2016
Thank God that the EFCC know their boundary. Even Tompolo is giving Nigeria headache now let alone GEJ. Oga Buhari, kindly warn your boys o




“From what we have, what was sent to us was based on media reports.
Those who brought the letter have not disclosed any fact yet.
“So far, they have to come up with more evidence. We will certainly demand
for concrete evidence against the ex-President from the aggrieved who
wrote us. And it is strange that a petitioner or an individual will have to
give the EFCC a deadline to do its work.”
RomanceRe: Is It Possible For A Woman With Low Or No Libido To Come During Sex? by Growingboi(op): 2:45am On May 16, 2016
too many children on nairaland. This post is for matured minds not you.

[quote author=olihilistic post=45649548]cheesycheesygringrin I swear the op dumb no bi smol[/qu
RomanceIs It Possible For A Woman With Low Or No Libido To Come During Sex? by Growingboi(op): 5:28pm On May 15, 2016
Hello Nairalanders, i actually need matured advice from mature men/professional in the house to throw light on this issue.

I am somehow in a state of hullabaloo as my newly wedded wife complains now and then that she does not have the urge anymore. Meanwhile she was very active before we got married and whenever we 'dig it' she always 'come'.

How possible is this and if possible, what is the possible solution to it?

THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR THE MATURE ADVICE.


Lalastic, you may kindly push it to front page to get enough response.
PoliticsRe: Hyacinth Kwegi And His Family Go To Farm In Benue (photos) by Growingboi(m): 9:32am On May 12, 2016
and so? If a graduate can go to farm what stops primary school leaving certificate position? abeg op, park well and switch on ur inner light
Jokes EtcSee The Hilarious Definition Of 'LOVE' And 'DEATH' by Growingboi(op): 10:22pm On May 04, 2016
Lol, I saw this and i coundnt help than to laugh and roll on the floor.

PoliticsRe: Fulani Herdsmen Sack Benue Community by Growingboi(m):
Oh Lord! whatever we have done wrong to deserve this curse please forgive us. Fulani is a curse to Nigeria. Take them away from us oh Lord.
CelebritiesRe: Kenya Cries : It’s Nigeria, Not China, That Is Slowly But Surely Colonising Us ! by Growingboi(m): 9:54am On Apr 18, 2016
modelmike7:
Giant of Africa... May God take us back to our position.
God shouldnt take us back but take to to our position. ejooorr!
TravelRe: Securing Visa To France, Applying From Nigeria... by Growingboi(m):
Kindly help a nairalander please.
I plan to submit an application for a tourist visa this Friday 15th of April, to spend 7 days slated for 15th to 22nd of May, leave has been approved by my employer for this period but a friend just told me now that one can only submit application atleast two months and atmost three months to the intended day of travel. How true is this cox i just have approx. for weeks to the day of travel and if true does it apply to all schengen countries?

thanks n advance.

tzetzefy, justwise come help a brother o
PoliticsRe: Residents Scoop Fuel As Tanker Crashes Along Lagos-ibadan Road. Photos by Growingboi(m): 11:51am On Apr 07, 2016
The guy wearing a reflective jacket is already a catalyst to quick ignition. Ignorance is a disease. Anyways, itz Buhari's fault for being a President and a minister at the same time.
CrimeRe: Girl Shot In The Mouth In Aluu, Rivers State. Graphic by Growingboi(m): 12:09pm On Apr 05, 2016
is this Aluu not thesame as ALuu 4? was it not wiped out when they kill four innocent students? it seems that gods of Aluu is a blood sucking gods. I wish her quick recovery.
PoliticsRe: EFCC Fixes Date For Jonathan's Arrest – Reportsafrique.com by Growingboi(m): 7:20pm On Apr 04, 2016
story for the gods
Jokes EtcWhen Your Neibours Heard That You Just Bought Fuel (see Hilarious Photo) by Growingboi(op): 5:02pm On Apr 03, 2016
I saw is on the internet and decided to share it to relieve you of some stress. lol Sincerely, Buhari is a disgrace

SportsShocking! CAF Bans Egypt, Hands Nigeria AFCON 2017 Ticket by Growingboi(op): 3:02pm On Apr 01, 2016
Egypt have been disqualified from participating at the 2017 African Cup of Nations after it was learnt that two of her players tested positive for the use of drugs. Both players tested positive for the use of drugs shortly after the qualifying game against the Super Eagles of Nigeria. According to reports, the two players who tested positive were Mohammed Salah and Mohamed Elneny. They were also handed 14- and seven-month bans, respectively. Egypt has been disqualified from participating at the 2017AFCON after it was learnt that 2 of her players tested positive to the use of drugs While Salah tested positive for the anabolic agent nandrolone, Elneny tested positive for tetrahydrocannabinole (carboxy-THC), a metabolite of cannabis, after the game in Alexandria. Following this development, CAF has now issued the AFCON 2017 ticket to Nigeria who finished second behind Egypt in group G, after Tanzania joined Chad to withdraw from the competition.

Meanwhile, if you believed this report, you have just been fooled. Happy April Fools’ Day!

Source: www.african-sport.za
CelebritiesRe: Singer Adokiye Celebrates Her Birthday, Dazzles In New Photos by Growingboi(m): 10:41am On Mar 29, 2016
But BH collected the virginity but didnt stop bombing. BH is wicked.
Science/TechnologyRe: Brace Up For Hot Days, Heat Waves-NIMET Warns Nigerians by Growingboi(m): 10:29am On Mar 29, 2016
Meeeen! Man needs to relocate from Naija before it is too late oo. I have a roasted skin already. I imagine when it is hotter than this.
TravelRe: Securing Visa To France, Applying From Nigeria... by Growingboi(m): 5:09pm On Mar 24, 2016
Someone shld kindly answer my question Bikonu/Ejoorr/please

Growingboi:
Someone should kindly tell me any insurance coys recognize/acceptable for schengen visa. (Spain precisely)

Can the insurance be cancelled( as in refund insurance fee) if visa is denied? Thanks in advance.
PoliticsRe: NYSC Ad-Hoc INEC Official Killed At Ahoada West LGA by Growingboi(m): 4:00pm On Mar 21, 2016
Gush! BUHARY WHY? No election that has nt been mal under your watch. Please is there any English to qualify the rescheduled election as the re-run is inconclusive? Maybe RE-RAN or RE-WALK or better still RE-WORK.
PoliticsRe: Emmanuel Nicholas Opens His House In Uyo (photos) by Growingboi(m): 3:50pm On Mar 21, 2016
APC thugs should keep quiet. The house is not bad for a governor's special one, even oil workers have 2 of such house.


BTW was he living in the bush before?
PoliticsRe: Dakuku Killed Rivers Chief Of Staff’s Aide—wike by Growingboi(m): 5:45am On Mar 21, 2016
Wiked wike, dont mind the basta' rds just concentrate on the good project you have started for us. Ameachi has declared himself to be a northerner.

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