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Richy4:
How I wish his nasty attitude was dictated when he was trying to borrow..
I guess the best behaviour is always portrayed or seen each time an individual comes to borrow something..

He even asked for more money but I already sensed he was dubious and didn't oblige him.. After then, everything became clear

mariahAngel:
The nasty man has no intention of paying.
Op, did he borrow from you or you sold him something on credit?

I ordered something from him which he refused to deliver and I asked for a refund, he paid part and was supposed to pay a balance of ₦20000 since October last year..
Whenever I remember, I ask him and it's always one story or another..
This man claims he own a school and has landed properties, so it's not like he can't afford to pay me the ₦20000.. He just doesn't want to pay and I wonder why.. Seems strange to me sha..

I commented on his Twitter page and he got really uncomfortable... Lol

There's is this matured fellow owing me since October last year. From time to time, I do ask him for my money and he always responds rudely. Sometimes, I wonder how he feels after acting in such manner.

He doesn't even answer my calls, so I drop messages for him on whatsapp which he rarely responds to.

Below are some of his responses :

OlawaleBammie:
OP i am sorry if i sound offensive but u should have asked ur parent what dey did with ur own before coming here

Mine was buried. I was considering encapsulating it but I don't know if it's ideal.

Some say it's better to flush it in the toilet while some others advised burying it.
I've also heard of people drying it, making it into fine powder and then encapsulating it. The capsules will then be consumed daily till it's exhausted.

So please, I'd like to know what to do with my "after birth". Thank you.

I sniff my underwears whenever I take them off and it always gives me a strange good feeling..
I do same when I'm about washing my boyfriend's under wears but then, it doesn't give me same feelings as when it's mine..

madridguy:
Take it back to the seller and get back your money.

Hmmmm... Is not that easy o..
It's just to be more careful of the exact place to buy next time

I went shopping for my provisions at Ejigbo Market and unfortunately I also bought a fake BAMA..
It's really annoying ..

Our naira has really depreciated o...

Slimsaj:
[b][/b] the best thing you can do for him is to tell and show him all the advantages and disadvantages, reactions and repercussions etc then he is left to choose.
But from the way you sound you dont know anything about this so dont even try cause you will end up making it worse.
You need the help of a well experienced addict who has gotten his shit together.
Call 09063842424 to find one.

Thanks.. I've called and I got a response already. I'll keep in touch and probably connect my younger bro with the person.

FuckDModz:
Chill. Grow some balls, take a loan and get another apartment.

I know it's not easy, but your choices about are limited at this point.

Yeah.. I'm actually working on that already

Truvelisback:
U should have said all these in the begining. In that case, there is nothing u can do except u keep presuring him to fix the room. The only way u can get him is when Town council/govt officials comes to see the poor state of the place and fine the occupants or when ur rent expires and he comes to take rent, na that time u go catch am.

Chai! This is not encouraging at all, this landlord do me bad o.

FuckDModz:
Don't worry, be a man. Imagine yourself in his shoes.

Why would he scam you of 2hk when he has an investment worth over 50m.

Relax.

At least you know him.

Lol.. I'm a lady o and it's my first time trying to rent an apartment.

Truvelisback:
Like what? Did u agree to live in the room he gave u b4 paying him?

He told me he was going to fix it in a week back then.. It's 4 months already and nothing has been done yet..

FuckDModz:
The landlord is probably swimming in debt. He won't have your time.

Just chill.

The house is not running.

I've got no choice than to hope and pray he'd return my money soon. I also heard he's broke at the moment. It's just that I've heard too many stories about landlords taking advantage of their supposed tenants.

Truvelisback:
Move into the bigger apartment and live there, If he comes and finds u there and start reacting, tell him that u have spent all that u have and that u can't do those expenses after paying for the rent.

What if it backfires?

FuckDModz:
If the apartment is still vacant, then you've not been duped.

Be patient.

Better still look for money and rent another place, when a new tenant pays for your old place, you will be refunded.

Exactly what the agent said.. But the landlord is always ignoring my calls

Truvelisback:
U should have checked the room b4 paying for it. What abt other rooms? Are they the same?

Most are taken, other free ones are bigger apartments

Rhea:
This is a very big issue, considering that smoking marijuana is the gateway to trying other harmful drugs like crystal meth.

First, you need to starve him of the funds to sustain his habits. Marijuana is not cheap. Drastically reduce his funds. If he wants to steal to make ends meet, then kick him out of the house.

If he does earn a living, then he is essentially an emancipated adult and can sustain his unhealthy habits. In which case, kick him out of the house.

Otherwise, speak to him in very plain and bold terms that he is on the path that leads to guaranteed destruction.
If he will accompany you, take him on a trip to a psychiatric unit to see where he will end up in a few years if he does not give up the habit.

Hmmmm... We can't possibly kick him out.. He's actually started stealing, just didn't want to add that... Just few weeks ago, he stole 5k from mum's bag and by the time we realized, it was 2k left. He was even caught before 10am..

Veeryeasy:
It's a small thing, since your his senior brother he should relate with you more than he relates with your mom, let him tell you where he is learning that smoking from after the heart to heart talk, beat him properly then promise him more beating if it reoccurs slowly he'll change

I'm a lady please.. I've been thinking about speaking with him but I don't even know where and how to start the talk..

Truvelisback:
U know what? Moving in ur properties and start living there. Get a padlock to lock the door when u want to leave. He must be mading.

He also said I should fix the apartment myself and move in and then he'll deduct it from my next rent.. There's too much to be done in the apartment and I don't think I can fix it on my own

Truvelisback:
Is there still a vacant room?

Yes, even the apartment I paid for is still vacant..

whytediamond:
Slawormiir, you go still drink all that palm oil join?

Lol

tradepunter:
I wish I could help you...

Depending on your location, we can arrange to put him in a guard room for 3 days with minimal stress environment.

Lots of superiors family members underwent such treatment and to be honest it worked, especially for that age range your brother falls into.

I actually thought of this. We reside somewhere around Oshodi.

FuckDModz:
You've not said anything.

How were you duped?
How much are we talking about?
What are you currently doing to retrieve your money?

I deposited 250k for a self con hoping to complete payment as soon as the apartment is ready..
Now the house is still the way it was when I paid for it, it's been 4 months already. I've been to the house several times, the landlord is never around.
He doesn't even answer my calls anymore neither does he reply my messages.

Truvelisback:
Use soldiers or the police to arrest him.

I don't know where to get him, he no longer stays in his house..

Dollarremix:
Come make I give you two soldiers way go collect your money back without delay.

Oya nau, I'm ready..

Viltron:
Where is his father? This is when he needs his father in his life.

Fathers are the ones who can handle situations like this. You'd just be wasting time. Just one look at him from a father who knows his worth, he'd start making plans to quit

He's smoking Igbo in case you don't know what weed is

Hmmmmm... Mumsy has refused to tell popsy because he's very strict.. He could possibly lock him up sef.. My dad is too strict and my mum is scared of what my dad would likely do to him.. He's a retired military man. I don't want to do the reporting myself because the last time I reported one of them in the house, there was trouble in the house for several weeks as mum couldn't bear dad's disciplinary actions..

Noshitboi:
Report him to mummy G. O

I don't want my younger brother to go to hell fire straight.. Have mercy abeg

zed7:
Only God will save your brother now. It's not easy for teens to resist peer pressure.

Since he has started, I doubt if he'll ne stopping anytime soon. Some manage to resist the pressure to smoke but those who don't, usually grow up to be smokers.

Haaaa! This is not encouraging at all o

MufasaLion:
Your brother is still very young and he's very curious which is normal for someone of his age. I'm sure curiosity led him to smoke pot but peer pressure will definitely get him addicted. Take him to a counselor.

How can I get in touch with a counselor please? Can you recommend any?

ParpahSeventy:
Seems you are devastated yourself.
Try to find out why he went into smoking in the first place, from there, you know where to go.
So many teenagers these days are lost all in the name of civilization.

I'm not happy myself because I've never seen my mum in so much tears.. She cried like a baby, it wasn't a good sight at all