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CareerRe: Lady Fixes PVC Ceiling And Windows For A Living (Photos) by Gusy(m): 9:57am On Sep 06, 2017
hmmmm, nne u try sha, but hope u hav gotten what u wanted ,ndimmadu onyeasi
FamilyRe: Wife Breaks Husband's Head For Complaining About Her Food (Graphic Photo) by Gusy(m): 7:00am On Aug 23, 2017
Freewoman:
Blame Buhari, If the man gave his wife enough money to cook, the man will not come back to complain, when the woman struggle to manage whatever that was around the satupid man will come back to complain, how much did he a jobless man gave to his wife ,when the salt loses its taste, children will threw it out to sand..............
[color=#006600][/color] sense fall on u
RomanceRe: Man Carries His Fiancée On His Shoulder In Pre-Wedding Photos by Gusy(m): 1:08pm On Aug 14, 2017
nawa oooono be small tin but wetin go vex me be say after all des shows ,I later come hear divorce eehh granny thunder
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh's Old Memories And Gushes Over Churchill (RIP To Their Marriage) by Gusy(m): 7:29pm On Jun 28, 2017
Evan gone and Churchill abeg who no de score for today
CelebritiesRe: Cossy Orjiakor Wows In New Photos by Gusy(m): 10:27pm On Mar 01, 2017
yomi007k:
grin


Show us ur own....
so ur eyes re for fancy ,yea she luk gud to some bt hmm so disgusting
Car TalkRe: Best Place To Keep Your Car Spare Key by Gusy(m): 7:10am On May 20, 2016
at home is de best place to kip spare key,
PhonesRe: MTN Confirms Removal Of Night Data Plans by Gusy(m): 7:03am On May 20, 2016
who u epp u done bath airtrl na chair man
CrimeRe: Woman Sets Husband On Fire In Katsina State by Gusy(m): 1:43am On May 19, 2016
End time
PoliticsRe: What Nigerians should Know In This Buhari Govt----- Mantissa by Gusy(m): 6:16am On Feb 22, 2016
Na so i seeyam broda
RomanceRe: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Gusy(m): 8:40pm On Feb 15, 2016
Toks2008:
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.

Am affair that lacks effective communication is a deaf and dumb affair.

Do you know that communication is the only prerequisite for any long lasting union? YES after you have established a romantic affair,the next stage is getting to understand each other which can only be achieved through effective communication and not mind-reading.With good communication, you will know in a timely manner if you can tolerate each other.

Every break in any form of union starts with a break down of communication. And worst still, delayed communication.

This is the case with many union today, we tend to stomach issues that would have been discussed and trashed out. There is no small or big issue, all issues must be treated with urgency. Don't be lackadaisical in expressing your resentments but communicate your pains sternly.

The worst part of it is that most of the time, the other party does not even have a clue if you are hurting so while you keep building up resentments, he/she will help you to add more until it becomes so big that before you say Jack, the union is broken beyond repair.And it gets even stranger when some people will rather prefer to discuss their partner's flaws with friends and would go on and on about what they hate in that person when that partner does not even have a clue of those faults

It could be an issue as trivial as the way your partner uses water, toothpaste,eating habit,relates with people, uses groceries in the house,the snoring habit, dress sense,abusive words,talkativeness or as serious as drunkenness, smoking,addiction of any kind,philandering and so on.

Even in sexual matters, you may like to be touched in a certain manner, made love to in a certain way,it may be a body odor from your partner or mouth odor.If he does not last long in bed please tell him to do something about it because you don't want to go out. If she is not good in bed tell her or teach her how you want it.

It can be anything and i mean anything at all. Don't shelve it, don't ignore that issue,TRASH IT OUT IMMEDIATELY and i mean real trashing in a serious but humble and loving manner.


If you allow that resentment to go undisclosed, you can be sure to have more and more every passing day until it becomes a great wall of permanent divide and when you stomach issues,it can accumulate so much that it may cause you to overeact which may lead to terrible consequence..

Don't be scared in discussing issues with your spouse because if you are afraid of doing this then i guess you should as well opt for a break because i don't see that union getting better. And if you are the type of man who is so bossy that you think women have no say then you are indeed a beast who deserves to be living alone in the jungle.

It is no longer news that tolerance is vital in any union we find ourselves because there is no perfect man or woman but nevertheless, we can always adjust and be the best we can for our partners if only we know the area that needs adjustment which can only be known by us if the other party opens up.


Lets learn to be communicative in a constructive anda humane manner and we will realize how powerful this can be

Hope this helps.
lolz
RomanceRe: Guy Blasts Girl Over "Good Morning" Greeting by Gusy(m): 9:13am On Jan 28, 2016
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Syphax:
I'm sure it didn't happen in real life. Some random guy planned it with a girl and took a screenshot of it.
. Meaning I dey happen
RomanceRe: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Pretty And Educated, But No Manners ? by Gusy(m): 8:11am On Dec 07, 2015
Mafking:
mitcheew... gay oshi
she is on piont dear
PoliticsRe: Uwazurike Renames MASSOB To BIM - Biafra Independent Movement by Gusy(m): 7:53am On Dec 07, 2015
Dnt mind him ,u think say u fit brain washin we
SportsRe: Suspects In The Chelsea Recent Loss Of Matches by Gusy(m): 5:28pm On Nov 12, 2015
hahahahahha
PoliticsRe: Obama And Buhari: Guess What The Two Presidents Were Discussing (Photo) by Gusy(m): 6:45am On Jul 21, 2015
Dat is how de down steal money
Jokes EtcRe: Funny Names Boys Use To Store Their Girlfriend's Number by Gusy(m): 11:35pm On Dec 19, 2013
;DHahahaha onye

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