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that was definitely a fixed game. No doubt. #ShameonCAF |
It's an old fashion ideology that isn't effective anymore. Am not saying that being a virgin is bad on the contrary I think it's great( it means that there is still people with strong will power) but what I don't like about it is how people(especially women) who aren't virgins are looked down upon. Only God can judge us for our sins so I don't get why people have this tendency to play God with other people's lives and decide that they aren't good enough for marriage just because they aren't virgins anymore. It's like u less of a woman when the true essence of a woman is being able to give love and receive it,it's got nothing to do with being a virgin or not. |
The V word is too overated. Especially in Africa. I mean so what if am not a virgin I am less of a women?? Does that make me a bad person?? Does being a virgin make me more worthed than other people?? No, virgin or not we are ALL equal. I man shouldn't marry a woman because she is a virgin but because he LOVES her. I fade up with this african mentality. That's why white people are miles aways from us,while they busy finding new planets, we Africans are here busy judging people who choose to do what they wish with their bodies. WHO gives a damn about what other people think sex before marriage is not the biggest sin on earth (no sin is bigger than the other) and it is not the only door that the devil can use to destroy your life(how about people are naturally greedy or jealous?? ). LET PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES HOW THEY WANT TO. We are all sinners and only God almighty can judge us. |
I really cannot bring myself to say the L word to ANYONE. Not even to Jesus! But don't get me wrong I love my God, my family and my friends. |
idk how this turned from a bonang thread to let's bash south African women thread. Soooo many stereotypes being thrown around like crazy. |
kgr28:Uhm I said she known for dating famous guys I didn't say she has dated A LOT of them. Ok here is 3 that I know off: slikour,sizwe dlomo and DJ euphonik. |
Really this dude deserves it. He is the best african soccer player out there,probably one of the few who don't really do it for the money. |
She is really well known for dating famous guys. Am not surprised she went for d'banj. Now that she is known all over South Africa she also wants Nigerian to take notice of her *coughs*... talent*...coughs agains* |
lepasharon:omg am also surprised! |
Wasn't this thread about the happy couple? Btw the wedding must have been beautiful coz the pictures are great! |
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I am less of a women?? Does that make me a bad person?? Does being a virgin make me more worthed than other people?? No, virgin or not we are ALL equal. I man shouldn't marry a woman because she is a virgin but because he LOVES her. I fade up with this african mentality. That's why white people are miles aways from us,while they busy finding new planets, we Africans are here busy judging people who choose to do what they wish with their bodies. WHO gives a damn about what other people think