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Emperoh: Your email address is wrong,
I just sent you a mail and it bounced.

call the number on my signature. . . . for more on how i can help u

dmcdad: ^^^ That's more like it...

dmcdad: ^^^ That's more like it...

Queenolly: Ifyou are serious, lets talk. 2a801610. i am more tired of this lonely life than you.

DailyNews: Lol, in fact, gymmaster, if I hear you complain of wife scarcity again eh, I will flog you thirty lashes come on, go out there, I wish I could...hahahahaha....get on your gear and act man, they are many out there, many wonderful, working class girls looking for love and hubby, go find em, and don't go looking for em in nyt clubs, eateries, internet, blah, blah, blah.

Go out, u know what I mean, how do I let u understand what to do o, jeez, go out man...the greatest problem a man has in life is money. Acquiring money is man's greatest problem and mystery, once a man has acquired that, come on, THE WORLD IS YOURS!!! Act wisely and u will get lots of wise ladies to chose from. Don't ever think anything is wrong with u cos u are ok.

And don't believe that there is a special super good lady who is very diff from others cos its a fallacy!!! All women are the same, but act differently to different men they meet.

Woman A may be bad to you, player to Mr. K and angel to Mr. Ibru, that's women for you.

All women got baggage, so learn to manage their baggage and trash, and people will think u got the best women. And don't love with all your heart as a man if u want to live long, love but with total wisdom.

And lastly, most Nigerian women turns good when they marry even more than we guys who turns bad once we marry. Find a girl with few past or no past, avoid WOUNDED LIONS!!! And if you must dare, be very careful, and don't forget my previous counsel: lock your wallet, throw away your atm, and if possible fix your bank account, if any lady can't cope, let her go where To perdition cos there are too many good and big fishes in the river...

With good dressing, good car, good apartment and going the right places and telling the right people about your single status, you will meet zillions of wonderful single ladies to the extent that u will be confused on who to settle with....honestly I hate to see guys, especially those with cash complaining of wife scarcity cos in this present Nigeria, guys with cash rock and they determine when and who to marry. No mind Dbanj, Mikel, etc saying no good girl, they are absolutely not ready to marry yet, so don't join them pls my guy...I wanna see u with that Kim K soon...lol

dmcdad: My bruv the truth is obviously bitter. I don't have a problem with you not being married yet or something. My concern is as regards wife materials you said ain't available and I responded that, if at your age you have not seen a wife material, then something is obviously wrong with you.

Bruv, you have lived on this earth for 39years and you still haven't seen a wife material? I repeat, something is definitely wrong with you. Please do check yourself for you cant tell me there ain't wife materials that's why you have gotten to that age without being married with one. I guess its some other reason.

Bottom line is that, I dont know what your case is like but don't blame it on the women saying no wife materials available nymore.ok now i understand where you are coming from now,no hard feelings,you see i finished my degree a bot later than others,add the stress and time of finding my feet,time don waka,and frankly it is not as if i didnt have a steady girl years back but i was not ready economically wise then, did not really have anyone serious after then cause i was busy building up my business and my work takes 95% of my time,sometimes life is a bitch when i had nothing i had enough time on my hands but when the money stared rolling in time has become gold for me i dont know how to explain this that you will understand me.dont get me wrong i have had some ladies throw themselves at me even some who wouldnt have looked at me twice 10 years ago but guy what am looking for now is a wife,well maybe as someone said here my taste is too high but aint looking for much,just a woman who will love me for me,is that too much to ask?and i hate to marry an arranged wife as my parents tried that in the past but didnt work.

Thanks.

DailyNews: Gymmaster, I would advice you to stay away from exchanging words with people u meet on nairaland and online generally, some of them might be your secretary or even your cleaners...or some teenagers, stay focused and avoid exchanging words with ppl online.

Just take d good suggestions and discard any u find ignorant.

Meanwhile, the lady that said sth abt a 30something year old lady here searching wasn't wrong, its true, I even commented on her thread, she is really determined to make a home of her own, which shows she is ready to settle, so search for her and dnt just be too optimistic o pls, just give it a try, who knows like d lady that told u abt it said.
...but pls put ur wisdom guard on while u do...zip ur pocket, throw away ur atm card, any lady that can't cope without them shud go to where Perdition!!!

Her name is happiness chima or sth like that, search her and PM her and see what's up...she is Igbo frm her name n I am guessing ur Igbo too...

Goodluck my man, dnt let this weigh u down, u have already finished ur battle in life- finance, so be thankful to God and make the right choice of wife, there are plenty of them out there, just go to the right places and avoid kids.

mondi_cheeks: reveal ur face and let us be the judge of that

mondi_cheeks:

angel TI: OP, there is a lady in this section dat said she is 31 n lookin for a serious man. Y not PM her? Who knows? Thank me later wen d deed is done!
# her name is somethin chima something........

DailyNews: if a guy being financially comfortable and single at 30 something is a spiritual problem, then 70 to 80% of Nigerian guys of today are spiritually possessed ....

Don't mind them jareh...just make a decision, you are the boss here...a man can only be limited to make choice of wife when he has no money or still struggling financially, but since you have already succeeded in acquiring the money, come on, you are the boss here so make the decision, and stop believing that money can't buy love cos money can't buy anything in this world except life....

Read my personal statement: "Whoever said money can't buy love, must have gone to the wrong market to shop in the first place", and mind you, this is applicable to only guys......so change your market, go to the right market, there are plenty good girls waiting to love a guy like you...in fact, plenty are ready to kill for your sake...4 classic chicks like that, with one born and bred in Canada, were fighting themselves over one of my good friends, you need to see the wonderful scene...so enjoy your money and be good, then look for good market to shop, but pls be careful with internet runz pls and plss.....you have the cash, so don't just rely on the internet, go out, attend good parties, and inform relatives and friends of your status...even school mates....and don't forget to invite me for the big bash you know....lol

Inik: Tell your people in the village to look for a good wife for you
Attend a bible believing church, give your life to christ and serve him, he will grant your heart desire

You are right, money cannot buy love

dmcdad: You are yet to find a wife at that age? Honestly, something is obviously wrong with you. Please check on yourself thoroughly before u assert that there is no wife material available anymore.

I think the problem is with you and not the girls. Check well abeg

aanumama: If you cant get a wife among all your small girls then you are not a husband material either!

lacicrips: Weird.

DailyNews: Hello mr gymmaster, honestly, I sympathise with you becos I have lots of friends, lol, I mean, dozens in your shoe...lol, life...but they aren't near your age though, u are way older and that makes me worried with ur own case, hmmm


You know, in as much as I sometimes believe that there is scarcity of wife material ladies in present day Nigeria, I still find it hard to believe that u can't find one who is at least 60 percent ok to go with...

Remember, we are the decision makers as guys when it comes to deciding when and who to marry, so do sth pls...cos if u the decision maker is crying, what do u expect from d ladies whose fate lies in the hands of the guys?

I can only take financial/economy as reason for being single from a guy of 35yrs and above, but for him to say: there are no wife materials when he is financially settled like u said u are now, come on gymmaster, change ur style and location pls.

Lol, you have to also lower your taste, I understand as a guy with cash and maybe some super rides, lol, u want a replica of Kim K or say our own Omotola...lol...but hey, those kinds come with loads of uncertainties...and again,lol, I am not saying u shud go for ugly ladies o...not from me o either....just be realistic...

One of my elder brothers xprenced this, but then, he was kind of a playboy unkowingly to him, sampling diff women from all works of life, only to dismiss them with one flimsy excuse until God rescued him and he stumbled upon his first gfrnd, after a decade plus breakup and that was d EOD....so pray and dnt ignore those u knew in d past...


Lastly, I approve ur age limit. In fact, I am anti guys marrying girls below 25yrs for so many reasons, go for the mature ladies...and dnt just conclude that u must find her on the internet o....tread cautiously....and widen your search and don't ignore visiting home (village) during festive seasons and also tell ur relatives that u are searching, sometimes best wives come via those introduction.

If u are in lagos, try and be going for weekend cinema shows at silverbird...lol, though friends condemn there...lol, said it has been infiltrated too...lol...trouble...just pray and open ur eyes jareh...

Goodluck and pls dnt complain abt scarcity of wife material cos u are the boss, so decide wisely!!!