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FamilyRe: Which Is Better: Boy Or Girl As First-born? by halavoke: 8:49am On Jan 07, 2014
folymania: Hi,
I'm new @ this section and I need to hear ur opinion on sth.

Just wedded last month and its been fun.
The honey-moon has refused to end grin
But while my hubby and I came back from S/Africa (4m the honey-moon),
His mum took me aside and said she would like to have a baby-boy.

She was all blabbing about how it is better to have a boy as first born. Claiming that it would be difficult to handle a girl in this corrupt county of ours.

While I lightly pressed my point on the fact that a first born girl will still have time for her parents and siblings far longer than a boy.

U won't believe I've been having it tough with my in-law ever since and even my hubby has joined her huh

I really don't care. I just trust God 4 whatever he gives me. And I'll play my role.

But what do u guys think ? undecided
.

Wateva GOD gives u is fine and will work out for ur good. No need to worry worry about such tins. Personally i wud prefer a gal 1st sha
PoliticsRe: FOI Not Binding On States- Lagos Govt by halavoke: 2:02pm On Jan 04, 2014
This is not about who owns lagos or where lagos residents really hail from or asking pple to go back to their states. If ur reasoning always stems from these or dovetails into these then ur tot process and reasoning are warped. I never thought i would see pple fight againt accountability, transparency and probity at the state level even as we all know corruption is our greatest challenge. Its so appalling to find some of you here arguing against states adopting and passing the bill. With pple like you no1 needs to wonder if nigeri wud eva get beta
PoliticsRe: Plane Crash In Lagos At Airport Road MMIA Near Toll Gate by halavoke: 11:14am On Oct 03, 2013
guonno: They will keep crashing in the west until they leave enugu international airport alone, period.
Dis is a vry insensitive n irresponsible post! Where are d mods?
PoliticsRe: Plane Crash In Lagos At Airport Road MMIA Near Toll Gate by halavoke: 10:58am On Oct 03, 2013
See as thread full! Gd medium n tym for doomsday prophets to show their talent. RIP to d dead!
PoliticsRe: Plane Crash In Lagos At Airport Road MMIA Near Toll Gate by halavoke: 10:47am On Oct 03, 2013
Nigeria n poor air safety! Even d dead now have dier own share of plane crash.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by halavoke:
kunlesehan: if u put onions in cold water b4 cutting it also prevents one from crying.
I store mine in d fridge so no tears at all wen am cutting dem
Nairaland GeneralSHOCKING: 7 Members Of Ogbonnaya’s Family Run Mad by halavoke(op): 10:43am On Oct 02, 2013
Unbelievable story of Mr Ogbonnaya Ani who
has 7 members of his family insane. He hails
from Umuose Urobo in the Uburu area of
Ohaozara LGA of Ebonyi State. The Ani
family is being ravaged by the spirit of
madness.
Ogbonnaya Ani’s elder brother’s daughter is mentally
challenged. His younger brother’s son is in the same
condition. Three of his own children, a male and two
females, are equally afflicted. His daughter-in-law is
not left out. So, there are six mentally ill persons in the
family and, perhaps, still counting. Worst still, one of
Ani’s mentally challenged daughters is heavily pregnant
and no one seems to know who impregnated her…
And before his first wife died, she exhibited some
signs of madness.
Recently, Mr Ogbonnaya told the stranger than fiction
story. There is no doubt that the madness ravaging his
immediate and nuclear families have left its toll on the
old man. Sadness is evident in his sunken eyes. He looked
frail and his voice quakes in palpable agony as he spoke.
But for the magnanimity of a relation, Mr Ani and his
household would not have had a place to lay their heads.
This is because his mentally challenged son, Igwe Ani,
alias Martin Martin, set his house ablaze. And before
help could come, the structure had been reduced to
ashes.
So, currently, Ogbonnaya and his family are squatters
somewhere in Uburu, Ohaozara LGA of Ebonyi State.
When the reporter visited the family last
Wednesday, Ozieme, his beautiful but insane daughter,
was hanging around. With her tummy protruding as a
result of advanced pregnancy, she looked vacantly into
space, perhaps unaware of her environment and
condition. A few times she smiled and muttered to
herself. When asked to pose for a photograph,
Ozieme obliged.
“This place we are is not my house,” Ogbonnaya began.
“My place is further up, after Oriebe. I relocated to
this place because of the problem that I’m facing. I had
a small mud house and I made it good enough for people
to stay in before the problem started through my son,
Igwe. It first started with Igwe and his sister, Ozieme
joined later. While Igwe’s problem started at home,
Ozieme’s started from outside the community. When
she travelled and returned, she began to behave
abnormally.”
In an agony laden voice, Ogbonnaya continued: “I don’t
know how it started but we suspected or thought
that Igwe joined his mates to smoke all sorts of things. I
cautioned him to stop it if he was indulging in such act
but there was no difference. We used to beat him to
stop smoking to know if he would but to no avail. He
started manifesting madness about eight years ago. He
was still in primary school when it started; he was in
Primary Four when he broke loose. Because of the
problem, he couldn’t continue with his education. I
cannot really say if he brought it upon himself by
smoking certain substances or it is a problem destined
to come”.
He said that the problem reached a crescendo when
Igwe burnt down his house. “He used to pack all sorts
of rubbish and dump in the house. It was impossible to
chase him out of the house because he used to wield
cutlasses and wood, threatening to harm anyone who
gets close to him. At a point, he had outgrown
everybody. On a certain day, he set the house ablaze
and before people could come to fight the fire, things
had got out of hand. That was how the building
containing two rooms, a parlour and big verandah were
razed down. Thereafter, we became homeless, so I
brought my wife and kids to stay in a relation’s place.
That was how we relocated.”
Ani said that his daughter was okay until a certain man
from Nsukka in Enugu State came to seek her hand in
marriage. According to him, the man eloped with the
girl, adding that by the time she returned home, she had
lost her mind even as she nursed a baby.
His words: “In the case of Ozieme, there was a time
she travelled to Enugu to stay with her brother. There
she started a relationship with one man from Nsukka
and they agreed to marry. She brought the man home
and introduced him to us. After meeting with us, the
man said that he was going to prepare and come back
for the formalization of the relationship. She insisted
on going with the man; we asked her to wait for the
man to go and come but she refused. We didn’t see
the man again.
“When she was coming back, she came with a baby and
started behaving in a manner we could not understand.
We tried all we could to deal with the situation but to
no avail. This thing happened about five years ago and
we have not set eyes on the man ever since. She didn’t
have the soundness of mind to breastfeed and
properly care for the baby and she died. Right now,
she is heavily pregnant, she will be putting to bed
anytime and we do not know who is responsible for the
pregnancy.
“Again, another of my daughter who is married and a
seamstress is also behaving abnormally.
“I cannot explain how this problem came into the
family. From our parents, we did not experience any
such thing. It did not happen to my eldest brother, who
had died.”
Source: The Sun

PoliticsRe: PHCN Strike: Is There Light In Your Area? by halavoke: 10:23am On Oct 02, 2013
Have had light since monday nite! No shaking. Fresh air don de blow here
Nairaland GeneralRe: 3 Teenagers Arrested For Attempting To Stowaway In Lagos by halavoke: 11:39am On Oct 01, 2013
Thank God they are all from diff parts of nigeria, an igbo n yoruba are ably represented. If not tribalists wud av taken ova d trend as usual. Nairaland is fast turning to tribal-land! Wonda y all dis youths tink de can sneak on an int'l flight, omo if u r nt inside d plane on a long distance flight u don kpai b dat!
PoliticsRe: Model Of MKO Abiola International Airport, Ido-osun, Osun State. by halavoke: 2:35pm On Sep 26, 2013
veraponpo: Whatever research you did, it did not change the fact Chief Awolowo helped your fathers in Nigeria including Azikwe and Ojukwu to own a television, it still doesn't change the fact that Yoruba people thought your great grand fathers how to read and write in Nigeria. So research well too before you say my gov is having a misplaced priority on a project, don't distract Ogbeni Aregbesola... if he likes he can decide to build seaport.lol
Kilode! See attack! I never knew all d teachers in pre n post colonial tyms were yorubas! I am jst putting facts strait oh because ur statement about us havin tv b4 brazil n france was misleading! Where do u pull all dis facts from? As per tribal rants I don't partake in dose cos its silly, stooopid n childish, if aregbe lik afta O'airport mak he build O'seasport n den O' motorport! Lol
PoliticsRe: Model Of MKO Abiola International Airport, Ido-osun, Osun State. by halavoke: 2:33pm On Sep 26, 2013
veraponpo: Whatever research you did, it did not change the fact Chief Awolowo helped your fathers in Nigeria including Azikwe and Ojukwu to own a television, it still doesn't change the fact that Yoruba people thought your great grand fathers how to read and write in Nigeria. So research well too before you say my gov is having a misplaced priority on a project, don't distract Ogbeni Aregbesola... if he likes he can decide to build seaport.lol
PoliticsRe: Model Of MKO Abiola International Airport, Ido-osun, Osun State. by halavoke: 2:33pm On Sep 26, 2013
veraponpo: Whatever research you did, it did not change the fact Chief Awolowo helped your fathers in Nigeria including Azikwe and Ojukwu to own a television, it still doesn't change the fact that Yoruba people thought your great grand fathers how to read and write in Nigeria. So research well too before you say my gov is having a misplaced priority on a project, don't distract Ogbeni Aregbesola... if he likes he can decide to build seaport.lol
Kilode! See attack! I never knew all d teachers in pre n post colonial tyms were yorubas! I am jst putting facts strait oh because ur statement about us havin tv b4 brazil n france was misleading! Where do u pull all dis facts from? As per tribal rants I don't partake in dose cos its silly, stooopid n childish, if aregbe lik afta O'airport mak he build O'seasport n den O' motorport! Lol
PoliticsRe: Model Of MKO Abiola International Airport, Ido-osun, Osun State. by halavoke: 2:28pm On Sep 26, 2013
veraponpo: Whatever research you did, it did not change the fact Chief Awolowo helped your fathers in Nigeria including Azikwe and Ojukwu to own a television, it still doesn't change the fact that Yoruba people thought your great grand fathers how to read and write in Nigeria. So research well too before you say my gov is having a misplaced priority on a project, don't distract Ogbeni Aregbesola... if he likes he can decide to build seaport.lol
PoliticsRe: Model Of MKO Abiola International Airport, Ido-osun, Osun State. by halavoke: 1:51pm On Sep 26, 2013
veraponpo: When you think of economic development, it should always be seen holistically. There is no place that pushes tourism more than Osun State with over 20 tourists-bound locations in Osun State, the best the governor can do is to create a conducive environment that will make transportation-air, road, rail, etc accessible and attractive to the tourists.

When Chief Obafemi Awolowo built cocoa house, Nigeria was a small village then, when he brought first television to Ibadan, France did not have TV, South Africa, Brazil,etc did not have it. So you don't have to think of now alone, always think of the future too.

Better be proactive than reactive...

Ogbeni is on course...
John logie baird

teamed up with Bernard Natan
of Pathé established France's first television company (Télévision-Baird-Natan., )in november 1929,

Television in Brazil has grown significantly since the
first broadcasts in 1950, becoming one of largest and
most productive commercial television systems in the
world.[1] Its biggest network, Rede Globo, is the
second largest commercial network in the world, and is
one of the largest television exporters around the
world, particularly of telenovelas, which have become
popular in many countries.

The first television station in Nigeria NTA Ibadan was establish in 1959.
Nigeria only got TV b4 RSA. Pls research well so u don't mislead others wit ya post!
PoliticsRe: Sahara TV Interviews President Jonathan On The Streets Of New York by halavoke: 10:26am On Sep 26, 2013
Orlando Owoh: The office he holds also gives room for him to be criticised. Unfortunatele most people including himself do not know this which was why he was angry when he said he was the most criticised president in the world.
And yes he's right! Other countries who criticise their presidents don't raise up tribal, regional or useless sentiments like many nigerians do. Every criticism in a sane country is point based n objective, if u can't criticise constructively just shut up. Calling him names on social media is jst so stoooopid too
PoliticsRe: President Jonathan Leads 600-man Delegation To UN General Assembly - SaharaRepo by halavoke: 8:36am On Sep 24, 2013
In a bid to be sensational n eye-opening, SR have turned to serial liars. 600 pple ke! How una take reason d story sef? Based on kpom or liquor hyness?
PoliticsRe: 2015: Jonathan May Convene Sovereign National Conference by halavoke: 6:21pm On Sep 15, 2013
Abegiii! Who's afraid of a sovereign national conference. And if GEJ changes his mind on it holdin so be it. Political decisions are nt cast in stone, de r n must b dynamic. If its splits nigeria so be it TOOO. Then ND will have their oil to demselves, d SW can hav their welfarist policies at state n federal levels n also have lagos to demselves alone. The SE can hav their much sought afta Biafra. The north can also b sure of ruling demselves cos 'de were born to rule'. I don tire for dis union of unwilling tribes n regions. Dem all u tribalists won't have wat to argue bout again!
PoliticsRe: 2015: Jonathan May Convene Sovereign National Conference by halavoke: 5:50pm On Sep 15, 2013
swedbase: Which may eventually brake up the country
Is it nt beta to break dan continue to deceive ourselves as one fake Nigeria?
Christianity EtcRe: Chelsea Jersey Is A Free Ticket To Hell by halavoke: 5:42pm On Sep 15, 2013
ItsModella: Shut the hell up, your bullshit is becoming unbearable. I was clearly joking when I made the comments ochongonoko quoted and all your dimwitted brain could make out of it was that I live in the slums. You don't even know what transpired between me and the person I directed those comments at and you're talking nonsense. What is even more ridiculous is that you actually think made some valid point. Dude, abeg have a seat, ain't nobody got time for your useless prayer.
I knw u are good at insults, pls continue. That's where ur talents rily lies. You showed enuf of dat on d BBA thread in dis same forum. It all buttresses my point further.
Christianity EtcRe: Chelsea Jersey Is A Free Ticket To Hell by halavoke: 5:32pm On Sep 15, 2013
Saint Chukz: ^ Guy...i know the reason why the babe called you dense, believe it or not i'm afraid she was right... cheesy
Anoda mumu responds! its nt ur fault, Free n cheap MB makes pple like u xpress stupid opinions online.
Beta waka pass
Christianity EtcRe: Chelsea Jersey Is A Free Ticket To Hell by halavoke: 4:04pm On Sep 15, 2013
ItsModella: LOL...you're unbelievably dense sha.
So insulting me is d best u can do? I won't come down to ur level. I gave u a point showing u why u av nt met a refined chelsea fan, and all u can do is insult me. Who's refined here nw? I undstd ur type, since u don't have any reasonable reply u decided to switch to insults. I will say a simple prayer 4 u, may God rescue u from poverty!
Christianity EtcRe: Chelsea Jersey Is A Free Ticket To Hell by halavoke: 2:41pm On Sep 15, 2013
ItsModella: Oh interesting. So tell me where in Nigeria I stay, smart one.
U say u have neva met a refined chelsea fan, there are refined chelsea fans in Vgc, lekki, ajah,magodo, ogudu, ikeja gra, V.I n oda choice places in lagos. Don't go lookin 4 a refined fan in mushin, ajegunle or any oda countless rough areas in lagos. Am nt talkin of d state or part of naija where u stay bt d kind of immediate environ u live in or wok in!
Christianity EtcRe: Chelsea Jersey Is A Free Ticket To Hell by halavoke: 2:40pm On Sep 15, 2013
ItsModella: Oh interesting. So tell me where in Nigeria I stay, smart one.
U say u have neva met a refined chelsea fan, there are refined chelsea fans in Vgc, lekki, ajah,magodo, ogudu, ikeja gra, V.I n oda choice places in lagos. Don't go lookin 4 a refined fan in mushin, ajegunle or any oda countless rough areas in lagos
PoliticsRe: Enugu Is One Of The Poorest States In Nigeria. by halavoke: 2:01pm On Sep 15, 2013
asha 80: are you sure you are from the sw?
See dis one, because he no talk wetin u wan hear u de ask silly question
Christianity EtcRe: Chelsea Jersey Is A Free Ticket To Hell by halavoke: 1:49pm On Sep 15, 2013
Dis nairaland is bcomin a gatherin of weirdos, tribalists, politician's laptop dogs n countless oda doomsday prophets n prophetess. Imagine itsmodella sayin she's neva met a refined chelsea fan, dat statement alone says a lot of d crowd u mingle wit n d part of nig u stay in.
PoliticsRe: Enugu Is One Of The Poorest States In Nigeria. by halavoke:
Kairoseki kilode! Wat is ur obsession wit enugu? Last tym u were yabbing the airline coy flying int'l from enugu! If enugu is poor or rich does it affect you or yourr daily bread? Only place in SW beta dan enugu is lagos, if its a poor state shoprite n oda coys won't b dere all dis yrs. Ibadan jst got shoprite dis year btw. Enugu has almost twice d GDP of ekiti, from ur analysis d pple of ekiti must b dying of starvation
PoliticsRe: Tambuwal Alleges PDP Of Plot To Rig 2015 Polls Using Ex-militants by halavoke: 9:37am On Sep 15, 2013
Wsdm: ... Very rare! In fact very very rare!
Intelligence is a sound mind, an intelligent mind must hav knowledge of a topic b4 commenting! You are just showing how stoopid n dull u are. Any one dragging issues wit u is stooping too low n wud b playin in d scum-like mud where u inhabit
PoliticsRe: Tambuwal Alleges PDP Of Plot To Rig 2015 Polls Using Ex-militants by halavoke: 9:31am On Sep 15, 2013
kingoflag: Thats not true!

The problem with trying to impeach an incompetent dunce like GEJ is that people like you in the Igbo tribe will do anything to turn it into another war cry in attempts to destabilize the country and start another Biafra/Nigeria war; this has been clearly obvious in yalls group praise of a Government thats has been shunned and publicly ridiculed by Western Governments, its officials and media.

Every right thinking person knows GEJ should have been impeached within the first 90 days when he started showing ominous signs of what was to come down the road. But for the South East turning everything into "tribe-and-religion", this corrupt, incompetent dunce of a man yall got as head of your country shouldve been long gone.
Mr man, is jonathan nw from d SE? You are just displaying your ignorance online
PoliticsRe: Tambuwal Alleges PDP Of Plot To Rig 2015 Polls Using Ex-militants by halavoke: 9:22am On Sep 15, 2013
Desola: Hahaha... How can dullards rig? Have you come across an intelligent SS or se person once before?

Muhahaha...
How can u make such a blanket statement, it simply shows your very deep, negative and biased tribal sentiment. You have shown no shred of intelligence in this statement, if you read through the annals of nigeria and follow current news you would surely observe that intelligence is not found in just one part or some parts of nigeria, asking pple like you to read is a waste of time tho! To see people of your ilk liking your fallacious statement is not really a surprise. It shows how low, twisted and sickening your minds have become. Continue in this trend because if it will make you a better person and make our society fairer
PoliticsRe: Policewoman Stripped Unclad In Onitsha By Ngozi Okpagu And His Boys by halavoke: 9:02am On Sep 15, 2013
Op sef de suffer from 'bigmanism', because he's vry rich u don't want to mention his name. Please this is an injustice, if it was the police harassing d bigman am sure u wud av snapped n posted d policewoman's photo n name here jst like wat we have seen of recent. If u r known wit ur username, create anoda n den give a clearer picture to ur story by naming him, let dis so called big man b exposed!
FamilyRe: A Tribute To All Mums !!!(photo) by halavoke: 8:45am On Sep 15, 2013
Gentle, humble, prayerful, beautiful n a pillar evry1 rallied around. She was already praying n fasting believing God for successful lives n happy marriages on our behalf while we were still kids. She must lend a helping hand even if it means borrowing. Mum's motivation n prayers keeps me going. She was my 1st love, friend n mentor. Tho she's late I'll always remember her n know she's in a beta place. 9yrs gone n its still like yesterday. Most painful part is she didn't live to see how good n great all her kids turned out or really enjoy our adults years with us.
Wishing God blessings on all mothers, they shall all reap their rewards here on earth n in heaven
PoliticsRe: Soyinka: The Mad Old Professor (MOP) by halavoke: 12:07am On Jul 23, 2013
Am nt igbo bt I tink de r d wisest to hav tried to leave dis loosely bound association called nigeria. Imagine d tribalistic, biased n useless gps n people we hav as citizens, even on nairaland here its so evident. U not only display it in ur daily dealings, u nw com online n show ur useless n sick behaviour to d world. This is nt a country!

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