DSS1335: A very good young woman whom her husband abandoned last year lost her 1 year old child this morning. They jovial baby was very healthy on Sunday, by Monday morning, the baby was suffering from diarrhea and vomiting. According to the mum, she was prescribed pediatric antibiotic Amoxicillin along with antimalarial (Lonart susp), paracetamol syrup and Rophegan. I was alarmed on why she gave her child Rophegan 5ml, normally this antiemetic drug is not recommended for children under 2 years of age. Unfortunately this early morning the child was gasping for breath while crying loudly and died few hours later.
The issue now is that she is from far away east. She doesn't want to travel home. I have a very large space in my compound, and want to bury the child there. I consulted my kins, they objected it that I should never allow such to happen that it's against our tradition. That a child should be buried in his father's home or public cemetery. This tenant have already made up her mind to Park out few months after her rent expires due to the scandals of separating from her husband. Should I go ahead and allow her or alternatively raise funds for her to travel to the east to bury the child there. Though she isn't forthcoming with my alternative.
N/B I am of Rivers state, Ikwerre to be precise, the lady from Umuahia
Update: The mother of the lady came late in the afternoon from Abia state and pleaded I should allow them bury the baby in my compound. After considering some notable advice from here coupled with the warning from my kinsmen, I declined. The lady's mother contacted their branch pastor and they made arrangements to bury her in a place provided by their church. Later this evening the woman came back insulting my family that we are very wicked for not allowing their baby to be buried in my compound. If not for the sympathy I had for the mother mourning her loss, I would have lost my cool. This was the same woman responsible for the breakdown of her daughter's marriage. After marriage, she came to live with the new couple who parked into my apartment newly. Instigating her daughter against her husband. Using her daughter as a proxy to siphon off her husband's wealth, a Dubai-based businessman. Controlling the man forcefully, preventing him from socializing with others because of her insecurity complexes. The last straw that broke the marriage was when the lady and her mother teamed up to lock the husband indoors for 4 days and transferred all his money to the wife's account. That whenever he needs his own money, he should tell the wife. In short, the marriage broke down irreconcilably and the husband relocated to another state and never came back, he was neither interested in the child that was born 3 months after nor care to inquire about their wellbeing
santaclaws: Definitely, he did go against ethics of his profession but imagine the same person who willingly slept with him being the one claiming vulnerability... Jezebels like her have ruined many men.
At the end of the day, it's better to not lose-guard as I wrote earlier. Anything like intimate relationship in your workplace should be avoided by all means.
TRASH, U CHEAT YOURSELF, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THE WORK PLACE IS FOR.
DEY ARE ALL DOING IT, JUST MAKE SURE U DO IT WELL.
It sounds like a consensual sexual relationship between the two but they had their disagreement along the way and she is now suing him to take advantage of the fact that he is a medical professional having sexual relationship with his former patient and she is just a sex worker and has nothing to lose in the case.
MEN ARE SHY?
A WOMAN DONT HAVE THAT LEVEL OF SHYNESS.
HENCE THEY CAN DRESS AND EXPOSE THEMSELVES ANY HOW IN PUBLIC,
EVEN THEIR PRIVATE PART THEY CAN EXPOSE IT.
WEN WOMEN PROTEST IN AFRICA IS TO EXPOSE THEMSELVES.
SO, ANYHOW U LOOK AT IT, THAT DOCTOR IS NOW DISGRACED.
PEOPLE WONT LOOK AT HIM THE SAMD AND HE HAS LOST RESPECT.
hodusglobal: See the mumus calling their President mumu... Igbo dey bear Olusegun, Aremu or Obasanjo... You all failed. Try to go and ask from your elders who Obasanjo is... No be this same Obasanjo dem take captured una fathers and Grandfathers during the Biafra war?
IF U KNOW ANY OTHER FATHER OBJ HAVE ASIDE IGWE ONYEJEKWE.
WHICH YORUBA DEY ANSWER OBASANJO, U DON HEAR THAT NAME BEFORE?
jogojogo: Another Yoruba thread This guy's are really pained Just yesterday a dead body was kidnapped in Enugu having arrived from Lagos... That one no concern Okolo and Obiageli
U NEED A SEPARATE COUNTRY OR GO BACK TO BENIN AND TOGO, MAKE WE CHECK WHETHER THIS THING WAY DEY DO UNA GO STOP.