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FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF:
Mindfulness:
You are nothing more and nothing less than an i.diot of the worst sort. If you ever plan to commit suicide, I will help you.
Na like this, e dey take start. #Team Handsome#... Afonja stop the jealousy.
#A man most loyal associate#.

FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF:
cococandy:
Igbo culture my asss.
When a law has been passed to eradicate that disgusting tradition that denies women right to inheritance, this one is bringing his own sick twisted understanding to it.
Thunder will fire him and whoever is supporting him to fight his sister over her land.
Bush animal.
Dont let Afonja deceive u, no such law exist.

More importantly, wat law protects u and ur daughter wen Afonja and Aboki kidnap one, rape and force into marriage/Islam?

That is y we dont value u girls in igboland, ur simply a lower intelligent.

I will specially write a will telling my daughter that i love her with the things eternal but love my sons with everything material.

I have given her the share that belongs to her, love and protection, wat was left, i gave to her on her wedding day.

She got the best of everything and i will always love her. Hence she is not included in my property distribution.

U call us animal but want to inherit animal property. Is it not animal property u people are after?

The animal dont want u to have any of his property, on that matter, his sons are favored.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF:
They think we are weak and they can control us but little do they know that we are the strongest.

Can there be a Nigeria without Igbo? No!

They will fall apart.

No law can stop me from denying my own daughters of my property.

I simply dont wnt dem to have it. Most igbo men are the same on this matter.

She only stand a chance if i have no sons.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 2:37am On Mar 04, 2017
davidif:
Wrong!!!! i am commenting on an injustice that i feel is egregious on a free and public domain and i am allowed to comment when i want to. How is that any of your business? I would say what i want when i want to say it. Come and sue me.

Goodness gracious! whatever happened to this website?
SEE ARTICLE... THAT IS AN INJUSTICE. A CHILD RAPED, DEPRIVED OF EDUCATION AND FAMILY LIFE.

ISLAMISED AND FORCED INTO MARRIAGE BY OLATUNJI FROM YORUBALAND, AN AFONJA LIKE U.

SHE IS AN IGBO GIRL. THIS IS THE RECENT TREND OR MAYBE WE ARE JUST GETTING INFORMED OF THIS, DUE TO THE GROWTH OF SOCIAL MEDIA.

TELL UR BROS TO STOP KIDNAPPING AND RAPING CHILDREN AND FORCING THEM INTO MARRIAGE/ISLAM.

IT IS A CRIME AGAINST HUMANITY AND A CRIMINAL OFFENCE.

LEAVE CIVIL MATTERS CONCERNING IGBO INHERITANCE LAW, U ARE NOT IGBO AND DONT KNOW THE CULTURE, LANGUAGE OR PEOPLE.

http://www.authorityngr.com/2017/02/Rose-Peter-Chukwu--Case-of-forced-marriage/
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 1:52am On Mar 04, 2017
WHY ALL THIS LAZY AFONJA MEN DISTURBING OUR PEACE, WHEN GIRLS ARE TAKEN FROM THEIR FAMILY AND FORCED INTO MARRIAGE?

SHOULD THEY NOT BE CONCERNED WITH SUCH KIDNAP, RAPE, CHILD MOLESTATION AND ISLAMISATION, AS WELL AS FORCED MARRIAGE?

O I FORGOT, RECENTLY, ONE YORUBA MAN FROM KWARA WAS THE LATEST INVOLVED IN SUCH GROSS VIOLATION OF HUMAN RIGHTS.

HIS VICTIM IS OUR IGBO SISTER, WHOM HE KIDNAP AS A CHILD, HELD FOR TEN YEARS AGAINST HER WILL UNTIL SHE ESCAPED.

IGBO WOMEN ARE NOT SAYING A WORD, DONT U THINK WE ARE MORE LIKELY TO LISTEN TO OUR SISTERS THAN U?

IN THE REAL LIFE, I WOULD PUT MY FOOT IN UR MOUTH WITH INTENTION OF KICKING OUT UR AFONJA TEETH FOR INTERFERING.

http://www.authorityngr.com/2017/02/Rose-Peter-Chukwu--Case-of-forced-marriage/
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF:
davidif:
Dude it doesn't matter whether it a tradition or not wrong is Wrong! The fact that something used to be done in the past does not mean it was right back then. An unjust law is still an unjust law.
Culture is supposed to be dynamic and open to scrutiny of modern day perspectives.

In Calabar back in the day twins were seen as evil and had to be killed but today the practice is no more. In Benin kingdom human sacrifice was practiced until the British came and burned the whole place down. The same should be for every tradition that violates the rights of every human being.

AND WHO SAYS IT IS WRONG? U?

Y ONLY YORUBA MEN COMPLAINING?

Y SHOW MUCH CONCERN ABOUT THE IGBO INHERITANCE LAW?

ARE U TO TELL US WAT TO DO? WHO ARE U?

MY FRIEND HAVE SEVERAL SEATS.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 10:04pm On Mar 03, 2017
ChopBellefull:
u got it all wrong... What belongs to d wife automatically belongs to d husband nd vive versa... So if u get married to a woman who owns her own hauz..den u own d hauz too... Nt d lady's family
ON SECOND THOUGHT, UR POST OFFERS AND INSIGHT.

IN UR POST, U ARE QUICK TO REMOVE HER FAMILY FROM SHARING OWNERSHIP OF HER PROPERTY. undecided

U ARE QUICK TO CLAIM OWNERSHIP OF HER PROPERTY.

YET U EXPECT HER FAMILY TO WILL PROPERTY TO HER AND BY SO DOING WILL THEIR PROPERTY TO U.

THIS IS WAT THE IGBO CULTURE IS AGAINST.

IN IGBO CULTURE, IT IS THE HUSBAND PROPERTY THAT BELONGS TO HIS WIFE AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND.

THAT IS WHY THE IGBO WOMAN IS NICKNAMED ORIAKU... OBIAGELIAKU! Igbo means 'consumer of wealth'

UR WIFE PROPERTY BELONGS TO HER AND HER CHILDREN, IF NOT, IT REVERTS BACK TO HER FAMILY, NOT U.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:43pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dapsonemmanuel:
..dude you need to be in the assylum .. why on earth are you just attacking everyone you come across .. funny part is you wont be like this in reality yet you come online and start forming one tribalistic mofo .. how about you be real for once
U never met me, u dont know wat am like. Besides not everybody that shines teeth for u, like u. Be careful!
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:40pm On Mar 03, 2017
ChopBellefull:
u got it all wrong... What belongs to d wife automatically belongs to d husband nd vive versa... So if u get married to a woman who owns her own hauz..den u own d hauz too... Nt d lady's family
I think u are better off not quoting me to be honest.

I dont go around looking for women with money, i rather like to have more than her.

I wont marry any woman richer than me, how is that even possible? Wat was she doing?

I am not a gold digging man.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:25pm On Mar 03, 2017
Igbos have maintained this tradition for centuries.

Our Igbo brothers and sisters have not yet complained becos we dont expect to take land with wife.

First they complain about Bride Price becos they are not use to it, they expect her family to foot the bill becos they are doing them a favour marrying their daughter.

Now these none igbo that have been allowed to marry from us accidentally, contrarily to our tradition want land too.

unless am no longer on earth will that happen.

many will die.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:21pm On Mar 03, 2017
femolii:
Osus matter tire me oo
loser!

FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
The bible says from the East came wise men.


Wen ur dealing with men from the East, just know that before u think of it, they have already thought of it.


Be very careful.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
ChopBellefull:
What kinda tradition z dat abeg... Dey shld kuku strip her nakkked nd gv her to her husband unclad.. To justify dat she goes nt with family belongings
Y dont u let her Brothers come and inherit ur father property becos u marry their sister? That is a much better arrangement.

u marry my sister, i come and collect land for ur place and set up mansion. grin
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:09pm On Mar 03, 2017
slurryeye:
I'm not trying to castigate any tradition or culture as I believe every tribe in Africa has one or more tradition that needs to be eradicated. However, I think there are some traditions in Igboland especially those that has to do with women, inheritance and lands that need to be modified or eradicated.

Who u be now?

Igbo tradition for Igbos only. We make it 4 ourselves and we are never tired of them.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:49pm On Mar 03, 2017
So, if becos u see am a billionaire and u will rather die than not marry my daughter, marry her and take several seats, becos i no send u.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:45pm On Mar 03, 2017
andyanders:
Are you telling me that she should also hand over her school certificates which she obtained before getting married to someone like you as a culture? Are you also saying that her bank account she opened before she got married should be given to you useless people because of culture? I think most of you guys should be thrown away from the face of this earth.

The lady should hire me as her legal rep and I will make sure people like you pay for that.

She bought the property with her money before she got married and now she is married, she should forget about her legal acquired property because of useless culture?Nonsense. You are the type when your brother dies, you collect the property he left for his widow and children. You guys has killed many widows as a result of a useless culture.

U will find that i will be too much for u. U cannot cope! U wont last one day in my world.

Ordinary Nnamdi Kanu have disgraced ur Zoogeria now u want to embark on a family matters that has absolutely nothing to do with u, shame suppose catch u. Man Gold digger!
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:38pm On Mar 03, 2017
For all of u running ur mouth here, if our sisters does not marry, she gets same inheritances as the boyz.


The whole idea is to stop gold digging men from reaping where they did not sow.


We all know women get emotional and lose sight of reality and their husband take over.


Igbo culture have already caged him off ancestral assets and assets belonging to her family.


The culture is actually targeted at her Husband.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF:
Abagworo:
The truth is that the brother is trying to protect his sister an exploitative husband. The full story is not out yet but there exists no such culture anywhere in Igboland.
Spoken like a wise man. U know an Igbo voice once u hear it. Wat an elder see sitting, a child standing have not yet seen it.

All this yahoo yahoo marriages today, married today, divorced tomorrow.

Assets need protection from gold digging men that will exploit her emotionally and rob the family blind.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:22pm On Mar 03, 2017
slysteel:
Their is no tradition in igbo land that says one cannot buy a land by herself and build what she wants,millions of women own houses in igbo land, its either the reporter got the whole scenario wrong or they have a different family problem behind this but whatever it is,that her brother is a crook..
Gbam! Well said!
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:19pm On Mar 03, 2017
andyanders:
That is a useless culture. I am highly disappointed that despite her brothers stay in UK, that he is stil an undeveloped human being.

What kind of a useless culture is that. The property she bought with her money and not that she inherited from her parents before getting married should be taken away from her? She should take them to court.

Her brother should be asked to vacate UK and return to Nigeria because he is a disgrace to mankind.
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Are u igbo? The culture is meant for Igbos alone.


If ur not, then it is bitterness talking.


By the way, have u looked at the culture of your tribe, not to know that they are useless?


U know wat they say, charity begins at home.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 8:12pm On Mar 03, 2017
lollz!


Igbo to the core mehn!


Instead una go corrupt my culture, i rather we go and form our own country.


We know send anybody Ooooooo!
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 7:39pm On Mar 03, 2017
samsongbemisola:
funny enough this same set of people will be calling Nigeria a Zoo.
Nigeria is a Zoo. Our Igbo culture is much better than ur yoruba culture.

We dont have babaloja and mamaloja that go to market to extort money from people.

Our mothers dont have to foot the bill of her own wedding, paying groom price.

The ancestral land i get from my ancestors will still belong to me and any igbo girl that i marry and my sisters will get their one from their husband.

It is an arrangement and must be respected and followed.

Enough of all this we are modern business, our ancestors were wiser.

We are modern these girls will say but they are over 40 no husband whereas if we went with our cultures they would all be married.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 7:34pm On Mar 03, 2017
Now let me add my own two cent.


No Igbo Culture gives anybody right to claim property that another person bought with their own money, with the exception of ancestral land.


If ur a woman, u are better off going out to buy land elsewhere and not the ancestral land.


My guess here is that she is claiming to have bought ancestral land. That is an abomination.


Her brother is well within his rights to confiscate it. He is well within his right not to ever release the land to her.


Igbo expect their daughter to get married and inherit their husband property and remove eye from their ancestral property in their father place.


The father will give her a share when she is going to her husband house and that is it but never land.
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 7:21pm On Mar 03, 2017
ayo55:
What stupid tradition is dat. Now tell me, wit wat dey did, she will definitely ban herself frm d family, if she leave dat land for dem, den she wwil forgt dem as family hcoz dey dont even want her progress
UR NAME NA AYO, MEANING U ARE YORUBA, Y DONT U GO AND DECIDE YORUBA TRADITION IS STUPID?
FamilyRe: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 7:19pm On Mar 03, 2017
carzola:
This are the people with
A backward mentality that
Want a country for themselves
Imagine how Biafra would be
With primitive minds like this.
WHY IS THAT UR CONCERN?

DONT U HAVE MATTERS OF UR OWN TO DECIDE?

U HAVE NOT CURED THE POVERTY IN UR BACKYARD U WANT TO CURE OUR OWN? undecided
PoliticsRe: Bring Back Nigerian Prostitutes – Buhari Charges Aides by hammerF: 7:02pm On Mar 03, 2017
ireneony:
So the disease rate will tripple undecided
U are wicked... hope u have dis summer in sight? i mean am?
PoliticsRe: Opobos Are Very Proud Of Our Igbo Heritage – Dr. Tina Edmund-oguokiri by hammerF:
cheruv:
Kingship is alien to Igboland... So when Igbos borrow it from their neighbors, they tend to model it after those they borrowed from. The only true Kings in Igboland are the Eze Nri and the Eze Aro. The others are copycats of foreign Kings viz
Oba>>Obi
Ata>>Atama
Amanyanabo>>Amayanabo
I think the fact that these kings go by Ijaw titles will pose a big problem. That is y they are trying to revive ibani language in bonny island and opobo might not be left out.

Secondly, is Eze Aro not a colonial creation or does the title predate the arrival of the imperialist. I always saw Aro-Confederacy as a slave trading establishment by the imperialist?
PoliticsRe: Opobos Are Very Proud Of Our Igbo Heritage – Dr. Tina Edmund-oguokiri by hammerF:
cheruv:
Bonny(Igbo: Ubani) was founded by Igbos from the Ngwa and Ndoki tribes.later they were joined by Ijos from nembe who became more populous than the founding Igbo clans but with the emergence of the slave trade Igbo dominance was restored and that island(Igbo: Agwii Ubani) has been Igbo since then
Thanks Bro, wat that means is that igbos are not landlocked after-all. Y do dey and Opobo use Amanyanabo title from Nembe 4 their kings? I heard their kings speak in igbo though?

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