NOwazobia: Not when the mother killed the daughter.
Grieving is all a facade that she could have avoided by being a parent.
Parents are the greatest murderers in this generations by their carefreeness and greed to parenting.
If the parents of the boy are still alive, there is every likelihood that they also failed the boy.
The family is a replicate of the failing society we all are crying about on a daily basis.
There was this boy in my family, like a son to my parents. A cousin to my mother.
She was like a son because he stayed with us for the most part of his life.
He is a strong extrovert, which really attracted him to many boys of questionable means.
He is not without skill, and still has a job going, but was always following after these boys of questionable character.
The way we were all nurtured is that even if you want to throw all the parenting away, there is a boundary you cannot cross. Infact, your conscience will first chastised you before our parents do.
So, at one point, my mother noticed his attitude and the friends he was following.
Mind you, this is a boy is in his late twenties at the time, an elder to me.
He took my parents as his, and he was trying to play that son role by gifting my mother items such as cash and other stuffs.
But at every attempt, my mother rejected these gifts because she was suspicious he has join fraud (Yahoo).
Our mother told him clearly that he won't accept his yahoo money, and anything that comes from his relationship with those questionable friends.
At the end, he just have to stylishly dish those friends and continuously apologies, especially when some other things where publicly exposed about those friends.
Mind you, he knows that these friends where into fraud, as he would sometimes tell us their stories.
That is parenting, and that has created the boundaries and the person we are today.
My parents will always want to know where you got that money and the properties before accepting anything from you.
If you lie to them, you won't even be at peace with yourself when they discover.
WEN YOUR WITH YOUR PARENTS IS DIFFERENT FROM WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR GUARDIAN.
IN THIS CASE, THE MOTHER COULD NOT HAVE DONE ANYTHING BECAUSE SHE IS AN ADULT.
EVEN THE DAD, AT SOME POINT WILL FALL BACK, BECAUSE HE DONT WANT TO KILL HIS DAUGHTER.
EVEN U SEF TALKING, THEIR IS A AGE A CHILD WILL REACH, U EITHER KILL THEM, PUSH THEM OUT OF THE HOUSE OR RECOGNISE THEY ARE NOW ADULT.
Stupid boy who got carried away with sudden wealth gotten from winning Sports Bets, instead of walking away from an annoying or even toxic girlfriend you decided to waste your freedom by picking up the knife 🔪 on the table and stabbing her in a fit of anger and then it dawned on him that his life is messed up and he thinks fleeing will solve the problem he created.
He claims he did it in self defence but his associates said he was dealing with a girl who has been violent to him in the past, instead of walking away he stupidly continued with the relationship which turned him into a destructive monster by trying to match her toxicity and in the process destroy his own life
U KNOW WHAT IS IRONIC?
THE WEEK THAT HE DID THIS, ONE GUY KILLED HIMSELF AND HIS GIRLFRIEND ON THE STREET WITH KNIFE.
SOME PEOPLE COPY THE WRONG THING AND THEN GO AND REPLICATE IT, BUT THIS ONE COULD NOT KILL HIMSELF JOIN.
membranus: So okute is stone in Igbo language, while it is okuta in Yoruba language. That means we are brothers in a way. Then why are we always at each other's throats online?
look the colonialist turned us against each other at an early stage and since then we have not been able to put aside pride, grievances to work together.
if we did by now, we for they speak one language and use nsibidi write am.
Myer: It's difficult to judge this matter. Clearly some thing went wrong some where. Mother and daughter have their parts of the blame but more importantly I hope many parents and girls/ladies learn from this story.
NOBODY WILL LEARN ANYTHING.
AS A MATTER OF FACT, AS SOON AS THEY COMPLETE AND JAIL HIM, WE FORGET ABOUT IT.
ANOTHER ONE GO STILL HAPPEN, BECAUSE THE DEVIL IS THE RULER OF THIS WORLD.
ONLY THING YOU GO PRAY BE SAY, MAKE E NO REACH YOUR DOOR STEP.
NOwazobia: The mother will obviously have her share of the blame of how her daughter turn the yahoo way, and was likely gifting the mother some goodies while the mother cheer her on.
She must be living in regrets right now that she would have properly nurtured and warned her daughter against the type of friends she keeps.
all that glitters...
Well, what do I know. 🤷🏼♂️
I can only speculate.
IT IS SHAMEFUL THAT YOU ARE BLAMING A GRIEVING MOTHER OVER THE MURDER OF HER DAUGHTER.
PARENTS CAN TRAIN A CHILD BUT GUESS WHAT, SOCIETY ALSO HAVE MAJOR INPUT. I.E. HER FRIENDS, WHEN SHE GO TO SCHOOL, WORK, NEIGHBOURS ETC.
THE CHILD ALSO DEVELOP THEIR OWN PERSONALTY AND PASSION, WHICH HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE PARENTS.
THIS IS A TRAGIC CASE.
DONT BE SURPRISE THEY WERE HIGH ON ALCOHOL OR DRUGS, IF NOT MAYBE HE IS A RITUALIST.
lexy2014: a "vulnerable person" can give her number to the doctor, giver her address to the doctor, agree for the doctor to come to her house after the first fvck in the hospital toilet and you are saying she cant give consent.
what do u call all she did as listed by me?
NO, IF NA ALL THIS ONE LISTED, THE DOCTOR SHOULD HAVE THEM ON RECORD.
THE POINT HERE IS BREACH OF TRUST, AS FOR RAPE, SHE IS A LYING FEMINIST FROM THE PITS OF HELL.
UNLESS SHE BUY HAMMER KNACK HERSELF, SHOW ME THE BRUISES THEN, I WILL RECONSIDER.
Calitoscassius: Don't mind them they are ignorant fools, as long the woman opened her legs it is no problem to them, that same mentality got the doctor into his mess.
DAT IS WHY U DEY TAKE SEXUAL ENHANCEMENT.
TOO MUCH STRESS, ABOUT AN OPEN LEG, MEANS U NEED MORE DRUGZ AND HERBS TO GET IT BACK UP.
VeeVeeMyLuv: That's why the clever management only suspended him for half a year instead of permanently withdrawal of medical license for life and possible prosecution
THEY NEED DOCTORS.
IF HE IS GOOD AT HIS JOB BUT SINGLE AND HUNGRY AND THAT WOMAN OF EASY VIRTUE IS DOING GIVEAWAY AND FREEBIES.
Discountsempai: That's why overseas when male doctors are examining female patients they are strongly advised to have a female chaperone, usually a nurse ( if possible Matron!) with them.
The evil glare of one matron is enough to stop any flirty patient
And anyway most patients are not in the mood to flirt.
I AGREE, ALWAYS HAVE A FEMALE BUT THE ARRANGEMENT IS BASED ON TRUST SO NONE IS PROVIDED FOR GP.
THE WHITE MAN MAKING ALL THIS USELESS LAWS, COMES TO AFRICA, ASIA AND FORGET ABOUT HIS LAWS.
WE SHOULD PASS A LAW TO HOLD THEM TO THE SAME STANDARD HERE IN AFRICA.
IF HE TRULY BELIEVE IN HIS LAW, TEHN REGARDLESS OF WHETHER HE IS IN AFRICA, SHE SHOULD UPHOLD IT.
Calitoscassius: Yea, i agree, you have already made it clear, you are an unconrollable Lion, if you get your sister in your house you will fork her too.
I WAS RAISED BY MY MOTHER AND I HAVE SISTERS.
AGAIN INCEST IS NOT MY THING.
YOUR OWN SISTER, WILL BE EATEN RAW AND SHE WILL ENJOY IT.
Slaveman343: Small boy, I say lock up and stay sway from women in enclosed spaces. Even if she is dressed from head to toe, a man with no self control will still misbehave.
U DEY HEAR LION, DEY STILL BRING FEAR ENTER MY MATTER.
Calitoscassius: Exactly as i expected if your sister or mother comes to your house without pant you will fork them too, afterall they are all women i rest my case. And uncontrolable Lion indeed!
I'M AN AFRICAN MAN, INCEST IS NOT OUR THING.
ANYWAY, I WILL TRY TO BE SCHOOLING YOU BOYS FROM TIME TO TIME.