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aremuforlife:
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What do you mean she was married off to a Yoruba man.
You should be proud, she is married to noble and not a commoners like you.

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Trash!


Money miss road...


Agbero NURTW members can never be noble, no matter how many Lagosians they waylay.

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ChoCho54:
Lawd! What chauvinistic insecure retards y'all posting crap about the lady are! Have you bothered asking how come he was left out? BTW, the lady in question is above 18years and has the right to married without either parents breathing down her neck!

Fear any animal with a tail I'm the front!

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Trash as usual...


This is Africa, we have our customs and traditions and they must be respected.

Bluntguy:
You are not more Igbo than I am. Play your role as a responsible father before claiming paternal rights during the girl's marriage. Is that too much for you to understand?

Wat role are u talking about?

Will u prefer your papa to be Evans?

ChoCho54:
Regina Williams kee you dia!

Make Amotekun take your head shine.

Deontay Wilder said he is part Nigerian in an interview.


It could be for Wilder.

Let just ask, how hard is it to go with some elders or your parents to knock on the man door and tell him you want to marry his daughter?


If u have been knacking all these men daughters and nothing happen?


How hard is it to look a man in the eye and promise to take very good care of his daughter and be a good member of his family?


At least this time, na me carry rope hang round my neck, say i no dey run. This is too easy.

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Bluntguy:
Just shut up and stop doing macho. Learn to call a spade by its name. It will help you in life. If you like cancel this one too, and still reply to what you already cancelled.

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I know your a yoruba man fighting your corner to marry Igbo women, dat is your own position and u see the father as a threat right?

Learn to always tell the truth.

U cannot forcefully marry any man's daughter, against his consent. It is not marriage.

U go and ask him and persuade him, if he agrees fine, if not, plenty more fishes out there.

The reason y in Igbo culture, marriage is presided over by the Father and his Kins men is becos the woman is too emotional and preoccupied with the now and never seeing the big picture.

If u doubt me, take a look at Regina williams.

It is not hard to see or identify the types of marriages that are contracted by women.

Once dey gain financial independence they usurp up the role of the father.

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Bluntguy:
You abandon your daughter for your wife to train single handedly, when she is about to settle down in marriage, you just appear from nowhere claiming your wife has usurped your right as a father. What right?

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I am happy u are a man, one day, it will be your turn.

[quote author=Nn3muka post=86898613][/quote]ok

Women use the children as weapons to punish the way you treated them.


But is dat fair on the children?

cococandy:
You’re too kind



Thank you guys so much. May you all be richly blessed.

Mariangeles I know you meant to put a comma between the million and the babies

HBD! More of your Heart Desire and Prosperity, longevity...


Getting drunk today is allowed... Try not to eat too much though, it will affect your performance later.


Thank me later.

Nn3muka:
Taboo
We don't eat nor kill python where I come from
You guys that killed this python, be ready for the gods oo


Chukwuaju

Are u from Idemili, Anambra state?

RolaDiva:
Was expecting to see Lagos State tho

So we both been on this site since 2016 and I am just noticing u?

Not trying to roll with RolaDiva or something, just would like to get to know at least one person here on a humanly interactive sense of the word.

Note, I did not say friend becos I dont want to give the impression that am after girlfriend.

I just want a chat, not girlfriend, lover or meeting. This site is for discussions.

By the way wat part of Lagos are you from? Are u an Indigenous Lagosian?

Amanda4life:
Blacks are too religious and have more of bad mind

I agree with this but wat made u think dat?

For a white man to wear cross, no be small thing.

White that will be the first to say he dont believe in God.


The first time Tyson Fury fought Wilder, he wore a cross becos he was certain Wilder was using Dark powers or procession.

After Wilder knock him out, he got up and everyone was surprise how he got up.

CSTR2:
But if you ask a lady the kind of man she wants, the first thing they say is he should be God fearing.

I guess they never really want God fearing brothers.

That is why a lot of dirty stories are on nairaland.

The number one thing women want is security.

I am uncertain if money falls under security or comes after security.

I dont know if God fearing is a major factor or just believing in God and going to Church.

It is hard finding the one that is prepared struggle with u.

Later, wen u get a break through or reached your peak, they all come at once, u get confused on which one is real.

Then, they want to control u. Is dat possible?

On a serious note, even your men of God are nothing to write home about.

They do alot and cover it up.

CSTR2:
lol

Irony of life.

But, na born again wife dey find street niggas and playa's.

Y cant dey find their fellow born again and leave niggas.

CSTR2:
But if you ask a lady the kind of man she wants, the first thing they say is he should be God fearing.

I guess they never really want God fearing brothers.

That is why a lot of dirty stories are on nairaland.

But she can change him now...


As a born again christian she can win him over for Christ, dont u know dat?


Meanwhile born again brothers dey find wife.


But na born again wife they find the street niggas and playa's.

CSTR2:
I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman

Job31:1

A God fearing man would be like Job.

Ladies, marry truly God fearing men so that we can rest on nairaland.

AHHHHH!


U don come again Oooooo...



Will he shag dem like a porrnstar?



Will he be able to stimulate their little minds and entertain dem?


Does he have money?

Amanda4life:
If your marriage is young . please leave him

He will get worst with gray hair. As he ages it will get worst.


He cannot change . its in built

Lasttime u said he will get better as he gets old.

Wat happened?

CSTR2:
Marry God fearing man so that you can rest.
But they won't. He is not as spontaneous as emeka.

They say they Want God fearing men but they hardly ever marry them.

If women marry men that truly fear God, 99% of the stories I read here will not happen.

Commot jooooooor!


Where is the high blood pressure and headache in dat?


U dont know nagging requires some sought of causation factor.


Even women of God, marrying Church goers and bench warmers over the born again brothers.

YORUBA MUSLIM

Awoleesu:
Young woman,
From your narration, it seem to me that you're relatively new couple ( still young in marriage).

I'll advise you to take things easy.
In marriage, the woman matures earlier than the man. She more often than her spouse, easily detaches from the past and focuses on the future.
The young man is not so! Exuberance wanes gradually in him and it takes time and some life experiences to 'bring him home'...

You will have need to learn to be patient, while your husband will need to learn maturity and responsibility in marriage.

I can give you a 70% assurance that if you can be patient with him, the one you fell in love with will return. I may however, have to caution that your Patience may bring along with its reward, some scars...

delishpot:
At least, una Don dey know how e dey pain for body when una do am to una wives. See how heartbreaking cheating is? That is what women have been forced to accept as normal in their marriages.
The man should go and pray, he should not let Satan tear his home. After all, it rains everywhere.

I just wanted to add the bold of this advice below here for OP. It is from a woman and I really got hooked on it.


She should take both of them and be strong.

Na only look the man look here Ooooo....



He did not get pregnant for another person but see all the usual nairaland women condemning the man like say him thief.




Feminism be like say na male oppression.



Wat is wrong in looking, will he walk around eyes closed becos he married Jezebel.

delishpot:
At least, una Don dey know how e dey pain for body when una do am to una wives. See how heartbreaking cheating is? That is what women have been forced to accept as normal in their marriages.
The man should go and pray, he should not let Satan tear his home. After all, it rains everywhere.

delishpot:
Condemn what na? If it was a woman that left her home to go work in another town leaving her husband with house help, who later gets pregnant for the oga, will you guys not see reason with the man and blame his wife even if she was the major bread winner? Why should I use my pant as helmet cos a wife was the offender here? All the ones men are commiting, has the world stopped moving?

Naija women, i fear una but i know run.

I dey gidigbam for ground..

delishpot:
Nothing new under the sun na. Men impregnate house helps up and down yet the world asnt ended.

Still no condemnation.


This na their best response so far.


Wat about the Sisters in Christ and Mother Theresa?

GreatResearcher:
[s][/s]Stop defending a wh0re.

No mind dem, dem go learn the hard way.

E get one man, that his wife, use remote to control, he beat his mum, fight his brother and sister.

After dat, she made friends for him, one use juju kill him, now dat one practically lives in his house.

I went to the School of G.

Anytime, i dey gallant. Anyhow she bring it am ready.

This generation will break every record.

This is the Sodom and Gomorrah age.

Even the number of Divorce in Abuja shock government.

See headline, Nigeria which way?

Nigerians lament over 4000 divorce applications in Abuja court

https://www.mynigeria.com/NigeriaHomePage/NewsArchive/Nigerians-lament-over-4000-divorce-applications-in-Abuja-court-344689

Petyprincess:
Lol you have started again instead of you to b resting nd taking a break off marriage stuff nd arguments,anyways update us on your thread hw every thing is going nd ur ex wife please i have nothing to discuss about this because I'm not married!!

Ofcourse, u and serval hundreds and thousand of women happen to forget your brain and sense of decency on this thread.


No condemnation! Wat so eva from any of you.


On the other thread, where a man put pepper in two of his wives vagina, the women have alot to say about that.

frankdre:
another fake nollywood story line

Dubai ruler’s wife Princess Haya ‘fled to London after he became suspicious of her intimate relationship with Brit bodyguard’

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/9442274/dubai-rulers-wife-princess-haya-bodyguard/

If The Ruler of Dubai wife can be fucking bodyguard, upon all the money and even run off with him.

Wat are we talking about again? Is Pastor wife that dont cheat? Mind u na my Pastor wife own surprise me pass