Rayban25:
what do you need the 5k for?

Drugs and injections.

I'm having a very bad sore throat. I can't talk well, I can't even swallow water. It started the day before yesterday. I was thinking it's just minor something that will go on it's on, but I was wrong. Today, it became so worse that I can't even swallow anything or talk well. Very painful. I've gone to the pharmacy this morning for some drugs. I was given some drugs, but I want to go back and take malaria injections and also get drugs for malaria. I'm now having some malaria symptoms too. The lady that attended to me said she treats malaria whenever she's beginning to have sore throat.

I'm afraid of malaria coming to me. The last one I treated ( June) dealt with me. I was sick for two weeks. I'm usually so lean and bony whenever it comes. That's why I want to rush back to the pharmacy to get malaria injections and drugs.

Just as the topic says. I need an urgent 5k for something urgent! What can I do to earn your 5k? What is it I can do for you to get 5k from you? I really need the money for something urgent.

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Please, I'm jobless. I need a job.

ideamonster:

What's funny please?

Rayban25:


so now its the tone that matters? when women talk about men you think you watch your tones or the manner you say It? but na you dey cry foul pass when talking about you you now want men to watch their tone and sugarcoat it for you.

if you no like am its either you learn to take the correction and take care of your hygiene or you leave nairaland.

Don't tell me you're one of those who do this. Are you? I hope not though.

Rayban25:




What will you do?

Seems you're one of those doing this. Please, I wouldn't want to see such threads again. It makes me feel bad to see or read them.

Nlfpmod

Rayban25:
It always seems derogatory when a man is saying it. Vj odours exist. But because na man dey talk am it's now body shaming.

When will some of you ladies learn to take correction without acting like emotional children?

You know the way you pass a message matters. The manner and tone you use matters too.

Take this two scenarios as an example;

The first- ' na wa oo. Do you wash your vagina at all? It smells like a rotten egg. I couldn't even breathe well. Abeg do something about it. The smell is terrible. Can't you perceive it? It smells like a soakaway pit."

The second; " It seems your vagina has this strong odour. I can recommend for you how to go about it. Take xyz. Do abc. Then take ghi. You won't notice any odour or bad smell again."


From the above scenarios, who do you think will be more offended?

I want to know if those things some nairaland men say about the vagina, are really true or they're just exaggerating. You'll see some saying the women they came in contact with, that they vagina smell like rotten fish, rotten meat, dead rat, or like gutter, or like a soakaway pit.

Are they being serious when they say that? Or maybe it's a way of them bodyshaming women. Because, I don't think a woman's vagina is supposed to smell, at least not as bad as they portray it.

Men who do this should desist from it. Desist from saying derogatory things about a woman's vagina. Instead of saying these demeaning things, why not calmly and maturely call the said woman's attention to it, and if you have any solution/suggestions/remedy to help the situation, then you give that.



Women, if your vagina smells, such that then you rub around it or when you dip your finger in it and perceive and you then have to clinch/cover your nose or or twitch your nose or face, then something is wrong somewhere.


A vagina is a self-cleansing organ. But, that does not mean that you shouldn't wash the areas around it or look for solution when it starts to smell even though it appears neat. It's not surprising that some people do not know how to care for the vagina or how to wash it. You don't just pour water on the surface and then that's it. No. It's not so.



Men, stop saying demeaning and derogatory things about the woman's vagina. The vagina is not like the penis. The vagina is more complex in nature than the penis. Profer solutions if you have. If you don't, then calmly and maturely call the woman's attention to it.



Women, if your vagina still smells or have a foul odour even after washing, then something is wrong. I'll still open a thread on what to do about this. A vagina is not supposed to have an odour, at least not a bad one that'll make you or another person twitch the nose or face.


I'm usually sad when I see some derogatory words being said about the vagina. Please, I wouldn't want to see such threads or words again. Reason why I decided to create this thread. I've been wanting to do it since, but the opportunity hasn't presented itself.


Please, I would like you all to take this in good light. Thanks.

GodWrites:


It's about who you know.

How please? I don't get.

Shapeaso:
OP, why not ask your friends? Is nairaland now Police station?

It's just an innocent question please.

Dididrumz:
Why not just ask Your police friends, since You say you have for of them, let them tell You how long it took them to attain those ranks.

It's just an innocent question please.

I have four police friends with the following ranks;

1) Inspector ( this one should be in his fifties or late forties)

2) ASP ( this one is a small boy in his twenties)

3) SP ( this one is in his early forties)

4) DPO ( this one should be in his fifties)



I would like to know how many years it takes for one to attain these individual ranks. Please, if you have any idea, let me know. I would like to know. Thanks.

Ofemmanu1:



Hehehe..

Sorry, I meant; I like humors and good thinking, and you've found a special way of expressing it.

No, I'm serious. If only we are in same location, I would have come and give you one, that's if you want it.

Ofemmanu1:


Well, I have a great affinity for Virtuoso as yours but deception?! hell NO!!

I'm typing live from Kogi State.

I don't get you please.

Ofemmanu1:


Oh!!

You got a ban? it's okay we'all do.

However, if you've got the qualities you mentioned up there, you will be amount the %6 of the best woman to marry in 2023 according to "Virtuous Housewives Blog"

With those skills, you only need to sit down and showcase your talent, the fine buyer will always come.
Hardworking ladies are still winning..


Meanwhile, it still beat me to see some Nigerians leaving everything behind and making deadly relocations all cos of good life- You can make it ANYWHERE!
We are in a perilous times and I feel people should stay where they feel safe.
Many young Naija Ladies have died trying to meet the rich class all in the name of hookup or whatever.

Nuff said.


Wherever you choose go, Godspeed.

Thanks. I appreciate your input.


I also massage. I'm good at it. In case you need one. Where's your location? But, I'll do it for free for you this first time. Where's your location?

Ofemmanu1:

She's got no Academic qualifications or skills.
She's only armed with dry Kpekus and seeking Simple men to trap.

Woe betide the unfortunate man that will house this biitchh

No. You're wrong.

I have academic qualifications.
I have skills;
I can cook very well different types and varieties of delicacies/meals.

I have experience in poultry farming and livestock farming.

I can teach.

I have experience in different agricultural products farming.

I can make hair.

I can knit bags, etc

I can clean and also decorate a house/home.
I can massage

I have business skills too.


So, you have a chef, a farmer, a teacher, a hair stylist, a masseur, a knitter, a cleaner and a decorator and more all in one person. Full package, isn't it?




I didn't reply since because I was banned from commenting on the post. My ban just expired today.

gmine:
My dear, what's your qualifications and which type of work are you looking at?

I have a degree. I'm looking for any work at all. I can do anything as far as it's legal/legitimate and money is involved.

treatise:

Gbam. Multiple dating not possible there

Are you based there at the moment please? I can go any where as far as love and work is guaranteed. As far as I can find love and work there, then no problem.

Originalsly:


You're asking people their location in a State ... but as the OP refuse to name your State? With such a topic it should be automatic you name your State and post a photo. Is either you're immature or not exposed. As I see it ... you're just a lamb going to be slaughtered ... but have no clue.

Come on! Why would you say that. I'm not please. About posting my pictures here, I'll mocked if I do.

Blitzking:

If you added abuja why not add lagos too

I think Lagos is more rowdy and noisy, plus the traffic too. Or what do you think?

Sirbruno3000:
I've covered like 75% of abuja they all reason thesame. Do not expect love in abuja. Work, u might be lucky to get one and remain employed for a considerable period of time. Because most of the employers have mental issues, they love to hire and fire at will.

Where are you at the moment please?

omooba969:


If you say both, then that's fine.

But, what do you think?

DestinyNigga:

Am from Anambra state. I will advise you to settle in Onitsha or Awka. I prefer Awka sha. U will get to meet people from different location in Nigeria. Especially, SS and SE people. There's work too. Do this and thank me later. When I enter Awka u will thank me with ur sweet punna . #smokin_mi_weed U will see a good husband, this I have seen

Are you based there? Where are you at the moment?

Yousuph007:
Am in Abuja, send me your number

Where in Abuja are you? Gwarimpa, Lugbe, mabushi, nyanya, Karu, kubwa, gwagwa, karimo, efab, wuse, Garki, jabi, airport road, giri, gwagwalada, kwali, abaji, Kuje, guzape, Apo, mpape, dutse. Where?

Blitzking:

Was checking to make sure abuja and lagos isn't there.

Why do you say so though?

omooba969:


Between love and work, which one is harder to find?

I think both. Or what do you think?

Maobichek:
Many people have talked about Abuja. To find love here, you must be comfortable hence you must have something doing first. Most ladies who are into POS business here are also of "easy virtue" and it's like a norm.

Please don't come to Abj without proper planning (accomodations/ money for upkeep, transportation etc). Here is costly, plan well.

Where in Abuja are you please? Gwarimpa, Lugbe, mabushi, nyanya, Karu, kubwa, gwagwa, karimo, efab, wuse, Garki, jabi, airport road, giri, gwagwalada, kwali, abaji, Kuje, guzape, Apo, mpape, dutse. Where?

Sirbruno3000:
Abuja is full of mean and sadistic humans, no friendly atmosphere anywhere, everyone is always angry and sad, even the rich are not left out. The word LOVE is alien to them, and for work, u will have to fast and pray to get a good work. Abi is there another abuja am not aware of?

Where in Abuja are you please? Gwarimpa, Lugbe, mabushi, nyanya, Karu, kubwa, gwagwa, karimo, efab, wuse, Garki, jabi, airport road, giri, gwagwalada, kwali, abaji, Kuje, guzape, Apo, mpape, dutse. Where?