maybe i need to be introduced.

Thats interesting to know that the bride pays the bride price instead of the other way round.

You people shouldnt course your selves to death ooooo

This is serious.Guys will you allow your wife to be who is richer than you to give you money to pay for her bride price?.Girls what are yours standsWill you pay your bride price for your guy?. I want to know.

I think Suen,you could say better things that.Dont you marriage is forever?If i have committed one single offence by running away for that time.He too committed hers with my brother.Now the ratio is I:I.I forgave her she ought to do same to me and sin no more


    The other fellow talked about security.What would a woman want interms of material thingsfrom her well to do to be father inlaw? I need an answer.

thanks a billion prince onx

is someone trying to answer my question?

Do you think I will remain like that?

If u really love him call him sit him down tell him the gravity of his offence.Tell him the reason y the both of you could not be together again.To my knowledge thats the best way to say good bye.

I dont think its adviceable.Only if u were about say two months to get married.

First love?, we met when we were 13 stayed all through sec. school. Eventually she got pregnant 4 me after that  phew

Really its not that im against them.I appreciate what they have put together.It really looks like the group dance done by Micheal Jackson

na wao

Is there no one in this forum that comes from this area?

Who dash monkey banana?Arsenl carry champions league?That will happen in the dream.UP chelsea!!!!!!!!!!

why? my name is Ndifreke Tom Hanson.Im never called such before

I have been wondering if someone could get a better wife through this furum.
Has it been happenning? That is this forum members getting married?

Obafemi martins recently plaits his hair during matches.Is it a wise think to do?

I wasnt ashame of her rather my age.Besides we planned to get married as soon as the kid started school so that by then I might have settle down

What has that got to do with an ordinary citizen like me?If nigeria were to be the first in the riches catigory would it have change my levels?The answer is NO.Is there no poor man in America? JUST REMEMBER GOD

YOU choosed to ignore the most oppressed.That is the Iyaws,calabars,They are crying bloods

OBJ ias the most corrupt citizen of Nigeria

We dont want to belong.

Thanks for your advise 2cantango.It seems you have told me something I never know before.

could it be last year?
     when was the last time you shave your pubic hairs

I think there is no harm there since you both love yourselves

I have a girl which I love so much.WE were together until we finish SS3 then wither we go.We met againafter two years and our love seems to be stronger than before.Both of us were working and I was doing adiploma programme by then.It happens that she got pregnant and never want to abort it.On my side I was afraid to have anything to do with abortion.
      So we decided to keep the pregnancy.[we were not officially married]she decided to move from the vicinity to another b/c of shame.I agreed and she was relocated to uyo while Iam in Imo state.To cut it short when the pregnacy was about eight months she was back to Imo state now to my fathers who has decided to take care of her till she deliver.During this time people started calling her my wife and I was ashamed and left to PH.During this period my younger brother took care of her through the labour and the delivery.
       Nine months later they both started having sex which affected the baby.He was taken to various hospitals without remedy until he was taken to a health center where the nurse asked her if she had slept with a man during that period of breast feeding the baby{the questionning was done aside}so this way the baby was revived.
       By this time my brother has left to calabar.All this while I did not know what was going on until my brother sent his first letter to my girl and it gets into my hands I asked my girl what has been going on between the two of them.She lied and letter accepted having an affair with my brother.I didnt know what to do because she was just been operated upon in the hospital,my father was admitted and the baby was still a todler I forgave and let her be.
     When my brother came I confronted him he lied and later agreed in the present of my girl.Both of them kneel down beg me  . I forgave them both.This time my father was about to die.MY father died and was buried.So my girl her.when I visited her I confronted her through a tip off that my bros was there she told me the truth and I still forgave her this time decided not to talk to my bros again.I left to ph.After six months my bros went back there and convinced her to joined him later to calabar which she did.thy leavd in the same room there .At a time he called me to tell me that my girl and my boy were in calabar with their sister I rushed down there to find out it was true. I left with annoyance which I later heard she was pregnant and aborted it.     
        Right now she is staying with my elder sister in Abuja.I need all your help.But I still love her.BUt the news is every where now.