Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by harristo(m): 11:16pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
But seriously Op / Daily12 I have to say that, you are an enemy of women. You married a woman that won't ever hate you despite your abuse (either due to her love for you or her family situation) and you start feeling the urge to intensify the abuse.
Op I tried thinking of a solution to your problem and came to the conclusion that there is no point in writing down suggestions. Because it will take several sections of counseling to make you change. Bottom-line you cannot do it on your own, by reading written advice and trying to follow them.
This means that if you are serious about changing, you need to go see a psychiatrist that would counsel you repeated and faithfully attend as many sections as you need to.
In case you are not sure of my point, I am saying that even if in theory changing the way you think about your wife or something else is what will solve your problem, you will not be able to do / practice it. You need some live human to guide, support and encourage you all through. If you can't afford a psychiatrist, contact the Nairalanders offering to help you by phone or talk to a friend who can and will help you. |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by harristo(m): 10:34pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Daily12: Actually it's my wife and that is what gives me concern not other women. And I did not feel this way prior to the marriage. I have worked with women I did not feel this way.
I don't get excited seeing other women hurt but I'm happy and pleased seeing my wife hurt. If what you said here is true, then I suspect that woman must be an ogbanje. She must be the one responsible for all this. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Photo: Donald Trump Now Being Compared To Adolf Hitler Over Statement by harristo(m): 9:45pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
themonk: How this man made a billion dollars is still confusing  He was born in money / with a silver spoon. He didn't make his money from scratch, I doubt he could have. |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele's Outfit To African Entertainment Legend Awards 2015 by harristo(m): 7:03pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
MrMcJay: Many are mad, few are roaming. Even so, the guy has a lot of fans, like this lady below. IamMissMarvel: She is so "Stunning". |
Politics › Re: Photos: Yahaya Bello, Kogi Governor-Elect Receives Certificate Of Return by harristo(m): 6:57pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
homesteady: Chaiii... So after the election campaign and jamboree, it is somebody that did not even take part in anything that is reaping the fruit? Na wa ohhh! Naija things. |
Culture › Re: Emir Sanusi And Daughter In England (Photo) by harristo(m): 6:54pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Here's hoping that they meet David Cameron  |
Crime › Re: Woman Robbed Of N500k 15 Minutes After Leaving Bank Premises by harristo(m): 6:45pm On Dec 09, 2015*. Modified: 7:11pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
The location and surrounding of the bank is also important. If after exiting the bank premise you immediately find yourself in a secluded area (on your own), that's no good. Make sure the surrounding environment of your chosen bank is always busy / full of people. |
Celebrities › Re: Lol!! Peter Of P-square Finally Got One Six-pack For Don Jazzy (photo) by harristo(m): 6:32pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
It is too late for Don Jazzy to get six-pack, unless he resorts to using drugs. |
Celebrities › Re: Kylie Jenner Vs. Kim Kardashian: Sibling Rivalry Heating Up?! by harristo(m): 6:22pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
laurenziz6: Worlds most successful family of end time whores Exactly what I think about that family. Btw, what's with kylie Jenner's pose? why is she chesting out? |
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor Kidnapped, Abductors Threaten To Bury Him Alive If... by harristo(m): 6:18pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
goodmorning40: only 1.5mullion? suspicious It's 15 million. As that man grab reach, criminals dey take am do yeye. |
Politics › Re: No Anti-social Media Bill Before The Senate – Saraki by harristo(m): 6:13pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
As I expected, presidency's denouncement of the bill, marked it's death. |
Politics › Re: World Anti-Corruption Day: Nigeria's Ranking by harristo(m): 6:02pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Buhari is not smiling. |
Crime › Re: Father In Court For Raping, Infecting 6-yr-old Daughter With STD by harristo(m): 5:44pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
End time things.
Hard to believe the child is actually his daughter; if she is then, the man wins the award the for worst defiler of the year. Mtcheeeew |
Politics › Re: How Jonathan, Iweala Illegally Diverted N61.4B Abacha Loot To Dasuki - Premium T by harristo(m): 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
gretblue: Irony of a Nation.Looted fund Re looted.  Gej is the devil here. As far as he was concerned, he and his generals must loot everything lootable, including recovered loots. Mtcheeew |
Politics › Re: How Jonathan, Iweala Illegally Diverted N61.4B Abacha Loot To Dasuki - Premium T by harristo(m): 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
chukwudi44: Enough of this silly blackmail!! We were here when Buhari approved the distribution of over N500Billion to state Governors without seeking approval from the national assembly!! As long as the said money was not embezzled,there is no crime here!! The NSA is a federal agency and the money recovered belongs to the FG,so there is nothing wrong is appropriatingg the money for the procurement of arms through the NSA especially as the country was suffering from the boko haram menace!!
The questions we should be asking is "was the money used for the purpose to which it was deployed" Anyother other than this is mere media rant!!
BTW the SW media can rant from now till 2019,Buhari would not summon enough courage to invite GEJ for questioning.Take it from me You are asking if money that was diverted to Dasuki was used appropraitely  Have you been following news recently? |
Politics › Re: How Jonathan, Iweala Illegally Diverted N61.4B Abacha Loot To Dasuki - Premium T by harristo(m): 4:41pm On Dec 09, 2015*. Modified: 5:56pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
seunmsg: She approved the payment of billions of naira without National assembly's appropriation, that's a clear violation of the constitution and federal governments financial regulations. That's not so smart if you ask me. Of course, she would approve trillions of nairas to be diverted to her master Gej's account, but would block opposition guys like oshiomole from borrowing just one billion naira. This why oshiomole hates her gut. And I too, because even if she didn't steal money for herself, she helped her master Gej to steal money. One of her main job as minister of finance was the facilitation and covering up of Gej's looting. |
Food › Re: Scary: Which Of These Would You Eat For #50,000? by harristo(m): 4:31pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Op and the people preparing the meats are too wicked. It would have been bearable if they were sliced before barbecuing. You know what I mean when you see an Akwa Ibomite rejecting the dog meat. sparkleRed: As a confirm akwaibom babe gimme dog anytym anyday! Though I dnt like d way its prepared in d pix sha, I like done my daddy use to buy den wen he was alive
Modified! I ate dog meat last wen i was 15 yrs old |
Romance › Re: Which Nairalander Made Your 2015 Interesting ?? by harristo(m): 4:00pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
RaDaZaBaNa: lalasticlala What did Lalasticlala do for you on Nairaland  All he did was his job  |
Romance › Re: Which Nairalander Made Your 2015 Interesting ?? by harristo(m): 3:55pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
TonyeBarcanista. For the earlier part of this year as Barcanista and the later part as TonyeBarcanista, he made Nairaland to be interesting. I spent several months before the month of june just reading post (not participating) on Nairaland, and barcanista was one of the members I noticed to be interesting. Felt really bad when the guy was no where to be found after I decided to start participating on Nairaland. So I was really happy when he came back to Nairaland. His controversial politics thread are always nice to see. Btw, I wonder what happened to celeb101 or something guy  I didn't see him once since I started participating on Nairaland. He was one guy I noticed to be able very good at debating with barcanista when I was a guest user at the early part of this year. |
Romance › Re: 5 Annoying Questions Insecure Women Ask Men by harristo(m): 3:19pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
ebukaddon: However, there are some questions that a man never wants to hear come out of his woman’s mouth.
http://facebook.com/lilasapgang You might as well title the post, 5 questions insecure men never want to hear come out of their woman's mouth. Those questions are annoying only to a man that has lived carelessly. A woman would always end up feeling more secured after asking any of those question to a man of integrity. |
Phones › Re: What Unintelligent People Do With Their Phones by harristo(m): 2:51pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Yorubago: Read my post well, I bought my phone for 70k! its a phantom 5 and I am rocking it You mean you are using it to do all the things you listed unintelligent people do with their phones right?  |
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Events › Re: Burial Of Nkiruka, Student Killed As Pro-Biafrans Protested In Onitsha (Photos) by harristo(m): 10:58am On Dec 09, 2015 |
Ibelong2God: Please add graphic pix Vikkie14: What is Graphic in this please or you dont know what you are actually saying? I think he meant to say add 'viewer's discretion'. Ibelong2God: You are showing a dead body my friend. Not everybody would like to see it. |
Crime › Re: Man Swallows $115,000 At The Murtula Muhammed Airpot by harristo(m): 10:36am On Dec 09, 2015 |
Ganoderma: Exactly how does one swallow $115,000? You swallow am small small, not all at once  |
Crime › Re: Bus Conductor Killed Man A Week To US Travel(photos) by harristo(m): 10:17am On Dec 09, 2015 |
robosky02: abegeeee
how can you say it is his time to die at 30? or at the eve of travelling abroad or is it the marriage in view
certaily something was wrong Do you know the story of the rich fool in the Bible? Do you know if the man made all these plans, sat down and said nothing dey happen, then goes clubbing? Point is, don't blame others (be they someone in the village) for the misfortune of another. |