Pillar12:
Yousef is seriously gaining momentum with all these buzz here and there....


Like it all leave it! Laycon started trending with negative stuffs last year same thing is happening to Yousef this year too...


If he display a bit of maturity and coordinate his mouth i see him scaling to the finale.


Man is really the talk of the town at this moment.

Shey i said it..he gave y'all something to talk about

fitzmayowa:
It seems these guys are trying to outdo each other with these their intro....

Its the testosterone

jikins:


He fall hand but give him small chance make we dey look am

The irony is he probably did this on purpose to get people talking..and everybody is talking about it and putting a spotlight on him.

Pray against your death. Repent of your sins, go for deliverance asap and ask God to open your eyes to show you how you have erred and what's behind the revelation.

May God grant you all your heart desires. Happy birthday!

ekene101:
omosi I don't know u but I respect u for speaking d truth,so many things needs to change and it starts from us the indigenes of the state to do that,time don pass wen we go dey say becos na our state we no won speak I'll of the vices. Even the current governor is not doing well,no factory or industry,just hotels and night clubs..even people that have never step foot in the state are scared once they hear Edo or benin. 99percent of girls birthed and brought up in Edo state are not doing well both home and abroad and their mothers are the root cause of it because once the father talks,they turn him to vegetable that's If he is not retired to the small room looking like barbing salon/game shop built close to the house to rest for eternity while the woman becomes the landlady.

I don't even understand Nigerians..this isn't even an Edo issue again, stop being so sentimental! That's why alot of things aren't working in the country. If it's bad it's bad! Don't say na my brother or my sister. If your experience is good so be it but don't turn a blind eye to bad.

Even when you go to the hotels etc. You still get poor reception and terrible attitudes. Yet someone is there defending the place..what is in the state to defend?

What's in your country to defend.. Rather than talk about reorientation or demand better someone is there talking about disassociation.

gregyboy:



Probably before your arrival you thought edo would be utopia even better than the lagos you reside, edo is shithole likewise lagos
Lagos happen to be a better slum than edo but both are still slum


So is lagosians better behaved

I would let this pass... Because youre from the fulani part of edo

I'm equally letting it pass because you are exhibiting those traits. Learn to put forward your point non aggressively it's a useful skill to learn. Then again most of you can't.. that's why it's called Bini...ile ibinu..land of anger, Angry people..Abeg Una matter tire me.

Take care of yourself

gregyboy:



You came to edo for schooling and not the lagos

Making it look like edo is the only state dreadful in the country, one would think lagos is Johannesburg

If not job seeking no one would want to reside in that unhealthy lagos state you're priding yourself on, i have seen people not edos who left lagos to reside in benin
And many non edos comes here to school especially lagosians
I feel you're myopic
All Nigeria state is a mess address it as such and stop painting some better
And your comment earlier tells so much about your reasoning if benins are Italy goers must you make it obvious by trying to disassociate your edo tribe
Fulani people of edo

Please don't sound ignorant.. because you are sounding so..what's there to be upset about? It's my state too and I don't need to be sentimental when I'm calling it out for what it is "DREADFUL!". Lets be truthful, Lagos is indeed better and this is not about painting one place better than another.

Yes I have the right to disassociate with my chest "MAJORITY!" of the Bini people are badly behaved and make others look bad..and I speak from experience. You trying to invalidate my opinion isn't going to work because it is what it is.

gregyboy:


Bini are the not edo, what is the fucking segregation you want to put up there


Youre probably from edo north an esan lady would not make such division against any edo group

It's not me being divisive..I was born and bred in Lagos, I came to Benin because of university..I have to be honest with you..I love Edo culture and all but it's a dreadful state..after school, I didn't want anything taking me there except work.. the people are badly behaved..
Auchi or Edo north isn't perfect at all o..but way more hospitable that Bini people...no offense

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

Help? Kindly let her be so you have your peace.. is it so difficult?

Georgejeez:

If you just wanna date ,Fine
But if you wanna date seriously with intention to marry .

Ssssss ,my brother rrrrruuuun ooo

A man who marries an Edo girl can never die even if you shoot him at close range ,poison him or detonate a bomb in his pocket ,but the day he puts roof on his newly built house . That day he has signed his death warrant ,he should purchase his casket and write his will ASAP .

Enter a typical street in Benin ,you wouldn't see a single Landlord ,every land lady, landlady , landlady.. a wise is enough for the word

Please stop discouraging him...you had your experience doesn't mean everyother person will have the same you did. What's wrong in them being landladies? Na wa o

ekene101:
1. Stay away from them if you want to remain sane and wish to live long.
2. If you don't intend birting kids from different mothers,stay away from edo girls because you don't know when you will fall into the hands of the wrong one which consist of 99.9% of them.
3. If you are the type that doesn't tolerate rubbish,stay away from them as their families likes to control inlaw in his own house.
4. You can never satisfy them and their families even if you are dangote,that's why they end up birthing kids around like rats and clubbing with agberos and bus drivers.
5. If you are the type that falls in love quickly,Edo girls are not for you. They prefer those that drinks,smokes,cultists,abuse and beat them up than the gentle,cool and calm guy..dey go put hellfire sauce for ur eyes.u go fine cry u no go see.
6. If u re not a benin indigene,forget about having anything to do with benin girls(I know y I put BENIN in bracket)
7. They believe since they have one express road under their legs,u owe them everything and must do what they want when they want and how they want it done.(very lazy,doesn't want to work but prefer the clubbing lifestyle)
8. Stay away from them if their family start showing you some funny characters. E no go end well,even if d girl born for u dey no dey reason am to be anything,the parents even prefer to give ur baby mama to one 70yrs old driver as side chick than leave both of you to marry peacefully (everything about them na money,even if u dey give dey no dey still satisfy).
9. Date and know when to call it quit with them,just as Ibo girls prefer their Ibo guys to others in terms of marriage,na so benin girls prefer dating their father's mate who are also benin people than staying in marriage.
10. Avoid them.
11. Read 10 above
12. Read 10 and 11 above.
13. I am Edo,born here,raised here and currently living here,so I know my people very well.

Lol..you are describing Bini people..I thought as much..I'm Edo, etsako to be precise and I can tell you the environment you grow up in determines alot..when I tell people I'm Edo, it's hard for them to believe because I have colleagues who are Edo too but are wild.. you say you aren't generalising...but you are sir

Rrchrd:

90% of Edo girls eyes are in Abroad /Italy
Sometimes they will compared you with their brothers that's making it in Italy

When talking about Edo, be specific...the traits you describe are mainly attributed to the binis

I keep saying it..the problem is a lot of Nigerian youth don't read! if some of us studied our history we wouldn't have voted him...do you think they don't know what thy are doing? they removed history from the school curriculum for a reason

azammi:
sir I know what I’m asking for God is able to lead me please ask the lord to Bestow on me this wonderful gift , I know he will hear you . You both please , you have something I adore . No matter what u say I won’t change my mind I will give you my name is you please agree to pray for me . I heard it’s easier to get it when someone who has it keep praying for you . I want to be a chozen

Make sure you are also prepared for the warfare and sacrifices that come with that gift. Why do you desire this gift?

AsherAmari:


I laugh.

I don't just want to mention them. A few big brands who's products are laced with highly potent roids.

The thing is, they don't push these toxic shady products abroad where there are strict regulations of the products by the FDA. Where they will be called out, but saturate most African markets or BSS with them because there are no regulatory bodies checkmating them. That is the reason why we have the US version of F&W and the Nigerian Version.

I'll stop here.

ok

AsherAmari:


Not really but what difference will a false ingredient list make?

Even big cosmetic companies put only the basic ingredients but leave out the actives and some shady ingredients just to deceive the public.
Though we don't do it ( shady ingredients). We use only natural ingredients and the actives are our little secrets that stand us out.

This is untrue.They list complete ingredients because some customers maybe allergic to something in it..they risk lawsuits if they dont

A transit flight

They will end up becoming terrorists too

Legalcriminal:
In case you don’t understand this post quote me to translate for you but Chinese only.

Back to the topic OP is a pussyass nigga if you were a woman I’m sure na every time a guy toast you your mama go know about that.

There is nothing wrong with gist about people admiring you once in a while..it's something couples can laugh about...his fiancée was only too immature to handle it (no offense to the the poster)

Godoverevery:


She raise her voice at me??

Now this is where you have to be honest with yourself, is it something you can tolerate?

Do you believe she can change?

The decision is ultimately yours...after all you'll be the one living with her.

stupidmod3:
good for you, like I said someone great is my ok, i liked it then now its boring.

just like walking dead
just like supernatural
just like dat anime where dey turn to stone, the stone doctor, wats boring is boring

the last couple of episodes have been boring to be honest..but it's a build up to the rumbling which may happen in the next episode

Godoverevery:
A lady flirted with me and I told my fiancee about it....

Two days later we walked by the lady carteen ....she asked if that was there house and I showed her next thing to my surprise she started saying bad things about her.

Things like she is a prostitute,she has a burnt face....the one that really pissed me....she said the lady tribe are prostitute and that what they do.....at this point I told her to stop that we are in there midst of which anyone could hear....she responded that she can say whatever she likes and not scared of nobody....we kept walking and I told her I don't like her character of talking bad about people....she started mocking me calling the lady husband.
I was pissed,told her is she perfect herself....why will she be calling a tribe prostitute because one just played with me but she still kept arguing with me... mocking me calling the lay husband.. At this point I told her if she called the lady a burnt face ....she also has a rough face.

this where I thanked God for is grace to walk away.
She told me I was just flexing my mouth muscle and she just looking at me....she can say whatever she likes and there nothing I can do about it....I gave her a look and she told me to my face what can you do.

She dare me to my face......I felt a rage within me honestly but I thanked God I just move to the other side of the road and walk off.

This my question

1.Did I do anything wrong.
2.Is it advisable to marry someone who will dare you to your face..... because I feel that what cause domestic violence
3.Am I still respected.

When people like your fiancée do that, they are feeling insecure...Other than what she displayed, are there other negative traits you worry about?

abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.

When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.

His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.

I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.

My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do.

Then again I'm sure you have already given him wife privileges so he is in no hurry unfortunately..8years?

abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.

When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.

His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.

I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.

My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do.

The painful truth is, he doesn't want to marry you. People have gotten married earning less.

needanswer:
Yes o, everytime shouldn't be fight or a clash of words, sometimes we need to appreciate some insightful female monikers.

Sorry I dont keep tabs of their names but I will state the few I can remember, in no particular order.

Erojepromise
JaneYave
Lucrativress
Hatima
pretteemee
Jsaviour
Ishilove
pozehnani
Cakhama

I'll keep updating the list as I remember their monikers.

You can add yours.

Seun

Thank you so so much!

needanswer:
Yeah, its hard o. All girls are the same to me (when I say all girls, I only mean gorgeous girls)

But beauty aside, most girls are the same. They are just in different packages but once I look past the beauty and into the person I get discouraged...nothing makes her special than the last or the next even my current girl.

Only one girl ever stood out, beautiful, emotional intelligent, charismatic, funny, homely, ****** and she was smart about alot of things, we both Learnt new stuffs talking with each other, things most girls normally dont like. She is a big GOT and Kdrama fan and because of her I looked into Korean movies and culture even wrote two novels based on kdrama that I published. But she could kill if she got angry, very violent. she spoilt my stuffs, na there matter spoil with her anger. If she had stayed maybe we would have killed each other, but if she wasn't violent she was a perfect fit. She has her own money (last born for that matter) and her family are well to do like mine, it would have been perfect.

I see my friends get married almost monthly but truth is their babes seem shallow to me, yes they are beautiful like mine but shallow. Me I cant cope o, after 1 months I will be bored of the entire marriage, if not for boredom I for dey with my babe and not here o

Guys how did you select your partner?

Me I am thinking this marriage is not for all o.

I share your pain to be honest. Like you, I like to talk about everything and anything, try out new things etc.

I can't say you should overlook the anger issue or not. You wear the shoe, you know how it fits and ultimately you know what you want. I believe you'd make the best choice.. don't rush it.

Marriage scares me because I honestly think I'd get bored as well. I remember telling a guy to come with me to an amusement park, he asked if I was a kid, I love watching and talking about animes, history etc.. asking questions that lead to deeper conversations..I've been told I'm boring...

if not because I'm the first and only girl, I honestly would not bother about marriage..my mom would lose her mind if she heard me say this..

1Sharon:


Not all women have sagged breasts after pregnancy and since me have an isssue with their wives bodies why not talk it out with her instead of going behind her back?

She ruined her body for you

You have even gone too far by explaining..it simple. the person who gave the analysis of sagging boobs and all is very immature

markkuss:
Calvary greetings to you all.

I was in a serious challenge recently and was push to visit a white garment church. After the prophecy, I was told to get bucket, grace perfume, 3 blue candles, 4 white candles, and some other stuffs so they can prepare them. I then bath with it. That's its going to rid away any bad luck..everything was bout 4k. The cash is not the problem..but my question is this. If I fast and pray myself without doing all this, does it mean I can get positive results..

Please all the matured christains, come and help me o..

I did what u did in d past nd d problem persisted
here's what helped..

I fasted 3 days breaking with only fruits
during the fast prayed and worshipped every 3hrs
sowed a seed
prayed for mercy, forgiveness, deliverance and restoration

received my breakthrough a day after.

I fled from sin and the appearance of it, made prayer and fasting weekly a lifestyle.

Good luck

markkuss:
Calvary greetings to you all.

I was in a serious challenge recently and was push to visit a white garment church. After the prophecy, I was told to get bucket, grace perfume, 3 blue candles, 4 white candles, and some other stuffs so they can prepare them. I then bath with it. That's its going to rid away any bad luck..everything was bout 4k. The cash is not the problem..but my question is this. If I fast and pray myself without doing all this, does it mean I can get positive results..

Please all the matured christains, come and help me o..

Good morning.
let me be honest with you. if you are questioning it already, the spirit is telling you not to partake in it.

I once had a serious spiritual challenge..I prayed with candles nd co..it didn't work as I was still given prophecy of the same issue .

All that changed when I did a 3day fast breaking with only fruits.prayed and worshipped every 3hrs.I sowed a seed, prayed for mercy and cleansing and restoration. My breakthrough came a day after.

most importantly, I fled from sin and all day looked like it. made prayer and fasting weekly a lifestyle.

hope this helps.. Good luck

LadySarah:


Go home. you haven't wronged him. He's sexually frustrated and will blame you for the current harmattan in February.You being there is like keeping a yam before a goat. Get the message. You have experienced what you came for.Go home and counterbalance and make your decision from there.

Obiara Ije nwe ula!

Same thing I said..he wants sex.

Iamafinegirl:

If I didn’t live with him I would never have known him like this. He was so in love with me that he didn’t leave evn when I didn’t agree for one and half year. He would go get me pizza at night say 10pm if I wanted it and bring it to my house. He would wake me every morning to wake up for office etc. To be honest. I Don’t regret it Cus I didn’t sin.
It makes me so scared of dating or courtship the way the church wants us to do it rather. Afar... you never get to know the person. Isn’t it better I feel this pain before marriage or if I would, go into marriage knowing the full version of what I would expect ?

That man didn't love you to be honest. If he did or does you won't be here asking for advice. I think u underestimate how well people pretend.