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heartofcity12:
Wtf 😯. I hope this boy doesn’t fall into depression with this..

Uptheante:
But will you be ok if your wife sleeps around with different men while using condoms so as not to be pregnant for those men?

Kipaji:
It cannot be emphasized enough how important it is as men to be very selective and patient when choosing our wife/wives.
It's good to take our time to know people.
This woman never loved him, despite all his properties. If a woman doesn't like you as you are broke she will never ever like you even if you become a millionaire. Do not fall for the "high value mam" scam just to end up like this guy.
This is one of the many reasons I left the redpill. They want men to "get on their purpose" and become "high value" just to deal with women who don't like them.

Kipaji:
100%. I am definitely doing DNA tests irrespectively of whether I suspect her of cheating or not.

Since Nigeria is one of the countries with the very highest rates of paternity fraud, making DNA test cheap would shake society and destroy many families.

By the way, how much does a DNA test cost in Nigeria?

heartofcity12:
Breaking News
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Kimcutie:
In a girl-boy chatting scenerio, if you are always starting a convo, know that she isn't into you as much as u are in her, cause women naturally crave attention, why are you the one craving that attention.



Think about it.

Kipaji:
Thank you for this post Smartb0y. It will allow me to deconstruct one or two reasons why the redpill is bullsh*t. Let's go.




This is a contradiction. Liking a woman means having feelings for her. So, how can you see a woman you like without developing feelings for her?

But remember that ladies wanna have fun.



The emboldened is not a masculine thought. This is the thought of a man overwhelmed by lust. And you can be damn sure many women will weaponize it against you. Protect yourself by fighting your lust. Let women lust after you, women are the real perverts.
It also shows that redpill guys see women as something to ejaculate in and move on which is not righteous. And then when these women become single mothers because guys like you just wanted to "fvck her and move on" you will be the first one to blame feminism for the spread of single motherhood.



This just shows that bad boys are feminine. As a masculine man, you should not behave like women, whether that gets you sex or not. Better be a masculine man with 0 chicks than an effeminate bad boy with an harem.

Kipaji:
Thank you for this post Smartb0y. It will allow me to deconstruct one or two reasons why the redpill is bullsh*t. Let's go.




This is a contradiction. Liking a woman means having feelings for her. So, how can you see a woman you like without developing feelings for her?



The emboldened is not a masculine thought. This is the thought of a man overwhelmed by lust. And you can be damn sure many women will weaponize it against you. Protect yourself by fighting your lust. Let women lust after you, women are the real perverts.
It also shows that redpill guys see women as something to ejaculate in and move on which is not righteous. And then when these women become single mothers because guys like you just wanted to "fvck her and move on" you will be the first one to blame feminism for the spread of single motherhood.



This just shows that bad boys are feminine. As a masculine man, you should not behave like women, whether that gets you sex or not. Better be a masculine man with 0 chicks than an effeminate bad boy with an harem.

Mummyfour:
🤣🤣, and also very honest at that age.
It's just that their truthfulness and honesty can be painful at times

Mummyfour:
My oldest son emptied that biggest jar of Vaseline and the big container of Johnson's baby powder on an expensive white single couch his father bought for 250k some years back.

The reason: he just gave the couch a bath and was rubbing it cream and powder.
My husband's boys from his janitorial services company was called in to clean the couch, but even with the whole expertise and chemicals used, the Vaseline patches refused to fade off.

Another one was my daughter that had to start school at age 1 year and 3 months, just 2 weeks to the close of school term. The school proprietress told my husband to leave it till the next term, but oga refused and promised to Even pay extra fees

The reason: my first daughter went to kiss the eyes of my premature baby with ketchup in her mouth.
.we initially thought it was blood coming out of the little premature baby's eyes. I was already crying because I had suffered so much on my premature twins, I didn't need more pressure.

As I was crying not knowing what else to do, my older daughter looked at me and said " mummy I kish baby eye" it was at that point I realized it was ketchup and not blood. Infact she started school that day by 12pm without uniform or any thing for school.

My husband just dumped her in school, said she even waved at him, and didn't send him or cry.
By 1:30pm school closed and she came back home ;🤣🤣🤣

Miracood2:
Females are not the only shit testers. Even your own guy will want to shit test you and make you fall into his own frame.

Hence making you his own simp. While he asertains total dominance.

luminouz:
That girl already fuqed Seyi multiple times.

It's his lack of redpill application that caused the see-finish. He knows he is being manipulated but has no knowledge of what to do in return.

A man without the redpill is a finished man

YUNGLURD:
Kudos Op, 120 push up every morning, 160 squats and 100 push down (I don't really know the name given to that exercise whereby u straighten out ur two hands resting on a bench while u straighten out ur two legs then go up and down)

VeryWickedGoat:
I hate Nigerians DIE!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Filled with pathos...a real niggarrr is emotional now...grab my weed to puff gently with emotions

The mother died

There is only one true love and that is mother's love


Looks like a movie though but in this case the children didn't battle with anacondas, amazonian giant centipede and Colombian recluse spider
Can't wait for the movie to come out

Wisfem:
Hello!! Please is there any WhatsApp group for the redpill community or links I need to join..

CaveAdullam:
Random

The deregulation of the sexual market and all its inherent and absorbed absurdities will cajole or coerce or persuade you into selecting the minimal worst while expecting the best from you. Reject it.

You didn't stay in solitude for long to become rewarded with nonsense.

Choose the best, the one like you.

Pukkalolo:
I'll drop #4 ideas on your question on escalating. From there, maybe you can learn something. I hope so.

#1 Idea
This police man stopped us...then he gesture to my guy who was on the steering to pull down the glass.

He looked at us dead in the eyes as if he was tryna read our thoughts. Then he ask for driver's license. When my guy showed him his license, the police man titled his head and looked him in a confused way as if, "he doesn't know what he's doing."

Kinda similar to what you say that when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying."

My guy quickly get the cue: he opened his wallet and gave him a thousand note. The moment the police collected the money, he smiled and said, "now you are talking!"

Then he gesture to my guy to whine up and get the Bleep. We zoomed off!!

Sometimes, like you said, if you want to escalate they will start forming and giving you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe. That's female manipulative game: she knows exactly what you are saying but she is acting that way to knock you of your game and see if you can get you to spend money on her

In a nutshell, women want you to "spend money" on them in your attempt to woo them, and just like the police officer, If you are not doing that, she might give you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe when you try to escalate.

Don't fall for her trap.



#2 Idea.

Escalating is fun and smooth when you dealing with the woman who has some interest in you.
There is difference between a lady who has interest in you AND a lady who's only enjoying the attention she's getting from you AND a lady who is only being polite and looking for an excuse to dismiss you.

The solution is to “test the waters”, to see if there's any interest, so you won't be wasting your time on the wrong chick.

They say, failure is the key to success...but it depends on the situation where the failure happens. Remember, people only want associate with success not failure... If you fail officially on life TV where the whole world is watching you, that might reduce trust and respect people have for you. But if you fail on a low-key, privately, you can quickly learn from your mistakes while still retain your respect and use what you learn to succeed in public.

That's why most companies test their products before launching it; they even give it to people for free and get their feedbacks before finally launching it.

I mean, it foolish to launch a big move, when you have not yet launch smaller moves first...

It's not rocket science, it's common sense.

For example, let's say I'm hanging out with a woman...then the idea of kissing her flash on my mind...so I think "this is an opportunity to escalate"...

So I boldly lean in to kiss her...but surprisely I'm soundly and harshly rejected by her... "Stop it, how dare you try to kiss me." she roared.

That's a big move, that ended in big failure: she consciously rejected my escalation(kiss).... She's clearly aware of it and her respect for me might reduce a bit (and it will continuously reduce if I keep trying to make attempt to kiss her.)

Speaking from experience, most girls know if they’re into you or not within the first few seconds of meeting you. So, logically, when meeting a woman, the idea is to quickly test the waters and see what her deal is.

With women, it's sometimes better she reject your escalation low-key, and still retain your respect and diginity. Using the previous example, when the idea of kissing her cross my mind...instead of drawing close to kiss her, I simply "test the waters" by softly touching her on the arm or hand, and watch her reaction. I observed how the she react...If she react negatively by quickly removing her hand or something... I might touch her again later when there is more trust. I still retain my respect.

What if she's comfortable with being touched on the arm or hand (and she even touch my hands too), then I can move on to keep touching her more intimately....then going for the kiss will just flow naturally.

A girl that reject my touch on her arms or hand, will definitely reject my kiss. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.


#3 Idea

Escalating is simply moving things forward with the girl.
Most men see escalation as a series of sequence they must conquer: talk to her and get her name, then get her digit; then chatting with her and get her to respond well; then get her to meet up..then get a hug...then get a kiss, then get the pussy...and boom... victory!! You are winner.
However, this is a sad way to view it.
Because, one, you are putting the pussy on pedestal. And Two, And you are creating win lose vibe.

What do I mean by win lose vibe?

Here's what I mean: when you escalate smartly and get the pussy, you feel like the winner...but then what does she feels like?

Well, you guess right!! She feels like the LovePeddler, the slut and the loser.

This is why many women don't want to lose: so while you are trying to sexually escalate the interaction using every seduction tool in your arsenal, she's also trying to financially escalate the interaction.

When a woman meets a man, subconsciously or consciously she’s analyzing the amount of resources he possesses. She's feeling you out to see how much money you would be willing to spend on her...and then she's start trying to manipulate you into spending money using any female tricks possible.


Getting the pussy...automatically makes her the loser. So when you try to escalate and move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle so she won't feel cheap. And the obstacle can be in any form. Just like in your situation-->when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying"... That's her own form of obstacle.


Some fellas would say, "yo, yo, this is where having a good "mouth piece" comes in.

Hmmm.....

I just remembered an incidence:
Few weeks earlier, my cousin visited me and while talking generally, he started telling me about a guy(his friend) in his estate who's smashing lots of chicks because he has "good game", "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or whatever.

Wow! I was curious to see this guy...he showed me a photo and a short tiktok video of him.

I was marveled to see that this guy is particularly tall, has an athletic physique and he has an handsome face, and he's a bit popular on ticktok because has great dancing skils.

I tried my best to convince my cousin that the reason why he's smashing lots of girls is plainly because of the above qualities he has, and not because he has, "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or any whatever crap....

But that's a topic for another day... let's me not derail this post.

It's natural that when you try to move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle... One way to handle this situation is to creating a win win vibe NOT win lose vibe.

Most term popularized by redpill community naturally create a "YOU vs the Girl" vibe.... terms like game, escalating, passing shit test, frame control...It makes the simple act of talking to a girl seem like you are entering a battle ground and a power tussle game. This naturally create a YOU vs HER vibe where nobody wants to feel like a loser.

To make the "escalation" happen smoothly and the interaction grow naturally towards sex (and maybe amazing romantic relationship), you want to create a YOU with HER vs the world vibe... that's a WIN WIN vibe. Basically, you want create a "cooperating vibe"....



If your behavior indicates that you are faking, playing games, being phony or being judgemental...that won't inspired cooperation vibe between you and her...That would create a power tussle where both you and the girl don't want to loose guard... and where you and her would be trying to outsmart yourself.

When you create a cooperation vibe, the idea of sex, won't be something you have to tactically escalate to, but rather it becomes something you and her are looking forward to have together.

Different women needs different level of cooperating vibe...Logically, Some women, especially those with past traumas and negative experience with men might require a higher level of cooperation vibe for the sexual escalation to progress.


Creating a cooperation vibe kicks in when you change the goal of your interaction from "getting" to "cooperating" ....

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to give me the pussy and not lose interest in me?" you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "what can I do to create an interaction where mind games, deception or disrespect doesn't exist?

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to like me and accept me," you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "What can I do to find out if I and this girl share the same interests and Intention so we won't waste each other time??"

These cooperative way of thinking doesn't sound sexy to the alpha wannabe junkies, but this kind thinking is what grow you into a mature, confident self-assured dude who naturally attract classy and high quality chick...

Classy and high quality chicks loves and respect mature, confident and self-assured dudes. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.




#4 Idea

Women are naturally program to resist a man's escalation attempt because they don't want to seem easy or cheap. However, the more attracted and interested she is in the guy, the less likely she is to resist him.

So if there's no much attraction or interest yet, it's natural that when you try to escalate, she'd put up an obstacle... One way you can possibly handle this situation is to prevent this situation in the first place by YOU actually putting up an obstacle first. So that the focus of the interaction will now be on your obstacle and not her's.

2 weeks ago, chatting with this lady; after congratulating her on her birthday. I was not that interested in her, but for experimentation purpose, I decided to move the interaction forward (escalate)....

Of course, I expected that she'd put up an obstacle because she's kinda cute, in her prime and getting massive attention from guys...

So I began with something along the lines of,
"you are my kind of girl, but I heard March born ladies are naturally self-centered and selfish... please how true is that?"

If you can interpret the above statement, you'd noticed I tried to escalate the interaction but I also put up an obstacle immediately on why I might not pursue any intimacy with her...

She started subtly defending and trying to change that negative idea I have about ladies March born girls. That is her own way of trying to neutralize the obstacle I'm putting up.

So now the focus of the interaction is now on the obstacle I created and not on the obstacle she should have created.

Most times, when a girl start trying to change the negative opinion you have about her, her interest for you gradually goes up..

In an attempt to create more obstacles on the idea of being self-centered and selfish, I told her, "I doubt if she has ever bought birthday gift for a guy before."
Of course, again she tries to remove the obstacle, telling me different situations where she bought gift for the guy she was dating in the past and the difference experiences she had with that...... Our interaction got deeper and deeper.

With her, I wasn't so much concerned getting the pussy, I was more concerned with testing the waters, creating obstacles (challenging her ego) and creating a cooperating vibe...

If you noticed that's the summary of the 4 ideas

When I tried to escalate by asking us to meet up, she enthusiastically agreed. Saying I'll be pleased to go out with you....The date ended up in my house.

I hope this was helpful.

I can’t imagine menstrual blood going into somebody’s mouth, it is unsafe. How will somebody put his mouth in blood when the person is not Dracula, it is Dracula that sucks blood.

zenithgroup:
Thanks, I had downloaded it but upon opening it was saying I can't open this file. Is there any other application to download to access such files?

Regex:
I remember calling my ex girlfriend when we were dating and hearing sounds that looked like it was coming from a hand fan, she told me she was hot and was fanning herself when I inquired. However I did notice that she takes quite a moment to answer whilst we were talking over the phone.


When we broke up, I realised, she has been lying all along. She was being serviced whilst professing how much she loved me... 😂 😂 😂


Since then, if a girl tells me the sky is blue, I will have to come out and verify it's actually blue.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I’m jealous each time I see this people showing Obi so much love because he doesn’t deserve it. Obidients come for me please I’m just bored at home

Eazzii:
Omo. MOrroco at work.
I meant friend's wife.