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Eazzii:
Omo. MOrroco at work.
I meant friend's wife.

😂😂😂😂

It's very disastrous.

Most women retire in church at their fading stage just to get men to marry them. I don't support that.

What usually gets me tired is that girls are kind of dumb when chatting to them via whatsapp, if you want to escalate they will start forming "I don't know what you are saying."

Is there any ways you can write or shed more light on escalation.

Your piece is great.

Pukkalolo:
I was recently asked, "Do you advocate cold approach or just wait to be choosen?"


Just like cold call in sales, i believe Cold approach is when you approach a woman who's totally unaware of you initially like on the street, bustop or something. While waiting to be choosen, is basically waiting to get choosing signal, as in, interest signs before making an attempt.

So do I advocate cold approach

When we think of cold approach, we think of a guy who basically set out of the house with the intention of wooing women, and then he's seen approaching a woman who seems generally NOT open to interactions. For example approaching a woman hurrying down the street heading to work or something important. When you approach her, of course you are gonna get a negative reaction. As you can see the problem isn't that she's not interested you, it's that she's not just interested in any social interactions at that moment.

If you are looking to start a serious relationship, you need to share things in common with the girl and you need to see her couple of times. With the typical cold approach, there's high probability that you aren't going to share things in common with the random girl you're cold approaching.

And in recent times, due to insecurities, most women would feel unsafe to be approach by a random stranger.

And aside that...when you cold approach a stranger, if you aren't asking for direction or time, then it's automatically assume you wanna beg for money. And by default you tend to get ignored or get dismissed quickly. It's difficult to overcome that stereotype unless you look very attractive. And even if you look attractive, she natural tend to find it weird and uncomfortable because you are a total stranger to her.

Many times, a woman defensive instinct is high when she's walking alone quickly down the street and as a result, she's more likely to reject you as default responses; it does matter how good your so called "game" is.


As a matter of fact, If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes around the streets trying to cold approach every girl he encounter.

My biggest beef against cold approaching is that it's a time wasting behavior...I value my time more than anything else. Time that you are suppose to spend learning a skill or building your business... instead you waste it, trawling the streets in search of pussy.


Ok, chill. Now, I've thrown lots of shades at cold approach,
you might think "since cold approach doesn't really make sense, so are you saying the way forward is just wait to be choosen"

Relax bro.

So do I advocate "just wait to be choosen."?

That is, waiting to get choosing signal (interest signs) before making an attempt to initiate a conversation with her.

One of the most common choosen signals is when she makes strong eye contact with you. Basically, she catches your eye and hold strong eye contact for few seconds. A woman who’s chooses you will often meet your eyes, look away, then look back again.


I mean, approaching a lady who gives you choosing signals is specifically always a great idea, and always useful.

My first issue with Choosing signals is that it can be tricky and can sometimes be misleading. Sometimes you can get choosing signals from a lady that actually has no interest in you. This happens a lot.

Another problem with waiting to be choosing is that you'll naturally tend to miss out on a lot of interest signs if you are inexperienced and you lack social awareness. This is because women are good at pretending and hiding their interest.
Women have a way of stylishly checking you out without you noticing, so sometimes she has already giving you choosing signals, but you didn't realise.

Just like we said earlier that If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes about the streets trying to cold approach every girl he sees on the road. This is even worse for choosing signals: you don't want to be that guy who goes about the streets desperately looking at girls eyes and trying to maintain eye contact with them because you looking for choosing signals. That's a low status behavior.



Another issue with choosing signals is that it mostly come from less attractive girls. A Lady who is very beautiful and sexy have big egos, and you will rarely catch her checking out a guy.

Most highly attractive ladies have more social value, and so they feel very "entitled" and they walk around wearing a saucy and "I don't care" facial expression; they expect you to be given them choosing signals and not the other way around.


I have said this before on this thread: the vast majority of the time, only 10% of men tend to get good amount of "obvious" choosing signals, that's the men who are famous, rich or very handsome and physically appealing.

But the rest of men will only get those "obvious" choosing signals once in a blue moon.

So if you want to get more "obvious" choosen signals from women, First, max out your looks, money and status... That's the best advice.

But in general, if you want to get more sexual opportunities, just waiting to be choosing signal isn't an efficient method.


*Takes a deep breath*


Now you are thinking, "you said cold approach is a waste of time but you are still beefing on ' just waiting to be choosen'..... Dude, seriously, what's your deal "

Ok, relax...tighten your seatbelt....we are just starting...

Remember, one big issue with cold approach is, you tend to indiscriminately approach a woman who's totally unaware of you. Worse, if she's a feminist or totally psycho, she might tag that as sexual harassment: and this might affect your reputation as a guy.

But approaching a girl is cooler and more natural if you are in an environment of similar interests with the girl, where being social is natural expected, so she won't find it weird to be approached by someone she doesn't know. For example, environment like club, school, church, higher institution, Seminars, training centers, party or any social gathering where networking and social interaction is expected and encouraged.

And remember we said cold approaching is a time wasting behavior, but you can make it more time effective if you can naturally fit it in your daily life. Instead of roaming the streets in a never-ending search for pussy like a jobless loser, you can simply approach girls while you go about your normal daily routine. For example, while coming back from lectures, office or work, you initiate conversation with that attractive girl who seems to also going your way. Or while shopping at the mall, you talk to that cute girl who's shopping near you.

If you noticed, I didn't say, wait to get choosing signals before you talk to the girl. Putting it bluntly: just waiting to be choosing is a submissive mindset.

Every time you meet a new woman, she's either one of these category:

#1. She interested in you. #2. She isn't interested in you

Most times, the guy who settle for the idea of "just wait to be chosen" is the guy who is greatly scared getting rejected by the woman in #2 category. He doesn't want to inconvenient or upset her. He doesn't want this woman to think poorly of him.

Dude, in a nutshell, you are huge pussy.

One reason why my behavior is highly confident and self-assured (and I'm enjoying romantic success) is because I don't mind inconveniencing and upsetting the woman in #2 category: I actually want them to reject me. Who cares if they think poorly of me. I need to get them out of the way as soon as possible.

The funny thing is, when you learn to face your (social) fears with women, you naturally learn more about women body language and non-verbal signals. Waiting for choosing signals won't help you understand women. Reading redpill advise won't teach you anything about women.

The rugged looking illiterate boy who has just spend 6 month at mechanic workshop as more experience and knowledge about car and automobile than 10 mechanical engineering graduate put together. This is because this because the mechanic illiterate boy, is getting going under cars, getting his body dirty and trying to fix cars.

I know buddy who's a totally cocky, he has smash more pussy than 10 repill community guys put together. And this buddy doesn't even know what redpill, game and shit test is. This is because this cocky buddy of mine isn't waiting for choosing signals from women before he take action. He's isn't waiting for permission.



Experience has taught me that women decide quickly whether they are interested in a guy or not... This why my approach (shameless approach) is to quickly take action and find out if she has any interest in me... once I see that there's some interest, I'll pull the triggers and build up her interest & sexual comfortableness.....

I'm not waiting for choosing signals(interest signs), instead I take action and provoke interest signs from her.

The lady I am currently seeing didn't give me any choosen signals; she had a tough "I don't care" facial expression, but as I confidently go over and start talking to her, she opened up and started giving me choosen signals.

When I ask her why she put up a tough/harsh looks initially, she is like "Wow, seriously?? I didn't know I was putting on that look"

If I was waiting for choosing signals, she'd be gone.

Life is all about taking calculated risks: you can not just wait for some sign from the universe to make your move. Let me assure you this: some of your peak experiences will come from girls who didn't give choosen signals at first.






Waiting = feminine = submissive.

Taking action = Masculine = Dominant

Feminine wait around and hope something happens....

Masculine take action and make something happen. The choice is yours.


There's a proverb that says, if you want women to lick your balls, you have to grow some balls.

Merch:
ogbeni one thing you should know is that girls don’t like niggas that treat them well, be her problems not her problem solver. you accommodated a bitch that isn’t submitting her pussy to you, so in what ways is she beneficial to you, tell that selfish bitch to leave your house tonight when rain is falling

Bro, you have said it all. I king 👑 you for saying this.

Girls are like cat. If you chase cat it will run away, but if you stay on your own they will come close to you.

Stay ruthless.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Tah.

😂😂😂😂😂

Impressive.

Emmanuel30a:
Can u tell me, how mad a person u are; or can be...? How mad&bad of a person are u...? U are as bad&mad as Simbad/Sinbad, or as bad&mad as Samad, etc... U are mad, or u must be mad...,etc? Lyk a bastard or lyk d bastards Samad&Simbad, etc; dat eating salad&drinking custard...? Are u retards, or u are a retards...? Wia is ur stand, or wia did u stands...? U are a bastard, or a retards/retarded bastard...? U are a dullard, or a Ruby Dollard,etc;...? U are a "rolling dollar"...?...dat is wearing collar...? How much is ur dollar or dollars, dat u want to holla...? Holla at ur boy/boys, or order at ur boy/boys,etc; dat are using...collar&cellular, or dat are not using collar&cellular...? Order/orders of or for ur boy/boys...? Moro boya oko ila...? Segun okola, abi femi okola ni oruko re...? Abi Adebayo Alao Akala...?...

Domino

Mtcheeew I have no R.I.P to waste.

Onye gbuo onwe ya ona eje.

luminouz:
Werey!!!!

This is some harsh truth!!!

😂😂 We are here to serve vawulence hot hot.

IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

yeyebrity:
You are so on point and I agree with this. These men think all ladies are the same and would just jump at any marriage offer. I have female friends who are in their late 30's and are still picky. There are others who don't care and are ready to settle for less. In the end, it all boils down to own's taste in men.

The woman in that video is probably chasing clout and trying to grow her page. Any woman of marriagable that wants to get married can get married in a jiffy but the question is, who will she be getting married to?

You are not staying with them old layers or evening newspapers so stop assuming what you don't know.

These are the people they look up to but at the end they will still settle down.👇

Men are still the prize if you don't know.

Even in their own so called state they are afraid of Igbos.

Where is that stupid Reno omockrey. He no dey talk again.

Power drunk f l

Thought that he's from kogi state. How come ?

No be LP logo I dey see there abi na my eyes dey pain me.

They're selective before but now they can't be selected.

Jennyclay:
Ntooooor!! That serves you right.

Agreement is agreement. Next time you'll learn to stick to your side of the agreement no matter what.

I blame the girl for not collecting her full payment before any other thing.

Broke men everywhere!! Shior!!

😂😂😂 Abeg you are too bitter and Extremely toxic

princekami:
I hope this helps
There has been records of men making great achievements due to the influence of love, sex and romance of a woman. The image below describes the authors view on why many men seldom succeed before the age of forty.
I hope the image below also shed a little light on why you should get your hands off your penis

This should be Napoleon hill's book

Another one

Sancho!!!!

Another one from nwachukwu Rashford !!!

Herbworks:
I see a lot online here. Old ladies with fat tummy looking for 6 packs. If you can’t have a flat tummy as a lady then you don’t deserve a guy with a 6 pack

😂😂 No mind dem entitled bitxhes. After working my a$$ off to chisel my body big belle lady will be feeling entitled to enjoy my labour.

Rashford dey give me joy Abeg.

Them consis10th here art thou;

Pukkalolo:
I saw the Masturbators Vs Non Masturbators debate going... here's my take on it.

Please, read with an open mind so you'll understand my point and learn from this.

Do you know women hate it when guys watch porn and jerk off? This is not because they care about your well being. Far from that. It's actually because they think watching porn and satisfying yourself sexually all by yourself actually prevent you from giving women attention. That's just their thinking.

Because apart from work environment or other important stuff, women know that the possibility of sex is the top one reason why many men socially interact with women.

Remove the possibility of getting pussy, suddenly you realize that most men won't be inspired to hangout socially with a women.

This is not rocket science. This is just the simple fact.

Another reason why they hate it when guys watch porn is because women hate it to see other women giving up the pussy for free just like that.

In most porn movie, the men doesn't take the woman to expensive restaurant or shower the woman with financial gift. In the porn movie, the men don't act like well mannered simping nice guy...but still they get the pussy.

The Women have programed to believe that a man is supposed to praise her, spend huge money on her, treat her with materialistic gift... in exchange for her pussy.

But in porn, men do none of that, but they still get the pussy. This is annoying to most women. This is why they hate it when men watch porn.

Think of it. If the government make a new law and order all men to stop seeking women for sexual satisfaction and only jerk off to porn and ignore women... Forget it, women will go insane. They will come out on mass riot and protest against it.
This is because women need the attention of men, but never want to admit.

Ok, let's move on....

The thing is, just like prostitution, jerking off has been around for longer than humanity... Masturbation didn't start with this generation.

And we often make the mistake of thinking jerking off is just for frustrated, miserable and lonely fellas....but you are wrong.
Many of the world’s respected celebs and top figures have admitted to masturbation.... The likes of Eva Longoria, Dustin Hoffman, John Mayer, 50 CENT, Tailor Momsen, AMBER ROSE, Rihanna, AUBREY O’DAY, ROBERT DOWNEY JR, KANYE WEST and many others have reveal the fact that they sexually play with themselves and jerk off from time to time.

Some even say they do it all the time...for example, AMBER ROSE said in an interview that she masturbate all the time. Infact she said she masturbate at least once a day....

JOHN MAYER once said, Jerking off has save him from petty issues, he even said
"I have masturbated myself out of serious problems in my life"

Kanye west is your standard example of a successful guy... He got game. He's goes to the gym. He lives an exciting life. He's confident.. he's doesn't give a Bleep. He's a famous. He's a billionaire. He's a ....Whatever.

But guess what's he once reveal in an interview that he jerk off to pornography times without number. He reveal that he's even addicted to it.

So it doesn't make sense to associate porn and jerking off to being a loser.



It's funny how people blame porn and jerking for lack of progress and lack of success.

Few months ago, a former student of mine called me and reveal to me that he's addicted to porn and jerking off, and he's thinking of how to stop it because he believes it's negatively affecting his life.

I asked him "how is it negatively affecting your life?"

He's said, he's lonely, broke and still living in his mum basement... He said his addiction to porn is the CAUSE of the problem.

I told him that, porn and jerking off is only the side effects of a deeper issue....not the cause"

I went on to say, "worrying about the fact that you are jerking off to porn only shows you actually don't have 'more important' things to worry about...... And that's actually the problem."

I asked him,

"Do you want to make porn & jerking off problem go away?"

He said, "Yes!"

I said, "Then, just stop believing that porn and jerking off is the problem."

I told him, we should take our focus out of porn for now, because there are more hidden problems locked in. We'll identify them gradually.

I asked him, what are the things he love.

He said, he loves sports. He said can argue about football from morning till night. He's said he also loves writing...

I said, "Good! That's a good place to start."
Then I told to start a blog and write about sport news.

That was when his real problems started to crop out. He started giving excuses on why it isn't a good idea because he can't build a blog website.

I told him, "you think porn and jerking off is the reason why you are broke and lonely, but no...your problem is that YOU LOVE MAKING EXCUSES."

To tackle his excuses, I offered to build a simple website for him for free and even show him out to operate it... He can pay me for my service later anytime he gets on his feet financially.

Soon he came up with another excuse that there are lots of bloggers out and the competition is high...

I managed to neutralize the excuse and convinced him.

12 more excuses later....

Then finally he decided to start the blog website. This all happened few months ago.

Few days earlier, I asked him on his progress. We discussed lengthy on it.... He seem more happier and productive now. He said his sports website is doing great, and along the line, he has realized he also love celebrity gist. He's start blogging about it too.. He even open a YouTube channel for it...

Then I asked him, what about your porn and jerking off problem.

He laughed and said... "Bro, that isn't my problem for now... although I find himself jerking off once in a while...but generally I have very much reduce engaging in the act.

He said "jerking off isn't my problem now."

This because he now have better problems to worry about. Problems like, getting more views and suscribers for his channels, Improve his website Site's Ranking, getting more engagement...

That goes to show that watching porn and jerking off wasn't the reason why he was lonely and broke. It's quite the opposite. Being lonely and broke was the reason why he was jerking off and watching porn.


I also know a guy who is a chronic masturbator..he jerk off at least twice a day. Then soon he got a job at the island, but he lives on mainland. He had to wake 4am to prepare for work and he got back home late by 10pm or 11pm. From Monday to Friday.

During the weekend, he get busy with other important activities that he had to postpone for weekend.

I ask him, if he still jerk off regular. He said, he doesn't even have time to jerk off.

I laugh when people say they are struggling with porn. The real issues here is that they don't have better problems to struggle with.

The problem of Porn and masturbation will naturally take care of itself when you start focusing on better and more useful problems.

Tyson fury once said that jerking off has helped him to win most of his matches. Some people channel positive energy in jerking off some have channeled negative energy towards it.

luminouz:
Lol..would you want us to be abusing each other and derailing the thread?

I just gave you Potassium to calm you down!!

😂😂😂.
You nailed it.

navzla:
The other time ,I saw an oyibo simp licking the toes of a lady.This time is ,another simp getting on his two kneels to propose.
If a man will gets on his two kneels to propose to a lady how many kneels will he go on to pray to his creator?

Simps will keep on kneeling down to propose to a girl that he's doing a favour by bring her out of the Street or out of singlehood. I'm yet to understand the logic behind it.

Men marrying women, to me I consider it a big favour to the woman cos out of millions of women all over the world he chose you and still expect him to kneel down for you.

That's a pure WEAKNESS. West has deceived us big time.

She is semi out of the street.

😂😂😂.
Vawulence n**ga. They are coming for your head.

How can you tell a woman the "next time we meet we will be keeping each other company" in a sexual way. I want the words to send a sexual vibes or signal to her.

Alphas in the house.

Don’t mention the red pill to women, just practice it. They will hate the ideas, but love the effects.