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If you don’t punish her when you should,

She’ll punish you when she shouldn’t.

If you give her more than she deserves

She’ll give you less than you deserve.

Some still won’t get it.

If you're dating a girl or you're married to a girl you don't know her phone's password nor have access to her phone, YOU'RE A BORN BASTARD and you deserve any evil that happens or she does to you.
In this modern day, 90% of cheating is carried out on the social media and THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN KNOW OR MONITOR WHAT IS GOING ON IS TO PERIODICALLY CHECK AND KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

Forget this bullshǐt of privacy!

A girl's phone is not supposed to be more private than her private parts.
Anyone who has the potential to ruin, kill or put you in harm's way IS NOT supposed to keep anything secret or private from you.

Focus on yourselves, kings

Any girl genuinely interested in you will be there always

But even if she doesn’t, still focus on you.

Never surrender your goals for any woman,

Never put any girl before your ambitions.

And when you’ve finally made it,

You’ll have lots of women, cause they’re mostly attracted to successful men.

Now you can make your choice from them.

A woman no matter how interested she is can wake up one day and decide she’s done

No matter what you’ve done for her.

But success & greatness will never leave when you secure it.

Know this and apply accordingly.

Things that’ll ruin your chances with her !

- Neediness
- Obsession
- Desperation
- Longer texts
- Double texting
- Lack of options
- Always available
- Always pleasing her

The more you react to her shit tests ( drama’s & tantrums) the more you reward her silliness with attention.

And y’all already know how much women love attention.

And she’ll keep repeating that silliness in other to get that attention.

But when you ignore her instead, she doesn’t get your attention at the moment

She’ll do all she can to get that attention back, why because “women love attention”

And with ignoring her, she’ll subconsciously stop annoying you, so that you don’t take your attention away from her.

This has been said here times without number.

*MASTER GAME*

Signs of a weak man:

He chooses pleasure over purpose.

Instead of arguing with her using logic,

- Tickle her
• Kiss her on the forehead
• Pick her up, swing her around
• Change the topic to what you want to talk about.

She is like a child.

Change her mood, not her mind.

If you are in this channel and you are FAT

start working on it

Masculine Men arent supposed to Be Fat with pot bellies potruding

Be RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HEALTH

BE FIT GUYS

SOME OF YOUR PROBLEMS WILL BE SOLVED

ONCE YOU START WORKING ON YOUR BODY

YOU NATURALLY ATTRACT SELF CONFIDENCE

AND IT CAN BE PERCEIVED FROM AFAR

If you’re an ambitious man, thriving on your purpose; you deserve a feminine, submissive woman with no body counts.

If you’re a man with low drive for greatness, you deserve a woman with low drive to preserve her femininity.

Low value balances with low value & vice versa.

chikasnight:
So guys field report:
I was with this very fine girl earlier today hanging out for the first time anyway. Before today the vibes was cool we used to talk well though it was through cold approach everything started.
So when we met i noticed she put up a game, she started acting a bit cold and was mostly on her phone. Already I was just smiling cuz i know the game plan was to get me to try to impress her, chase her more and invest. Well I was patient enough for like 10mins to see if she’ll change before this conversation ensued between me and her...

Me: it seems you’re not interested in what is happening here you can stand up and go.

She: (looking shocked as she didn’t believe someone could tell her something like that).

Me: didn’t you hear me ?

She: you said I should go now why do you want me to go

Me : you’ve been on your phone since we came so go and continue with it...

She got her stuffs walked out hoping I’ll call her back , after another 10mins I decided to catch up with my guys somewhere else, as I was stepping out I saw her standing alone close to the entrance of the lounge staring at me maybe waiting to see if I’ll call her back or even reconcile as I was going. Also I noticed the phone that was so important to her was no longer in her hands it’s now in her bag. I just left without a word not for my self now but for the next guy who’ll hang out with her...

Abeg still update us if anything sup. .

Hoard your attention. It's very costly for any girl to have your attention. Gold is most valuable cos it's scarce same should be your attention.

luvyaself95:
Oh Thanks
Modified:- I can't find the download link in that website.

Jxt click that link and leave it. It will download on its own.

luvyaself95:
I can't afford it.
And Z-lib have been seized by US government and Pdfdrive don't have it.
If you have it kindly send for me i can send you pm if needed.

I downloaded it yesterday. Just go to Google search for the book and put pdf then it will show. Click on the first link

Adekunlegold9ja:
Amen thanks for the 500 naira.

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Begging is not life. Go and get life it's not funny anymore.

Hmmm.

I have never heard or seen any video of guys singing carry me dey go my wife place, that shows that we are the prize. The moment you know this then you will value yourself well. No matter her class never prioritize her because at the end you still hold the key to her happinesses which include marriage, commitment e.t.c

They know that men age like wine while they decay like corpse.

Danielkelly:
Typing
DISHONOUR for a King, it's a treasonable felony, a betrayal, JESUS! A bruise to the Ego.
The truth is that this is the kind of end expectation you will have if you are a simp, a niece guy yeah.
i had another uncle my grandma called him the wise one among her three sons when we do our gossip wishpering chat.
Only marriage is standing strong.
When his wife misbehaved and hwhen he was ill and he had a specific time to take his drugs. She propostened the cooking until when she likes about 2hours later when she served him the food, he threw it a way and the plate even broke. She shit tested him(women will alwaz test your authority).
There was food full house, there was gas and 22/7 light, no excuse.
He took his ATM from her and took i and his kids out to eatery.
*NOBODY SHOULD EAT THE FOOD IN THAT HOUSE UNTIL I SAY SO.* My uncle said, bf giving us money to buy our own food 5K each.
The wife begged for three days and three nights before it was all over.
The pussy is 4KINGs,
Men know this.

Wow wow *3 I like this piece.

las las na Portugal Vs Argentina for final.
And Portugal to win 2022 world cup.
END!

Just imagine you went to a shop and bought a phone of ₦70,000 then you brought it home, then your friend was like nah I bought this exact phone for ₦30,000 and another one tells you nah I bought t it for ₦2,000 and another told you that I got it for free. You that bought it for ₦70,000 how will you feel ? Well his writing is not about phone.

LINSAR:
Here in the university, I shake my head repeatedly when I see some girls' lifestyles. You know why? It's one unfortunate man that'll finally marry them.

Imagine a girl that used her püssy to sponsor her education saying "I want a God fearing and responsible man."

A girl that is being passed around for s*x in her neighborhood will be saying "You're not my type."

Before marrying a lady, I'll tell her family "If I marry your daughter and discover she's not 'intact', I'm collecting back the bride price paid."

Bro you have said it all. I have already made it up to myself. To even marry a graduate fit hard me cos of their lifestyle. Come UNIBEN and you go see shege.

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Pukkalolo:
Asking this question actually shows you are an intellectual dude... because at the core, the ability to withstanding pressure and maintaining emotional control is one of the most important skill a man can have when dealing with women ( and life in general).
This skill is far more important than your physical fitness. It's more important than how smooth you are or how good looking you are.

Fews years back I was invited to a interview where there were about 15 candidate who were in attendance.

When it got to my turn to be interviewed, I was invited to the Manager's office(a Man) who would be interviewing me.

After scanning through my CV carefully, he looked at me and said, "Look, succeeding in this business is about taking control of situations that you encounter in your day to day sales activities, and to not allowing these situations to control you."

I said, "Ok?"

Then he looked dead in my eyes and asked, "So how do you take control of highly pressured situation that you'll encounter and not allow the situation to control you?"

There are many fancy and flashy answers to that questions, but at that point I just wanted say what I felt.

I said, "Well, I'll take control of the highly pressured situation by letting go of the situation."

I paused for about 3 seconds, trying to think if what I just said make sense to me. But then in my mind, I said, "mtcheew, Bleep it."

Then I continued confidently: " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation.... there are somethings that are just beyond my control... Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

After I made that last statement, there was an awkward silence between us that lasted for about 7 seconds or so. The man seemed to surprised my answer. He never predicted that answer.(well, I don't like being predictable)
I didn't say anything else. I waited patiently for what he’ll say next. After a long silence that seem like the whole world freezed for a while, he cleared is throat and said, "So why should we give you this Job?"

I said, "You should give me this job because bla bla bla bla bla."
I said some cliche answers I've crammed from the internet.

"Well, we'll get back to you," the manager said while gesticulating for me to get Bleep out his office.

Of course, you'd pretty much assume that they were never going to get back to me... because Obviously it looked like I performed very poor in the interview. Even me, I was a bit worried that i didn't came up with smarter answers.

But to my greatest surprise, 3 weeks later I was invited back to discuss the date it will be ok for me to start the job. Out of 20 people, only I and two other guys were invited back.

Although this my answers seem weak:
" I'll take control of the situation by letting go of the situation" and " I'll take control of situation by not trying hard fix the situation. there are somethings that are just beyond my control. Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

But that's actually the way forward.


Strangely, ability to withstand pressure and maintain emotional control requires no superhuman strength or endurance. It's just requires the ability to let go and not trying to force things go your way all the time.

So the question, how do one get emotional control from within your internal self, as in internal control not the external.

Obviously, the solution is to stop trying to get control from the external.

Here's is an example of trying to get control from the external: Trying to make a woman like you.

Trying to make a woman like you is an unhealthy goal because #1 you can't always control if a woman will like you or not--and since you can't control it, you’d always be ruled by fear.

And Because #2 you’ll only cause yourself headache and make things unnecessarily stressful for yourself.

You can imagine the kind of stress you have to go through to make her like you:

You’ve got to interact with her in a pleasant and cautious manner.

You’ve got to put up with het saucy and disrespectful behavior.

You’ve got to put up with her abusive behavior.

You’ve got to do things to impress her friends and family.

This put your emotions at the mercy of the woman. As long as she like you, you’ll feel worthy and confident about yourself. But the moment she act cold towards you, your whole world is shattered. You start trying hard to fix the situation.

And remember, in that interview, I said " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation."


The ability to let go of a woman when you want her the most—is one of the most important skills you can develop in your interactions with women.

The harder you try to persuade a woman to accept you, the less you succeed in accomplishing that goal.

Life itself is paradoxical. Avoiding negative experiences rejection, criticism or mistakes only increased your chance of getting those negative experiences.


Letting go doesn't mean you're weak; it means you understand that there are some things that are just fucking out of your control.

Letting go of things that are beyond your control, doesn't mean you're powerless; Is simply means you're mature enough to understand that, sometimes not everyone would like you or be interested in you.

When a woman reject you or show no interest in you, you might be tempted to try to convince her and try to force her to see things your way....but in reality you are only wasting your time and disrespecting yourself.

The solution is to simply "let go" by walking away and moving on the next available chick.

Many guys have the mentality of:

"What can I do to get this woman to like me so that I can feel great and confident about myself?"

That's a weak ass mentality. This is why you can't withstand the pressure of being disliked or being ignored by her.

My mentality is:

"What can I do to feel great and confident about myself so that it wouldn't really matter if this woman like me or not? "

This is how I get emotional control from within my internal self.

Because when you're focused on being liked or being accepted... she tends to have more power than you in the interaction.

This is why I say things like: having low tolerance for a woman's bullshit; Boldly expressing yourself; Immediately NEXTING a woman if she's not cooperating; not allowing her influence or manipulate you with feminine sexiness and so on....because those things are in your fucking control. This is how you maintain emotional contol regardless of the response you are getting from her. This is what makes you a confident and dominant man.

I hope this was helpful.

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One of the best piece I have ever read on this forum.

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Done

Thank you. God bless you.

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