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yomanovic:
Na wa o!!! I feel your judgement is harsh on her. You didn't consider the fact that she was deeply disappointed that the imature guy didn't do what's expected of him. Yeah she is more mature than the guy because, in relationship of that nature, girls are already thinking of marriage while the guy still has a lot of hurdles to cross. I don't know if he is of a family background that can afford to help him out in area of means of livelihood(job).
In most cases like this, he is likely to get married about 3 years after she must have gotten married. Yeah, that's the reality.
@op, your decision to quit the relationship so fast might have been too rash. But the reality is that he is far from being ready. YOU ARE READY!

wow......you just mentioned my exact fears, this was exactly what I thought of before breaking up with him.. I was extremely disappointed he could act like that after everything we shared,it showed immaturity and the fact that he was not ready..

passionate88:
What do I think?... I think

you think what?

angelsing:
He might truly love u but he might be blighted by his Ego..since u have always been the one that begs every time u guys have issue, u probably wud have kept quiet and wait till whatever time he realise u are not going to apologise this time. Though I still think u made the decision in haste..what next for u now?, have u told him u don't want him again or u just made up ur mind u don't want him?

all of the above

ireneony:
you made the best decision....l think your then boyfriend has already introduced another lady to his parents, it will be somehow if he introduced u to them. them truth is, u were the side chick and he was just using u because of sex. how can a guy u call ur boyfriend not call u for days, dont call him, if u like u call him u are only bringing ur self esteem low.
forget about him, cos u are not getting any younger, look for another boyfriend.

I am not sleeping with him

yorex2011:
U don't love the guy. So stop deceiving people here. The reason why i said that is because you called it off for something so little, what happened to talking it over like mature people (graduates at least)? Even if the dude no try.. At least talk it over.. He might have his reasons.. Mind you did u graduate from OAU?..

I love him to the extent that I don't have any male friends or encourage other guys into thinking I would date them,this same guy forgot my birthday, and went to camp and start crushing on a girl, he collected her number and told me he would start working on her if I eff up, by the way this is not the first time he would blame me for his mistakes and not accept his fault after giving me silent treatment I would end up begging him,I guess he got used to that

angelsing:
You broke up with him already?, isn't that too soon..what happen to talking and trying to find a common ground on this issue..I think u rushed and was too hasty to break it off..Come to think of it u accepted the ring and just because this issue u guys can thrash u ended the relationship?. Not cool at all, if u love him like u said try and work things out

the thing was, he knew he was wrong and instead of calmly accepting his fault, he decided to turn the tables around So I would have to start begging him.....that was not the first time he would do something like that,and I would end up begging him after he gives me silent treatment for a week,he has gotten used to blaming me and not accepting his faults,that he thought of wriggling his way out of that kind of issue gave me the impression he was not serious... the ring was just a scam

Tymax:
Na wa for that guy. He is not proud of you. He must not have been like that before. Hmmm. What did you to him?

Nothing o,just 2 days to the event he was telling me How he missed me and can't wait to see my parents, the day came and he misbehaved

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