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He is nonchalant, doesnt open up, makes promises and breaks them, apologises quickly just to avoid the discussion and repeats the same mistake shortly after, never admits his wrong doings or sees things from my point of view, always fast to give stupid excuses, talking to him is like speaking to a wall, too lazy and nonchalant to make any efforts in terms of planning dates or surprising me with gifts once in a while. I am always the one making all the effort and i am really getting tired of his ASS.

Talking to him is a problem because he doesnt listen, i have tried writing a letter to him and his response was being angry. I am sick and tired of hearing "things will change" and all of his sweet talks and no actions!! I was there for him for almost 2 yrs thinking that i need to be patient and that NO man is perfect, but now i really feel i wasted my time. When i tell him that we need to end this he begs and cries or says things like "dont worry, i will be great, my future is bright but i am pissed of with you". I have tried but i think after 2 yrs i have been patient enough!

Sorry for this long post but i am angry at myself for having wasted 2 yrs all in the name of being patient with this dude!

I am not so sure if you could label it as friends with benefit, because we dont have sex. However, we flirt a lot, kiss and he sleeps over once in a while. I am not looking for a relationship and neither is he (so he says). The problem is that, sometimes i wonder why he "screws" his face when ever i speak to other boys on the phone. When i ask him about it he says "nothing" and quickly changes topic. In addition, i dont understand why he thinks he has to lie about who hes with (girls), or where he was, when i dont really give a DAMN. For instance, i know the girl he likes, because we had a chat about that and i even offered to help hook them up Now, he says that he doesnt like her anymore but when she calls him, he tells me that itwas his sister calling, even though i didnt ask him. Or he says that he is going to play basketball with his friends, when in fact he is with her. I just dont understand why he feels he has to lie to me, when there is no need.

what do u guys think about this? Doesnt he get the message that we are just friends?? i hope this story makes sense

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if the guy is sexy there is no need for pressure

this is very difficult, because a guy can do everything that was mentioned above, but still doesnt give a Damn about you

God forbid !!!

. . . if u can eat eba for breakfast
. . . if ur parents "force" you to study law, medicine or accounting

"am in love with my tipper"

lol sillyboy. ur name fits u

@topic

girls are not stupid. u lie, she lies back and teases ur intelligence. 2 can play that game

8 months, it should have been less.

@fromuk
really? what a small world

@sillyboy
besides u not being selfish, what else do u have to offer

fromuk
what do u mean? I am in london

SweetT, any bad experiences with African ladies or where did u get your ideas from

i have tried and at the end of the day they or myself want more. as for now the only close friends of the opposite sex i got are my cousins

wow miss nigeria aint attractive at all. couldnt they have found someone better? how embarrassing. . .

I am YET to meet a guy who ISNT SELFISH. . . . once i meet him I'll take him to the altar in a heartbeat