He is nonchalant, doesnt open up, makes promises and breaks them, apologises quickly just to avoid the discussion and repeats the same mistake shortly after, never admits his wrong doings or sees things from my point of view, always fast to give stupid excuses, talking to him is like speaking to a wall, too lazy and nonchalant to make any efforts in terms of planning dates or surprising me with gifts once in a while. I am always the one making all the effort and i am really getting tired of his ASS.

Talking to him is a problem because he doesnt listen, i have tried writing a letter to him and his response was being angry. I am sick and tired of hearing "things will change" and all of his sweet talks and no actions!! I was there for him for almost 2 yrs thinking that i need to be patient and that NO man is perfect, but now i really feel i wasted my time. When i tell him that we need to end this he begs and cries or says things like "dont worry, i will be great, my future is bright but i am pissed of with you". I have tried but i think after 2 yrs i have been patient enough!

Sorry for this long post but i am angry at myself for having wasted 2 yrs all in the name of being patient with this dude!

Hey I am very sorry well but i think you are with the wrong person trying to make things work for two years and nothing good is coming out from the relationship well for i think you should give him sometime alone and see if he misses you or rather would change and if not i think u should go on with your lie because if you end in marriage with him then i think you are inviting disaster to your home.

Do u really wanna keep going thru all these?
u know what to do.

so u have been suffering and smilling. you have just finish telling us the bad side of him, lets see the good side, which was definately the reazon u were hoping he would change

move on pls!

@ POSTER,

ITS VERY SIMPLE, HOLA AT UR BOY!!!!!!. I'M DEFINATELY GOIN TREAT U RITE.