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Chip, we must wash am o! Am I the lucky girl? Hahahaha! Have a beautiful and enviable relationship, pal.

No problem in marrying a a man younger than me as long as he has all the qualities I need and both of us are comfortable with the age issue. It will take a very self-assured guy to get me to do that though.

I hope his being rich is not your main attraction. If you really want the affair, you can go ahead. You are still young so can afford to make your own mistakes and learn from them. But if I were you I would drop him and find someone whose heart is free to love me unconditionally. At 34 he should have been married!

@Mannylex. Yes o, something like that. @op, love can only be proved during difficult and trying times. In my opinion real love can only exist between husband and wife. All the love we talk about while dating is lust, sexual attraction, admiration and companionship for comfort. Let something serious happen like losing an arm or a leg, job or some good prospects, getting disfigured, then you will see the so-called love fly out the window.

And leave us entertained and busy. Na so!

You started dating him as soon as you set eyes on him? Did u take time to know d kind of person he is? If u v had sex with him & he's having trust issues, my advice is for u to find someone else. He obviously belongs to d class of men who consider a girl cheap if she gives in so easily. If you have not had sex with him you still want to date him, you have to be careful. Its not easy to date an insecure guy. D only proof u don't date guys 4 money is to show him ur source of income. Forget that ur love crap.

Hmmmm! This would be nice and interesting. I will keep checking to see if my NL crush will drop his. I will drop mine as soon as he does that. Meanwhile, Max how you dey? Happy new year! I have noted yours.

@OP, Thanks for the warning! So we should rush at the next proposal to avoid being left on the shelf? Worth considering! Like Oyinda, I will like to see the one for men as they often the cause for late marrgages.

@OP. That she started dating another guy after 2 weeks does not mean she was cheating on you while in d relationship. The new guy may have been toasting her for a while maybe before she met you or they could have just been friends with d guy hiding his interest coz she had someone. So your joke and her anger gave the new guy the chance he had been waiting for. And our dear girl was wise enough to know where the grass was greener as she is now about to wed! If d joke was used on you, how would u v reacted?

Congratulations! Size and distance r no barrier to love. U sound so emotional and involved (in a non-yucky way) that I would v been envious if I didn't v a good man by my side. Love does find us when we least expect it and in d most unlikely places to. All d best!

Hmmmm! I got dizzy trying to catch up with ur reasoning. Anyway everyone should stay faithful, guys should not cheat!

Hmmmm! End of discussion!

Stop calling him, whenever he gets less busy he will call you. Allow d guy to do d chasing except u want to be used to quench his lust. I am sure there are other nice guys to choose from.