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Hmmmm! Fair enough since I also just want a father for my kids, someone to call hubby who will pay the bills and a toy to play with. BUT what happened to companionship, a partner to plan and build a future with and a friend who will love you and stick to you through thick and thin?

Eat to your damnation! Don't eat since you are uncomfortable with the food. Girls should learn to stop carrying food around to guys that don't deserve it.

Hmmmm! We can argue this issue for weeks but I am sure the married ladies know its the wife's duty to ensure the husband's clothes get washed. The single ladies will learn with time. That its your duty doesn't mean you should return from work and sit down with 2 bowls of water to start washing. Take care of the washing same way you take care of your kids while you are at work. DELEGATE. This long debate is not necessary. Most of us have mothers who are career women and our fathers don't take of the laundry

Nothing wrong as long as they adults. However I won't do it for selfish reasons. I want to be married to a man before I start picking after him and taking care of him and his house. Also I like my space and privacy and will like to enjoy them for a while before going to shack up with a man.

Getting married does not eliminate temptation or quench one's desire to have sex outside marriage. Marriage just makes you have a legal sex partner. Temptations will surely come and your ability to resist will depend on you. It takes principle, determination, fear of God and knowldge.

So sad to hear this.

I totally agree with everything Ravenzord has said. Rave, you obviously understand ladies!

Its your decision to make. If your are attracted, interested, free and feel comfortable with the age difference then go ahead. Going into a r/s coz of material gain has its huge disadvantage, so I'll advice you to look before you leap.

It's possible. I know 3 guys who didn't have sex until their wedding. It's a matter of choice and self control, as is also the case with staying faithful in a good relationship or marriage.

Yes, I'll force him. Coz it's been my dream and I like the glamour and funfare associated with white wedding.