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So people think/equate being successful with not being submissive? Does a woman have to be a failure career-wise to be submissive? So many successful career women including my mum are still submissive to their husbands and still do/take care of the dosmetic work in the house despite having a successful career.
Dosmestic chores is the wife's duty while the husband pays the bills but these days we see lots of women contributing to pay bills so guys helping out with house chores isn't out of place.

Age difference in a relationship is a relative issue, only the two people involved can make that decision and not some faceless online-people or their opinion. However I advise you to consider these points:-

Do you both love eachother?
Should she age faster than you, can you accept it and continue to love her?
Does she give you your due respect as a man/human being?
Are you confident enough to accept that her decisions (now and in future) are not made because she is older?
Are you able to stand your ground when friends and family start making jests coz of her age?

Also the house should be informed that the woman reaches the age of menopause at an average age of 50; some earlier and others older. Also we see ladies of 45 looking quite good, its a matter of good genes and taking care of one's body. Same way we have young girls of 20 looking quite worn out and far older than their age.

He probably got the pure water hawker pregnant and had to marry her last year and knocked her off again immediately she delivered. So its possible.

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It takes a very confident and successful man to date/marry a successful lady. Any man who still needs his ego fed should stick to the lower class. Shoe get size.
A wife is supposed to be a partner not a maid.

Babies

Walestar, sorry oooo! These things happen so there is no need to go on a cheating spree. Just cry a little, pick up your battered heart, dust it and move on. Good luck, bro.

How long can one date a partner to get to fully know what's on their mind and what they are capable of? Eternity.
People change with time, situations, association and environment. We can pray for the best or at least that the worst don't befall us.

It depends on the people involved and the feelings they have. Its not a big deal but don't give the pearl to pigs.

Moyola:
Misschu too! we huzband neva return?

The guy is has gone AWOL on us.  I have intensified my search for a new husband.  Any suggestions?
Abi you have one to share with moi?

Missy B:
You're joking, right?

She had better be joking or she will have a rude awakening in the future.

I couldn't be better, Iyawo mi. I miss you though.

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Not a bad idea if he prostrates first.

Ebonyeyes:
Only a millionaire can juggle that, the broke brokes will not be able to afford one girl.

You are so right!
BTW I looked at your profile picture and that is so true about the black man, as long as she is white it doesn't matter.

This tradition must be outdated, I can't remember seeing my mother kneel for my dad. Anyway, I am not going to do that so the guy doesn't get pig headed and believe he is what he isnt.

He is cute but my heart stays in tact.