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manforgu:
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The news is stale dats why

Congrats Ayauche!! So happy for u. Wishing u a healthy n smooth 9months ride. Abeg sama us with WIDD our ears r itching.

GRAMMARJAMES:
...AND WE WERE BOTH INSIDE BUS HEADING TOWARDS D HOSPITAL, SHE ASKED "Wch hospital are we going" ., AND I TOLD HER "........ SPECIALIST HOSPITAL..
WHEN WE GOT THERE, I TOLD D DOCTOR WR WANNA DO A PREGNANCY TEST! D DOC. LOOKED AT ME FURIOUSLY ASKING IF A GUY GOT PREGNANT TOO!. I SMILED AT HIM AND SAID ITS MY GF, NOT ME.
THE DOC GAVE HER A SMALL CONTAINER TO USE THE CONVENIENCE AND BRING A SMALL SAMPLE OF HER URINE!!
ON BRINGING IT, HE TOLD US TO WAIT DOWNSTAIRS.
AFTER 28/30 MINUTES OF WAITING, HE CALLED BOYH OF US IN AND HANDED OVER THE RESULTS TO US!!

FELLAS!!
"non-detective" -ve "" was what was on the form given!!

she's Pregnancy Negative .
what baffled me was that she didn't show any sign of Joy or excitement., she didn't feel shocked or "una know na" dat excitement wen u find out u are hiv negative"" she just said okay and that's all..

SHE ASKED THE DOCTOR WHY SHE HASN'T SEEN HER PERIOD, I DIDN'T HEAR D DOC RESPONSE AS I LEFT THERE.

I GAVE HER TP to go home, I wanna deliver a parcel in town.

I Boarded a cab and went straight to that former hospital she claimed she did the test!!

BEFORE THEN, I WAS ABLE TO PICK HER HOSPITAL CARD WITH THE HOSPITAL.
on getting there, I went straight to where they issue card and hand over the card to d lady there, I told her "MY SISTER WAS HERE ON MONDAY FOR PREGNANCY TEST, SHES TOO WEAK TO COME SO SHE TOLD ME TO COME ON HER BEHALF, d lady answered OK and brought out her files . she glanced through it and she told me MY SISTER DIDN'T COME ON MONDAY AS I SAID. SHE SAID D CARD WAS USED ONLY ONCE "Wch I'm aware of * she said no pregnancy test was conducted on that file. I told the nurse thanks that maybe we'll come together, dis nurse even went as far as checking their incoming and outgoing register from last month till date, nothing of her name.

MY DEAR NAIRALANDERS, WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO TO HER ON GETTING HOME PLEASE.
advice needed!!

But come to think of it o, this girl will call me honey, she gives me *pusss*y anytime and any day, she cook good food, treat me like a king, although, she has her nagging attitude but best thing I do when she starts nagging is, I just walk out of her. but why would she lie. ?
I'm still confused about everything coz I thought I've found someone who truly loves me and I love her also,
pls fellas, why would she lie this kinda expensive lie,

thank you

Just be thanking ur stars op! This lady is not a wife material,she can even do worse as time goes on. End the relationship now dat d ball is in ur court cos if u don't,hmm....OYO is ur name o.

She is not worth it,forget all d loving loving wey she dey do,she is a great pretender and will give u d shock of ur life wen u least expect it. A word is enough for the wise

@Op pls keep d baby n forget whether ur boyfriend is ready to settle down or not. U r almost 40,do u know what dat means?? A word is enough for the wise.

Amin! @Mama Zaynie thank u ma

hakunamatata081:
Amen and thank you very much. Please if anyone has left over(maybe you didn't finish your meds) before God answered you. Please I would not mind.

I pray u get ur heart desire soon my sis. TTC is not friendly when u r low on resources,i have been dere before. May God make it easy for u and send a helper to u soon.

Cuppymummy:
MumTT I had to smile reading your post. I appreciate your honesty. Other mamas have spoken well. Just want to add a little.

What you felt is an emotion we all feel and can relate to. It's actually called jealousy. Hardly anyone ever admits that they feel emotions like envy or jealousy but we all do, until we decide to put a stop to it.

The best way to overcome ungodly emotions is to:
1. recognize it for what it is, sin
2. ask God for forgiveness
3. pray to God to help us and give us the power to overcome jealousy, and grace to be happy for others when good things happen to them while things are not going so well for us.

That's what it means to truely love our neighbour as ourself- wanting for others the good we want for ourselves.

You know what I tell myself to snap out of it quickly? I say, "Child of God, only a witch/ devilish person is not happy about other people's success. So rejoice with those that rejoice and mourn with those that mourn".

In all, God understands how we feel. Sometimes, it's possible to be happy for others and sad for ourselves at the same time. He understood Leah and Rachel's plight and compensated both of them in His wisdom. He'll do the same for us.

Meanwhile, cure the mentality that things like wealth, marriage, children, etc come to people because they are good or religious. It doesn't!

For me, whether or not I end up having children, I'm still blessed!

I love u for this my sister.....oya chop kiss

MumTT:
Thanks a lot for your encouraging words and prayers MummyJJ, queensnow, happymummy, Rubuzz, Heebah, Lizzypaul. I'm more than grateful. I didn't sleep well last night but when I woke up this morning, life didn't seem so bleak anymore. I could pray and worship. I guess I allowed the devil get to me last night even when God had already prepared me by showing me in a dream some weeks back about her pregnancy and always putting it in my subconscious. Thanks again.

This sweet God being who He is, sent a priest to our house this morning who came to pray for my sister and the wedding, to remind me the reason for the delay and His word. After the priest finished praying for me, he told me what God already told me and my husband a while ago, that my two kids coming are not ordinary and I shouldn't be troubled, I should just allow God clear the path and do what He has to do before they come be it now or later on in life. Oh, how lifted my spirit was at such a reminder. God is so faithful!!! This is another proof of His love. He saw I was downcast and brought me words of comfort. Like Mary, I cherished those words in my heart.

Now I have decided to not only be a sister to my sister but a mother as well. That baby will be like my very own. Thank God being led by the spirit, my wedding gifts to her are baby things.

I'm in a happy place now to the glory of God. Thanks again everyone.

That's d spirit dear

Saintsammurai:
wow she is such a beauty.... Click like if timi is greater than buhari.

E be like say something dey worry u dis morning

MumTT,I know how u feel. I have also experienced all u posted,but u know what I don't let it get to me. We all have our different paths that God has carved for us even if we r siblings.

If u think deeply u will find out that there r some things u have in ur life that is peculiar to u dat she doesn't have. We r all on a journey, and everyones story is different from d other. Ur blessings might tarry but wen it comes pouring down people will marvel at it.

A friend once said,why is it dat wen good things happens to us we don't shout to God and say" God why me?"why me why me. But just a small calamity we start wailing God why me?.

Life is not a bed of roses,we must all face challenges before we go back to our creator,but in between it we must strive to be patient,tolerant and steadfast so that our blessings will come in multitude.

Pls try n be strong my sister,I know its not easy,its not easy at all. But God will make it easy for us all. Cheers

Hmm.....a lot of Mamas really made good use of dis raining season oo,see as bfp dey fall left right n centre. We r next very soon. Congratulations yetty002 and fruitfulbae,may u carry to term n deliver safely,Amin.

Mamakendra,we thank God for everything,May calamity never surface in ur family, may God guide n protect u all. Amin. I dey greet o my fruitful mamas!!!

@Staryybella....Pls wipe ur tears,its okay to cry but dont let it weigh u down. The mistake most of us make(including me atimes) is that we tend to let our lives revolve around ttc. Yes, its disturbing but that is not d only essence of marriage. Marriage is for companionship,and wen d kids do come,its an added advantage from God.


You and dh should try and prepare the ground for these kids wen they start coming(cos definitely dey will come). To train children is not beans,what have we laid down as foundation for them?. Are u prepared for dem? Please lets all try and stay focused in this ttc period o,cos wen d kids start coming they no go hear story of i no fit pay school fees,i no fit buy dese n dat cos of economy. Now is d time to improve on ur finances n save for them so they can be happy.

No be pple God dey give twins,triplets n even quadruplets and they turn to d masses for help?(it will not be our portion in sha
Allah). All am trying to say is that,in this our period of trial,lets make good use of it. Have a postive mind n outlook,and also be grateful to ur creator cos HE knows Best!

May we all have our heart desires soonest. Amin. Sprinkling baby dust on us all

These girls wowor sha!

Thank u, i ve fixed d tab.

Emmy3:
Yes, the battery is replaceable. Price varies but will be between #1,500 to #3,000

Congrats @Redeemed! This is good news. May God grant u ur heart desire very soon

@orney darling,wipe ur tears girl!!! its well,God will answer us all, its just a matter of time. Though it mite look like forever but its close by.
Dont cry again ok, God's gat u. Have a fruitful week mamas

@forevergirl....congrats dear. So happy for u dear. Abeg o i need dat aphrodisiac stuff o,ttc don make person turn to robot for za oza room lol!. Also,pls what does sesame seed look like,i no sabi am. Does it have any other name?

@4realwoman....thank u for dat detailed WIDD!! You captured everything and dats what we always want to read. God bless u dear n grant u a smooth 9months journey. Congrats once more

bibeetee:
@4realwoman, u brought me out of my peeping mode. I'm so so happy for you from the bottom of my heart. May we all carry to term n have a happy life
Dear God, let this blessings go around each and every one of us. Do not leave us to our fate. This is for all my sisters. Safe06, Redeemed, fvine, lady Guinevere, mumihaja, legendsmother, pweetieme, mummmykyrti, loisemm, heebah, Janix2, Faheemaz. All mama's old and new. God's blessings shall manifest in our lives very very soon.

Amin Mama!!!

4realwoman!!!!!!!!! If u see d way I dey scream for here! E be like say na me get bfp. Merciful God,we thank u for this!!! We thank u ooooo and we r asking for more like oliver twist,more,more,more bfps for everyone.

4realwoman,u shall carry to term,u will not experience any form of complications,it will be a smooth journey for u. Amin

Am next in like by the grace of God!!!! Let it rain

CravingChic:
My dear the thing no tire you...water in the womb, womb is hot! Womb is cold! Womb is upside down! Womb is shaking! Womb has closed! Womb is opening too much! Bla bla bla....abeg who God go answr, He go answer even the one without womb.

Na so

She should leave that toxic marriage abeg no be everything dem dey manage. What r ur parents saying about it? Its obvious she is on her own,why stretch it. Please,advice her to leave,e don do

Hmmm....d witch reared her ugly head today just to demoralise me,but i refuse to b intimidated by her.
Its just a matter of time,it will be history very soon #stayingfocused

Why are u pained??

Daviddson:
Two of your threads have graced the front page today and you're still calling Lalasti-clala. Why are you overstretching your luck? If you don't have any thing doing, can't you read other people's threads and posts?

bigiyaro:
pls o am back again, in some posts back i announced dat wify is preg, some nites back i was brutaly awakened by 1am n tongue lashed by DW for smellin like chicken feed (i always bath b4 goin 2 bed o) i had 2 go n sleep in anoda room,our matrrase is now suddenly 2 soft, i had to buy a new one(my head has nt even touched it o,she has being rollin on d 6x6) on fri. i had 2 go n look 4 lacasera at 3am after been threatened wit brim stone n thunder. she also reminded me how uncarin i was despite d fact dat i have being massagin her hands n legs daily 4 d past 2 weeks. Now since yestdy, shes being eyein me like am a leper wit some of d longest hiss i've ever heard, i have practically moved out of d bedroom, jst now she called me dat d whole house is stinkin. Pls der any drug to take care of dis whole wahala? what trick is der 2 employ? make una epp me biko.

I just say make i peep inside this thread after a long time and this is what i see... Daddy abeg no vex,permit me to laff . Kai! on behalf of other belleful mamas here and DW abeg no vex,its not intentional, na wetin u give her chop dey make her behave like dat,abeg endure.

Kai, ko easy oooo. I hail all mamas here ooo,cant wait to be like una. i know very soon,in sha Allah!!

Ok. Thanks a lot. Can d battery be replaced since its inbuilt? And if it can,do u have an idea how much it costs? Thanks for ur time once more

Emmy3:
Battery is most likely the cause.
The engineer forgot to clip back the inbuilt battery to the panel.
or your battery is dead.

I stay in d north unfortunately. Pls when u say it could be a software or hardware issue,is battery part of it? Am thinking d battery is bad. But it is inbuilt.

Isiboy:
It cud b a software or hardware issue if u stay around agbado i can b of help...

Good evening engineers. Pls help me with my injoo f2 tab. The battery drained some weeks back n no matter how i charged it,it refused to charge. It has been blank.
My husband took it to an engineer yday n dey boosted it n fixed a new charging port cos dey said d old one was brokenn. He said we should allow it charge for long dat it will come up.
Since yday we plugged it,it just shows d charging icon on n off....it doesnt show percentage of charging and wen i remove d charger it doesnt switch on. What could be wrong pls. Cc: isiboy n co

@towerofgrace...chai! This one na quadratic equation oo. I'll pass on this one,maybe other mamas can solve it. Lol
@Azaebere aka Lynsunny.... Yeah i remember u very well. One of our MIA mamas,been a while. May God grant us our heart desire. Amin. Goodnight mamas...kisses

@kemmyk and towerofgrace,the thing no easy o. When u want something real bad,its difficult to take ur mind off it no matter how u try n pretend it doesnt bother u. May God make it easy for us all. @orney take heart dear,forget d guy. Some pple mouth dey run like diarrhoea. God will shut their mouth up very soon.

Pls mamas i have a quetion dat has been baffling me. When pple say its wen one takes mind off ttc dats wen it clicks what do dey mean?
How can one take mind off ttc?
Is it dat u wont be thinking about it again. Let me give an example of myself,anytime i and dh kpekus around ovulation time,during d 2wk wait no matter how hard i try n push the thought off my mind dat this might be it,it fails me. My subconscious mind is always hopeful dat i mite be pregnant,and mind u i try not to symptom spot.
When pple say its d month dey removed their mind from ttc dats wen it happens what do dey mean. Abeg make una forgive my long post,i just need to know how to take my mind off ttc.
Cc: all fruitful mamas on dis thread,make una chook mouth for dis issue abeg

Congratulations @chydoo...what a beautiful testimony. I pray for a happy n healthy 9 months for ur DW,she will give birth without any complications. Amin