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Literature / Re: I Am Embarrassed To Share The Same National Space With Some Imbeciles -soyinka by Heltinking(m): 11:08am On Dec 30, 2016
Old fool
Celebrities / Re: Adekunle Gold, Viktoh And Chinko Ekun To Leave YBNL - The NET.NG by Heltinking(m): 11:18pm On Dec 29, 2016
Ok
Crime / Re: Igbo And Fulani Clash In Enugu Over N100. Two Killed, Mosque Burnt by Heltinking(m): 11:14pm On Dec 29, 2016
RIP to the dead
Travel / Re: Which Of These 9 Driving Categories Do You Belong? by Heltinking(m): 12:58pm On Dec 26, 2016
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Crime / Re: How Customs Seized Live Ammunition, 7,500 Air Gun Pallets At Tincan Port (PHOTO) by Heltinking(m): 8:11am On Dec 25, 2016
Aiit
Romance / Re: Confirmed Ways To Stay Out Of Friendzone by Heltinking(m): 10:00am On Dec 24, 2016
ILuvGummyBearz:
what about for women ? Cuz i think i been friendzoned cry
Start acting like his girlfriend wink
Romance / Re: Confirmed Ways To Stay Out Of Friendzone by Heltinking(m): 9:58am On Dec 24, 2016
chimdi101:
Imagine if you try all 5 and she still calls you brother
O boy, ur case na die
grin cheesy cheesy
Romance / Confirmed Ways To Stay Out Of Friendzone by Heltinking(m): 11:10pm On Dec 23, 2016
The next time you meet a woman whom you think could be more than a friend, make sure you use these tips:

1. Don’t be afraid to show interest

Guys will do everything they can to pretend that they are not interested in a woman.

They will not compliment her or tell her that they are attracted to her and may even avoid the woman completely to feign disinterest.

It’s okay to play it cool at times, but this is a very fine line to walk. Don’t overdo this like so many guys do.

Eventually, you must show interest and let her know how you really feel about her.

2. Make a move… ask her out!

If you want to date a woman, you must ask her out on a date.

Simple enough, right? Well, not for everyone.

Guys will often hesitate too long before asking a woman out, or may even lack the confidence to ask out a woman they like.

They can build all sorts of attraction, but when it comes to putting themselves out there, they often fear being rejected and will sometimes avoid ever making a move. This is the worst.

3. Get flirty

Being flirtatious with women definitely characterizes you as someone who she can think of as perhaps being her lover.

Guys who never flirt or don’t really know how to flirt are the ones who are constantly put in the friend zone.

In fact, these guys unfortunately often take up permanent residence in this “friendly” area and tend to get comfortable in the domain.

These are the guys who need the most help with women.

4. Get sexual when the time’s right

Similar to the second tip, getting sexual entails that you make a move when the time comes.

Some guys have everything down: attraction, comfort, flirting and making an initial move (asking her out), but when the time comes to escalate and get sexual, they freeze.

Maybe because of inexperience or maybe because of insecurity, they balk and then lose their opportunity to progress with the woman.

Instead of moving ahead, they may actually (and often do) completely blow it with the woman, and end up singing the blues in the friend zone.

5. Don’t be needy or too nice

The final thing you can do to ensure you stay far away from the friend zone is to not be too needy. Being needy with a woman or being overly nice will always lead to trouble.

It comes across as not being genuine and it makes you seem like the insecure and desperate man you probably are.

Neediness kills attraction and almost always sends you on a one-way-trip to Palookaville. Avoid it at all costs!

Next time you meet someone you like, follow these five tips and keep yourself as far away from the friend zone as possible.

It may try to suck you in with its strong, universal pull, but heed this advice and you will be fine. You’ll definitely be on your way to becoming more than “just friends.”
Celebrities / Re: Bobrisky Gushes About His 'crush', Wizkid's Appearance At The Headies by Heltinking(m): 1:15pm On Dec 23, 2016
Mad boy
girl
Religion / Re: Anglican Church In Rome & Bible And Beer Fellowship Shocks Nigerian Lawyer by Heltinking(m): 6:35pm On Dec 22, 2016
Shayo na the best thing
Romance / Re: Gap Tooth Vs Dimple (which Is The Cutest Deformity) by Heltinking(m): 10:07pm On Dec 21, 2016
Gap tooth
Romance / Re: Which Nairalander Can Actually Solve This? Pic by Heltinking(m): 6:31pm On Dec 20, 2016
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Pets / Re: A Curvy Woman And Her Pet Cat Cooking (Photo) by Heltinking(m): 7:02pm On Dec 19, 2016
Cat woman
Crime / Re: Man Arrested After A Lady He Took Out, Died During Sex by Heltinking(m): 1:48pm On Dec 19, 2016
Damn
Sports / Re: Chelsea Face Points Deduction by Heltinking(m): 12:24pm On Dec 19, 2016
firstking01:
undecided
lol, don't worry Spurs and Man utd will catch up, maybe u'd finish 6st this season! grin
Sports / Re: Chelsea Face Points Deduction by Heltinking(m): 11:40am On Dec 19, 2016
firstking01:
Good for them...arsenal should go top.
U back to where u belong!! grin
Romance / What Is Wrong With This Beautiful Photo? by Heltinking(m): 11:38am On Dec 19, 2016
See it? grin

Politics / An Open Letter To Youths...especially Those Who Want To 'die For Nigerian Politi by Heltinking(m): 11:29am On Dec 19, 2016
The Photo was shared via social media and the caption read;
Dear Nigerian Youths who want to die for Nigerian politicians, especially that youth who will fight everyone when his political hero is criticized, come closer.
I have a message for you. Inside this private jet, you will see the billionaire son Ahmed Indimi of billionaire Mohammed Indimi (he is the one in front to the right looking at the camera) who just married Zahra, Buhari's daughter, to his left, also in front, is his
Brother, Maikanti, who is married to Aisha Dangote and behind them in light blue is Babagana Sherrif, he is the brother of former Borno governor Ali Modu Sheriff and he is married to president Buhari's daughter, Halima, the one who just finished from law school. Take a second look at your destiny as the children of the politicians have already arranged their own destinies.

In this photo, you will see people from PDP and APC background from different tribes from different states but they are all united because the elite is all one big family. They do not care about any religious, political, tribal or ethnic difference, the only thing they care about is whatever agenda that will secure their future & guarantee their own prosperity & of their generations unborn. So before you die for your APC or PDP hero, or before you fight the entire community because of any of the artificial divisions created by the intelligent humans to control and subjugate others, rethink your life. Nobody send you o.

Romance / Re: Who Blinks First, A Tale Of How 3 Girls Fought Over One Guy by Heltinking(m): 10:46am On Dec 19, 2016
Mehn, can't wait for more updates!!
Celebrities / Re: Pretty Mike Leads 2 Girls By Dog Leash (Video) by Heltinking(m): 9:48am On Dec 19, 2016
Stupid girls
Crime / Re: Rapist Caught In University Of Ilorin’s Girls’ Hostel by Heltinking(m): 9:51pm On Dec 18, 2016
Damn, konji na bastard o
Politics / Re: "We Are Not Responsible For Your Woes" - FG Tells Nigerians by Heltinking(m): 12:10pm On Dec 16, 2016
Thunder fire these people sha
Family / Re: Nigerian Man Scams, Dumps American Wife After Obtaining Green Card (photos) by Heltinking(m): 8:28am On Dec 16, 2016
Bad guy grin

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Politics / Re: Ministers Caught Sleeping During Budget Presentation (Photos) by Heltinking(m): 2:12pm On Dec 15, 2016
Government of the aged
Education / Re: Which Are The Top Ten Most Competitive Course In Nigeria Universities by Heltinking(m): 9:27am On Dec 15, 2016
Remote sensing and GIS
Celebrities / Re: MC Galaxy Claims He Invested N25million In MMM by Heltinking(m): 11:07pm On Dec 14, 2016
Story story undecided
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Sunderland Vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 14th December 2016 by Heltinking(m): 10:58pm On Dec 14, 2016
Arsenal fans feeling the pain more grin grin 6 points clear!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Sunderland Vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 14th December 2016 by Heltinking(m): 8:41pm On Dec 14, 2016
Chelsea winning 100% #KTBFFH
Sports / Re: Super Falcons Protests Non-payment Of All Allowances At Nass Gate (photos) by Heltinking(m): 8:12am On Dec 14, 2016
Shame on Nigeria!!

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Romance / Re: Describe Your Sex Life Using A Song? by Heltinking(m): 10:45pm On Dec 13, 2016
Kanye - Fade
Music/Radio / Re: Kendrick Lamar Or J.cole?: Who Is The Leader Of New School Rap? by Heltinking(m): 4:48pm On Dec 13, 2016
J Cole 100%

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Politics / Re: I Have Not Received Any Salary In 6 Years- Rauf Aregbesola by Heltinking(m): 11:12am On Dec 13, 2016
Thunder fire you there!

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