A Michigan couple Candice Diaz, 24, and Brad Fields, 28, has been charged with murder, torture, and child abuse and both denied bail. This is being referred to as the “worst child death case” ever after their 4-year-old daughter died in a “scalding bath” in Michigan.

The 4-Year-Old Gabrielle died on New Year’s Day after living a life filled with abuse. Doctors say she suffered multiple injuries, including severe burns on her limbs after she was in a bath with scalding hot water.

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Gabrielle Barrett’s body was examined by a medical practitioner who described the alleged murder as the “worst child death case” in 27 years of his career, according to a court document. The document also allegedly states that the four-year-old was burned so badly that her big toe fell off, and police found melted skin in the drain.

Gabrielle’s mother, Diaz, and her partner, Fields, from Michigan, were arrested seven days later in Georgia. Sumpter Township Police Department reported that both parents have a history of severe mental illness. Candice suffers from bipolar disorder and Brad suffers from schizophrenia. Diaz said she had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, depression and anxiety. Fields said that he was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, social anxiety, agoraphobia, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

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Diaz claimed that Gabrielle had run her own bath, which had been the cause of her burns, but that she didn’t take her child to a doctor or to hospital.

The court file read: “The mother claimed she ran Gabrielle’s bath and placed Gabrielle into the tub after she filled the tub halfway. The mother then claimed she left Gabrielle alone in the tub and went to the kitchen to make pancakes.”

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When she returned, Diaz claimed that she discovered the water level had risen and her daughter was submerged in water up to her nose.

“The mother said she called Brad to the bathroom for help. According to the mother, Gabrielle continued to vomit, and Fields attempted to provide CPR.”

There were more “problems” with the girl at 10.05am, before police were eventually called 36 minutes later. When police arrived, they found cocaine in the home.

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Gabrielle’s biological father, Kyle Barrett, said he had no knowledge of what had happened in the house. He said he last saw his daughter in September before turning himself into police on unrelated charges. He was released from prison on January 3, two days after his daughter’s death.

Watch the video of their arrest below…
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CCTV camera captures a serial child rapist waylaid a 10-year-old girl on her way to church after which he kidnapped her and raped her in São Paulo’s East Zone, Brazil.

The incident occured on Sunday, January 14, 2018. The girl was on her way to the church when the man, who parked his car and was waiting by the corner, snatched her and forced her into his car.

The car remained on the spot for a long time and didn’t drive away. During that period, the man reportedly coerced the child with threats into having sex with her inside the car.

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The assailant has not yet been identified and is wanted by the police but he fits the description of a serial child rapist on the loose. The man has reportedly abducted and sexually assaulted over 30 young girls in the Sao Paolo area.

Watch the video here.
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There are simple keys to every relationship to be successful. if only you can get your relationships needs met, then your relationship has a much better chance of being a long and happy one. Overall not having your needs met is one of the key reasons relationships end – and after a break up, it is especially important to have your relationships needs met to remain happy and stay together in the long term.

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The sure-fire way to get your needs met in a relationship is by making sure your partner knows just what those needs are. You cannot read minds, and there is no way you can expect your partner to be able to read minds either. They want you to be happy and want to make sure your relationships needs are met, so you must tell them what they are.

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At the same time, whilst they are looking to meet your needs, then you must also encourage your partner to tell you what their needs are and make them see that their needs and feelings are also important. By doing this you may well be very surprised to learn how different both your needs are, and if this is something you have never spoken about before then you will be even more surprised!

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One thing you may feel the need for, is for your partner to tell you that they love you more often, and in return this may be something that you also start to do for your partner. However whilst they may well enjoy this, in reality what they really want is for you to do a lot more quick considerate things which make them feel special – for some people words are enough but for others actions always speak louder than words.

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Alternatively you may really need your partner to be more helpful to you – but then when it’s time to clean the house or do the laundry you end up doing them alone, yet again. So what do you do? Well instead of simply asking for help or letting them know that it would mean a lot to you if they could actually do the laundry sometimes or actually help you out doing them – you just get angry. You huff around while you’re doing the jobs, slam a few doors and just generally get very angry! – this is known as passive aggressive behavior – you are simply trying to manipulate them into helping you by acting that way – and unfortunately it just does not work. It’s much better and healthier to simply ask for help.

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All you need to do to start off, is to have a discussion about your relationships needs and this will help to strengthen the relationship and make it easier for you to keep each other happy. You are likely to feel uncomfortable having such a frank discussion, but you should do it anyway – telling each other your needs is better than hinting or expecting them to be psychic.

Passive aggressive behavior is very common in relationships, but you just end up chasing your tail because generally it just doesn’t work. If they do take your hint, it’s only after you’ve acted put upon, angry and resentful.

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So you should ask for help and explain that it makes you feel good when they act in a way that shows they want to help you. This way they are coming to a task from a place of love and helpfulness and not from a place of guilt – so it’s better for everyone. This really does apply to everything such as showing affection, respecting each other’s feelings, and every aspect of your relationship.

So in summary, when you want something you must ask for it, and be prepared to give your partner what he or she asks for to make sure all of your relationships needs are met.

In conclusion try to speak the basic love language of your partner.

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A lot have been going through my mind, and of late I’ve been thinking about this question. What does it take to be a happy person? Obviously the answer is going to be different for each person, but what worries me is that, as far as I can tell, most people don’t even ask – and those that do don’t have a very good answer.

Ask someone what would make them happy, and their answer is likely to be pretty vague. “A good career”,” they might say. Or, “Family.” “A strong relationship with my partner,” they might add after a moment’s reflection.

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There’s nothing wrong with these things, of course, but there’s not much meat to them as answers. They don’t give us much to chew on – which is to say, they’re not really actionable.

And I think that’s because we don’t give much thought to the question. Maybe we’re a little suspicious of the very concept of “being happy”. After all, our grandparents/parents/[insert fabled ancestors here] came to this country with nothing and scraped and toiled to build a better life for themselves – they didn’t sit around thinking about whether or not they were happy. They were miserable and they liked it!

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That’s the Way, right? More and more, it’s the Modern Way. Work hard, hunker down, tighten your belt, and make a better life.

There’s no dignity in happiness, not in this worldview anyway. Happiness is frivolous, fleeting, and ephemeral. Dignity is found in the grave and serious, not the frolicking and joyful.

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There’s another reason I think we aren’t willing to face the question of what makes us happy: we’re afraid that the answer will prove to be something out of our grasp. Maybe you need a million Naira to be happy, and you only have N500.00. Maybe you need a better job than you’re capable of holding, or a bigger house than you can afford, or a prettier wife or more handsome husband, or better-behaved children. Maybe you need to be smarter, better-looking, more outgoing, taller, healthier, more disciplined, thinner… someone else.

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I don’t buy it. There are unhappy people in all walks of life. If it were brains, there wouldn’t be unhappy smart people – and there are. If it were money, there wouldn’t be unhappy rich people – and boy are there! If it were looks, there wouldn’t be unhappy beautiful people – and Marilyn Monroe wouldn’t have taken her own life.

And vice versa – there are unhappy dumb people, poor people, and ugly people as well. Just as there are happy rich people, happy poor people, happy dumb people, happy smart people, happy beautiful people, happy ugly people – happy people of every stripe.

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What makes them so special?

I think the answer has to be self-knowledge – facing the question of what it will take to be happy head on. It’s obviously not something external to us that “makes” us happy; we make our own happiness. But it’s not so simple as just deciding to be happy. We make our happiness by determining what it will take, according to our own individual taste and character, to be happy, and chasing after those things and only those things.

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Maybe you need to be rich to be happy – that’s the kind of person you are. Or maybe you just need to be comfortable, to not have to worry. Or, quite possibly, you need the edge of poverty to come really alive – strange things have happened! You can’t know if you’re not willing – or not able – to face yourself and figure out what money means to you. Not whether rich people are shallow or profound, whether poor people are lazy or victimized by a social system that needs poverty to secure cheap labor – but what money means to you.

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Or maybe you need a different job. But what job? Maybe you need to move – but to where? Maybe you need to get healthier – but how? In what way?

The trick here is to move beyond empty platitudes and hollow stereotypes and really look at our own lives. That’s where happiness starts to take root.

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Your assignment – and mine, too – is to figure all this out, to sit down with a pad and paper and start writing out our answer to the question: what’s it going to take to make me happy? Be specific – what exactly do you want from life? How is each thing on your list supposed to help you create happiness in your life? Most important, are you sure these are your answers, and not society’s, not your friends’, not your parents’? It’s so easy to internalize everyone else’s talk about what makes people happy – but the proof’s in the pudding: are they happy? If not, what are you doing? listening to them?

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Sit down, write your list, and tuck it away somewhere safe. Then go out and do the things on your list, and let me know how that works out for you. Let’s see if we can’t all figure this out for ourselves, okay? I just wish we can finally find what makes us happy. Have a wonderful day.

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Who says Love don’t exist? Who says you can’t achieve a peaceful home? Watch this Touching Video Of these lovely couple married for 30 Years and Love still direct there path to a fulfill Life.

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Comfort and Henry have been married for 30 years. They both decided to do their marriage renewal with the children, close family and friends in attendance. Listening to their children talk about their parent’s love was so so sweet. Nothing beats love that is so obvious in the home.Henzyworld Wishes the couple a very Happy Home and may God bless them. May their Children Copy from the examples laid by their parents.

We hope you love the video as much as we do.
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It’s Trending on Twitter on how Governor Rochas of Imo state look Gobecious as he watched the Swazi women dance topless at the concluded carnival in Calabar.
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A rich 10-year-old boy, Nantapong Kidwapattana has gone viral because he is dating a woman twice his age. He took to Facebook to post about his girlfriend on Christmas eve. The woman he is dating is a famous and gorgeous model/ DJ known by her Instagram name, Rky Thitiworada. She is way older than him; some sources say she’s 19, others say 22. He revealed in the post that he bought her an iPhone X and they were going to see a movie.

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A brief translation of the Facebook post reads: “Today, I’m bringing my girl out for a movie. Since she’s such an adorable girl, I’ve bought her an iPhone X worth 47,000 baht (approx. RM5,800) as a present. This phone is a reward for our love. Merry Christmas.” 47,000 baht is approx. $1445.

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Attached with the post were a few photos Nantapong took with his beautiful date. He did not tag her in the photo, neither did he reveal her identity but as soon as he shared the post, it went viral with over 56,000 shares and some people were able to identify her as a well-known model in Bangkok. It is learned that the model has over 225,000 followers on Instagram, most of her photos received over thousands of likes.

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A leaked video of NBA star Kevin Durant’s elder brother Tony Pratt having sexual relations with a ‘transgender’ woman, has surfaced on the internet.

In the video which was posted on popular video website, B*tchYourFamous, Tony Pratt is seen laying in bed, while the ‘transgender’ woman gets down to business. The whole thing lasted for eight minutes.

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Most of us have experienced that pivotal peak of pain, anger or frustration in which we want to scream “I hate my life.” Yet, the feeling that a dark cloud has specifically settled over us and our experiences can feel pretty isolating. The truth is, no matter how singled out or overwhelmed we feel, and no matter what area we are struggling in, we are not alone. More than half of people working are unhappy with their job. One in 10 persons struggles with depression. All of us have moments of utter despair. Escaping from this hopeless-seeming state may feel impossible. Yet, in reality, we are not doomed, and we are not powerless. No matter what our circumstances, we can all learn tools to help us emerge from the darkest moments in our lives.

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In his 35 years of research, Dr. Salvatore Maddi of The Hardiness Institute has discovered that what predicts how well we will do in life, our relationships, careers, and so on is NOT how much money we have or even how many struggles we face. It’s a matter of how hardy or emotionally resilient we are. We can all learn to become more resilient. We can implement tools that help shape how we see and experience the world around us. We can uncover what’s at the root of our unhappiness and create a life that has personal meaning to us, a life that reflects our unique goals and desires.

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This process starts with asking ourselves a few questions, starting with:
Whose life are you really living?

One of the reasons we have the feeling of “I hate my life” is because we aren’t really following our own path. Instead, we are, often subconsciously, carrying out someone else’s idea of how we should live. In order to have the life we say we want, we have to separate our real point of view from negative influences from our past, from people around us or from society at large. To do this, we can engage in a process known as differentiation, which can help us to distinguish our real wants, goals and desires from undesirable outside influences. As Dr. Robert Firestone wrote in his book The Self Under Siege, “Differentiation is a universal struggle that all human beings face if they wish to fully develop themselves as individuals.” Firestone outlines four essential steps to the process of differentiation that can help individuals live free of imagined limitations.

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According to Firestone, in order for our real, authentic self to emerge, we have to identify and separate from destructive programming we received very early in our lives, primarily from our parents or other influential caretakers. “Differentiating from parental interjects and psychological defenses based on the emotional pain of childhood is a central developmental issue in every person’s life,” wrote Firestone. “To the extent that we retain the critical attitudes and destructive elements we have incorporated into our own personalities, we remain undifferentiated from our parents throughout our lifetime.”

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The point of differentiation isn’t to blame parents for all our problems but rather to help explain the elements that lay the foundation for the self-limiting or self-destructive behavior we engage in that leads to our unhappiness. Naturally, no parent is perfect. We are all human and full of flaws. Parents may have critical attitudes toward themselves that extend to their children. As people grow up, they tend to incorporate these attitudes and engage in a process of self-parenting. They may start to imitate their parents’ less favorable traits, take on hurtful attitudes toward themselves or retaliate against these parental influences. All of these actions are a reaction to our upbringing and don’t necessarily reflect our true unique identity and point of view.

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For example, if we had a parent who couldn’t hold a job, perhaps we will find ourselves sabotaging our own success. If we had a parent who believed they were unintelligent, we may feel this way toward ourselves. As adults, we tend to be drawn toward relationships and circumstances that recreate the emotional environment from our past. Differentiation means interrupting this cycle and truly living our own life. If you feel like you hate your life, it’s beneficial to ask whose life are you really living? Are you reliving someone else’s idea of who you should be or what you should want? What truly has meaning to you?

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Are you looking at your life through a negative filter?

The second question to consider when we feel like we hate our lives is “are we listening to our “critical inner voice?” As Maddi discovered in his research, it isn’t just our circumstances that determine our life satisfaction and success. In fact, it’s what we are telling ourselves about our circumstances that often makes us miserable. Our critical inner voice describes a cruel, internal enemy we all have inside us that comments on our every move and criticizes us at every turn.

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This critical inner voice is there to undermine and sabotage us in every area of our lives, our careers, relationships and personal goals. When we experience a setback, this voice will tear us apart and remind us that we’ll never succeed. It’s often the sneaky internal entity responsible for fueling the flames that lead us to hate ourselves or resent our circumstances.
One of the biggest steps we can take to change our lives involves identifying and challenging this inner critic. It’s important to separate this alien coach from our true point of view. We can all learn effective methods to overcome our critical inner voice and achieve a more self-compassionate attitude toward ourselves. As we engage in this trans-formative and enlightening process, it’s valuable to remind ourselves that as long as we are independent and differentiated adults, we can pretty much change any part of our lives… as long as we change this negative filter.

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Although our critical inner voice has built up over a long time and is based on destructive past experiences and early childhood influences, as adults, these “voices” are just thoughts. No matter how anxious it makes us, we can counteract this inner critic and grow stronger in the process. For example, if our voice tells us we are incompetent or incapable of change, we can remind ourselves that this is just a thought driven by a deep, unconscious “anti-self” whose only mission is to sabotage us.
Then, we can consciously take the actions that go against the directives of this anti-self. We can go out for that job interview, knowing we can handle not getting it. We can stick to an exercise plan even when our inner critic lures us to indulge. We can stay close to our partner despite the anxious thoughts our critical inner voice shouts at us.

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How resilient are you?

Resilience or “hardiness” is something we can all foster and develop within ourselves. The more we can stick through hard times without expecting the road to be easy, the better we can handle what life throws at us. Hardiness involves accepting that we have some control over our situation, and that there are always steps we can take to improve our circumstances. Obstacles can be seen as challenges from which we can grow. We can learn more about Maddi’s research and the steps to become more psychologically resilient here.

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Actions to take when we think “I hate my life:”

There are many actions we can take when we feel turned against ourselves and our lives.
Practice mindfulness – Mindfulness is a practice that teaches us how to let go of thoughts that are destructive or undesirable. It has been proven to reduce stress, fight depression and lead to overall benefits in health and well-being. Mindfulness meditation can help us to acknowledge these thoughts as momentary feelings that will pass like clouds over a mountain. Learn more about mindfulness.
Conquer your critical inner voice – Voice Therapy is a method developed by Dr. Robert Firestone. The five steps of this therapeutic process allow people to identify, respond to and challenge their critical inner voice, while recognizing where this inner enemy comes from. Learn more about Voice Therapy.

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Spend time with a family of choice – Oftentimes, people feel obligated to spend time with the family they were born into, but old dynamics and remnants of past hurts can cause “family time” to be times of pain or stress. It’s important to create for yourself a “family of choice.” Of course, this may include people you’re related to. What’s most important is choosing to be around people who support you and the things that light you up and make you who you are.

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Realize your personal power – No matter what life throws at us, taking a victim mentality only makes us suffer more. By realizing the ways we have power over our lives, we can feel stronger and more resilient in any obstacle we face.

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There’s an extremely shocking video that’s online, and thankfully also in the hands of of the Illinois Department of Child Services in Chicago. In the video, the young mum of two very young children was seen giving oral relations to a man, while her two children look on. The video, which was filmed in Chicago, is sad to watch. Hope those kids are removed from her.watch it here

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As a man, have you ever wondered what sex in a relationship means to a woman? Read this to understand a woman’s view on sex and everything about it.An emotional connection, trust and friendship are absolutely essential for any meaningful and lasting relationship.

But what is the one thing that can make a loyal bond to any one person more than friendship?

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Sex

Sex is an extremely important physical and emotional element of any romantic relationship.

How a person understands and relates to sex varies from person to person.

Everyone has their own experience and value of sex, and what it represents to them in a relationship.

Thus, sex has the ability to greatly impact a couple’s relationship based on the meanings that are placed on sex.

While these meanings definitely vary from person to person, and couple to couple, there are a few common things that sex represents for a woman in a relationship.

Based on a few personal experiences, and of course, lots of consultation with friends, I can say that sex means *at least a few of* the following things for a woman in a relationship.

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What sex can mean for a woman in a relationship?

Some of the most common meanings that sex can signify for a woman in a relationship are love, attraction and passion. But it can also mean a deep trust and connection, fun and pleasure.

Sex shows a woman that you love her

When my boyfriend takes his time working his way around every nook that makes me shiver, kisses all my favorite spots, and makes sure I am fully satisfied, there is no better way of knowing that I am absolutely loved and cared for.

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Sex shows a woman you are attracted to her

When you’re having regular sex in a relationship, it shows a woman you are attracted to her, and that you think she is sexy, and desirable.

In one past relationship, my ex was a dreamy Italian with the dark and handsome thing going for him, and the result was me wanting to jump his bones a lot.

But we rarely had sex. Even from the beginning, whereas I was extremely sexual, he was timid and wasn’t bothered if it only happened a few times a month.

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Most of the time, a partner’s choice not to have sex stems from deeper-rooted issues. But it doesn’t matter, if you aren’t having sex with your lady, she is most likely feeling like the most unattractive woman alive.

So, when I tell you there is nothing that makes a woman doubt herself (body wise) more than being sexually rejected by a partner, I’m not kidding.

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Sex is passion

On the other hand, when my current boyfriend comes home from work and cannot keep his hands or mouth off me, and makes it extremely clear he just wants to be inside me as soon as possible, I feel like the sexiest person alive.

Sex is passion, and it makes a woman feel loved and beautiful if you want her as much as she wants you in your relationship.

Sex is a trusted connection between two people

The difference between a one-night-stand and sex in a relationship is that you share a deep connection with your partner, something you don’t usually find after a heavy night of drinking.

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And because of such a connection, sex is something that must be shared between both partners, not taken from either one.
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Sex is fun and pleasure

Of course, sex means fun and pleasure for women in a relationship.

Sex is not a chore to women. The age-old myth that women don’t like sex as much as men is complete rubbish.

Many women are extremely sexual beings that love to have fun and feel the immense gratification that comes along with amazing sex.

Fun can mean a boatload of different things, and to each their own. But fun is definitely trying sex in all different positions, places, and perhaps with different person. Whatever your lady’s preference may be, she definitely wants to have fun with sex!

Pleasure is self-explanatory really. Sex for women in a relationship means pleasure. That can range from full out multiple O’s or just an awesome romp that leaves a lady feeling good and giddy.

You should find out what exactly creates the most enjoyable and pleasing sex for your lady, and make it happen, over and over!

Overall, sex is many things

So, sex does not mean just one thing to a woman in a relationship. It can mean many things, maybe even more than I have mentioned here.

But from my own experience and from chats with many women, sex comes down to represent three main things – love, a connection, and pleasure!

Sex does mean different things to different people but these values are the most basic, and what most women find sex to mean in a relationship.

Have sex that is loving, and passionate. Show your partner you are completely obsessed with their body and can barely resist them. Share sex through a trusted connection with your partner, and of course, focus on satisfying your partner and yourself. Enjoy!

In a video trending online, showing an unidentified man who was caught naked trying to convince his supposed friend’s wife to commit adultery, by having sex with him on her matrimonial bed, somewhere in Nigeria. The naked man, who’s also married, is seen begging the woman’s husband after he was caught. The woman had earlier informed her husband of the sexual advances being made and they apparently planned to catch him red handed. The husband had a cutlass with him…

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The woman could be heard saying in Igbo; “I told you to leave someone’s wife and face your own but you refused.”

The culprit however continued pleading with the husband, requesting that they settle the scandal indoors without informing others. His plea fell on deaf ears.
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Watch the video below…
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A woman from the United States traveled to Brazil to get low cost booty shots in the South American country, but she ran into complications.

While she was recovering at the clinic, her butt got infected and eventually “exploded”.

Here is the video of the doctor having to remove FRAGMENTS of her butt after it ruptured. The woman – who is from Florida – is expected to survive.

Be careful where you get your butt implants from folks.

See the graphic photos and video here
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The first time she was sexually abused, she was 14 years old. She broke into tears while telling me her story. I met this girl at the “Chicken Republic Eatery”, in Abuja, Nigeria, where she came to join me on my table. During our conversation She asked me “what should a girl do when she has been facing sexual abuse from her biological father for the last 6 years?” I was numbed.

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She told me how, being brought up in an educated Nigeria family, she never thought she would face this abuse within the four walls of her own home. She revealed that her first memory of sexual abuse came from when she was about 14 years old. Her father got her alone in the house and started touching her in a sexual way. Terrified and confused, she squirmed and kicked her father but he grabbed her and threatened her not to tell anyone; after that he regularly started coming into her bedroom and touched her while she was sleeping.

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The girl told her mother, so most of her family knew about it already and her mother let this happen under her nose just to save her own family life. She described feeling powerless and alone:

“My mother thinks that resistance is dangerous and useless and that if she ever asks her husband to stop sexually abusing his own daughter, he will throw us out including my five sisters. My mother always asks me: “where will we go then, who will give us shelter?”

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At that moment the young girl erupted. Years of pent up emotion rose to the surface.

“My mother is able to stop this but the ugly realization is that in reality she fails as a protector, as a real mother!”

She went on: “I am always scared and the slightest sound in the room wakes me up. I have been carrying this burden for more than six years and I have struggled with this secret that is literally eating me from the inside out. I told this to my friend and she advised me to go to the police and lodge a complaint. But like you know, you can’t just do that. I want to kill myself or kill him if he ever touches me in any way…Please tell me what to do. I am desperate, I’ve come down with Manic Depression. I feel dirty – so dirty.”

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Her story made me feel sick to my stomach; I was shocked and numbed, and didn’t know what to tell her at first. I can’t even imagine that any father can do this to his own daughter, he who is supposed to take care of her. It feels so disgusting, filthy and sickening…

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I advised her to speak up against this abuse, and to start by telling the abuser that you intend to report it to an organisation working for victims of sexual harassment. It’s you who has to speak up first and not suffer in silence. It has taken great inner strength just to put up with this abuse for all of those years, and if you decide to do so, you can use that strength to speak out. He is depending on one thing to hurt you like that: fear. He is depending on the fact that he scares you. If you break free from that fear, you can end this sad story written by someone else, and move forward by writing a better one of your own.

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On my way back to home we kept texting each other, I wanted to give her support and counsel her from the guilt, the shame which is making her feel worthless, the fear that something terrible will happen if she reveals the truth about her father, the grief of losing her sense of innocence and freedom, the feeling of helplessness and the state of despair, how to take away all these negative emotions from abuse victims which come up after being sexually abused by the head of her own family!

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Among other things, I realised that there is a pressing need to set up counselling centres to help sexual harassment victims. Counseling is extremely important because of the damage that may come from abuse whose very existence our society often denies. If victims of sexual abuse know there is somewhere where they can speak out without fear of judgment or reprisal, this will help encourage them to do so, and thus take the first step towards dealing with and ending their abuse.

As a first step I suggest that we launch a nationwide counseling telephone line where victims can seek guidance about sexual abuse – so that help and counseling are just a call away. I strongly believe this would give most people in Nigeria and around world the practical means to contact someone for that vital first piece of support and help.

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It can only be a first step, though. As this girl’s story so shockingly illustrates, it’s no use offering someone a telephone helpline if their physical safety could also be at risk.

Dealing with the problem of sexual abuse in Nigeria and the world at large, will require a great many changes, both practical and social. It is to our shame that the problem is still being swept under the carpet: we should not add to that by failing to make the necessary changes for the future.

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A 26-year-old Vietnamese man had a penile fracture after trying an unusual position in bed, prompting him to cast embarrassment aside and run to the hospital.

The man simply identified as V.V.C.was hospitalized at 1:45 am on Christmas Day with a swollen, deformed, and bluish colored penis, doctors at the K120 Military Hospital in Tien Giang Province, located in the Mekong Delta, said on Wednesday.

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The patient immediately underwent an emergency surgery after an MRI scan showed that he had a penile fracture, said Dr. Vu Dang Trung, deputy director of the clinic.

The man confessed that he was having sex in an unordinary position when he felt pain and his penis became curved and inflamed. He was rushed to the hospital by family members.Doctor Hua Xuan Phuong, the surgeon in charge of C.’s operation, said the patient has recovered and is now able to urinate normally.

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“But we cannot comment on his erectile function, which might take up to three months of treatment before fully recovering,” Phuong said.

Trung recommended that people with injuries from similar ‘sex accidents’ go to hospital as soon as possible in order to avoid serious complications to both their sexual and overall health.
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A 14-year-old teenage girl was raped and impregnated by a septuagenarian ex-soldier, Mr. Shuaibu Ahmed, She narrated how the man allegedly forcefully had sex with her. Saying that He gave her N100 the first time he raped her, but that she continued to allow him sleep with her because he threatened to kill her.

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She told Vanguard: “Sometime last year or thereabout, my sister sent me to Papa Soldier’s (the suspect) house to collect some compact discs for her. The man was sitting in front of his house when I got there. He said the CD was inside on the table. As I went inside, he tiptoed in after me and hurriedly locked the door when I had entered. He removed my clothes, underwear and forced himself on me.

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“I tried to shout, but he blocked my mouth and threatened to kill me. After he was through, I saw some whitish substance on me. It was then he told me he had deflowered me and that I should not tell anybody about it. Since then he has been having sex with me and each time he would warn me and even threaten to kill me.”

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She continued: “At times, he will give me N100 or N200. The day he deflowered me, he gave me N100. I was not enticed by money; it was his constant threats that frightened me. I could not tell anyone because I didn’t want to die. I just finished JSS 1. I had not started menstruation when he first forced me. It was after that encounter I started seeing my period.”

The victim and her abuser are neighbours at Ago Tapa area of Ibadan, Oyo State. According to information gathered, the man is said to have taken advantage of many other under-aged girls in the neighbourhood. The unsuspecting father of the victim found out his daughter was pregnant after was told by a neighbour that his daughter was carrying a five-month-old pregnancy.

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The female neighbour who lives in the same house with the victim said the father did not know anything.

She narrated to the paper: “I have been seeing the young girl with the old man and I warned the girl to stop going to him. Just this morning, a neighbour called me and said the girl is pregnant, saying her navel and tummy are shooting out. I called the girl, but she shook her head in denial saying ‘I’m not pregnant.’ When I asked her when last she saw her period, she could not recall it.”

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She continued: “I told her father, who was completely devastated. You can see what the old useless man caused. The mother died long time ago.”

It was learned that the father has reported the case at Mokola Police Station and the suspect will be transferred to the State CID for proper investigation. The father of the girl said all he wants is justice, as he added that the trauma was too much to bear.

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To stay relevant on social media. A mother recorded a video where she walked into a busy store with sperm dripping down her face just to see how people will react. According to reports, she took a dare from her subscribers, hence the challenge.

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In the video she recorded which is now circulating online, the woman was seen in her car, explaining that she was about to go into the store and hopes those “btches” will not start taking “shit” to her or else she’ll go “muthaf******* gangsta” on them. At a point in the video, she’s seen licking some of the sperm as it dripped down her mouth.

Go here to watch people’s reaction when she entered the store.
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One would wonder if it’s only in South Africa that this culture is prominent, but a Facebook user, by name, Ala Mathias shared these photos of virgins who posed topless as they are initiated into womanhood in the annual Iria ceremony held in Okrika, Rivers state.

He captioned the photos;

OKRIKA CULTURE AND HERITAGE

It Is Called Iria Ceremony, It Is A Process Of Welcoming Them To Womanhood.
It Is Usually Done By Virgins In The Ancient Days

This Particular Iria Ceremony Took Place Yesterday At Okrika Market Square, Rivers State.

Value Your Culture My People
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Lalsticlala I hail you

Henzyworld:
A disturbing video has gone viral of a female lecturer educating her student on sex education which may cost her her job because of how inappropriate it is. In the video, she was teaching her students about safe sex and decided to demonstrate how to put a condom on with her mouth and she used one of her male students for the demonstration.

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She is seen in the video getting on her knees and putting the condom on a plastic penis held by a shell-shocked male pupil as his classmates rolled around with laughter.This is believed to have happened at a university in Bahia, in the north east of the South American country, but this has not been confirmed. The video has provoked outrage after it emerged in Brazil and people are calling for her to be sanctioned.
Leading Brazilian politicians have waded in to criticise what the teacher did with her students. Flavio Bolsonaro, state MP for Rio de Janeiro since 2003, tweeted as the footage started to go viral in the South American nation.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/27/fake-anti-malaria-drug-in-circulation-nigerian-pharmacist-raise-alarm/

He wrote: “Should a teacher pretend she’s (performing a sex act) so she can put a condom on?” But a local, Rafael Esteves was in support and said so on social media.

“Congratulations to that teacher. Showing the girls how not to catch sexually transmitted diseases,” Rafael wrote.

Watch video here
http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/14/video-gone-viral-of-a-female-lecturer-getting-down-her-knees-on-a-male-student-demonstrating-how-to-put-a-condom-on-with-your-mouth/

Some might say it’s overrated, but why is sex just so important in a romantic relationship? Here are my top four reasons why sex is so great, why we need it, and why it’s good for us and our relationships. So if you’re looking for excuses to get busy, you’ve come to right place!

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1. Sex reduces stress

Sex provides us with an all-important timeout from the pressures of everyday life and studies have shown that, ‘Increasing warm touch among couples has a beneficial influence on multiple stress-sensitive systems.’

Researchers have found that a night of passion with your loved one can flood the brain with feel good chemicals that relax the brain, reduces stress levels and even dull pain.

So next time you’re feeling cranky, tired and stressed out, instead of just rolling over and going to sleep, try to reach out to your partner and share the benefits of a stress-busting session in bed together.

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2. Sex helps us to bond

Here comes the science… Bonding behaviours such as kissing, hugging and touching release a hormone called Oxytocin, which is also released during orgasm. Oxytocin relaxes our natural defensive systems by soothing a part of the brain called the amygdala, which controls our stress responses.

The comforting feelings produced by Oxytocin help us to feel close to our partners and deepen our bonds with them, keeping us feeling safe, close and connected.

In a study on a group of men who were given either a dose of Oxytocin or a placebo, researchers found that Oxytocin released made it easier for men to act in a positive and loving way towards their sexual partners.

Feeling safe and trusting our partner is so important in maintaining a strong relationship and it’s been found that the more frequent and dependable the flow of Oxytocin produced, as a result of regular physical contact, the easier it is to sustain a relationship.

If you’re flooded with Oxytocin your defensiveness will be down and you will feel much more connected and loving towards each other.

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3. Sex is unique to your relationship

A Sex Therapists will tell you that sex is the one thing that is special and unique to a couple relationship that you don’t experience with anyone else.

It allows you to share a level of closeness, vulnerability and intimacy that help you bond and connect in a way that you don’t do in any other relationship in your life. This is the part of your relationship that is exclusively yours and no one else’s.

4. Sex is good for your health

There have been many studies proving that regular sex can boost your immune system, lower your blood pressure, improve cardiovascular fitness and reduce the risk of heart attack.

Having more sex can even be good for your libido, so the more you have, the more you’ll enjoy it!

Remember: Sex is more than just intercourse

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Finally, don’t limit yourself by thinking about sex as just the physical act of intercourse; sex is so much more than that and can be anything you imagine.

Stroking, touching, kissing, caressing, cuddling, holding hands or any way that you physically comfort and offer each other pleasure can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life. So get exploring!

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A disturbing video has gone viral of a female lecturer educating her student on sex education which may cost her her job because of how inappropriate it is. In the video, she was teaching her students about safe sex and decided to demonstrate how to put a condom on with her mouth and she used one of her male students for the demonstration.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/27/19-year-old-russian-lady-looking-for-sugar-daddy-for-care-gets-murdered-after-answering-online-ad/

She is seen in the video getting on her knees and putting the condom on a plastic penis held by a shell-shocked male pupil as his classmates rolled around with laughter.This is believed to have happened at a university in Bahia, in the north east of the South American country, but this has not been confirmed. The video has provoked outrage after it emerged in Brazil and people are calling for her to be sanctioned.
Leading Brazilian politicians have waded in to criticise what the teacher did with her students. Flavio Bolsonaro, state MP for Rio de Janeiro since 2003, tweeted as the footage started to go viral in the South American nation.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/27/fake-anti-malaria-drug-in-circulation-nigerian-pharmacist-raise-alarm/

He wrote: “Should a teacher pretend she’s (performing a sex act) so she can put a condom on?” But a local, Rafael Esteves was in support and said so on social media.

“Congratulations to that teacher. Showing the girls how not to catch sexually transmitted diseases,” Rafael wrote.

Watch video here
http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/14/video-gone-viral-of-a-female-lecturer-getting-down-her-knees-on-a-male-student-demonstrating-how-to-put-a-condom-on-with-your-mouth/

So many marriages have crash because of lack of wisdom and is becoming a risky business by the hour. Instead of enlarging the family, it is reducing it. When your son or daughter marries, you expect grandchildren as dividends. Now, your initial investment gets liquidated in a pool of blood, without recourse to you. One infuriated sick and weak girl just grabs a kitchen knife and carves up your son in a flash, ripping out your heart and dreams of being surrounded by happiness in your old age. One silly boy in a moment of uncontrollable blinding fury stabs your daughter in the throat, leaving you reeling in that kind of pain no parent can recover from.

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Wives killing their husbands. Husbands killing their wives. How did our innocent babies become murderers? How did we miss it? What did we do wrong, or failed to do that is filling our doorsteps with shoes of mourners and our once happy homes with wailings and gnashing of teeth? Did the Bible not promise that our children will surround our tables and that we will not cast our young? So, what is going on? It is bad enough that more and more young marriages are failing. It is already a sad testimony that more women are becoming breadwinners and telling our sons when to snore in their own beds. But this added blood and gore and loss and unending pain…Or are you not worried?

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Sure, the latest tragedies happened far from you but they are really closer than you think. If you still think these recent spousal murders do not really concern you, take a look at your daughter, your son and tell yourself you can vouch for the spouses they will end up with. And if your children are already in their 20s and of marriage age, swear you are not a teensy bit concerned about the suitors milling around them. That fine-boy-no-pimples full of smiles and politeness, does he have anger issues? Is he a keeper, a reaper or a taker? That babe who is already calling your son ‘Ayo mi’ (my joy) or ‘honey’, can you trust her with your greatest treasure, your brilliant caring son?

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There is no retirement age for parents. We are parents for life. Our job is cut out for us and we must do it with all our heart and might. There is really no short cut. This is our calling until we are called home by He who chose us for this assignment as daddies and mummies. Of course, the temptation to hand over our daughters and our parenting jobs over to our in-laws the day we give them out in marriage will always be there. But it is a temptation we must resist as soon as the effects of red wine champagne wears off. Yeah.

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Wine-carrying, celebrated destination wedding ceremonies with the captains of industry and 10 governors in attendance is what it is, just another party. The marriage itself begins the following day. And let’s not forget that the young bride and groom had lived a protected life up until their wedding day. They were chauffeured to primary and secondary schools, assisted in picking their universities. Their NYSC postings were arranged by daddy. Their first jobs too via daddy’s connections. This is the first time they would be taking huge steps on their own. They probably will still be using daddy’s mechanic and mummy’s travel agent and caterer. Don’t bother denying it. We are all guilty of over-parenting. We all look forward so much to the days our children will get married that we forget there are things we must do, that is, beyond the small chops and assorted meals from here to China.

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Raise your hand if you did a proper background check on your son’s wife before the wedding. Seriously? Yeah.

Let me stress this point then. You must investigate your daughter’s suitor, your son’s intended. Don’t be overly excited by the diamond ring he gave her or the rich family she comes from. You must do your research. You must ensure you are not handing over your treasure to a pig who’ll go play in the mud with it. Most parents hardly ever do that background check before calling the wedding planner. Is he abusive? Does she throw flower vases at television sets? Does his father beat his mother? Is her mother cantankerous? Before you fix the wedding date, make sure you are not funding a ceremony that will put your child in an early grave. That is the pre-wedding warning.

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However, marriage is the critical point. While I think it is a sin to meddle in your children’s marriage, I also think it is a crime to push our children into the deep end of the pool without providing life jackets. Parents should let new couples totter, falter, fall even but be there to help them back on their feet. Watch from a distance but watch you must, keenly, discreetly, wisely. The fear of failure and what the society would say make a lot of new couples die in silence. Without being intrusive, nudge your daughter or daughter-in-law to speak freely. Call her to accompany you to a party you don’t want to attend alone. Start a topic that will help her open up. It could be a new television series, a movie with a relationship or marriage theme. And being a busy politician or high flying executive is not an excuse. I open such topics with my girls while they are helping me pick an evening dress, do my make-up or while we are watching a movie that I had picked for that purpose. I have also had such intimate talks with my son as he drove us to church.

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Fathers, let your son-in-law accompany you to events, golf course, church, mosque. What’s wrong with an occasional barber-date together? Get your grooming Saturday in sync. It helps you see through what they may be trying to hide without asking probing questions. You have gained an extra child and that should be an advantage.

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Stop by unannounced occasionally too and make such visits brief, very brief. Take along gifts. Those unannounced visits help you to catch them without rehearsed speeches. Hug the wife, she will wince or grunt if she has been kicked or punched. Does she have puffy eyes, discoloured cheeks or walking with a limp? If every time you go there, there is always a story why a piece of furniture is broken or cracked, one of them may be violent, hurling coffee mugs at the television or kicking flower vases.

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And if you discover that one of them is abusive, don’t expect them to sort it out on their own or with their pastor. An abusive wife or husband is a sick person. He needs help. She needs to see the appropriate doctor, it is an emergency. If the abusive partner refuses to get help, retrieve the one that belongs to you to safety. My mother used to counsel that a safe small corner on earth is better than a big space in the grave. You cannot fold your arms and hope she will stop slapping your son while she graduates to stabbing him. If he has pushed her down the staircase once and you leave her there, who will you blame when your church elders arrive with sober faces to break the news of your daughter?

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Of course, I know my Pastor, and many other pastors reading this, will object to my ‘retrieve-your-child’ solution but I prefer my pastor chides me to him telling me ‘it is well’ later. God forbid. If a sick spouse gets help, the marriage can get back on track and everybody gets a chance to live happily ever after. And read the Bible too. This write up i believe many family needs this.

Source- henzyworld.com

We meet, we connect, we fall in love. But is it real?

1. Romantic love.

We all know the feeling. We meet, we connect, we fall in love. When we’re in it, our world is
turned upside down. We’d rather be with our beloved than eat, sleep or work. We feel on top
of the world when our love is returned and crash to the depths if it looks like our love is
threatened.

2. The desire to merge.

Lust is connected with romance. We want to merge our bodies, minds and spirits. Orgasmic
intensity isn’t just about pleasure. It’s about wanting to share our hearts, souls, atoms and
electrons. We want to lose ourselves and find the divine.

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3. It’s us against the world.

We no longer feel alone. We are now part of a pair. We feel the power of two and joy of being
us. We’re still in the world, but the world seems like the background. We two are the center, and the world is there to support and embrace us.

4. Longing to create.

The primal creation, the reason we are each here, is that a man and a woman came together, an intrepid sperm was welcomed by a wondrous egg, and we were launched into life. But in a world with too many people, we also create art, music, home, healing and other gifts for humankind.

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5. Disillusionment.

The honeymoon time comes to an end. Disillusionment sets in. Our partner seems to
change. They are not who we thought they were, and they aren’t giving us what we longed to
have. We wonder if we’ve made a mistake and begin turning away and looking for what is
missing.

6. Incompatibility.

Incompatibility is grounds for true love. When we become disillusioned with our partner, we
often feel we’ve become incompatible. But when we recognize that disillusionment can mean
letting go of illusions, we can also let go of believing that incompatibility is a bad thing. It
actually allows us to learn where our wounds have been hiding.

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7. Discovering our wounded selves.

In looking away from our partner, we are forced to look within. We feel the pain of the trauma we all experience growing up in families that didn’t adequately meet our needs. We recognize that we were hoping that our partner would make us whole. We were looking for love in all the wrong places.

8. Embracing Illness.

Everyone gets sick, but that’s not a bad thing. Sickness can be our greatest teacher, our
greatest guide. I got depressed. My wife got breast cancer. We both developed heart
arrhythmias. We learned the lessons of illness and healed.

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9. Learning the mathematics of true love and addictive love.

When we look for a partner to make us whole, we experience addictive love: “I’ve got to have him/her or I’ll die.” The math is ½ x ½ = ¼. The longer we’re together, the smaller we become. When we look to our partner to help us heal and grow, we are on the path of true love. The math is 1 + 1 = Infinity.

10. Turning back towards our lover and committing to being real.

Being real is not sweetness and light. It is passionate, painful and creative—much like
making a baby and giving birth. Being real requires being part of a pair. Self-actualization
is not something we do by ourselves.

11. Love is letting go of fear.

All our unhappiness and illnesses are fear- based. We’re afraid of losing what we have or
not getting what we need. We always have two choices. Do we feed the fear or do we feed the love? Whichever one we feed gets stronger.

12. Accepting that real, lasting love is a journey, not a destination.

Real, lasting love is something we create every minute of every day. It’s the most difficult thing we do in our lives. It is also the simplest. But simple isn’t always easy. Learning to love is the graduate school of life. Admission is free, but will cost you everything you have.Are you ready for the journey? I Am Ready, what about you?
Source Henzyworld.com

When love rule the world. You can’t walk down the street at this time of the year without seeing a lovely couple draped over each other or a window full of love hearts.

Now, I’ll put my hands up right now and tell you that I’ve screwed up my fair share of relationships. I still get tongue-tied when I see a beautiful woman, I’ve pushed people away to protect myself and I’ve run round and round in circles wondering how things ’should’ be done.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/07/how-to-build-your-husband-up-and-release-him-to-his-full-potential-quality-of-a-good-woman/

Despite that, there’s a heap of things I do know about relationships. I know that it’s important to know what you really need from one; I know that you need to be in a place where you feel ready to be in a partnership with someone; I know you need to open up your baggage so that it doesn’t weigh you down or steer things in the wrong direction; I know that relationships aren’t about blaming someone else for what’s wrong or needing to be right and I know that the things you like and love about your partner are what matter, not what you don’t like.

But what I’ve also learned is that all of that stuff is useless without one, simple thing:

You have to be ready to let go and make it up as you go along.

I call this act of letting go “freefall”, because there’s a point where you just have to let yourself go; a point where you have to loosen your grip and let gravity take its course.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/12/03/man-shot-dead-his-girlfriend-in-front-of-her-family-in-south-africa-after-a-long-run-hand-himself-over-to-police/

Love isn’t about game playing and it isn’t about logic, and all the relationship tips, advice, checks and balances mean nothing unless you agree to do this one thing.

Loving someone is scary, confusing and unpredictable, and the catalyst to making a choice to freefall is a big bag full of courage. You have to trust yourself to feel your way through and you have to forget about the old rules you’ve set and all the “should’s” and “ought’s” that set you spinning.

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Be willing to make it up as you go along. Be willing to let your heart play a bigger role. Be willing to admit that you don’t know what you’re doing and be willing to take a chance.

As far as love goes, we’re all in the same boat. Let Love rule your world.

Source- Henzyworld.com

A 29-year-old man was admitted to a hospital after having a ‘powerful orgasm‘ that caused him to go blind in one eye during sex.

According to the British Medical Journal, the man went to the emergency eye clinic to report an obstruction in the central vision of his left eye, which he had noticed on waking that morning’.

Doctors suspected that the man in question performed what they described as ‘Valsalva maneuveur,’ a move that resulted in tensing of abdominal muscles, straining and holding the breath, in which air is forced against a closed windpipe and pressure increases in the chest.

In the research carried out by the doctors, they said the pressure resulted in the popping of blood vessel in the eye of the unfortunate man after an episode of ‘vigorous sexual intercourse’, doctors concluded after speaking to him.

‘The diagnosis was unclear and the patient was asked to return for follow-up three days later.
‘At this visit, he saw a different clinician who asked direct questions about the patient’s sexual activity.

‘The patient then reported an episode of vigorous sexual intercourse on the evening preceding the onset of symptoms.

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‘This directed history led to the diagnosis of postcoital valsalva retinopathy. Valsalva retinopathy is managed conservatively and is a self-resolving condition with an excellent prognosis.’

Haematologists also found out that ‘Valsalva manoeuvre’ can also produce memory loss.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/11/23/a-58-year-old-georgia-married-man-talked-about-sleeping-with-his-sex-toy-with-the-approval-from-his-wife/

A 1998 study revealed that the intense pressure in the brain’s blood vessels resulted in temporary lack of blood flow to the central part of the brain, which in turn, resulted in amnesia.

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God is great. Do you know the implication of Sex before marriage? Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood- filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/10/12/marriage-is-for-the-wise-choose-your-partner-carefully/

Before God, the deflowering of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day.

This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/11/15/sex-consequences-that-follows-when-the-hymen-of-a-lady-is-broken/

The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c) God said it in clear terms, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/ she is working directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at old age!

http://henzyworld.com/2017/11/13/16-year-old-girl-gang-raped-by-four-boys-in-lagos-dies-of-strange-ailment-months-after-incident/

There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!

http://henzyworld.com/2017/11/11/do-what-works-for-you-when-it-comes-to-marriage/

The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessed men while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/11/16/hey-lady-see-what-happens-next-the-moment-you-agree-to-date-a-married-man/

If only they knew,many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be deflowered in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so. The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her? This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/03/01/6-essential-tips-to-build-self-confidence/

Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/09/17/reasons-why-men-are-called-groom-and-the-woman-the-bride-on-wedding-day/

Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/07/08/do-you-wish-to-be-rich-or-sustain-your-wealth-avoid-this-13-money-mistakes/

The fun part is that pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What happens between the lines could be deadly and dangerous. The very first day a lady, or a man does that there will be spiritual transfer of destiny. The sin of fornication gives demons and occultic people direct access into your God’s given destiny.

So guys,zip up! Girls wise up!! It doesn’t matter but it matters a lot. BIG THINGS COME FROM LITTLE THINGS WE DO!!! I know a soul has been touched today, remain blessed! and for those who have lost it may the Mercy and Grace of God find you to sin no more
Share to all your friends and to many groups and save many souls.

Peace be with u.

Source: henzyworld.com

The moment you agree to date a married man, you agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values. Now look at it this way.. If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can’t call him when he is at home with family…..

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My sisters, you be toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home…..


My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet
you don’t even know the name of the street where he lives…..

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My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, yet he will never allow his wife taste even a drop of alcoholic drink. Common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed……

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My dear sisters, na your body good pass for experiment? He gets you pregnant & gives you money for abortion, but when his wife gets pregnant he celebrates & gives her money for antenatal & baby things……

My sisters remember he is already raising his family. Oh just in case you don’t know, he describes your emotions when he is with his friends but will never mention whatever happens between him & his wife. This makes all his friends see a lesser human in you……

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My sisters, na your matter them take they drink beer ooo. He gives you a few cash & you’re happy not knowing that whatever money he gives you is what he calls “Body no be firewood allowances” You have his picture on your phone & saved his number as “My Sweetheart” or whatever, yet your
picture cannot be found on his phone & your number is saved on his phone as generator mechanic or refuse dispose……..

http://henzyworld.com/2017/11/11/do-what-works-for-you-when-it-comes-to-marriage/

My lovely sisters, you be learner? PLEASE let’s give ourselves a proper re-evaluation today. Please help me to pass this message round to educate our ladies by tagging each & everyone on your page. Just a piece of advice.

Source- henzywworld.com

Natalia Borodina, 35, from Moscow, a popular Russian model died in an accident while showing off topless and hanging out of the window of a speeding car.

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She was killed in the Dominican Republic after smashing her head on a pole while hanging out of a moving vehicle. In the video taken seconds before her death, the mother-of-one is seen naked from her waist up. She had nothing on except bikini bottoms.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/10/14/how-to-cope-with-heartbreak-in-your-relationship/

As the car speed along the road, she put her head and entire upper body out of the car window then struck different sexy poses while someone in the car filmed on a mobile phone. As they plied the highway near Punta Cana, Natalia’s head hit a lamp post and her body was thrown sideways. The driver, believed to be her friend Ivanna Boirachuk, 32, was heard screaming as the video ended.

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Russian media reported that she was rushed to hospital but later died from “serious injuries”. She is survived by her eight-year-old son. It is believed her son was holidaying with her in the Dominican Republic. Her family has been notified of her death.

Watch the video below.
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Ibrahim O. Badmus, A 25-year-old Nigerian man,was killed by South Africa police officers on Tuesday, October 10th in Vanderbijlpark triangle in South Africa. Badmus was an undergraduate at Vaal University of Technology in Vanderbijlpark in South Africa. The Police officers stormed Badmus’s home with claims that he was trafficking drugs. However, when they searched his home, they could not find any drug in it. They allegedly asked the deceased for money and when he could not give them money, they handcuffed him and used excessive pepper spray on him. He passed out and died due to suffocation.

Watch videos of other Nigerians confronting the South African police officers after the Incident below

http://henzyworld.com/2017/10/13/video-25-year-old-nigerian-student-killed-by-south-african-police-officer-accused-of-drug-trafficking/

A general practitioner was caught on video sexually abusing one of his female patients in the hospital and the video is already making international headlines.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/10/11/photo-couple-who-were-married-for-75-years-killed-by-california-wild-fire/

In the outrageous video, the Indian doctor is seen handling the woman’s breasts inappropriately while she keeps trying to remove his hands but he refuses to stop and returns his hand to her breasts.

It is obvious from the video that the woman was uncomfortable by all that was going on but she wasn’t sure how to react. She later stands from the bed and the doctor pulls down her pants and continues to touch her all over inappropriately.

http://henzyworld.com/2017/10/12/a-57-year-old-sowetan-man-arrested-for-sexual-assault-on-54-primary-school-pupil-in-south-africa/

According to reports, women have complained for months about the doctor touching them inappropriately, so local police set up a sting operation to catch the doctor in the act. When the doctor was shown the video, he claimed that everything he did was medically necessary. He is yet to be charged with a crime according to reports.

Watch the video here and decide for yourself.
http://henzyworld.com/2017/10/10/video-an-indian-doctor-caught-on-video-sexually-assaulting-female-patient-in-the-hospital/