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nNEOo:
if I talk now the will come for their head(not my own)
.....let me just keep kwayet

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Afonjashapmouth:
That ear wey dey pick wrong waves now na internal organ waves he go dey pick.

A terrible new video has been shared on Brazilian social media, showing a suspected whistle blower being dealt with by drug dealers. In the disturbing video , the young man’s ear was cut severely to eat while he tried not to scream out of pain.

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The video was livestreamed. After cutting off the first ear they went to the second ear and repeated the process. But the young man was lucky to be allowed to leave alive.

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Funnicator:
In my street we call him OTOTO. Note; I didn't say T0T0, meaning... *clears throat*

Ronaldo has become the first sports star and first male to hit 100million Instagram followers, with his closest rival, Neymar on 74million. Were it comes to their social media presence, Ronaldo remains head and shoulders above the Argentine, who lags behind his Ballon d’Or rival with just the 70.8m followers. And he does indeed boast the first account to have as many fans on two social platforms, having already broken the mark on Facebook.

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His top post, ranked by likes and comments, shows the Madeira-born star sat on the bonnet of his latest Bugatti car in February – which reached almost 4 million likes.
Other entries include images from both on and off the field, modelling shots in addition to pictures featuring his son and other family members.

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Kim Kardashian caused an outrage as she angered fans by transforming herself into the Virgin Mary for a new Kimoji.

The 36-year-old reality star unveiled the image on her Kimoji Instagram page on Thursday where she put her face as the virgin Mary on a candle and her fans wasted no time by slamming her on social media in expressing their displeasure at the new emoji which they called ‘disrespectful’ according to Daily Mail.

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Making matters worse, the colourful image is animated so it blurs in a psychedelic fashion, in honor of 420 – also known as Weed Day.

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My name is Jovita, I school in one of the higher institutions in Nigeria which name I don’t want to mention,am 27 years old and I live with my boyfriend off campus we’ve been living together for close to three years now he loves me so much that he can do anything for me.

My boyfriend Stays in a two bedroom apartment, which i lived with him, I and my boyfriend stay in one room while his two younger brothers stay in the other room,we live happily even his brothers likes me too.

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It all started last March when I asked him for money for my tuition fee,he told me to hold on that he needed to fix part of his business that the money will be giving to me ASAP although he has always assisted me even though my parents still gives me money for my school fees and every other thing,but that period I needed money since he told me to hold on I couldn’t do anything but to obey him.

While I was dressing up for school, in his wardrobe I saw two bundle of money in 1000 Naira Denomination to be precise,then I said to myself, but he said he has no money could it be he just don’t want to give me this money.

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That day I was so tempted that I had to remove two piece from each bundle, that was how my problem started, from then on and on I started stealing money from him and when I do because he so much loves me he never accused me of stealing rather he accuses his brothers and often times they fight over it,this even gave me the go ahead to steal more because I know he will never accuse me of stealing from him, in short he won’t even imagine it.

Just last month I took money worth 150000 Naira, he hid somewhere in the room,just to be free from suspicion I told him I won’t be coming home till next week that I have to stay over at the campus to prepare for a test which he agreed.

Later that day I sneaked into the house since I had an extra key and took the money,when I came back the following week I couldn’t find his brother and I asked of their where about he told me that the police have arrested them and I was like for what he said they stole his 150000 Naira and they have been in detention for Three days now he threatened that until they confess where the money is he won’t let them go,I quickly went to see them at the station my God this guys have been tortured I felt the guilt within me.

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Am tempted to confess so that at least his brothers will be left off the hook but am just so afraid if I do my boyfriend might chase me away and his brother will just hate me forever,his family will see me as a thief please is there any way I can go about this without losing my boyfriend.

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I love him so much am just confused, I want his brothers out and the only way to get them out fast is to confess I stole the money. Put yourself in my shoes and see how hard it is to make such confession. I will be reading ur comments

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An Islamic fundamentalist, Sheikh Mohamad Doar from Ahlus Sunnah Wal Jamaah Association has made controversial headlines when he was speaking with a group of teenage girls at a forum in Sydney on Saturday, where he lectured them on Islamic fashion and grooming.

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He said they will go to hell fire if they are associated with non-Muslim friends during a lecture about Islam.
Speaking at Punchbowl on Saturday night, he said: ‘The reality is, my sisters, any friendship that is not built on the fear of Allah is only going to lead to hell fire so you need to be cautious.

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‘With your actions, you distance yourself from the corrupted people.’
Sheikh Doar also told the girls that women would be cursed by Allah if they plucked their eyebrows, waxed their body or shaved.

He said: ‘You are not allowed the remove the hair of the eyebrow, it’s a major sin.

‘The lady who plucks her eyebrows and the one who gets them plucked, they’re both cursed by Allah.’

He had been discussing the actions of the Prophet Mohammad during a Q&A session organised by Muslim charity Sisters United.

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He also touched on hijabs and said girls should wear them loose and as ‘plain as possible’, adding: ‘It cannot be an imitation of the disbeliever’s dress code.

‘It cannot be attracting to the eye. It cannot resemble the dress of men. It can’t be a showing-off cloth.’

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He, however, warned them they would face criticism about their dress sense from other Muslims and kafirs, an Islamic term for non-believers.

The sheikh’s advice is reportedly rejected by secular Muslims who also do not agree with sharia law.

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Senator and Rep. Member Attacked in Kastina state, Senator Abu Ibrahim representing Katsina south and Amiru Tukur, member representing Bakori/Danja in the house of representatives were yesterday attacked by angry youth in Kastina state with stones,chairs,shoes and other objects at a political event organised by the state chapter of All Progressives Congress (APC) on Saturday.

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It took a combined effort of security officers and some security men from the governor’s team to rescue them out of the scene.

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Some vehicles in the entourage of the governor were smashed by irate youths while tear-gas was used to disperse the crowds by the security personnel.

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Most of us have experienced that pivotal peak of pain, anger or frustration in which we want to scream “I hate my life.” Yet, the feeling that a dark cloud has specifically settled over us and our experiences can feel pretty isolating. The truth is, no matter how singled out or overwhelmed we feel, and no matter what area we are struggling in, we are not alone. More than half of people working are unhappy with their job. One in 10 persons struggles with depression. All of us have moments of utter despair. Escaping from this hopeless-seeming state may feel impossible. Yet, in reality, we are not doomed, and we are not powerless. No matter what our circumstances, we can all learn tools to help us emerge from the darkest moments in our lives.

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In his 35 years of research, Dr. Salvatore Maddi of The Hardiness Institute has discovered that what predicts how well we will do in life, our relationships, careers, and so on is NOT how much money we have or even how many struggles we face. It’s a matter of how hardy or emotionally resilient we are. We can all learn to become more resilient. We can implement tools that help shape how we see and experience the world around us. We can uncover what’s at the root of our unhappiness and create a life that has personal meaning to us, a life that reflects our unique goals and desires.

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This process starts with asking ourselves a few questions, starting with:
Whose life are you really living?

One of the reasons we have the feeling of “I hate my life” is because we aren’t really following our own path. Instead, we are, often subconsciously, carrying out someone else’s idea of how we should live. In order to have the life we say we want, we have to separate our real point of view from negative influences from our past, from people around us or from society at large. To do this, we can engage in a process known as differentiation, which can help us to distinguish our real wants, goals and desires from undesirable outside influences. As Dr. Robert Firestone wrote in his book The Self Under Siege, “Differentiation is a universal struggle that all human beings face if they wish to fully develop themselves as individuals.” Firestone outlines four essential steps to the process of differentiation that can help individuals live free of imagined limitations.
According to Firestone, in order for our real, authentic self to emerge, we have to identify and separate from destructive programming we received very early in our lives, primarily from our parents or other influential caretakers. “Differentiating from parental interjects and psychological defenses based on the emotional pain of childhood is a central developmental issue in every person’s life,” wrote Firestone. “To the extent that we retain the critical attitudes and destructive elements we have incorporated into our own personalities, we remain undifferentiated from our parents throughout our lifetime.”
The point of differentiation isn’t to blame parents for all our problems but rather to help explain the elements that lay the foundation for the self-limiting or self-destructive behavior we engage in that leads to our unhappiness. Naturally, no parent is perfect. We are all human and full of flaws. Parents may have critical attitudes toward themselves that extend to their children. As people grow up, they tend to incorporate these attitudes and engage in a process of self-parenting. They may start to imitate their parents’ less favorable traits, take on hurtful attitudes toward themselves or retaliate against these parental influences. All of these actions are a reaction to our upbringing and don’t necessarily reflect our true unique identity and point of view.
For example, if we had a parent who couldn’t hold a job, perhaps we will find ourselves sabotaging our own success. If we had a parent who believed they were unintelligent, we may feel this way toward ourselves. As adults, we tend to be drawn toward relationships and circumstances that recreate the emotional environment from our past. Differentiation means interrupting this cycle and truly living our own life. If you feel like you hate your life, it’s beneficial to ask whose life are you really living? Are you reliving someone else’s idea of who you should be or what you should want? What truly has meaning to you?

Are you looking at your life through a negative filter?

The second question to consider when we feel like we hate our lives is “are we listening to our “critical inner voice?” As Maddi discovered in his research, it isn’t just our circumstances that determine our life satisfaction and success. In fact, it’s what we are telling ourselves about our circumstances that often makes us miserable. Our critical inner voice describes a cruel, internal enemy we all have inside us that comments on our every move and criticizes us at every turn.
This critical inner voice is there to undermine and sabotage us in every area of our lives, our careers, relationships and personal goals. When we experience a setback, this voice will tear us apart and remind us that we’ll never succeed. It’s often the sneaky internal entity responsible for fueling the flames that lead us to hate ourselves or resent our circumstances.
One of the biggest steps we can take to change our lives involves identifying and challenging this inner critic. It’s important to separate this alien coach from our true point of view. We can all learn effective methods to overcome our critical inner voice and achieve a more self-compassionate attitude toward ourselves. As we engage in this trans-formative and enlightening process, it’s valuable to remind ourselves that as long as we are independent and differentiated adults, we can pretty much change any part of our lives… as long as we change this negative filter.
Although our critical inner voice has built up over a long time and is based on destructive past experiences and early childhood influences, as adults, these “voices” are just thoughts. No matter how anxious it makes us, we can counteract this inner critic and grow stronger in the process. For example, if our voice tells us we are incompetent or incapable of change, we can remind ourselves that this is just a thought driven by a deep, unconscious “anti-self” whose only mission is to sabotage us.
Then, we can consciously take the actions that go against the directives of this anti-self. We can go out for that job interview, knowing we can handle not getting it. We can stick to an exercise plan even when our inner critic lures us to indulge. We can stay close to our partner despite the anxious thoughts our critical inner voice shouts at us.

How resilient are you?

Resilience or “hardiness” is something we can all foster and develop within ourselves. The more we can stick through hard times without expecting the road to be easy, the better we can handle what life throws at us. Hardiness involves accepting that we have some control over our situation, and that there are always steps we can take to improve our circumstances. Obstacles can be seen as challenges from which we can grow. We can learn more about Maddi’s research and the steps to become more psychologically resilient here.

Actions to take when we think “I hate my life:”

There are many actions we can take when we feel turned against ourselves and our lives.
Practice mindfulness – Mindfulness is a practice that teaches us how to let go of thoughts that are destructive or undesirable. It has been proven to reduce stress, fight depression and lead to overall benefits in health and well-being. Mindfulness meditation can help us to acknowledge these thoughts as momentary feelings that will pass like clouds over a mountain. Learn more about mindfulness.
Conquer your critical inner voice – Voice Therapy is a method developed by Dr. Robert Firestone. The five steps of this therapeutic process allow people to identify, respond to and challenge their critical inner voice, while recognizing where this inner enemy comes from. Learn more about Voice Therapy.

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Spend time with a family of choice – Oftentimes, people feel obligated to spend time with the family they were born into, but old dynamics and remnants of past hurts can cause “family time” to be times of pain or stress. It’s important to create for yourself a “family of choice.” Of course, this may include people you’re related to. What’s most important is choosing to be around people who support you and the things that light you up and make you who you are.

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Realize your personal power – No matter what life throws at us, taking a victim mentality only makes us suffer more. By realizing the ways we have power over our lives, we can feel stronger and more resilient in any obstacle we face.

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A busty German glamour model Martina Big has transformed in the most unbelievable way; from a blonde woman with moderate breasts to a dark skinned woman, which has shocked her fans with a new “extreme tan” that has turned her fair skin to “dark crispy brown” and made her look “African dark” with just three tanning injections. She also has unique breast implants which can be “pumped up” at home by injecting saline.

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Martina Big claims her breasts is size 32 S and are the biggest in Europe – has had tanning injections to turn her white Caucasian skin a deep shade of mahogany brown.
The 28-year-old former air hostess revealed that she has no plans of stopping her tanning injections, rather she intends to “get darker and darker and see what the limits are”. On her own, at home in Trier, Germany, she uses a 50-tube sunbed to make her darker and she’s proud of her new look.
“Nine weeks ago, I had just three tanning injections,” Martina said.

“I was not expecting to go so dark but it worked so well. I love it and I really want to push it to the extreme.

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Friends of Martina have been surprised by her decision and she admits even the doctor that administered the injections – whom she will not name – did not recognise her.
“In the seventh week after the injections, I went back to see my doctor. I said ‘hello’ and he looked at me like, huh, who is this in my waiting room? It was very funny.

“He said: ‘I have never seen a girl turn so African dark before. Are you sure that you want this?’ I told him ‘Yes!’

“I love my skin like this. I love the extreme look.”
“I love the contrast of my bright blonde hair and my dark, crispy brown skin. I love seeing the reactions of people. I can see their big eyes when I walk past and their shocked faces, thinking ‘how is this possible?’ At first, my fans were irritated saying ‘why did you do this?!’ but that is because they have never seen a white girl change her skin to African dark before. But now, they have got used to it, they are excited like me. They say, ‘oh, I like your style! Go darker! Go darker!'”

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Martina says that she is not trying to change her race and describes the extreme tan as just a part of her quest to become the ‘ultimate real-life Barbie bimbo.’
Yes, I have the skin of an African girl. But I am not pretending to be a black girl. I’m going to create a unique and exotic Barbie with dark tan, bright blonde hair and exaggerated curves. I like this look,” she said.

She still describes herself as a European/Caucasian and says she will not change the colour of her eyes or eyebrows, which she proudly describes as “the only natural things she will keep”.

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One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books, and I thought to myself, “Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.”
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran right up to him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.

Then he looked up, and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, “Those guys are jerks. They really should get a life.”

He looked at me and said, “Hey thanks!” There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried his books.

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He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play football on Saturday with me and my friends. He said yes. We hung all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him. Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, “Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!”

He just laughed and handed me half the books. Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors, began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke.

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I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our class and I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn’t me having to get up there and speak.

On Graduation Day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than me and all the girls loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous. Today was one of those days.

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I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, “Hey, big guy, you’ll be great!” He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one), and smiled. “Thanks,” he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began.

“Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach… but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story.”

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I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met . He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker, so his Mom wouldn’t have to do it later, and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

“Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable.” I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom and Dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize its depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person’s life. For better or for worse. God puts us all in each other’s lives to impact one another in some way. Look for God in others.

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“Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.”

I agree with this. Your one action can really change a person’s life or motivate someone. And friends are the most important part about your life. A friend does have a major impact on you. Many times i have found myself being depressed and lonely. I don’t know if its hormones or just me. But a message from a friend on whatsapp or facebook instantly makes me forget about my depression and i’m all happy and cheerful again.

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Defining our own personal identity can take a lifetime and to complicate matters or issues, our identity changes throughout that period whether or not we consciously undertake a process of personal development. So what do we mean by personal identity? How can
we answer the question “Who am I?”

The answer is more than just our given name of course – it is much deeper than that – it is a question about our personality and more. There are some obvious factors that we know from the outset just by looking at our circumstances. That we are male or female, whether we are young middle aged or old.

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Identity from groups and community

We know our tribes and nationality – or at least most of us do, although some people who have migrated or have dual citizenship may even find this difficult to be certain of! In this world there is a wonderful opportunity for migration and travel, with the results that we can cease to feel part of our local community, or even our nationality and instead feel part of the global village. We cease to be surprised by the Shoprite super market in a developing country such as Nigeria, SouthAfrica and so on – it feels like home. Identity even on this seemingly simple level quickly gets complicated as previously strong local identities get transformed.

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In Nigeria, Many people see themselves as a different unique being ,We have the Northerner, Easterner, South west ,South South and Middle belt, seeing themselves as superior over the other, But one thing is certain, they have their unique identity.

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In the UK, there is increasing emphasis on local, regional and devolved (national) government. The UK – the United Kingdom – is made up of England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. Living here means that our identity can change depending upon the circumstances. An Englishman overseas may say he is British, if in Scotland he might say he is English, whilst a Scotsman may only feel that he is Scottish and never British. Within England, there are definite regions, North and South being the obvious ones and yet those in Cornwall may view themselves as a separate nation.

On a yet more local level we may view ourselves as a member of a local community, a housing estate, a school, an office, a company, a church or a town, village meeting.

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Each time we say we belong to one of those groups we identify with them and adopt some of the behaviours and beliefs of the wider group. Some of these groups that we are a part of are in conflict with each other, so even on the level of these most basic external circumstances; it can be difficult to come up with a definitive identity of who we are.

What groups are you a part of and how does that influence your identity?

Identity through roles

In our day-to-day lives we may define ourselves through the roles that we play. These roles may include being a mother or father, husband or wife, brother or sister, son or daughter, colleague, friend or even enemy! Again some of these roles may be in tension – consider a priest or doctor serving in the front line alongside soldiers, a certain level of internal processing needs to take place for someone who is committed to saving and preserving life to also be involved in taking life.

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What roles do you have that form part of your identity?

Identity through our work or profession

We may define ourselves through our profession or our work. I am a teacher, I am an accountant, I am a lawyer, I am a plumber, I am an electrician, I am a chef ,I am a journalist,I am a doctor … and so it goes on.

However if we define ourselves by what we do, our profession or work, then does this not oversimplify our complexity? Of course it does. There are many individuals, who become doctors, but they are not all the same, however they may describe themselves as a doctors and this may be the main way in which they establish their own identity. But something is lost by doing this.

Problem

The problem therefore with all of these ways is the reduction in our identity to generalized groupings. There are two problems with this: the definitions are external to us and they are generalized.

Our identity surely is more than the generalized identity of the groups we are part of and more than what we do, how we behave and the roles that we adopt.

Our identity is who we ARE not what we DO.

So how do you define yourself?

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Take a blank piece of paper and a pen and write down as many words, roles, groups and thoughts about your identity that you can think of. Take about 10 minutes over it.

Then sit back and consider whether these are really the things that define you – are you more than this? Looking at that list, who is defining who you are – is it you or those around you via these groups and roles? And is that how you want to define your identity?

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A 41-year-old man Joi (not his real name) has been arrested in Phatthalung, Thailand for slitting the throat of his 13-year-old daughter over the amount of time she spent on Facebook and other social media platform.

Joi committed the act that left his 13-year-old daughter in a serious condition and then locked her in a rented house in Phetchaburi’s Muang
district on Sunday.

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He was arrested at a checkpoint in Prachuap Khiri Khan’s Thap Sakae district on Sunday night while trying to flee with his youngest daughter.

Joi told police he attacked the girl out of rage after they argued about her spending too much time on Facebook and Line.

His wife, 44, corroborated that version of events. She said her husband did not like the girl spending a lot of time on social media for fear it would impact negatively on her school work. She, however, denied the suggestion the attack was the result of sexual abuse.

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According to the wife her husband had a violent temper and had hit the girl before over her social media use. She claimed Joi had previously threatened to kill all the family members as he was jealous and paranoid that she would return to her former lover.

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She said her daughter is recovering in hospital under close medical supervision.

Police said the husband was wanted under a court-issued arrest warrant in relation to a murder case in Trang’s Muang district on August 14, 2007.

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Players and officials of Enyimba Football Club were attacked by some angry Katsina United’s fans on their way out of the stadium at the Nigerian Premiere League game on Sunday, April 9th, despite Katsina United who had beaten Enyimba International 2-1 in a league game. They now decided to extend the beating to off the field when their fans stoned the visitors.

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They smashed the driving mirrors and wind screen of the team bus of the two times champion of Africa and some of their players suffered cuts on their hands and heads in the process.

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Information on the incident is still sketchy, however the players including Ghana goalie, Fatau Dauda suffered cuts on their legs as the Katsina United fans pestered them with stones.

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Watch the video of a Nigerian woman who assulted her male compatriot without him retaliating to the physical abuse he was receiving from the woman.

From the clips both of them were interecting with Pidgin English as the woman keep saying “Give me my money”.

A male observer was recording the incident until the woman interupted it because she had a problem with it. The video was later posted on Instablo9ja.

It is believed that the woman is a prostitute who didn’t get paid for her services.

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The invention of smartphones since 1970s has really been a great benefit to many people who uses it but one problem persist which is the tendency for screen to scratch and crack.

A team of chemists at the University of California at Riverside have developed a self-healing material that could consign that problem to history.

Inspired by X-Men’s Wolverine’s ability to self-heal, the miracle material is transparent, conductive and highly stretchable.

Researchers claim it could have a range of applications, from giving robots the ability to self-repair to extending the lifetime of lithium ion batteries.

“Creating a material with all these properties has been a puzzle for years,” said Chao Wang, an assistant professor of chemistry and co-author of the research. “We did that and now are just beginning to explore the applications.”

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Three years ago, LG released the LG Flex, a curved smartphone with a back that could recover from scratches in just a few minutes. Making this latest research not being the first smartphone material that promises to self-heal

But the surface LG Flex wasn’t conductive, preventing it from being used for the phone’s touch screen.

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“Within three years, more self-healing products will go to market and change our everyday life. It will make our cellphones achieve much better performance than what they can achieve right now.” Wang told Business Insider

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The material developed by UC Irvine will take a little longer to repair than the LG Flex – 24 hours at room temperature – but that’s a small price to pay for an immaculate phone.

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Syrian president Bashar Al-Assad has been accused of war crimes after a footage was published showing how a Syrian hospital was being bombed as TRAUMATISED witnesses described how birds fell from the sky during a chemical attack which left at least 100 dead including 11 children who foamed at their mouths as they were killed by the gas attacks on Wednesday morning in the north eastern Syrian town of Khan Sheikhoun.

With photos to prove the attacks it is now highly believed by International politics observers that the United Nations will now ramp up pressure on Syrian dictator Bashar al-Assad.

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The Syrian Observatory for Human Rights, a British-based group said many of those killed from the air attacks died from suffocation and the effects of the gas.
The group also said 18 people died at first but the death toll later rose to 35 and now 100 – including 11 children while hundreds of others are feared injured.
British Prime Minister, Theresa May said: “I’m appalled by the reports that there’s been a chemical weapons attack on a town south of Idlib allegedly by the Syrian regime.
“We condemn the use of chemical weapons in all circumstances. If proven, this will be further evidence of the barbarism of the Syrian regime. “The UK has led international efforts to call to account the Syrian regime and Daesh for the use of chemical weapons and I would urge the Organisation for the Prohibition of Chemical Weapons to investigate this incident as soon as possible.
“I’m very clear that there can be no future for Assad in a stable Syria which is representative of all the Syrian people and I call on all the third parties involved to ensure that we have a transition away from Assad. We cannot allow this suffering to continue.”
U.S President Donald Trump was also alarmed by the atrocities committed in Syria, and blamed former President Obama for letting the situation get this bad.

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“These heinous actions by the Bashar al-Assad regime are a consequence of the past administration’s weakness and irresolution,” Trump said.
His comments are believed to be in reference to Obama’s failure to strike Syria in 2013 after Obama said a chemical attack by Assad would cross a US ‘red line’.
U.S Secretary of State Rex Tillerson said;

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“While we continue to monitor the terrible situation, it is clear that this is how Bashar al-Assad operates: with brutal, unabashed barbarism. Those who defend and support him, including Russia and Iran, should have no illusions about Assad or his intentions. Anyone who uses chemical weapons to attack his own people shows a fundamental disregard for human decency and must be held accountable.”

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The airstrikes hit the town of Khan Sheikhoun, in the central province of Idlib, early this morning.
Doctors treating the victims said they suffered symptoms matching those caused by exposure to the deadly nerve agent sarin, including foaming at the mouth.

The UN Security Council is set to hold an emergency meeting into the attack on Wednesday after the atrocity was labelled a “war crime”.

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When you met your partner it was a day you will never forget,a memorable day,both of you were drawn together for many reasons–physical attraction, common interests, religion,class,presentable and more. For weeks and maybe months, the two of you got better acquainted, got closer, and everything looked positive and good.

But now you’ve started to sense and pick up small clues that he or she is losing interest and you keep wondering what’s wrong? what both of you used to share is no more there,is this love fading? That person might be backing away from the relationship or looking for a change. If you are left wondering what to do, Check out this:

1. Resist the urge to be a mind reader.

You might want to read into every little comment or gesture to gauge your partner’s interest level, but you can’t know for sure what’s going on inside another person’s head. Even if you are psychologist but you can guess.

2. Consider if this is a period of temporary confusion.

Emotions are fickle, and every relationship goes through ups and downs. This might be a matter of short-term uncertainty while evaluating feelings and your future together.

3. Try fanning the flames.

Maybe the relationship has grown a bit stale and predictable. An infusion of excitement and freshness might bring sparks back, think of something new to add to the relationship. Do not be Dormant in action, Relationship is a process of nurturing the things that binds both of you together.

4. Beware of overreacting.

When a lover starts to feel distant, it can trigger all of our insecurities. Emotional upheavals and dramatic scenes will confuse matters even more, So try to be calm in action be tolerant. You never can tell your partner may value a little time apart to think things through.

5. Determine how long you are willing to put up with uncertainty.

It’s up to you to pinpoint how long you’re willing to wait and see if the other person is really losing interest. But do not be in a haste because some of us are not patient and we all wants things done in our way and time. Just give a considerable time.

6. Be careful not to become overly responsible.

Choose not to feel as if you have done something wrong or that it’s up to you to “fix” the situation, just be neutral to know what’s the main problem before you think of what to do or apologize for what you didn’t commit.

7. Back off.

See what happens when you intentionally allow for space. Your partner just might regain interest. This true because our time to be together with theirs may be different, we can try to give them space.

8. Don’t play games or manipulate.

You might want to show your partner that you’re losing interest too—just to make a point–but ploys are never healthy and never resolve anything.

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9. Ask direct questions.

If you suspect someone is losing interest, remember that you are entitled to an honest response.

10. Seek clarity.

You can say, “I’m not sure where you’re at emotionally right now. Please enlighten me.” But do not be offended if He or She did not open up freely at that moment.

11. Re-assess your own level of interest.

It’s possible that the relationship is cooling off, and you’ve both been staving off an inevitable breakup.

12. Remember that you can’t control how another person feels.

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Your partner has his or her own emotions. You can influence another person’s feelings, but ultimately that person is responsible for them.

13. But you can control how you respond.

You can choose to react in ways that honor yourself, hold boundaries, and communicate your needs.

14. Believe that your worth is not in question.

Your value as an individual is not diminished one bit because someone seems to be losing interest.

15. Be prepared to move on.

If your partner truly is losing interest, decide what it best for you and your future. You know there are lots of people who will take a big interest in you.

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16. Just be yourself.

You have to expect either good news or bad will come out from the final discovering of losing of interest. once you get a bad news be yourself and smile just know that someone out there will appreciate you more than the former. But where by its a news of things bordering them suggest a sincere solution but make them to have a decision to decide if to accept or not.

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Mark Calaway who is popularly known as ‘The Undertaker’ the American professional wrestler has retired from wrestling after spending nearly 30 years in the ring. After losing to Roman Reigns at WrestleMania on Sunday night, the 52-year-old legendary wrestler removed his signature hat, gloves, coat and then waved at the fans before leaving the ring.

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The move is a traditional way of signifying retirement among wrestlers … and while there has been no official retirement announcement, the message seems pretty clear as most of his colleagues in pro wrestling have taken to their social media pages to bid farewell to the wrestler.

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It's really irritating,I just believe he is posses

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A Pennsylvania monster is accused of allegedly raping and killing his girlfriend’s 4-year-old son while his mum is accused of helping him to escape.

The 20-years-old young man, Keith Jordan Lambing was caught by police in Pittsburgh, in the US, a day after the tragic death of his girlfriend’s son Bentley Miller.It was reported that the Monster was asked by his girlfriend to take care of her son,on March 21, because she had to go to work.

After Mackenzie Peters left for work, Jordan called his mother, Kristen Harold, 43, that same morning, telling her that Bentley was in need of medical attention.

Officers found little Bentley unconscious in the car of Kristen Herold, Lambing’s mother on Tuesday morning.

He was rushed to hospital but died as a result of multiple injuries including internal bleeding.

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Prosecutors say a post-mortem exam confirmed the boy had been brutally raped. He had also suffered a number of other injuries including bruises to his neck and body.

He was charged with criminal homicide, rape of a child, aggravated indecent assault of a child, and involuntary deviate sexual intercourse causing serious bodily injury. Bentley’s mother was at work at the time of the incident, and investigators do not suspect she had any involvement in his death. She was charged with child endangerment and hindering apprehension.

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The boy’s mother, Mackenzie Peters, was at work when the assault took place, yet police said she may be charged in the future as well, though what charges are unclear. Lambing was already facing charges of burglary, criminal trespass, and conspiracy as well as terroristic threats and harassment, and had failed to show up for a court appointment the day before the boy’s murder.
He had been arrested for retail theft in 2013 and had a bench warrant out for required payments as restitution. There is a possibility that the prosecutor may seek the death penalty for Lambing.

The baby Mackenzie and Jordan have together has been placed in protective custody.

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Them must arrest people for this School for Yahoo. Abi them no get Class there?Or na only Cyber Cafe dey the School?

The Ibadan Zonal office of EFCC together with the men of the Oyo State Joint Security Task Force, ‘Operation Burst’ on Monday, 20th March, 2017 arrested five suspected internet fraudsters.

The suspects, were identified as Oyewole Oyeleye Olatunji (28), Adeniran Adeyinka Yusuf (29), Samuel Olumide Adeola (29), Israel Adeola (24) and Olorunyemi Savior Imonah (24) were arrested March 13, 2017, during a routine surveillance at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology (LAUTECH) Ogbomosho.

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They confessed to have defrauded some American women through various romance scam using different dating sites. They also confessed to have obtained different sums from their victims.

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Investigations have also revealed that the suspects have various incriminating documents in their Laptops and Phones. They were posing on the dating sites as American Soldiers and using different identities to defraud unsuspecting American ladies. The suspects will be charged to court as soon as investigation is completed.

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I am not writing about this topic to be controversial, accusatory or boastful. I’m writing to let women like you know that in most cases his cheating has less to do with you, your ability, desire to maintain the relationship, and more to do with him, his own deficiencies and inability to communicate.

On a side note, I have heard other men and surprisingly some women argue that his cheating is due to her ‘letting herself go physically’. If she would just get back into shape, he would be more attracted to her again. This is a RIDICULOUS argument. It places all the blame and responsibility on her and releases him any responsibility.

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As if her only obligation in life is to be eye candy and work out seven days a week — give me a break. Most likely, he has put on a few pounds too and has no room to talk about her physical appearance. While her physical appearance or his lack of sexual attraction may be a factor, it is rarely the ONLY reason men cheat.

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Ok, so now you are asking why do men REALLY cheat? If it has less to do with her and more to do with him, then what is the problem? Below, I have listed four reasons or patterns of behavior that explain why men may still cheat as opposed to simply addressing the issues within their own relationship:

1. Men are poor communicators in relationships.

He’s an Ace in many areas, but when it comes to understanding his own feelings and then effectively communicating his feelings with you, he gets an F. If he wants more couple time, sex or spice in the relationship, chances are he’ll try to talk to you about it a few times, but he will quickly loose patience, become resentful, and justify having to go outside the
relationship.

2. Men have affairs due to their own insecurities.

I have met many men that have shared with me that they love their wife/girlfriend and the life they have together. They have a great relationship, she is gorgeous and they have a
great sex life — yet he STILL sees other women. In this case, his cheating has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the 6 inches between his head. He feels insecure in one away or another and needs to prove to himself that ‘he’s still got it’ by seeing other women.

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3. Men try to avoid conflict in a relationship.

Conflict avoidance is another example of his inability or unwillingness to communicate.
Rather than discussing his feeling or needs with you, he’ll choose not to ‘rock the boat’ and
instead dodge uncomfortable discussions, questions or hurt feelings and simply seek out
another women to compensate for what he feels is missing in your relationship.

4. Men look for the path of least resistance.

From his perspective, it makes little sense to upset you or your relationship by bringing up
heated topics. After all, he has to live with you and deal with any negative ramifications for
days or weeks. He rationalizes that instead, he can find a physical relationship on the side to get the small piece of what he’s missing in his real relationship.

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In his mind this is a win-win. He remains happy because you’re happy and unaware that there is a problem. Life is good and continues on as usual. The fact is he’d RATHER be getting everything he needs emotionally and sexually from YOU. I promise — he doesn’t want to outsource his physical and emotional needs to someone else.

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What he really wants is to have the romantic and meaningful sex life the two of you had when you first met. Unfortunately, if he thinks something is missing in your relationship, he doesn’t always know how to talk to you about it without hurting your feelings and causing conflict.
As a woman you need to be proactive and discuss the relationship with him to determine if both of you are getting what you need. If he feels like he can be open and honest about his feelings and desires, he is much less likely to feel justified in having an affair. I hope this article has been helpful in decoding the man in your life.

We all know relationships are a two way street and it takes two to maintain the relationship. Having a better understanding of how he thinks and communicates (or in this case doesn’t communicate), is just one more tool to help you protect your relationship and life together.

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Abi

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Some people ehn

White men land anything can happen I think they want to fantasise

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A woman who was caught having sex with her boyfriend while waiting for a pepperoni pizza in Domino’s has said she was hoping for a slap on the wrists after being question by the police

Daniella Hirst, 28, and Craig Smith, 31, were seen on CCTV bonking against the counter in the fast-food shop in Scarborough, North Yorkshire.

Miss Daniella Hirst from Bridlington, East Yorkshire, was voluntarily interviewed under caution after the footage of her and boyfriend Craig Smith’s rendezvous in the pizza chain was shared online.

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She was questioned for 90 minutes at Scarborough police station this week over claims she had outraged public decency because her bum was visible in the video which she described as ‘hardly the crime of the century’. Craig,31, who appeared full dressed throughout, was not asked for interview.

She told The Sun on Sunday : ‘I’m hoping for a slap on the wrist. I’m gutted it’s got this far

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‘There’s bigger and better things going on in the world to get into trouble for. This was just a bit of fun.

‘Maybe we shouldn’t have done it but what’s done is done. I’ll take whatever consequences come my way but I’d be shocked if this went as far as court.’

The couple from Bridlington in East Yorkshire had been drinking all day before heading to a branch of the pizza chain in Scarborough.

A short clip apparently showed barmaid Daniella performing a sex act on her boyfriend while staff prepared their order oblivious to what was happening.

When the video initially surfaced Miss Hirst said: ‘If your trying to tell me ya av never got a bit frisky in a random or public place then ya f****** boring haha.’

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A North Yorkshire Police spokeswoman confirmed Daniella had attended a voluntary interview. She was not arrested.

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